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uncanny-tranny · 4 months

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The first mistake I see people make is assuming there are completely "nonviolent" ways to be transphobic. It seems like some people conceptualize transphobia as being either violent (which is always physical in some way) or nonviolent (which is "simple" emotional, verbal, or psychological abuse)

It seems, also, that people presume that when somebody has "noble" intentions for their transphobia - "I'm trying to save you!" for instance - it is suddenly nonviolent. Consider, though, how a transphobe would "save" a trans person. Would they allow that person to exist unadulterated (including being able to transition), or would they prefer to put them through conversion therapy, or revoke their access to bodily autonomy, or force them to have children, or anything that will prevent them from transition or even identifying as trans or otherwise tying them down with the obligations that prevent transition or identifying as trans?

There is no true "nonviolent" way to be transphobic because being transphobic relies on denying one the ability to autonomy and personhood. Fundamentally, even the transphobes who "want to save us" only do so in their own self-interest to save them from the horror of knowing that more people than they are alive and thriving.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #it's just very frustrating when i see people act as though some transphobia is more acceptable than other forms...#...simply because it isn't overt with how much it wants trans people eradicated...#...transphobes will do whatever it takes both for their comfort and also to wipe the world clean of trans people #in some cases it looks like infantilism ('youre so young! poor thing you're being MANIPULATED😭') or...#...it could look like outright cut-and-dry violence (conversion therapy or physical abuse). it all depends on the situation...#...what stays the same is the sheer level of hatred and scorn for trans people and the trans condition...#...and it is in that hatred and scorn that you find that ALL forms of transphobia are united...#...so it is just as important to combat ALL forms of transphobia #abuse #abuse tw #abuse mention tw

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unfortunatelyilikebnha · 4 years

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If you don’t stan Midoriya what are you DOING he is so GOOD the core of his character is just. CARING about every person he comes across & trying to HELP them even though most of the people he’s encountered before yuuei had been real nasty to him like he could’ve given up! He could’ve said “you’ve never cared about me so why should I care about you” & turned his back on the world, used his talents for himself or even become a villain (like. My dude has plenty of motive I don’t even think I’d blame him) but he DIDN’T he tries SO HARD he just wants to be able to help people!

“But he‘a a crybaby :/” And?!?! First of all being in touch with your emotions enough to cry isn’t a bad thing!!! Second of all he’s been through a lot and is constantly under so much pressure god forbid he cry a little bit!!

His idol crushed his dreams! & yet he didn’t harbor any ill will toward all might and he still acted & ended up helping save bakugou (& then got SCOLDED FOR IT WTF. Like the pro heroes were all like “you could’ve died!” but they weren’t doing anything!!! Bkg would be dead if Midoriya hadn’t intervened and he got YELLED AT FOR IT. the disrespect is astronomical). He cares about people so much even when they’ve given him nothing but reasons he SHOULDN’T care about them but because he’s so good (and stubborn lmao) he cares about them anyway!! If I was bullied for 10 years I sure as hell wouldn’t care about my bully but because Midoriya’s a literal angel he still does?!?! Like wtf. He’s just so good!

& the most irritating part is that because of aforementioned 10 years of bullying and being let down by everyone (even his mother which while Inko is a great mother & loves Izuku so much she did screw up by not believing in him) he has like no self worth and doesn’t realize how amazing he is?!? He breaks his bones CONSTANTLY bc he doesn’t care about the cost to himself as long as he can save other people he literally doesn’t rlly care if he dies like when he was being killed by muscular he was scared but his thoughts were “sorry Kota, sorry all might, sorry mom” he was more worried about “letting people down” than the fact he was dying!! He only stopped breaking his bones bc he was told that if he did it again he’d permanently damage his arms which would make it rlly hard for him to be a hero like he didn’t even consider using his quirk in other ways before then even when he was constantly in pain from shattering the hell out of his bones!! He was just like “it’s working I’m saving people who cares if I’m in immense pain every time I activate my quirk that’s fine” like holy sh*t kid please care about yourself more!! In the sports festival he broke the bones in his hand TWICE OVER for someone he’d hardly ever spoken to!! Like please PLEASE get some self worth you finally have real friends they can help you! You don’t have to do everything alone PLEASE let them help you!

Also he’s so smart?! Not just book smart (even though he scored fourth in the class on midterms so he’s obviously that too) but he’s super observant and has crazy analyses on ppls quirks and beyond quirk observation he’s really good at observing people too?! He analysed that the slime villain’s weak spot was probably its eyes & threw the backpack at it startling it enough that it temporarily retreated? He observed Bkg enough that he knew exactly how he’d act in the battle trial and devised a plan to help them win (which btw was NOT SAFE FOR HIM AT ALL & HE KNEW THAT & HE DIDNT CARE AS LONG AS HE COULD HELP THEIR TEAM WIN, another point re: last paragraph) & when he found out that Uraraka didn’t have anything that she could float to combat Iida with, he improvised by punching thru the building so that Uraraka had rubble she could use against Iida & he thought of that while in the middle of fighting Bakugou like!!! He! Is! So! Smart!!! He managed to hit the nail on the head about exactly what Todoroki needed to hear during their sports festival fight & made him remember that he could be his own kind of hero & that he wasn’t his father! He figured out the fake Uraraka wasn’t Uraraka at all just bc he KNOWS her and believes in her!!! He figured out some of mirio’s strategy while he was completely wiping the floor with the rest of 1a and so figured out where he’d pop up & tho he didn’t win that fight he did last longer than the rest of his class had! He figured out that he could use Eri’s quirk to CONTINUOUSLY SHATTER & HEAL HIS OWN BONES (again he has NO self preservation and I am sad for him) so that he could fight with 100% of his power and hold on to Eri without being rewound out of existence & traumatizing her further & ALSO TOLD HER THAT HER QUIRK IS A BLESSING! I haven’t rlly gotten farther than that in the anime and I don’t read the manga but I KNOW I’m forgetting things but POINT IS he’s really freaking smart which is another thing that makes him so interesting to watch!! Like how many characters do you know that r both really smart & really kind the stereotype seems to be one of the other but bc Midoriya’s awesome like that he’s both!!

ALSO something else I rlly like about him is that he’s kind and cares about people but when someone hurts a person he cares about he gets MAD & will do whatever he needs to do. He was scared of Bkg but when he implied Midoriya gave Uraraka her plan, he snapped at him & was like “it’s her plan not mine you better respect her strength she did this not me!” He was also scared of End**v*r (I don’t blame him! The guy’s freakishly tall, literally covered in fire, and always angry!) but as soon as he insinuated Todoroki was just his pawn or smth Midoriya TOLD HIM OFF he was like “Todoroki’s not you also f*ck you I hate you” (ok the last part is a lil exaggerated but still). When muscular was threatening Kota? He went FERAL & used 1,000,000% of his power (which. How tf is that even possible but I digress good for you Midoriya ily) to beat him just so this little kid (who literally punched him in the balls earlier) wouldn’t die like he was MAD mad. And when he found out what Ov*rh**l was doing to Eri? I thought I’d seen feral before but HOLY SH*T. He literally tried to KILL HIM (good for Midoriya. Child abusers & transphobes have no f*cking rights) he tried to stab him with that sharp piece of rock & THEN he did 100% full cowling with that absolutely chilling expression like he’s so kind but there was NO trace of kindness on his face while he was fighting Ov*rh**l (good he doesn’t deserve it).

ANYWAYS ALL THIS TO SAY Midoriya is so smart and so strong and so genuinely kind & I love him & I wish he’d love himself bc he deserves it! I’m glad 1a cares abt him so much bc it’s!!! What!!! He!!! Deserves!!! Stan Midoriya ok rant over bye

Edit: ok wait rant not QUITE over I’ve got one more thing: with Uraraka’s help he took a childhood nickname that he always HATED (like he specifically says that in the story don’t y’all try to downplay how much it hurt him) & completely changed the meaning. He even made it his HERO NAME he was like “this isn’t gonna hurt me anymore I’ll make it into something I can be proud of” and like. Even tho I don’t like the nickname and refuse to refer to Midoriya with it unless I’m specifically talking about his hero persona, THE POWER THAT HAS. Once he realized that he wasn’t alone anymore he just DECIDED to take something that had hurt him in the past & turn it not something that could comfort people in the future (bc we KNOW that he’s gonna b the no 1 hero & ppl r gonna be comforted at hearing he’s on the scene). He did that. I’m so proud of him.

#this is probably similar to other midoriya stan posts so I’m sorry abt that but i just love him & wanted to express that #its been said before but ill say it again bc he deserves it!!#midoriya izuku #bnha

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imagine-pokemon · 4 years

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can i ask for some fluff for trans guy whos family is not accepting him and trainers are cheering him up? With kabu, milo and nessa,, thank 💖

Y’all are frfr about to make me explode with softness

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Nessa

You’re transphobic? Ew

When you tell her that you’re trans she doesn’t even bat an eyelash

“Okay, whatever makes you feel comfortable hun”

She’s really confused when you keep asking her if she’s really okay with it, why wouldn’t she be? She loves you and just wants you to be safe!

When you explain that you were scared because you have dealt with transphobia she’s furious

Who? Who said something to you? Was it recently? Are you alright?

You have to spend a few minutes calming her down because you’re pretty sure she’s about to straight up explode

Just tell her that you’re okay right now because your with her!

When she calms down and you tell her that your family is actually the transphobic ones she all riled up again

You are now adopted into her family, congratulations!!

If you bring her around any of your family members she’ll correct them every time they deadname/misgender you

And she’ll do it loudly

If you ever need binders or packers you can always ship them to her house!

Nessa’s house is also your safe space, you’re welcome any time

She makes sure that everyone knows how amazing her boyfriend is, especially the media

Just to piss off your family

Milo

You first told Milo that you were trans when you both were watching the sunset on a hill close by his farm

Milo didn’t have a lot of knowledge on the subject and asked you a lot of questions

He apologizes after each question, he doesn’t want to upset you! He just wants to know how he can best support you!

So when you start crying he gets super worried

Did he accidentally say something bad?

When you explain that you were just so worried that he wasn’t going to love you he laughs

“Silly boy! What would ever make you think that?” He asks, putting his hat on your head and holds your hand

After you explain that your family doesn’t support you, Milo’s heart breaks a little

Later that night when he’s eating dinner with his family he just starts bawling

If you didn’t live with Milo before, you most certainly do now

Milo’s little brother always calls you his brother all the time

Whenever Milo’s parents are asked about you they say “oh yeah, that’s our adopted son in law”

If you’re feeling very dysphoric or sad Milo brings around a couple of wooloo and tells you what they’re thinking

“You look so handsome today!” “Yes, I agree with you cotton ball, s/o looks very dashing” “why thank you fluffy!”

It’s hard to stay upset for long

Milo also will cuddle you when you vent about how your upset

One pride month he dyed a wooloo the color of the trans flag for you (it was wash out dye)

The wooloo was cotton ball

Kabu

After you told Kabu that he was the only person who knew he was trans he urges you to tell your parents

To be honest, he thinks your family will be okay with it because he can’t see any other outcome

He eases your worries and is excited for the day to come when you tell your family even though it doesn’t show

His excitement immediately ends when you show up to his gym in tears

When you explain that your family got really mad and don’t accept you he hugs you so tight

He is absolutely fuming but tries to contain it for your sake, he can’t risk upsetting you more than he has already

Kabu feels so guilty because he feels he’s partially to blame

If he hadn’t urged you to come out then you wouldn’t be so upset right now and he’s so sorry s/o

Forget challengers, he stays with you until you stop crying

The whole time he’s gently wiping the tears off of your cheek and telling you how handsome he thinks you are

Kabu let’s you know that you’re no less of a man because someone refuses to believe you

From then on, Kabu is super protective over you

No one is going to hurt you again, not on his watch

If you decide to go back home, he doesn’t stop checking his phone in case you need him

If you don’t want to go back home, you can stay with him no problem!

When Kabu happens to run into your family he goes off

How dare you not love your own son. How can someone even do that?? It’s not you’re fault you were born that way!

Milo ends up dragging him away, and even then it was a challenge

Kabu makes sure that you take care of yourself properly, he loves you so much and he knows your strong enough to get through this, and he’ll be there to help you the whole time

#pokemon #pokemon sword and shield #pokemon prompts #pokemon imagines #pokemon imagine #pokemon kabu #gym leader kabu #kabu #gym leader milo #milo #gym leader nessa #nessa

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