I genuinely cannot tell you how much simpler my life got when I stopped ruminating and overthinking over who was fronting all the time. Not only is it not at all uncommon to not know who is fronting, I would argue that it’s fine to not care. “Who’s fronting” “who am I talking to” me. If I really thought about it I could probably figure out which specific part I am, but god if it’s not the most frustrating thing in the world to look at a list of alter names and be like “which one of these assholes am I.” I just move through the world as whatever part I am and if I happen to know who that is, great. But I’m at a point in my…recovery? (We can’t do trauma work atm so I don’t know that I’d call it that, but maybe) where I don’t feel like I need to know, and I also don’t feel like I need to broadcast it all the time. I sometimes feel safer being under the radar (wow almost like it’s a covert disorder or something idk /silly)

Guy who says “rest in peace” but he thinks he’s telling you to sleep good

hey if you see this and you're pro endo can you fucking add me to a goddamn blocklist at this point, all your posts are triggering as hell and I want to never follow any of you again, but not everyone posts in the tags. please. please block me no hard feelings at all but it is so triggering and disorienting to see any post that is pro endo, I can't handle it. thank you.

Figuring out that I’m the one fronting because I’m suddenly so understimulated I have the sudden urge to explode

i said it was my favorite piece of media that i’ve hyperfixated on since the tender age of 12 and have not let go of since. i didnt say it was a Good piece of media

Less medical model of disability vs social model of disability. More intersection between both because neither can exist in a vaccum without hurting the people they're supposed to aid.

Wishing all undiagnosed/partially diagnosed people a very doctors listening to you and providing you with more testing than a blood draw and even possibly providing treatment 2024

Less medical model of disability vs social model of disability. More intersection between both because neither can exist in a vaccum without hurting the people they're supposed to aid.

SYSTEM RESPONSIBILITY AND WHY ITS IMPORTANT

system responsibility is essentially taking responsibility for the actions of all of your alters, even if you werent the alter who did the action. this is important because all alters are part of one collective whole and are not literally separate people, even if they feel like such. they are all dissociated parts of one brain and need to take accountability for all actions done by all parts of that brain for example, if one of your alters upsets someone, you still need to apologize to the person even if it wasnt you as an alter who upset them. being a system is never an excuse to not take accountability for bad behavior, even if it was technically another alter or if you dont remember it. excusing bad behavior with "oh i have DID/OSDD and it wasnt me" just makes other systems look bad, and thats the last thing we need with all the stigma we already face i genuinely dont understand why some people are so against system accountability, it isnt hard to take accountability for actions taken by your own brain in your own body. if your alters are genuinely hurting people you need to evaluate why that is happening and take steps to fix it, not just excuse it because "it was another alter" - grey and roman

havin alters is like wow. You're all fuckin freaks I respect none of you

“Seillean make a new pinned post” -Nobody

Okay! Hi, we’re the Seillean system. We’re 24, and a diagnosed OSDD-1 system of between 32 and 40. I don’t know for sure. Some fast facts:

We’re auDHD

We’re polyfragmented

We’ve moved away from syscourse because it’s unhealthy for us but if you care about that we’re anti-endo and alter race and age and all that jazz

We’re Catholic

We’re arospec and ace and all sorts of queer microlabels that you can ask about if you want to know

We’re reconnecting to Kanienkehá:ka culture but it’s slow going so we primarily say we’re Irish American and have Native ancestry

Masters student in clinical mental health counseling

Frequent posters are Caí (#caí.txt), Cheshire (#cheshire.png), James (#james.txt), and recently Nearly (#Nearly posting)

Ask questions if you want we’re always happy to answer questions

C-DID is something else. Like wdym there are more than 7 versions of the same dude and they all consider themselves the original of that same dude??? What do you mean theres a fragment who only holds the love for the sun? Like hello???

positivity post for unrepresented systems online!!! systems who want final fusion. systems who haven't had a host in years. systems who aren't introject heavy. systems who's littles and middles all act mature and like the body's age despite their insys age. systems who don't use any proxy bots on discord. systems who have osdd1a. systems who hardly ever know who's fronting. systems who found out about their system thru an official diagnosis. systems who have lots of parts that are very similar. systems who still call their parts "personalities" because it's the language that was used back when they were diagnosed. systems who will need accommodations for their disorder for their entire life. systems who don't want accommodations, ever.

i hear and see each and every one of you, and you're beautiful and amazing even if you don't fit the stereotypical system people talk about online. mwah <3