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Is it true that not as many women like lewd stuff? cause that's what I hear people keep saying
I would disagree with those people.
Fanservice for women, anime like Free!, yaoi, audios of men whimpering, fanart of male anime/video game characters, hell, MOST of erotic fanfiction is both written and consumed by women.
The reason those things exist is because women love lewd stuff just as much as men. We are sexual creatures, too. We just suppress our sexual desires more than men do and often only explore our sexuality in private because of the old societal stigma that shames women for embracing their sexuality.
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next time I get hate on a specific ship art piece I'm gonna draw it like this.
Get yumeshipped nerd.
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So I've heard that most of those who are into more "Darker" kinks might got the kink as a coping mechanism for whatever happened to them, but does it mean anything if you get a kink like that but as far as you know you haven't gone through anything traumatic?
Anyone can have or develop kinks without trauma being involved! For example, one of my best friends enjoys BDSM because of a TV Show she watched as a kid. There are many reasons why someone would enjoy taboo kinks, but the main reason would be that the "forbidden" is just sexy.
But you don't have to just take my word for it - you can learn the psychology of kinks from the professionals themselves here.
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Do you have any kind of favorite villain characters?
I answered a question similar to this a while ago! You can check out my answer here.
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Is there an explanation for why some may enjoy Bondage? BDSM and all? and does it make you a sadist or Masochists if you enjoy it?
There are many reasons why someone may enjoy BDSM & Bondage. Here are the most common:
1. The power and control. This one is obvious. Control over others has always been appealing - that's why BDSM is the most popular kink - there's just something really sexy about a heavy power dynamic. Some people find it appealing to be in control of others, others find it appealing to be under someone else's control.
2. Confidence is sexy, and by association, dominance is sexy. Either being dominant, or being dominated by someone confident.
To learn more about why people enjoy BDSM, you can check out these helpful articles: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Q_OOQ06gxHBiCSldSIQUktsEc6VRrH4fhveIOo5BEGM/edit?usp=sharing
And no, it doesn't necessarily make someone a masochist if they prefer being submissive in the bedroom, and it doesn't make someone a sadist if they prefer to play a sadistic role in the bedroom. The same way that people who enjoy being degraded in the bedroom don't usually like being degraded outside of play. Kink play allows a certain "lack of realism" environment. Psychology says that what you do in the bedroom doesn't bleed into your real life morals. You can read more about that here:
https://x.com/red_devil330/status/1569490734272905216?s=20
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A reminder that fandom was literally MADE as a safe space to go wild and play around with fictional characters. So go do that. Go ship what you wanna ship, go headcanon what you wanna headcanon, fictional characters are fiction. As long as you aren’t hurting real people with it, it’s a-okay.
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#pro fiction#pro ship#profic#proship#anime#fandom#manga#fanfic#fiction#fanart#hero hei#rev says desu#fandom discourse#fandom ships#fandom discussion
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Proship positivy<3
It's okay to like problematic fiction
It's okey not like problematic media
It's okey like l0lish0, because is fictional
You're not a terrible person if you like problematic fiction
It's okay to use proship as coping mechanis
It's okey not use proship as coping mechanis
It's okay to enjoy problematic fiction
It's okay to take a break from proshiping if it's negatively affecting your mental health
It's okay to be open about proshipping
It's okey to be private about proshipping
You are still important and you deserve to be happy. You don't deserve to suffer. Do things that make you happy and remember to drink water!
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#pro fiction#pro ship#pro shipper#ships#fandom ships#fandom#profic#proship#anime#manga#fanfic#fiction#self ship
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hi niel. i have a very important question:
if you were being attacked by an infinite number of chickens, how many do you think you could kill before the chickens overcame you?
Couldn't I just climb a tree? Or get in a car and drive away? I bet I could finish out my lifetime before the chickens caught up with me.
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I have become happier after becoming a proshipper, and very much less afraid of being too cringy or weird. And I have noticed this.
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"Oh so i'm weird for not liking incest and pedophilia?!" No dude you're weird for sending rape threats to an abuse survivor over pixels kissing are you avoiding that fact on purpose or what
It's not your tastes dude, it's your actions.
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Hot take that shouldn't be a hot take: having a fetish is fine actually
There is nothing inherently bad about being turned on by feet or a gay people or idk black lace
Like none of this inherently creepy or bad that you see something and have an involuntary reaction
People can make it creepy by making it other people's problem when it's not wanted
But like if you're in a relationship and you're into feet and part of what attracted you to your partner is their feet and you tentatively bring up the feet stuff and they shut you down and your reaction is "fair enough. We'll do other stuff" you're fine
And if your partner is like "oh sure we can do that" that's also fine
Like the vast majority of people with a fetish just go about their day and occasionally feel a little hot under the collar about random stuff and keep it to themselves unless it's relevant for someone to know
And before anyone accuses me of not knowing what it's like to be fetishised I identified as a bisexual woman between 2004 and 2015. I encountered my fair share of fetishisation
And most people will mention their fetish only if it's a relevant conversation and with no expectation that others will entertain it
Finding something sexually appealing does not a monster make nor does it make it something you want in the real world necessarily. Same with kink
Having a fetish is literally fine as long as you're not an asshole about it
Which is better than the evangelical churches and their fetishisation of virginity and purity. They love to make THAT everyone else's problem don't they
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there is no "secret third thing". either you harass people over fiction (anti) or you don't (proship). that's it.
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You know what, i want to do something nice and positive.
Anyone that sees this, tell me something you are proud of. It doesnt matter how big or small it is. It could be you graduating college or it could be you just managed to get out of bed today. It doesnt matter what.
I want you to tell me something you did that your proud of, and i want to congratulate you on it. Everyone deserves to be congratulated on things they are proud of.
It can be on or off anon. I just want to spread some positivity to the world some.
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