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ive never seen someone with the unlabelled flag before but as someone who still kimd of uses it it makes me happy to see <3

It's always nice to find a fellow unlabeled person! <3

Wow, but also what……..?

Looking back, I don’t think I’ve ever had a crush on someone; it’s always been the ‘monkey brain, let’s have babies’, or the ‘hey, I’m supposed to feel like this, so I guess I’ll force myself to feel like this’, or ‘the wow, she’s so pretty’, or ‘you feel this way about me, so I guess I have to feel this way now’.

This hit me like a bag of bricks. But I get all blushy and butterflies in my stomach like a crush, but I’ve never wanted to do romantic things with them. I thought that was romantic attraction, because that’s how other people describe their romantic attraction as feeling.

I’m not sure about sexuality, though. I get sexual feelings easily; it’s always the ‘monkey brain let’s breed and have babies’, and I can always just satisfy it with self-pleasure, and then it goes away, sometimes forever, towards that certain person.

I know now I'm almost fully aromantic, maybe greysexual? I don't know……. I was just ranting, but advice as to what this sexuality thing would be nice.

What is this? Because IDK............

My gender identity is highly fluid, changing on an almost daily basis, though it may occasionally remain the same for a few days before becoming fluid again. Despite these changes, I consistently prefer to be addressed and treated as a man or in a gender-neutral manner, regardless of my current gender identity. My gender identity encompasses a variety of genders, which may include, MINgenders, FINgenders, NINgenders, and AGINgenders, without following any specific order. Of the 28 days I've been tracking my gender, 15 days I have felt masculine, 10.5 days I have felt gender neutral, 6 days I have felt feminine, 6 days I have felt genderless, and 1 day I felt xenogender. Thus, 53.57% of the time I was a masculine gender, 37.50% of the time I was a neutral gender, 21.43% of the time I was a feminine gender, 21.43% of the time I was a genderless gender, 3.57% of the time I was a xenogender. Meaning, that I am mostly a masculine and neutral gender, with spikes of other genders from time-to-time. Of the times where a feminine gender was felt, only 1 time was it completely binary women/female. The rest of the time it was femininity outside the gender binary. I'm mostly masculine and neutral at the same time, with occasional feminine feelings outside the binary.

My gender is heavily connected to masculinity and neutrality simultaneously, opposite to my birth sex. My gender identity fluctuates over time, often changing daily. It is fluid, encompassing genderlessness, masculine identities, and neutral expressions. However, at times, my gender identity leans towards femininity, distinct from binary women's connection to femininity. This femininity is aligned with feeling feminine rather than womanhood. My gender identity remains distinct from being a binary woman or female but can feel feminine-aligned.

On different days, I may feel like a man, feminine, genderless, or neutral/androgynous. I have never related to typical feminine experiences and have always preferred associating with masculinity. Growing up, I enjoyed activities and characteristics typically associated with boys, such as their hobbies, personalities, and struggles imposed by societal expectations. I disliked traditional feminine things like dresses, makeup, and societal roles imposed on women.

At my core, I feel a strong connection to being a man. However, other gender identities occasionally overlay this core feeling, like spikes rather than a continuous fluidity. These spikes of different genders can last from one to four days, triggered by various factors like a feminine hairstyle. While these experiences bring me joy, they also raise concerns about my identity as a trans man, even though I remain content with my gender shifts.

(April 12th 2024)

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This whole "being human" thing is becoming annoying

What is the attraction to both men and women (trans or cis), but you occasionally feel attraction to other genders, and when you do, you don't care about their gender, like it's not a factor you just think everyone is pretty.

Like, gender isn't a primary factor; appearance and/or personality are the most important factors, with gender identity being a secondary factor. It's always "Ohh~! They're pretty!" then "They're gender A, B, and/or C, but still attractive." It isn't "gender blind", but it is "regardless of gender".

Just for a little context:

Out of the 24 days I've been tracking my gender, 29.17% of the time I was male, 16.67% of the time was agender, 12.5% of the time was female, and 41.67% of the time I was non-binary.

So I'm mainly a man and non-binary, with little spikes here and there. Is this just Non-Binary Man with weird spikes? Or is there a specific genderfluid subset for this?

Is there a gender that is mostly non-binary and a man, but occasionally feels like agender or a woman?

Well, I assumed it was something like a spike, but some genders specify the spiked gender feeling, while things like "genderfluid" don't.

Is there a gender that is mostly non-binary and a man, but occasionally feels like agender or a woman?

Is there a gender that is mostly non-binary and a man, but occasionally feels like agender or a woman?

So for the last six months, I've been questioning my entire identity. I've listened closely to how I feel and narrowed it down a lot, but I can't find a label that fits it.

My gender identity is very fluid and never encompasses being 100% a binary woman; I feel more like a man than anything else. Being a man is my "core" gender. My gender identity is fluid between a wide range of genders, such as androgynous genders, genderlessness, male and masculine genders, neutral genders, non-binary genders, unaligned genders, and very rarely xenogenders, but sometimes my gender identity is heavily connected to femininity in a way that's largely different from how binary women are connected to femininity. My gender identity is mostly separate from being a binary woman, but it feels feminine-aligned, neutral-aligned, FINgender, and/or fiaspec.

I have mainly masculine and neutral genders at the same time.

Is there a label that fits this? I don't want it to be too broad, so nothing like genderfluid.

I don’t know why, but I feel so alone right now. I’m not out to anyone, but the people online, so my family doesn’t know, but I want them to know. I hate being called she/her “your daughter", my dead name. It makes me feel bad about myself and makes me depressed. But I’m scared to say anything to them since I depend on them. I initially thought my grandma would be supportive, but she really just believes in gender equality and is vocal about her queerphobia to other people, but she stood up for me when the kid I was playing with said I could only play the female roles in the game we were playing. My mom watches queer shows and has openly stated that she would support us if my siblings and I were queer (then denied it seconds later). She thought a guy wearing a skirt and pants was weird because she thought his fashion sense was weird, not that a male was wearing a skirt. So I just don’t know what to believe anymore. I don’t know why I feel like this, but it isn’t a nice feeling. It feels so bad that it’s making me tear up.

Okay, so I was fucking around and I really like Neoboy. But like, I've seen it in the past and never thought it was me. Neogirl maybe, because I'm connected to womanhood that is different from how cis girls are connected to womanhood.

Neoboy is a gender with a connection to masculinity, but in a way that's largely different from how most boys/men are connected to masculinity. Neoboy is a non-binary identity that is mostly separate from being male, though it can be described as a gender that is masculine-aligned, neutral-aligned, mingender, and/or miaspec.

Neogirl is a gender with a connection to femininity, but in a way that's largely different from how women are connected to femininity. Neogirl is a non-binary identity that is mostly separate from being a woman, though it can be described as a gender that is feminine-aligned, neutral-aligned, fingender, and/or fiaspec.

So, like, I’m one of these plus genderfluid or something. One of the neo’s feels right. But I’m not sure which one.

OH! OH! OH! Genderfaunet + Neogirl! That would make sense. That feels sorta right.

I feel like I’ve ran my gender into a corner, like animal control, and it’s shivering in a corner, while I have my net ready, but I just can’t catch it.

I sat on the couch waiting for my younger sister to finish eating and I could have sworn I heard My grandpa say something, but it was far away and muffled. And it wasn't my mom’s voice because my mom talked a second later her voice was higher. I told my mom that I was so tired I was hallucinating voices and she said I had schizophrenia. And I said I need to have 6 months of continuous episodes, via the Wikipedia source material, and she said maybe I'm just starting.

She blames everything on me being bipolar or schizophrenic. Oh, I hear music when music isn't playing because I wear my headphones that blast music all day, schizophrenia. I hear voices when I'm super tired, schizophrenia. I have mood swings because I'm a hormonal teenager, bipolar.

Maybe the schizophrenia explains the man living in my head who tells me to shut up all the time. When my OCD causes me to think of the same sentence over and over until I say it perfectly.

Can schizophrenia even cause that?

I was just laying in bed trying to fall asleep last night, and I keep hearing this lady whispering.

It's really starting to freak me out.

And it's the same voice as the one that told me to Get Up a couple of weeks ago.

So it's recurring voices. They come back. So it's not the fan being weird, or things being moved around. Because it wouldn't produce the same sound twice.

The man in my head also forces me to think of things that trigger PTSD memories or things that scare me and he finds it amusing.

We are 2 different people. When I feel a gendered feeling it comes from my chest. But he is always a man. We are separate entities. And I've had him for as long as I can remember.

But I've never had a hallucination in my life. It's always been auditory, which is why I doubt I have schizophrenia so much. I don't have any symptoms other than auditory hallucinations and paranoia.

I told my mom about the recurring voices and she flipped out, saying I had schizophrenia and that I needed to get checked out.

Which one of these combinations would be better to use as they all mean very similar things?

Transmasculine & Genderfluid

Genderfaunet

Linumgender

For, like, clarity purposes and easy communication.