p sure im on the aplatonic spectrum (greyplatonic)
i have no interest in making friends (i like the ones i have though), and it is hard for me to make and keep friends
usually i just enjoy hanging out with people (in person or a discord server) and thats the extent of it, to have fun/discuss things, very fucking rarely will i find someone i want to form a bond with
and everyone always like "well if u like talking to and hanging out with them ur friends!" EHHHHH DOESNT FEEL LIKE IT. if we were friends wouldn't i miss them and care more and stuff, because i don't.
in my head its either we are super close and have a bond/working on it or ur not my friend
guh, aplatonic spec people can u confirm or deny if this is an aplatonic thing or not