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Sam ★ 19 ★any pronouns! ★ bi aroace ★ autistic
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i just really think that so much of the conflict in wicked could've been solved with a little good old-fashioned polyamory
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Weird request, but I love seeing pictures of pride flags IRL. Sooo- if you have a picture of a pride flag (weather it be from pride, one you spotted in that wild, one you have hung up in your house, etc.) feel free to reblog with a picture! Extra points if it’s a flag/identity you don’t get to see irl much!
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An aroace flag?
PERRY THE AROACE FLAG????
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Hey, I recommend that you take the Miku body pillow vs Makima body pillow post down, because Miku was designed as a 16 year old so it's just really weird!
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Realized I never actually responded to this! It went- ok.
She was talking about how I should start looking for a partner and suggested trying to find an ace dating site or Facebook group. I tested the water a bit first by honestly just describing my idea QPR (although I didn’t call it that), and eventually was like “ok so you know how asexuality is just about who you’re attracted to and doesn’t equal action?” (When I came out as ace she did a lot of research to try and support me which I really appreciate) and she said yes and I explained that’s kinda how I feel about romance. I like the idea of it but I’ve never had a crush or anything. I happened to be holding my aroace bat I bought from skye_bluez on instagram and I very quickly (since we were literally pulling into the driveway) said it was a pride flag and gave a very quick explanation and that was about it. It went well in that she didn’t seem upset or anything by it, but it does feel like she might be holding onto the idea that “are people can still date” because she’s scared of me being alone when I’m older, which I understand. So yeah, sorry this is rambling lol
Just accidentally came out to my mom about being aro lol
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so I wasn’t sure how to let him know i wasn’t interested but that it wasn’t his fault or anything, and I ended up…. Yall i literally said to him “you know the YouTuber Jaden animations?” And he said yes and I said “you know her coming out video?” And he said yes, so I said “that’s what I am”
I feel bad and it was so awkward the rest of the night 😭
GUYS HELP PEOPLE AT MY WORK HAVE BEEN TRYING TO SET ME UP WITH THIS GUY AND I SEE THEM HYPING HIM UP TO ASK ME OUT AND I HAD TO RUN OVER TO ONE OF THEM AND SAY “I DONT LIKE GUYS” ITS SO FUCKING AWKWARD NOW HELP
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GUYS HELP PEOPLE AT MY WORK HAVE BEEN TRYING TO SET ME UP WITH THIS GUY AND I SEE THEM HYPING HIM UP TO ASK ME OUT AND I HAD TO RUN OVER TO ONE OF THEM AND SAY “I DONT LIKE GUYS” ITS SO FUCKING AWKWARD NOW HELP
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The struggle between: am I Agender or am I Genderfluid?
I’ve gone through a LOT of gender identities (like at least once a year😭), such as trans man (this one was super short lived and honestly didn’t feel quite right), genderfluid, non-binary, demigirl, genderqueer, and most recently agender. And I’m like “is the reason I’ve gone through so many labels without them sticking because I’ve been trying to label something that doesn’t even exist for me in the first place?” (Agender) or “is the reason I’ve gone through so many identities without them sticking is because my internal gender identity is just changing?” (Genderfluid).
Im going to be getting a more androgynous hairstyle in May where ill be able to present myself as more masc or fem depending on how I style it and stuff and I feel like that might help me a bit in figuring it out? Seeing how I feel when I’m able to make myself look for androgynous or masc and how I feel presenting with that stuff as right now I just look like a cis girl no matter what I do obviously expression does NOT equal gender but for me being preceived as masc sometimes sounds nice, well other times I hate the idea. I think part of it is that I need to unlearn misconceptions about genderfluid people such as the idea that they wake up feeling a certain gender and they go between fully male and female which from what I’ve heard isn’t the case).
The more I write this the more I’m like “ah shit maybe I am genderfluid. Or maybe I’m agender and genderfluid? Is that possible? Gender, am I right?????
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Ok so I’ve heard “it’s basically straight” in regards to aroace, but I think a reply I just got on instagram is a new one. I described what aroace was and they said “that makes you bisexual” and I- HUH??? Like, I am bi oriented, but romantically and sexually I’m aroace. Have yall ever heard that one before???
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Just accidentally came out to my mom about being aro lol
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I was watching a show and a character was talking about how they hate the dating phase and want to move onto the relationship phase and I’m just sitting there like: THOSE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS??????? Being aroace and not understanding dating is- wild. I thought if you went on a date with someone you were boyfriend(s)/girlfriend(s)/partners and you’d have to break up if you decided the date didn’t go well. I always wondered why people didn’t consider going on a first date with someone and then going on a date with someone else cheating because I didn’t realize that going on a date didn’t mean you were fully in a romantic relationship I-
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do me a solid and just reblog this saying what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about in the tags.
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the #radio silence tagging problem in the hazbin fandom
said I would make a more eye-catching psa about this, here it is
**although #radiosilence WITHOUT the space is better than #radio silence with the space, I would still like to discourage it, will elaborate later
and 90% of the time, they will listen and change accordingly.
and oh yeah. about that book.
Why shouldn't #radio silence be used?
Radio Silence is the name of a book set in the heartstopper universe by alice oseman.
(which also features a canon aspec character, pictured on the right: aled last!)
and as such: #radio silence is their MAIN FANDOM tag. it is inconsiderate to flood their tag with content from another fandom, especially one as popular as hazbin hotel. but unfortunately, this is something that is already happening because of radiosilence as a ship tag.
and if you're not convinced this is something that bothers radio silence fans, here's some input from the fans themselves:
Wait, so is #radiosilence without the space still fine to use?
it's better than the mistagging of #radio silence with the space. but ONLY on tumblr, because on tumblr, we're allowed the privilege of adding spaces to tags.
I still would like to discourage it though, because for as long as this tag is popularly in use, there will constantly be people mistagging it with a space. I've done what I could to nudge people to fix their tagging but I can't constantly keep this up.
plus, on other sites such as tiktok and twitter, #radiosilence IS literally the main tag for the book because you literally can't add spaces for tags on those sites. so the radio silence book fandom is likely even more drowned out on those sites than here on tumblr because of the popularisation of #radiosilence as a tag for one-sided radiostatic.
I will not be forcing anyone to ditch #radiosilence without the space as a tag though, especially when it's already so popularly used and essentially impossible to get everyone to change it, but I encourage you to go for other options if you are willing to such as:
#onewaybroadcast
decided via a poll last month that was ongoing before #radiosilence was initially popularised, held by ChaoticAce2005 and me.
it's the tag that I always use for one-sided radiostatic and is decently used by others as well! and you won't run into any issue with clashing with the radio silence/osemanverse fandom at all this way. but again, I will not force you, all I ask is that AT THE VERY LEAST, don't tag #radio silence with the space and to nudge others to change it if they do.
please help to silence the radio silence tag!
(the tagging issue on tiktok and twitter are outside of my jurisdiction as I don't engage with hazbin on twitter and I don't even use tiktok, but if possible, it would be appreciated if anyone is able to spread the alternate tag #onewaybroadcast on those sites too to discourage flooding the radio silence book fandom! I believe the original person to coin #radiosilence has been doing work to discourage it on tiktok too, any help is appreciated!)
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Being agender makes the way I experience gender envy and gender euphoria is so… weird. Because for me, one of my biggest sources of gender envy and euphoria is music. I don’t know how to explain it, but it just- ugh it’s so good
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my yearly redraw of neil banging out the tunes! 🎶🐀
past years:
2022/2023
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