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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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So, my parents are divorced and I finally talked to my dad about things that I've wanted to tell him but never had the strength too

I told him I was sorry for letting my mom manipulate me to thinking he was the bad guy. And I talked about all the things going on at home. Like my mom blaming me for breaking these really expensive Christmas ornaments

The Christmas ornaments were really special to me and there was no way in hell I would break them. I also told him I want him to come to my sports events and my graduation

I feel so terrible that I let my mom manipulate me like that but I'm glad I finally got to tell him everything I wanted to tell him

I most likely won't tell him I'm bigender any time soon because I'm really sure how he'll react. He's cool with the LGBT community, as far as I know, but having his kid apart of it, I'm not sure

#bigender #lgbt rights #lgbtq #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #in the closet #stop being abusive to me mom

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I feel like my mom has gone crazy. She makes me want to never come back to the house on leave my room. I'm also paranoid that she goes through my room every time I go to school or just leave my room. She has no concept of privacy

I'm afraid she's going to find out I'm bigender and kick me out of the house or force to go to a Christian therapist so I be "cured" of my "confusion"

This is me. This is who I am. And I'm not going to change so I fit in her "perfect family". I just want to be myself and not be judged

#bigender #lgbt rights #lgbtq #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #in the closet #let me be me #i am who i am

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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My mom went through my room while I was at my dad's and got rid of all my cosplay stuff and wants all my anime stuff thrown out because she believes anime is the work of the devil

My mom has officially lost her mind. And she found out that the people at my school call me Alec instead of my dead name

She said I'm *insert dead name* not Alec. And that Alec is a boys name. I really don't care what she has to say

My name is Alec and that's what I prefer people to call me. She has no say in that. God, she just really pisses me off

I'm just glad she hasn't found out that I'm bigender yet. That'll be an even bigger disaster. I'd probably get kicked out. My step dad has already threatened too so I wouldn't be surprised if they did

#stay out of my room mom #bigender #lgbt rights #lgbtq #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #in the closet #scared to leave the closet #lgbtqplus #lgbt art

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Going out with parents and having to introduce yourself as your dead name because you're closested is the absolute worst

Like, I would love to introduce myself as Alec. Even if I wasn't Bigender and just wanted to change my name, they would still not approve and probably make fun of me for it

Its my name, I should be allowed to change it and be addressed how I'd like

#bigender #lgbt rights #lgbtq #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #in the closet #lgbtqplus #bigender flag #she/him

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Just came out to two of my friends today and one of them is getting me pins with he/him and she/her on them!! I feel so relieved that I came out to a few people and they actually except me and support me. I was so nervous that they would just kinda ignore it

It makes me feel so happy that I have a few supporting friends and I can openly talk about being bigender and some of the issues I have. Always support your friends!!

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #coming out #still kinda in the closet #love myself #love yourself #support your friends

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Being bigender can be really difficult. When I identify as a female, I feel amazing, normal, happy, comfortable with my body.

But when i identify as male, I tend to just break down and cry because I don't have the body I want, I want to cut my hair, and I want to be called he/him but nobody does cause I'm still in the closet

It's such a struggle for me and I'm sure for others too. I just wish I didn't have to hide who I am and for the people around me to stop pushing gender "norms" on to me

#i just wanna be called a boy #cut my hair #let me be me #bigender #lgbt rights #lgbtq #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #in the closet #scared to leave the closet

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I love how a lot of people on the internet are excepting of one another and respect their pronouns or sexual orientation. Though, it's really sad when you want to come out in the real world and it's not always excepting

Like, I would love to come out and I'm sure other people would love to come out but we're just scared too. We're afraid what others might think or do. And that's really sad

If you're like me and are in the closet, just know that I love and support you. The LGBT community needs to stick together and fight for our human rights

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #love myself #in the closet #love yourself #bigender flag

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Anyone else get a sense of relief after they put on a binder?

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #lgbtqplus #lgbt

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I hate the fact that I can't come out to my parents because they'll think somethings wrong with me but the main thing that bothers me, is that I wish I could tell them I want to change my name and I just know I'll get a lot of backlash and guilt thrown my way

I just wanna be called Alec . . .

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #in the closet #lgbtq community #need some love #please accept me #respect me #lgbtpeople

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Sometimes, it's really difficult being bigender. The days I feel like a boy, I don't want to look at myself in the mirror, I wanna breakdown and cut my hair, I just wanna bind my chest and hide away

But despite all that, I'm proud to be bigender. Even though I don't have the body I'd like half the time, I'm proud to be who I am and at the end of the day, I am me. And that's all that matters

#you are more than your looks #bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #love myself #in the closet #lgbtpeople #lgbtq community #love yourself #you are more than your body #be your true self

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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Every bigender is a limited edition, two in one package deal!! And y'all deserve so much love!!

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #love yourself #bigender flag #everyone needs love #positivity

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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You are still bigender if you:

•have long hair

•have short hair

•have boobs

•dont have boobs

•are short

•are tall

•are more masculine

•are more feminine

•wear makeup

•have a girly voice

•have a masculine voice

You are still bigender despite these things and you should love yourself no matter what

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #love myself #love yourself #lgbtq community #lgbtpeople #lgbtqplus

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I really want to get a bigender flag but I can't because my parents would absolutely flip out and send me to therapy or something

I'm always hiding who I really am in fear that my parents would suddenly decide to throw me out of the house and considering I'm almost 18, they could potentially never let me back in and I'd be homeless

This is what a lot of LGBTQ+ kids have to go through. It's scary. Your parents are supposed to love and care for you but if you do something they don't like or don't believe in, you could potentially end up homeless and that's really scary especially if you live in a city

People need to start being open minded to the LGBT community. Especially parents

#bigender #bigender positivity #bigender pride #lgbt rights #lgbtq #in the closet #scared to leave the closet #lgbtq community #lgbtpeople #everyone needs love

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I really like my long hair but when I feel like a boy it kinda annoys me and I just want to cut it off. I put it in a ponytail and makes me feel a little better but it still doesn't quite satisfy me

I do have a wig but I feel awkward wearing it out plus my parents would ask a bunch of questions on why I'm wearing a wig and I can't wear one to school. So I'm kinda stuck

Oh well, I do plan on cutting my hair about 5 inches and getting it thinned out so maybe I'll feel better then? I'll just have to wait and see

#bigender #bigender pride #bigender positivity #lgbt rights #lgbtq #love myself #proud of myself #the strugge is real

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I'm afraid to tell any of my friends that I'm bigender because I might get disregarded or not be accepted even though some of my friends are gender fluid and non binary

It kinda feels like I'm trapped but even having this fear, I love myself and I'm proud to be bigender even if I'm in the closet

#bigender #bigender pride #bigender positivity #love myself #lgbt rights #lgbtq #in the closet #please accept me

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bigender-butterfly · 3 years

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I'm proud to be bigender

#bigender #bigender pride #bigender positivity #lgbtq #i am valid #love myself #love yourself #lgbt rights #i am enough

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