Why Me?

I have spent lots of time in my life asking the question why. Why me? Why that? Why now? Why not? Why, why, why? I used to (a very long time ago) be a very self blaming, negative person. It was tough to look at the brighter side of anything because life just seemed so unfair, dark and hopeless. Asking why isn’t a bad thing. In fact it is necessary. It can only be harmful when we are stuck asking…

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TRY - (The Real you) - Life Coaching

https://www.try-therealyou.co.za/ I’ve been quiet but I’ve been busy. TRY ( The Real You) is my new Life coaching web page. It is officially up and running… BUT, payment gateways are still in the process of getting set up. However I thought why wait? Let me share what I have been up to and share what I can with you for now. The page is up and running and I am currently able to manually send…

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Explore life

I’ve been changing up my schedule a bit and I’ve decided it’s best to keep things simpler and to do more to grow myself in different ways. Its so important to develop skills and to broaden knowledge in the things that we are interested in. So today in this post I want to share with you what I get up to besides blogging and podcasting. Not many know this about me, but I have been a K-Drama lover…

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Friday

Fridays for me have always been a relief, especially when I was still working 9 to 5. It meant the work week was ending soon and I was going to get the opportunity to rest. Now that I’m out of that limited experience, my days of the week have now become equal. I don’t look forward to weekends and I don’t dread Mondays anymore. I just wake up each day and tackle the day as I need to with freedom…

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My 44th trip around the sun

I’m back after a short break! Excited to jump back into pushing myself into everything planned for 2024. Yesterday I celebrated my 44th birthday. I took the time to love Tammy by pampering and spoiling her. I decided that no matter what I have to make the day a relaxing one filled with things that I have deprived myself of for the last 3 years to save up and buy the house. So mani’s, pedi’s and…

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Dad

Today I’m choosing to dedicate this post to my father. A man who loved me from the moment I took my first breath. The man who I resemble in many ways. Right now he is in surgery in Australia, and I’m waiting for the outcome in South Africa. My father and I have an amazing relationship, I guess I’ve always been daddy’s little girl. Even in my rebellious days where I didn’t really get along with…

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February - My Birthday month

February has arrived, and the preparations for my annual reset have begun, slower than expected, but they have begun. I try to always have my energy up when I write on this platform to ensure that what I’m putting out into the world is a positive message or story and I leave you in a better or happier space. However in order to be authentic that isn’t always possible, sometimes I share with you…

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Awakened memories

Last night while spending time with my maker and myself, I began to filter through some thoughts and questions regarding my life and in the process I asked for clarity and restoration. I needed clarity in my direction for the next step I need to take and restoration of all the forgotten parts of me that I seem to have shoved so far back in my mind it’s not easily coming out into the open, to…

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Status Quo

It’s about that time of the year where I stop for a moment an reflect on exactly where I am. Earlier in the month I explained that New year is my financial reset and my birthday I use as my spiritual, emotional, mental and physical reset. So financially I have made all the assessments needed and planning in order to move forward according to my planned strategy, leaving room for changes and…

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Tamstame' turns 7

Happy 7 year Anniversary to Tamstame.com It’s been a crazy journey and I’ve grown so much through this blogging experience. When I started Tamstame.com 7 years ago I was a different person. I remember how terrified I was to share my writing with the world, to the point of nervous pacing and shaking hands. I knew that this was a hurdle I had to get over and I knew that no matter what I had to…

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Status Quo

It’s about that time of the year where I stop for a moment an reflect on exactly where I am. Earlier in the month I explained that New year is my financial reset and my birthday I use as my spiritual, emotional, mental and physical reset. So financially I have made all the assessments needed and planning in order to move forward according to my planned strategy, leaving room for changes and…

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Controlled thought

My wish for you is that you remove the things and people in your life that have a negative impact on your self growth and development journey and find people who will sharpen you, and speak life into your dreams.

I’ve learnt the importance of controlling the thoughts that I allow to make a home in my mind. It’s not the easiest thing to get control of, I’ll admit, it’s a level of difficulty that’s really high at first, making it seem almost impossible. However, the fight is really worth it. I know what it’s like to let thoughts have free reign over your mind and to allow them to destroy you, day by day…

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Controlled thought

My wish for you is that you remove the things and people in your life that have a negative impact on your self growth and development journey and find people who will sharpen you, and speak life into your dreams.

I’ve learnt the importance of controlling the thoughts that I allow to make a home in my mind. It’s not the easiest thing to get control of, I’ll admit, it’s a level of difficulty that’s really high at first, making it seem almost impossible. However, the fight is really worth it. I know what it’s like to let thoughts have free reign over your mind and to allow them to destroy you, day by day…

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Virtual Escape

It’s scary to know that there are so many options out there to choose from, so many different roads one can take, so many mistakes that can be made, and so many blessings to find too. I sometimes feel overwhelmed with information when it comes at me all at the same time and it’s all relevant but also impossible to do everything all at once. It’s easy to drown yourself with too much information…

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Quiet mind

Sometimes I wonder off into a world that lives only in my mind. So many possibilities take place there. My mind is full of mysteries, love stories, drama, possibilities, memories and sometimes it’s just quiet. This quiet place that I have found in a corner of my mind has become my favourite place to be. It’s the place that brings me the most peace. It took me many years to find, because at one…

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Little life Changes

Building daily habits one by one is such an important task to master in the journey of self discovery. It’s the little things that you change in your daily habits that will lead to greater changes in the future. Grasping the idea of making smaller changes took me along time, simply because at first I didn’t think that such little insignificant things would do me any good. So I used to leap into…

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Virtual Escape

It’s scary to know that there are so many options out there to choose from, so many different roads one can take, so many mistakes that can be made, and so many blessings to find too. I sometimes feel overwhelmed with information when it comes at me all at the same time and it’s all relevant but also impossible to do everything all at once. It’s easy to drown yourself with too much information…

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