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tales-of-togetherness · 4 months

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How does it feel to be truly loved?

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tales-of-togetherness · 10 months

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I would compromise with someone i don't love rather than compromising on someone i do love

Am i wrong?

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tales-of-togetherness · 10 months

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Either i look for reasons to love you

Or i find reasons to hate you.

Either way, my want ends to where you love me and i love you without loving myself less.

Hating you will make it easier to let go. I know it's best for me to let you go. But how do i convince my stupid heart that there is no possibility that you could ever raise up to my standards of a life partner. How to convince my heart that you can never love me as i can love you. I know you're not right for me. Why do i still desire love from you.

All our bond rests on a simple potential of a relationship. The minute i see a sign of love from you, my heart will bloom, my desires will swell, my dreams will race me to heaven. And i guess that's the reason you don't show love, because you know very well that even one instance of romance you show to me could be devastating to my heart, because right now you don't hold the capacity to commit to loving someone forever. And you know I'm the forever type, not the one you can hook around with.

You know love is not just love, it's a commitment to keep loving forever. And you know, we both know, you cannot commit to it. You know i deserve the best love and you know you are incapable of delivering it. You are incapable of valuing or cherishing my existence, you know you will take me for granted and you don't want to do that to me. Because i know you love me enough to protect me from the potential pain you could give me. I know.

Or am i just justifying your lack of efforts and skill?

All i need to know is, are you willing to work on yourself enough, to give me what i deserve in order to keep me in your life?

Because baby, you know i will never settle for less. And you know i want you. I want you to want me and i want you ready for love and a life with me.

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tales-of-togetherness · 1 year

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To my man(मन),

and whenever i feel low and unloved, i will remember how much you loved me. Its because you have loved me so much, i feel like i have lived to my full potential in life. I feel complete. And i promise to atleast try to never feel like i deserve anything less, to never feel unloved, unworthy... Because i will always have your love, to tell me that i deserve nothing less than that. The love that completes me, makes me feel like i belong, makes me feel so worthy, valuable, important. It makes me believe that i deserve to be cherished. Thankyou for existing.

I have loved, and so truly i have lived.

-tales of togetherness (19/03/2023)

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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SOMETHING I JUST REALISED:

Most of the times, its nothing substantial that makes us sad. Although we do have real problems, but at those moments we naturally find solutions and deal with it. But most of our unsolvable pain does not exist due to these problems because these problems wax and wane. Our persistent pain is due to our very thoughts. Even when there is practically nothing wrong going in our lives and we find ourselves getting sad about a thing, its usually stems from the thought of that thing, a thought which is more just a worry or dissatisfaction or unmet desires or unmet wishes and expectations. But they're not real, its just in our mind and our creation. Basically, if we acknowledge that most of our sadness comes from just THOUGHTS or ideas that are not even real, then most of our pain can go away!

And the best part, our thoughts are in our control. These are the things we can actually control. Nothing can be done about external things, other people and that pain is inevitable but can be dealt with, because as humans we find solutions.

A lot can be done about pain that comes from our thoughts. Its about half or more of our pain which CAN go away!

Im a genious. You're welcome.

-TalesofTogetherness

(11/07/2022, Tuesday)

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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You deserve a slow love. Uncomplicated. No rush. Sure. Stable. Consistent. You deserve that love. You deserve someone that’s sure of you, that you are sure of.

- takethisride

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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Does love exist?

I have lost my hopes on love. Not once has it happened that i got attached and the attachment stayed. Its bound to end, always. What's the point of love and happiness that makes you feel so full of life at one moment and then squeezes every part of you until you feel like you can actually die from this pain. Everything becomes vague and unimportant, as if the heartbreak is the only thing that defines you. Healing becomes your thing, life isn't normal anymore. You don't remember how it used to be when things were 'normal', you don't remember how you used to be when you hadn't found love. You didn't trust love from the beginning, but they made you believe like it could exist. You could see it in their eyes, feel it with their touch, and then you are suddenly left contemplating what the hell on earth went wrong? Did they fall out of love? Was it me? Did i do something that they fell out of love? Or did they never love at all? Was it all a lie and was i so stupid that i couldn't see the signs? Love surely is blind. I've been hurt twice now, and the second time still hurts the same. I'm still healing from two heartbreaks. The first love still feels like i can never find love as strong as that. The second love proved it more right.

It still feels like this is the hardest part of living- losing love, letting go, accepting that they probably didn't love you. Accepting yourself, trying to convince yourself that you are lovable and that there was nothing wrong with you, probably just them who didn't value the love you had offered. Its so hard to accept! Things that come easy are valued less. And yes, that is the thing I've learned from this heartbreak. I was too easy, and he said it to me in the initial time itself, i just didn't know it'd be the 'learning' of this heartbreak. So i guess we just have to dial down our love sometimes, be less available, so that they don't take you for granted. We can't be so accessible to people. This doesn't mean you have to lie about being busy, it just means that you have to fill your life with things that actually keep you busy and support your growth and then prioritizing those over giving your precious precious time to people who don’t value you. Remember, you cannot make someone love you by offering more of what they already don’t appreciate. If they don’t love you, back off. And always take mixed signals as a NO! -Tales of Togetherness -A (19/03/2022)

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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Hogi jahan subah teri, palako ki, kirano mein, lori jahan chand ki, sune teri baahon mein! :')

"Away beyond all concepts of wrong doing & right doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."

~Rumi

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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To my ex,

Believe me, i loved you, maybe i still do. The love i have for you, i cannot share it to someone else. I know you love me too. I know you want me back. You’ve come back as the man i always wanted. But i moved on from love once you left me the first time. Love scares me now. Relationships are dreadful. I am not ready to be in a serious co-dependent relationship. Im at my own pace in my life, chasing my career, i want to stay away from matters that may affect me. To be honest i’ve been at peace since we broke up, because i don’t have to deal with extra issues. Im happy. But by not having you in my life right now, i’m risking losing you forever. I might never get a partner as good as you, i might never get a lover like you. I want you, but i’m choosing myself right now, i’m choosing my today instead of pondering about future. This crucial time in my life, i don’t want to give to a responsible relationship, it might as well affect other aspects of my life. But i want you, not now, in future. I probably want to marry you. I don’t know what i’m saying. I just know i’ll never find someone who would love me as much as you do. And believe me, i can never love someone else as free heartedly as i loved you. ‘Cause no matter things have ended, you’ll always hold that place in my heart♥ and i can never give that away.

Just give me a chance to be on my own, meanwhile you learn the same. You can date people if you like, but don’t give anyone else the place you gave me. Because sometimes, i intend to come back, when things are much settled, when we’ve both achieved something career wise and when we’re stable and when i can easily tell my parents about us.

I really hope that one day when things are better, we meet again without the expectation of coming together, and i hope you'll be single. I hope we fall in love again. And i hope it’ll be more beautiful than ever!

If we don't meet again, ours will remain an incomplete story. You and me ♥

-TalesofTogetherness

-A

30/11/2021

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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When we fall in love. We don’t analyze if the person is good or bad. We don’t look if they’re good or bad for us. We just love them despite of their flaws. But sometimes you have to make a choice, when it comes to marrying them, will they be good partners, you ask yourself! Sometimes the answer is always a NO. So sometimes you let go, knowing you’ll never be able to love anyone the same way again. So sometimes you settle. Settle for less!

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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loving you was a losing game...

I’ve known love, i’ve been in love. Nothing ever compares to the amount of pain one can get. You always lose, there is no winner. Now i know why they say “falling in love”, because you only fall. You don’t wanna hurt them ever, but you end up hurting them the most. Its so hard to un-love, i thought it was a thing until i discovered you can’t un-love somebody. Your way of love might change, but love always stays. and it doesn’t ensure togetherness... I thought it was most painful to have been broken by someone. but its more painful to break someone else, someone you love, someone who loves you even more- romantically, beautifully, but your love isn’t the same, so you back off, only to avoid the bigger hurt, only because they deserve the whole of you, they deserve the love they want. You back off, because you know they might be sad now, but will become happier (than being with you) eventually.

I lost him, the man so imperfect who came back as the perfect one, only because i was afraid of loving again. Only because i feel my love is not as strong as his. I prioritized attractions with new people because they come with no commitments, but its the same you know... what if your connection grows and one day one of you has to leave? There will be this pain, lingering always. How to leave an attachment without breaking their heart? Attachment brings pain, love brings pain! All this cannot be avoided. Love itself, the 4 letter word drives the whole earth, so powerful, yet so stupid, it doesn’t get better, NEVER. It gets worse. You only realize that romantic attachments suck, one day or the other, someone among the 2, will ALWAYS lose. One loses HOPE and other loses a LOVER. I lost both today.

24/11/2021

-TalesofTogetherness

-A

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tales-of-togetherness · 2 years

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I never thought break ups were real until it occured to me. How could WE even separate? There was something greater that held us. Something beyond love, beyond attachment. We could surpass all conflicts, all obstacles. But why this time it happened? What happened, we can never tell!

Are we still in love? Lack of you isn't a pain anymore, im happier infact. But are we still in love? I know something between us will always stay, even if we get married to different people. You'll always be special, i know. You'll always be like family. You'll be in my heart and prayers. You'll always be respected.

Im happier now, truly! But when i think of our memories, something pinches. Can i ever have the same love, same bond?

Well, all i want is for us to be happy, no matter where we are. I'll be the god mother to your children. And i hope you can be the god father of mine.

Bye

09/11/2021

-TalesOfTogetherness

-A

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tales-of-togetherness · 3 years

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someone told me to pick up my broken pieces and make a mosaic art! They didn't know my pieces lie with someone else

TalesofTogetherness

(20/08/2021)

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tales-of-togetherness · 3 years

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The road not taken

Sometimes it’s easier to still be in love with you. Even though i can’t call you mine anymore! Sometimes it’s easier to feel the hurt rather than your absence. It feels easier to cry and mourn, rather than moving on. Your memory comforts me, make me sob like a baby when i think of them. But its so comfortable to cry when i imagine your voice. It’s feels so comfortable to miss you. It feels so comfortable to hold your memories. Sometimes i go back to listening your very unmelodious song recording, I could hear you kiss me in the middle of that audio. And i would smile the same way i did back then. Sometimes i feel so strong, determined to forget you. but then at times, i wish to feel your presence. I can’t imagine you aren’t mine, you can’t be mine. Everything could have been fine, if only you tried. you took away from me my heart, you taught me how love is meant to fail. you showed me, no matter how hard i try, love can never be fulfilled. You left me with so many tears, more tears than i ever smiled with you. You dominate the memories of my favorite places. Places that i can never visit now, because every step i take in that lane, will remind me walking with you, holding your hand so tightly, as if, if i left, you would run away. Just like you did now. You ran away, You ran away when i was distant, i didn’t have your hand to hold and stop you. You ran away from love, taking away my love, my heart, my soul. I lay like a dead body, pretending to the world I'm happy even though all my pieces lie with you. You ran away, You just left. And out of all the memories, this is the most prominent one. so, i’ll let go of the comfort i get while missing you, because i know you can never be mine.

-TalesofTogetherness

-A

(20/08/2021)

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tales-of-togetherness · 3 years

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Since then, i can’t even count as to how many times it got over and started again!!! when i go back my old posts, i realize i wasn’t really happy, but i was holding on too strongly a wrong man... We’ve broken up finally. On 2/04/2021. I guess i still love him, but im HAPPIER and THRIVING. I have my priorities straight! No everyday issues to cry on. unless i miss him, but that became rare after 2 months or so.

believe me TIME HEALS. If i could get out of it, you can get out too! SHOUTOUT to all people in TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. TRUST ME TODAY, GET THE F*** OUT OF IT. TIME WILL HEAL YOU. YOU DESERVE BETTER. love you all, power to you! -TalesofTogetherness

-A (14/08/2021)

Its over.

25/12/2019, Wednesday.

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tales-of-togetherness · 3 years

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Hey you,

Its not like i want you back. Infact i hate you now for how you broke me. Somedays i’ve moved on, grateful what happened was for the best. Somedays i feel a vacuum, a void in my chest, as if its empty. Nobody to love, nobody to reciprocate! I honestly don’t miss being loved, for now when i look back, i don’t see those parts in my memory so much, i wonder why!? Was i even loved? I just miss loving you, holding you, caressing you, kissing you, touching you, making you laugh on my stupid jokes. I miss giving you the importance, somedays you were the only person who mattered to me. and its just changed now. I’m actually fine, i just don’t know how to fill the void. you’ve bought a pet now, whom you can caress. I’m happy for you, that you at least get to love, without any obstacles. between us were many! Im a live example of how “love isn’t enough”, its never enough. And i loved nobody as greatly as i loved you. Now i don’t even know the meaning of it. I don’t even know if i’m still capable of loving. The one who dreamt of marrying you is afraid of commitments today. I don’t know, when i ask myself, what exactly do i feel. do i want you? NO. do i wanna let you go? NO. do i still love you? I DON’T KNOW. ‘Cause what is love? I DON’T KNOW! I don’t think i’ll ever know, ‘cause i don’t think i’ll ever have somebody who would make it so easy to love. For all i know, somedays this void stays a little longer than usual, and i feel like if i could get just one hug, you’re one touch on my face to tell me, that it’ll be OKAY! -TalesofTogetherness

-A (14/08/2021)

#i love you #i miss you #come back #you and me #long distance relationship #spilled feelings #love #relationship #tales of togetherness #talesoftogetherness #heart ache #long distance #LDR #saying #sayings #heart sayings #excerpt from a book I'll never write #excerpts from my journal

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tales-of-togetherness · 3 years

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So many words crossing in my mind,

I've lost the ability to phrase them for you.

Don't want you back but i still need you here.

Wondering if my love could be enough for you.

Want to manifest me in your arms,

So i could hear what you heart has to say.

You're words are never complete enough.

You love or you don't, i really cant say.

You try to pull and then push me so far,

You're digging for me the same old hole.

I beg to you to not let me fall

Cause im drowing in your well

and you don't know how to swim.

Once i fall, I can't be saved from this fall,

Already the distance plagues my soul.

If you ask me what i want right now.

Could it be your simple touch?

My fingertips or your fingertips

And little air between us.

I want to hook my eyes to yours

And if you lean in i would lock our lips,

Help me dance to the music of your touch.

Then probably we won't have to say anything.

I don't have even words now just flashes of emotions and reminiscence of your soul.

This heavy chest, i don't know what weight it carries. Does love has weight?

Oh dear darling, enough of your tests,

Leave me by me, or come back again.

But dont come partially this time,

Come when you're ready to marry me.

Make me believe fairy tales exist.

Make me believe this is just a phase.

I dont know anymore, if i want you or not.

But i know for sure that i need your hands on my heart.

Cause i dont have words for you, maybe you know what my heart has to say.

Lets stay silent, but lets communicate it all today.

Let me dance in your arms,

Let me say those words to you.

Only 3 words i can recall,

Rest my heart will tell you.

-TalesofTogetherness

-A

(01/08/2021, Sunday, 11:37 pm)

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