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lobaznyuk · 7 months
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daffythefox · 10 months
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i feel like people say "abuse is always intentional and a choice" because it helps them believe that they haven't and will never abuse someone so long as they believe abuse is wrong.
Do you think every abuser woke up and thought "today I will abuse someone on purpose"? Probably some of them, but not all. Some abusers genuinely think that abuse is just how relationships work. Sometimes kids abuse other kids before they grow up and realize what they did was fucked.
If you decide that abuse means "person intentionally abusing another", what about people who were abused by people who weren't intentionally abusing them? Is that not real abuse?
I'm not saying that you shouldn't be angry at your abuser. I think you should be angry at whoever you want to be angry at. But I think looking back at your actions and checking "was what I did okay? how did my actions impact the people I love?" is very important, especially for people with NPD, where having issues understanding how your actions impact others is a symptom.
Having NPD makes forming and maintaining healthy relationships way harder. I would know. It's also way harder to control emotional outbursts while you're having one (and emotional permanence issues mean once you stop having one, it's hard to imagine what it felt like).
Introspection about why you did the things you did, if/how you hurt someone you care about, trying to make it up to them, and minimizing the chances that it will happen again, are very important. In "npd abuse" spaces, this introspection is usually shut down by "well, if you think you might be a narcissist, you're not one". But I think this introspection can be very helpful, so long as the introspection doesn't begin and end with guilt/shame.
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ishouldgay · 9 months
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Spoilers for Shadowheart's romance under the cut --
Romancing Shadowheart as Karlach makes this first scene even sweeter in case you were wondering. Like.... look at that face
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Fucking adorable. Also this little bit of dialogue gets me a lot :
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Because I just love the comparison between them having hidden spots that they used to visit to be alone. Shadowheart (when you play as her) as moments that she just barely remembers things and the hiding spot really is one of the very few things she remembers, at least at this point.
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And the fact that Karlach can't actually touch her adds a hint of yearning that makes me want to eat drywall. Karlach kinda laughs it off when you romance her (though is much sadder about it if you speak with her later) but it's much quieter when you play as her. She hasn't been able to touch someone gently in ten years! And now she has someone that wants too but can't because she'll hurt them.
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10 out of 10. This romance is cute as shit and I will die for this ship. Shadowheart keeps calling her sweet and Karlach will call her darling when you click on her. I need the fandom to get behind this ship right now.
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youngerfrankenstein · 3 months
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Now that I’ve seen four different Transformers cartoons I thought it might be fun to rank the mainstays.
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It’s been an interesting (and frustrating) experience! I’ll probably watch CyberVerse at some point, and possibly 2015’s Robots in Disguise, so I might update at some future point.
As for the ranking of the shows themselves
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emotinalsupportturtle · 5 months
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Spotify wrapped is unlocking distant memories of.. February this year, when you see the peak listening month of each of your favourite artists and go "hmm, yeah I remember that phase"
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kafkasmjjw · 7 months
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he never once stopped to think "ah, maybe im the problem" (hes not ❤️) and i respect him for that
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pollyannawog · 1 month
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Phantopex
Wasting Star Pokemon
Poison/Ghost
Evolves from Mareanie starting at level 38 when HP is 25% or lower
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An increase in global oceanic temperatures and the presence of pollutants have caused some populations of Mareanie to become susceptible to a deadly virus, mirroring the fate of their preferred prey species, Corsola, in the Galar region. This virus weakens the Pokémon, stunting development and preventing evolution into Toxapex. Some members of the dwindling population are able to evolve into the rare Phantopex, the Wasting Star Pokémon.
The body of a Phantopex is weak and frail, with much of its tissues having wasted away to nothing. It forms new arms from otherworldly energy, and crawls along the sea floor in search of prey to drain the life essence from. If it finds a hapless victim, it will ensnare it by enveloping them in its many ectoplasmic arms, twisting in on itself to keep them in place until the deed is done. Divers know to keep an eye out for dark sludge on the sea floor, as a trail of the substance suggests a prowling Phantopex may be just out of sight.
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Abilities: Cursed Body/Liquid Ooze
HA: Perish Body
50 HP
90 Atk
80 Def
113 SpA
90 SpD
72 Spe
Based on sea star wasting disease, a condition that’s caused populations of certain species of sea stars (particularly of note Pycnopodia helianthoides, the sunflower star) to rapidly decline in recent years. The way I have most often heard the progression of the illness described is the sea star appears to be “melting.” They will also twist and contort their bodies to rip their own arms off.
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galaxygermdraws · 1 year
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I know Scar’s fit isn’t. a Cowboy fit. But everybody in the fandom draws it as if it is anyways, so like, why not go full throttle. I did just make the jacket a vest but honestly that’s kinda all I needed to do. And add gloves. He’s a cowboy now! And of course, more showing off my S2 Jimmy design since a lot of people seemingly missed my art of him from before. Excited for this duo. Yeehaw.
(reblogs w tags/comments are appreciated. I do not care how unhinged said tags are. thankyu)
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partywithponies · 10 months
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*Some of these are a possible grey area given that some of these characters have no confirmed age, but I interpreted them all as adults.
(Also apologies to Kiara, I ran out of space and decided that I either had to lump Elsa and Anna together like all the other siblings here, or cut it down to only having one (1) literal lion on the "hottest character" poll, and I picked the less controversial option on this occasion. Rest assured I do still consider Kiara an unofficial official Disney Princess.)
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kyistell · 2 months
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Look!!! Children!!!! Aren't they adorable. I've had a lil' Jersey design for a while but York...not so much, like at all, so y'all are getting this.
They are just so cute, I'm so good at this truly XD
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thefleshyougoveggie · 1 month
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sometimes i forget tags can make more ppl see my posts and that they aren’t just for putting posts into categories on my blog lol
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apollos-boyfriend · 5 months
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realistically the reason why bad hasn’t sent skeppy any letters is probably because he doesn’t know What gas station skeppy is stuck in and therefore can’t write a mailing address but also i fully believe if he wrote “gas station” as the mailing address that would 100% somehow work
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gilded-moon · 4 months
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My fiancée: hey babe, can you analyse Star Wars species for me?
Me, an ecologist: yeah! It’ll be fun :)
Ten minutes later
Me: *crying* Pantorans should have blubber but they don’t because they aren’t chunky enough
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plutos134340 · 2 months
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Please dont misconstrue this post and heres my disclaimers: I DO LIKE THE SONG, and i am Not Mad/upset at people being happy about it as well /gen
Ok ill carry on :)
Am i the only one who like feels just a bit worried with what the songs about and then also peoples reactions to it
Like im not tryna be some parasocial freak but idk,, having a song about doing bad and then everyone in the comments just being like 'woohooo so happy' is just off to me
And no im NOT saying people cant be happy bc IM happy about the song, i like the song, i can relate,, but like it gives me a bit of apprehensive feelings
And like yeah ik its just a song but idk theres too many lenses to look at this from
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one4sorrow · 2 months
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OvO In the car w/ my brother and my nephew and look who I saw in the car OvO
❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
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promiscuousasexual · 3 months
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still obsessed with this photo of him actually
edit : sc by @estebanbicon
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