(tw genocide and intersexism)
i think more perisex ppl should know and understand that there has been a genocide going on far far longer than the past few years. For decades, no, over a century
on intersex ppl
Genocide is the intentional destruction of a group of people. This can include killing members of the group, causing them serious bodily or mental harm, imposing living conditions intended to destroy the group, preventing births, and forcibly transferring children out of the group. All bc of their real or perceived membership of the group.
All of these, except for the last one, happen to intersex ppl in some way.
We are subjected to abandonment, neglect, infanticide and murder due to being intersex. We face genetic de-selection along with sterilization. We also, as a lot of people know, are usually mutilated, SAd as newborns, and receive involuntary and coercive treatment. We are treated like we're inherently disordered if our intersex aren't taken away, purposely making parents afraid and accept whatever abusive treatment and surgery the doctor suggests. We do not get body autonomy. Many of us purposely avoid care for fear of medical discrimination and due to medicalization and few receive adequate care, as many lack understanding about our bodies and examinations that may cause physical harm. Then ofc all the hate crimes, including the idea that a conbination of "male and female brains" (which obviously dont exist) would produce a sex criminal. 60% of intersex ppl have thoughts about suicide, 42% have thoughts about self-harm, and 19% had attempted suicide on the basis of intersex discrimination. We are not taught about our own bodies then shamed for not knowing. In 2013, four elite woman athletes were subjected to sterilization and genital mutilation after testosterone testing revealed they were intersex.
Even within the queer community, we are only used as human shields against people who want us all dead and by Perisex trans people admitting that they lie to people who want us dead that they're just like us for the false hope that they'll love them. That they're the exception.
But of course, we were never really human, right? We're all just a bunch of freaks.
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I wanna collect every OCD gender there is, is there more OCD genders around?
OCDgenders Masterlist Part One
[TW abuse, sanism, obsessions, compulsions]
Xumgender(or pendogender): the state of never being satisfied with ones gender, no matter how well it fits, due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better though one will never because of one's neurotype and/or because words will never be able to describe one's gender and/or because one's gender is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true gender" frequent causes anxiety and doubt and can even cause the label xumgender to feel imperfect to the individual. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people. It was specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.
O-gender: a gender that is affected by one’s obsessions
C-Gender: a neurogender heavily influenced or defined by one’s compulsions due to their OCD.
OC-gender: a gender that is affected by both one’s compulsions and obsessions.
OCDgender: a neurogender which can only be understood in the context of having OCD or when one's OCD greatly affects one's gender or how one experiences gender. It is not OCD as a gender, but is a gender that is so heavily influenced by OCD that one's OCD and one's experience of gender cannot be unlinked.
OCDniac: an identity that describes someone whose queer experience is affected by having Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
Obsecompridix: a gender related to being proud of one’s ocd and that pride affecting how their gender feels.
Obsic: A gender related to one’s obsession.
Vexillobsic: A neurogender related to one’s obsession with Vexillology.
OCDBiting: a gender influenced by ones OCD and biting an Ableist.
FluttershyOCDic: a gender related to Fluttershy and having OCD.
PinkieOCDpieic: a gender related to Pinkie Pie and having OCD.
Categohoarder: a genderhoarder microlabel for people who feel like their genders MUST be in some sort of order whenever they show them off (carrd.co, pronouns.page, etc.), it could be their color scheme, themes, alphabetical order or more.
Pattordean: a gender related to putting things in order or in a pattern. this can be connected to ocd compulsions and be used as a neurogender, but it doesn't have to be.
Loudheadgender: a neurogender where the noise in your head prevents you from understanding your gender to some extent. ONLY to be used by people who experience brain noise/ loudness in the head. So like ADHD, Racing Thoughts, OCD, BPD, Etc.
StarlightglimOCDic: a gender related to Starlight Glimmer and having OCD.
TrixielamoonOCDic: a gender related to Trixie Lulamoon and having OCD.
OCDcompuliac: A fluid neurogender influenced by OCD compulsions in which ones gender identity changes when they speak what gender identity they have due to an OCD compulsion, whether permanently or temporarily.
PrettyBoyObsessive: a gender relating to being a Pretty Boy with OCD and breaking the stigma surrounding OCD were ableists sees you as a (ableist) threat but you having psychological facts to ruin them and their social life is your threat and you're not afraid to stand up others with stimazed disorders like NPD, AvPD, ASPD, BPD, PPD, OCPD, [etc] for an example.
OCDLOVERBOY: a neurogender influenced by a man/boy's OCD, often see as an monster and beliefs he doesn't deserve love due to his OCD due to trauma, but has found love and feels less like a monster due to his boyfriend(s)/Partner(s) loving him regardless of his OCD, and very supportive of him and understands every subtype of OCD, even POCD and loves him anyway regardless of his OCD.
ObsessiveYandere: a term for PwOCD and being a Yandere.
Ocdvictim: A gender identity influence by having OCD and being a victim.
OBSEURiA: a gender that is the embodiment of one's obsessive compulsive disorder.
OCDfreak: a gender related to having OCD and being a freak.
OCDrage: a gender related to the anger/angry symptoms of OCD.
Utapulsix: a gender related to the compulsion/having the compulsion to find, compile, and organize information.
Utafpulsix: a gender related to the compulsion/having the compulsion to find, compile, and organize information, as well as the actions themselves.
BoyCreaturaticFreak: a gender that feels infected, misunderstood, falsely framed, often see as a creepy, worn out, tired, weak, hurt, dirty, and disgusting, freak of nature, emotionless, lack of emotional empathy, feels like needles sticked in your back and barbed wire around your throat, and held down to control the person, which is all influence by ones OCD and influenced by trauma of having ones OCD be used against them to hurt them, often seen as a freak due to their OCD and society views on OCD, which one turns into being a freak into a positive thing and embrace being different, embrace being a Freak, as an act of self-love and acceptance of one's self. Deep down this gender is kind, loving, sweet, wholesome, deserving of love and care. This gender is both masculine and agender/nothing at the same time. It is also althuman. The gender is also held together by safety pins, sawing needles, hello kitty bandaids and the gender, also carries a stuffed animal wolf or a stuffed animal black cat for comfort and someone to call a best friend.
Dianeticsobsic: A gender related to being obsessed with Dianetics (the belief system, not the book).
HidingTraumgender: a gender for when ones gender are a hiding from one’s abuser, stemming from the paranoia of ones abuser, watching the user constantly, believing one's abuser would emotionally harm the user again & again, a fearing a never ending loop of emotional and mental torture, viewing ones abuser as emotionally contaminated and is paranoid regardless of anyone due to user's trauma and the user's OCD being used a sick “justification” for the trauma the user want through.
OCDtoxic: a gender related to chemically toxic OCD, OCD disolving in toxic chemicals, and/or OCD mixing with toxic substances.
OCDBEiNG: A genderabeing subtype. A gender connected to having obsessive compulsive disorder and being that of a being ; An OCDbeing.
Unrealobsic: an O-Gender related to one's obessions being based in unreality. This could be things like obsessing over the idea that one is not real. Or that one is not perceiving reality in the way it really is.
NoempaOCDic: a gender related to having OCD and little to no empathy.
Fearobsic/Phobiaobsic: an O-Gender related to one's obsessions being based upon their fears/phobias. An example could be being thalassophobic and having obsessions about the ocean. Or fearing the dark and having obsessions about it
BoyPOCDic: a gender that is a boy dealing with P-OCD.
Countiobsic/Numeralobsic: an O-Gender related to one's compulsive counting, or number-based compulsions/obsessions.
InsomniOCDgendrix: a gender influenced by ones OCD, it feels like OCD is their whole identity and gender. It feels like all it is is controlled by one's OCD. This gender feels scary, terrifying, "wrong", anxiety inducing, exhausted, and like an insomniac.
Anxiobsic: an O-Gender related to the anxiety one's obsessions causes them.
IsolateOCDic: a gender related to having OCD and never fitting in with others, feeling left out, unwanted, and alone.
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Patheticfreak Genders!! [Part 2]
Nonbinaryfreak - a gender related to being nonbinary and a freak; a nonbinaryfreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Boyfreak - a gender related to being a boy and a freak; a boyfreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Girlfreak - a gender related to being a girl and a freak; a girlfreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Neufreak - a gender related to being neutral/NIN and a freak; a neufreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Mascfreak - a gender related to being masculine/MIN and a freak; a mascfreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Femfreak - a gender related to being feminine/FIN and a freak; a femfreak [coined by @begendered-mogai / @begendered-queer]
Freakmasc - a term for when you're a boy/masculine and a freak [coined by @literaturegirls]
Freakfem - a term for when you're a girl/feminine and a freak [coined by @literaturegirls]
Pathetiboy - a gender connected to feeling masculine / boy-like and pathetic [coined by evaporatedfish on Pinterest?]
Pathetigirl - a gender connected to feeling feminine / girl-like and pathetic [coined by evaporatedfish on Pinterest?]
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Since it's disability pride month, reminder that calling people "freaks" as an insult is ableist. People on this webbed site seem to think that calling random people "freaks" is funny and quirky like "freaks dni" or "let me know if I reblog from a freak uwu" What's that supposed to mean??? If you mean pedophiles, just say that instead of using vague, ableist language. I don’t care how bad of a person someone is. Using ableist language to refer to people is never okay, EVER.
Back in the day, it was used to dehumanize people with physical deformities, who were sent to circuses and exploited for entertainment. It was also used very often on intersex people and people of color, making usage of the word "freak" intersexist and racist as well.
Here’s a link to an article about people who were forced into joining "freak shows."
If you consider yourself progressive and anti-ableism, take "freak" as an insult out of your vocabulary. You should feel ashamed of yourself. (Note that I specify it as an insult - if you’re disabled and reclaiming it, that’s fine. actually, I encourage it)
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