My Dear Gangster Oppa Commentary Ep 3
I know this asshole did not really say, "you're with this guy again." Bestie's opinion matters more than anyone else's, but he hasn't even met the dude! He's acting more like a parent than a best friend. Hahaha! Tew remembers who Wahl is, and he appears to not be happy about meeting him.
I didn't want to dislike Wahl, but he is pissing me off. Talking to Guy like Guy isn't allowed to make his own decisions. Not cool. This isn't concern, this is controlling. I'm about to smack a bitch. I'm not happy with you Wahl and I don't know if you can redeem yourself.
I have to hand it to Tew. He is being really calm and honestly respectful despite Wahl being a douche to him. Guy, pick the one actually giving you a choice!
I love these bitches. Especially the one in the middle. Muffin is such a cutie too. An apparently lonely cutie. HAHAHA! Way to cock block Guy. I'm here for it. If you stop the time at 6:04 you can catch Guy smirking.
Is anyone surprised that he has to go after making a scene? Suddenly he isn't so concerned he has to take Guy home. Tom is cute, I like him.
That's right Guy! Tell of Wahl!
Did one of them really call him baby face??? I predict Tew showing up.
Called it! OMG, I'm Dead. Guy works up the nerve to ask Tew about what he does for a living. That the gang members seemed scared of him. "Nah, I'm just scary looking." "No. You're pretty good-looking."
This is Tew's reaction.
This is my reaction.
Did dumbass really say he owned a shabu restaurant. He had to know that Guy would then say he'd want to go. Seriously, driver/underling is me. Between his cough, giggle and the way he looks at Guy sleeping on Tew's shoulder.
Tew is so gone. These two dumbasses are so gone for each other. Really asking him if he wants him to wash the shirt. Yes, strip right now. I'll wait. They are adorkable.
Dude is going to buy a restaurant to cover the story he gave his crush. Boy is gone gone.
My reaction to that.
Did home dude really take a nap on some chairs. Hell to the naw. That makes my back hurt just watching it.
Oh! I think we have a secondary couple.
I already like them.
Discount Lennon is at it again. So home chick is not dead, but might as well be. Lawd, how are they not dead with that much white powder. Though I'm not sure it's the same girl. Specially since there are two now.
Did Wahl really ask Guy how he got home??? Guy doesn't tell the full truth, but doesn't lie either. Damn Wahl. You got some nerve. One month anniversary. Why don't you pay more attention to your gf Wahl?
Yay for game friends!
I would punch someone if they talked in my ear like that. HAHAH the look Wahl is giving Guy. I really want to like Wahl, but he ruined it for me. Now I'm just amused.
Tew looking scary and sexy. Niiiiiiice. Villains do it better.
What's this face? Is he shocked? Is he turned on? A bit of both?
So cute! He brought him a cake.
The elevator sequence was weird. Guy concerned because he sees blood. Tew giving crazy eyes. Guy completely forgetting about the blood and turning to mush because Tew is holding his hand. But honestly, some things are worth ignoring for cake and a doting boyfriend.
I mean, these pictures say it all. 🤣🤣🤣 So he beats people up until he is covered in blood. Minor detail in comparison to how he treats you Guy.
You ever heard the quote that an evil queen is just a princess that didn't get rescued. Tew gives me that vibe. The wounded and just wanting love vibe.
Hahaha Tew totally outing them. Oh! Tew was about to make his move. Too slow Tew. Tew, you know you are in love right. Guy is acting like a total dork and you are charmed. That is love.
Oh, the fall troupe again! Though with Guy being the way he is, it's totally believable. The slow mow lean forward like there will be a kiss, but instead he wipes off frosting from Guy's lip. Totally troupe and sooo good. And Guy runs away.
The guild is super cute. I like how frank Tew is. He just lays out his feelings about Wahl to Guy. Throwing down some valid facts, my friend. Ahhh Guy! Why did you let him leave like that? Oh, yay! He chased after him.
Oh, these two idiots are adorkable. So awkward and yet cute.
Not gonna lie. It broke my heart when he didn't hug him back.
The restaurant kills me. Tew is like, it looks crappy. Underling is like, dude, it's not real. Oh lawd, sweet baby Jezebel. You are not normal about that boy, Tew. Not normal about him at all. And I'm okay with that.
Secondary couple. Not over shadowing but still cute.
Guy packing. Bet Wahl ditches him for his gf.
Guys, I'm in love with Tew. He gets it. Life is short, so important people are priority.
How much is that puppy in the window.
I love that Tew isn't shy to show his concern and affection. I adore that Guy didn't care about Wahl and turned around to wave at Tew. He even defends Tew. I mean, he is wrong, but that's not the point here.
Tew's excitement that Guy texted him is adorable.
This is me again.
Ahhh… I'm dead. When he goes, "I'm down bad."
Yes, hunny you are, but I, for one, appreciate that.
Oh, that went sideways fast. *We will talk when I get back.*
I really do enjoy Tul. He is really enjoying Tew and Guy. Me too my dude, me too. Willing to risk the wrath of his boss to tease. Love it.
This face isn't making me feel secure.
In comparison, look at this puppy dog face. So excited for Guy to be back.
OH no... They aren't going to leave us like this, are they?!?! Assholes!!! Nobody talk to me till next Thursday. I am not okay.
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Listen, I need to talk about My Dear Gangster Oppa, because I really like what they're doing with Wahl, Tew, and Guy's characters.
Wahl's character isn't a hard clock, God knows Tew read that man for his entire fucking life in a glance. He's someone clearly trying to figure his sexuality out, and it is absolutely his right to do that at any pace he feels comfortable with and I'll die on this hill. I HATE any queer media where a character is pressured out of the closet. But what he's also done is kept Guy on the hook for years with a shitload of mixed signals. Seeing a BL where a character actually gets tired of that, where they seek something better for themselves, and gravitate towards a love that's healthier for them is so refreshing.
It sends a really good message that you shouldn't fuck with people's feelings before you figure out your own, and that maybe people who are in these situations (which is A LOT of young queer people) should maybe start thinking about what's best for them.
Also, this show is like the gay Thai version of The Guild, and I'm not even mad about it. Also, someone's paying more attention to what queer women like, because Insomnia's character is so much better queer female casting than they normally do. I feel like they're getting more and more queer voices behind the scenes fixing things up in these shows. Someone clearly asked queer women what they were into there. Dare I say focus testing was done? Because this show has a budget.
Anywho, too bad we're only three episodes in, because my work platform is under maintenance today, and I don't even know what to do with myself. I've been practicing my Spanish, but I got triggered trying to figure out why the hell tirar and lanzar aren't interchangeable, also whoever invented speaking in subjunctive is a sadist, but I digress. Anyways, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
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I will never forgive those thugs for accosting Guy before he sent this message to Wahl
And I think this little, rare moment where Guy is being honest with himself about Wahl, is why he gets so defensive when Tew tells him he doesn't think Wahl is a good friend to Guy.
Because here is Tew, proving he's everything that Wahl isn't: loyal, perceptive, interested in Guy and the things he likes, and most importantly, with Guy and happy to be there!
And now, after a charged moment on the couch, where you can see Guy panic about crossing lines-- and I really think that's what happens here, he sees that this moment could be romantic, but the last time he let himself see romance and romantic interest where there wasn't any, he got hurt, and he lost Wahl in the ways that mattered.
And Tew is confronting him with something he knows is true, and he snaps, because he doesn't want to acknowledge it, and because he doesn't want Tew to see him that way -- easily discarded and still eager for more.
And it gets worse when Tew acknowledges Guy's feelings for Wahl, because if Tew sees them, then maybe Wahl does, too, and he doesn't want that-- doesn't want that final confirmation that Wahl isn't really a good friend, and doesn't want that final piece to fall into place that might make Wahl leave him.
It says a lot that Guy lets himself get angry here. He doesn't let himself argue with Wahl, and Wahl doesn't respect his anger when he does let it show. But Tew sees he's made Guy upset, and he tells him "I don't want to argue, so I'll go", in a way that's clearly about respecting Guy's boundaries, and not about manipulating his feelings (like Wahl's pouting is)
And baby boy is kind of devastated when he leaves
And then! He rushes to apologize, and to be honest with Tew, and with himself, and say out loud -- for probably the first time -- what he feels for Wahl
And he's begging Tew to understand. To understand that how Guy feels about Wahl is big and confusing. That his feelings for Wahl have been a part of him for so long that he can't let them go easily, that they have made him afraid.
That he's made himself accept the idea that he doesn't get to love like other people.
That his loneliness isn't all Wahl's fault.
And Tew? He gets it.
He understands, and uses the moment to reassure Guy, and to hint that he doesn't need to resign himself to being alone. He takes Guy's feelings seriously, and he offers the comfort that he sees that Guy needs.
And he is completely caught off guard by the hug.
Guy is so relieved. Relieved to have said it all out loud, relieved Tew is still there, and that he understands him. Relieved that Tew didn't leave or tease him or tell him he was stupid.
Relieved that this friend isn't walking away from him, that he's not too much or not enough.
And Tew... He lets Guy hug him, but he hovers. He doesn't let himself commit to wrapping his arms around Guy like he wants to. He hesitates, he lets his hand stay just over Guy, but not touching him; his hands curling away and falling aside.
He knows how he feels for Guy, and he doesn't want to put that on Guy, but he also doesn't want to let himself get too close while Guy has so many feelings wrapped up in Wahl, for his own sake.
But! He also doesn't pull away emotionally! He doesn't stop being his friend (or even try to stop pining. He bought an entire restaurant ffs)
Anyway, all of this to say that I love these two so much. They're so good together ❤️
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