period tip for all the period having people: if you use pads and often get your underwear stained, wear two pairs of panties - put the pad on one, then pull a second one over it, it will help keep the pad in place

been doing this for the longest time but i just found out its not widely known? i rarely leak through and if i do, its just a little splash instead of a whole pair of underwear ruined

boys were meant to have pussies and girls were meant to have dicks sorry everyone

Always astounding to see the number of ppl who claim their blog is safe for trans ppl while they're actively reblogging posts made by and for terfs, and doing so knowingly

Why do i keep coming across TERFS and homophobes on this app as of late? I come here to escape bigotry! Where are all these fuckers coming from? Can we bullying them off the app or something?

you have to go to work so you can pay for your doctor, who is not taking your insurance right now, and if you say i can't afford the doctor's you are told - get a better job. it is very sad that you are unwell, yes, but maybe you should have thought about that before not having a better job.

(where is the better job? who is giving out these better jobs? you are sick, you are hurting - how the hell are you supposed to be well enough for this better job?)

but you go to the doctor because you had the nerve to be hurt or sick or whatever else. and they tell you that it is because you have anxiety. you try your best. you are a self-advocate. you've done the reading (which sometimes pisses them off worse, honestly). you say it is actually adding to my anxiety, it is effecting my quality of life. so they say that you are fat. they say that all young people have this happen to them, isn't it a medical marvel! they say that you should eat more vegetables. they say that you probably just need to lose a little more weight, and that you are faking it for attention.

(what attention could this doctor possibly give? what validation? that's their fucking job, isn't it?)

there is always a hypochondriac, right. someone always tells you about a hypochondriac. or someone who is unnecessarily aggressive during the worst days of their life. or someone looking "for a quick fix". or some idiot who wasn't educated about how to properly care for themselves who just abandons their treatment. and again, the hypochondriac, the overly-cautious hysteric. these people don't deserve to be treated like humans (right), and since you might be one of these people, you also don't get treated like a human. because those people can really fuck with the system, you now have to pay for it. and besides. you're actually probably faking it.

(more often than not, you find a 2:1 ratio of these stories. for every "hypochondriac", there are 2 people who knew something was wrong, and yet nobody could fucking find it. the story often ends with pointless suffering. the story often ends with and now it's too late, and it's going to kill me.)

you are actually just making excuses. someone else got that procedure or that diagnosis and he's fine, you should be fine too. someone else said they watched a documentary about other inspirational people with your exact same condition, maybe you should be inspirational, too. you're just too morbid. your pain and your experience is probably just not statistically concerning. it is all self-reported anyway, and you're just being a baby.

(once, while sitting down in the middle of making coffee, you had the sudden, horrible thought - i could kill myself to make the pain stop. you had to call your best friend after that. had to pet your dog. had to cry about it in the shower. you won't, but that moment - god, fuck. the pain just goes on and on.)

you know someone who went in for routine surgery and said i still feel everything. they told her to just relax. it took her kicking and screaming before they figured out she wasn't lying - the anesthetic drip hadn't been working. you know someone who went in for severe migraines who was told drink water and lose weight. you know someone who was actively bleeding out and throwing up in the ER and was told you're just having a bad period.

in the ER there are always these little posters saying things like "don't wait! get checked today!" and you think about how often you do wait. how often the days spool out. you once waited a full week before seeing the doctor for what you thought was a sprained wrist. it had actually been broken - they had to rebreak it to set it.

but you go into the doctor. the problem you're having is immediate. the person behind the counter frowns and says we're not taking your insurance. you will be paying for this out-of-pocket.

they send you home with tylenol and a little health packet about weight loss or anxiety or attention deficit. on the front it has your birthday and diagnosis. you think about crying, and the words swim. it might as well say go fuck yourself. it might as well say you're a fucking idiot. it might as well say light your money on fire and lie down in it. and the entire fucking time - the problem persists.

it's okay. it's okay, it's just another thing, you think. it's just another thing i have to learn to live with.

Here is a post where I'm giving a permission to print any of my fan artworks for a personal use. You may ask me for a full sized file or download it from DeviantArt. Although I don't have much finished works 😅😧 (If some art is of a too low resolution for printing, you can use waifu2x)

What an excellent day to remember that trans women are people and trans men are people and nonbinary people are people, and all of them deserve bodily autonomy, human rights, and love

Peace and love on planet earth 🥰

one day you’re gonna be a terf. i can just feel it. this is not an insult nor a compliment.

That would indeed be a very unexpected and interesting turn of events.

If that happens, please order me a brain scan. If nothing can be found that'll explain sudden and drastic behavioural changes, I'd like to be donated to scientific research.

Too late, you Menstruate now

me, receiving this ask:

can i just say. a whole lot of ppl who dont even follow me have clicked thru to specifically like/rb this addition i put on this post. meanwhile op blocked me like right away. i swear like at LEAST 80% of ppl who get called terfs are normal about trans ppl and can follow them talk 2 them share interests hang out whatever w no issue. but y'all are so FUCKING WEIRD about feminists its absolutely fucking insane. ppl in notes talking about how avoiding feminists is a safety precaution bc theyre soooo hateful and violent. my sibling in christ not only is this the internet and they cant hurt u but they are TELLING you in DROVES that they do not hate u. why are u so determined for there to be such a chasm between us!! why do you have to pretend they hate you and want u dead and whatever and HOW can u keep believing that no matter how many times u are told point-blank that it's not true!! i will never understand this i will never understand this i will never understand this

yknow i swear if a guy said he was a gay bisexual there'd be zero fuckin discourse about it. but you put lesbian next to literally anything and suddenly its clearly transphobic and Must be picked apart and justified tooth and nail instead of just, going on with your day.

I have officially reached my ✨low✨

I ended up cursing at a TERF for being on the Trans tag

(Maybe we should invade TERF spaces with our trans and nonbinary stuff and see how they like it)

It's fascinating how in reaction to the crab day idea half my dashboard is like "Tumblr is awful do not give them one red cent let the motherfucker burn" and the other half is like "let's save the rec center 🙂"

if you’re transphobic im gonna tear your throat out with my teeth. peace and love ❤️

Hey Normal Guys who follow me and arent into warriors. dont look at the warrior cats fandom on here's latest opinions about alderheart and tigerheartstar and also the new arc in general. Like half of them are still misogynists and the other half are currently drinking terf koolaid. Do not look @ their opinions just look atthe cool art and stay oblivious 👍

Saw someone reblog something from a terf on my dash so I made some things in Photofunia real quick to let y’all know

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