many people who use typology have never engaged with reality and it shows. Let me go through the two main, sadly very common mentalities which expose you as a retard who doesn't understand the real world.

"you cant develop your blindspot." Whether you can or can't develop the ability to properly give a shit about your blindspot... life is going to force you to at least pretend you care about your blindspot and fake it til you make it. otherwise you literally die. People are forced by the world to either enact their blindspot to survive (causing dumb typologers to mistype ppl as their blindspot), or perish. This especially applies if your blindspot is soc or sp. sp-blinds have to pay the bills, clean their rooms and develop a stable routine that nurtures their bodies and souls, despite their apathy towards their financial status and their personal comforts. soc-blinds have to sell a social image of themselves to get a job and then further develop an image as someone reliable if they want to get better pay, despite their apathy towards their social status. there is something in all our lives which demands us to engage our blindspot and if we dont step up, we lose at life.

"Socs are nice and groupthinky and soc blinds are mean and edgy and individualistic" shows me you're sp-blind, probably a 4 and/or 5 fix obsessed with your wet dream of how much more individualistic than thou you are too. if you think soc-blind is about being mean, you don't understand the slightest thing about what an sp-haver and a soc-blind actually thinks. I question if anyone who thinks this way has ever actually tried to provide for themselves in the sp way. sp is about AVOIDING risks and staying stable. To hold down a job and be economically stable in the safest way possible -- what sp is about -- the method is to be to be fucking nice to people and keep your head down so that you aren't deemed Bad For Corporate Image and cut off from your stream of income. to maintain your sp comforts rather than deal with the DANGER (thing sp avoids) of them being threatened, you have to not piss people off. It baffles me that so called sp-havers don't know this and go around assuming that anyone who is kind and bearable must be some sort of soc. the concept of "being nice to avoid conflict and protect myself" is foreign to these so-called sp-havers, which reeks of sp-blindness. Sp-dom is always aware of threats to their sp needs and doesn't want to drag needless conflict into their lives that could risk their financial stability and comfy routines. Sp-doms are those people who fearfully and resentfully keep their social media image as plain and as milquetoast as possible, so that their corporate job doesn't fire them. Yes even sp/sx does this, tho we struggle to tame ourselves more than sp/so because of the explosiveness of sx... we still do it. I have kept my internet rage anonymous for years and am only just decompartmentalizing my life and developing the courage to be myself on the internet with my true face because I feared losing my job over it, for years. Sp is about this soulless pragmatism. It is aligned with type 6 (soc is aligned with type 3 and sx is aligned with type 9), so even if you're not a 6 or 6 fix, having sp will add 6-like traits to you. the wimpiness and cowardice of sp (gotta keep my head down so my employers keep paying me!) applies to ppl even if they are assertive types... The only conflict sp-doms will engage in is around their resources, and in modern society the best way to get resources is almost never conflict, it is through (unfortunately) keeping your head down and shutting up so that you are hireable. almost ALL sp-doms know this. so they train themselves to be nice, and will seldom be cunts. because it is most safe + profitable to be nice. it is low risk to be nice. so sp-doms like being nice. yes we will be grumpy and low energy if you fuck with our routines and other sp things. but we are fundamentally NOT edgy (at least compared to our sx and soc siblings of the same enneatype) because starting conflict is risky and thats the antithesis of sp. Soc is the instinct about status and showing off and shining your image to the world. Socs all have 3-like traits even if they don't have any 3 in their enneatype. they are the ones who enjoy engaging in social drama and being socially mean and petty, because this is an avenue to attain status and peacock your social role in the community and define who you are to others. This trait can be used for better or worse.

Synflow and Contraflow are silly

Launching this blog with a theory that's been in my mind for a while now, and it's the fact that old typology tumblr gave too much importance to syn and contra.

Some time ago i read a post (idr who wrote it but if i find it again i'll link it here) that explained something that made me go oh fuck, that's true actually. If we assume that sx blinds are the majority of people in the world, are we really so sure that basically half of sx blinds (sosps) are really so bad at living like people describe them to be? Like, since I've been in a new city for uni I've met lots of people. Most of them are soc doms because Italy is a soc dom country. Most soc doms I've met were sosps, and they were not the awkward anxious ridden fuckups of society that ppl think sosps are. Actually, most of them were definitely more adjusted into society than I am, and this takes me to a point I discussed with a friend: in our society soc and sp are the most valued instincts to have, so sp blinds and soc blinds are definitely gonna seem more "contraflow" than a healthy and adjusted sosp. Like, take a Fe dom 9 core sosp for example. Are we really gonna assume that this person is gonna have this extremely contra vibe to them? No. In fact, I'd say that an estp 7 core sosx is gonna vibe more contra to people than a 9 core sosp.

I don't think synflow and contraflow is inherently a bad theory, I think it needs some more expansion and thought because it fails to stand on its own, it's wonky:

Like, maybe it's a bit overemphasized. I don't wanna discard the theory completely, but it needs something more to work in my mind.

By default I still think that having both soc and sp puts you at an advantage in our society, and you're automatically more well adjusted. I've met some sosps with a wonkier sp, but most of them had normal sp like you would expect from a sxsp. My gf is a 3 core sosp and her sp is normal. It's not always there, but you can feel her sp wall sometimes, it's sudden, maybe then that's what contraflow is about, but she's not bad at socing at all. So yeah, stop being mean to soaps >:C But yeah i probably forgot to add other things i had in my mind so if anyone wants to add anything feel welcome to do so :3

How do you distinguish between sp-blindness and inferior si (or low sensing in general ig)? I used to think I had sp but all my sp dom friends like to make fun of me for being a dumbfuck (eg I once lost my debit card and lived off of coins for a week)

The only thing I can tell about my variant is that I have a RBF lmao

I've touched this topic several times before but (outside of jokes) instincts have nothing to do with having any skills. sp-doms or aux are not automatically better at having their shit together. and i can think of resting bitch face examples for any of the instinctual variants.

instincts at their core are only about how you prioritize your own survival (sp) vs that of other people (so or sx) and nothing else.

so yeah most stereotypes you will see about sp-blinds are actually just describing:

intuitives

perceivers

lack of Te

9-ignorance

8-recklessness

an sp-blind 1-core ESTJ on the other hand will "have their shit together" due to high Te + sensing + 1 and you can only rly tell their sp-blindness in how they burn themselves for others.

so/sx moodboard ✨✨

baby tweek and craig doodles

Eyes

'tumblr i told you to stop sniping my post quality' translation: 80's sequel to this so click for better quality

South Park Season 26 Predictions

They finally start doing more stuff with Kyle and Kenny

I think since there was a Saint Patrick's Day ep last season there's a good chance for a Valentine's Day ep

At least a reference to the Royal family drama

Cartman's homeless arc continues with him trying to come up with ways to earn money probably a Butters and Cartman ep

An episode about Sharon and some of the other moms

Revising Casa Bonita (It would be such a missed opportunity if they didn't)

At least 2 Tegrity farm focused eps with Tolkien's dad

Since Trey's daughter will be voice acting I feel like there might be more Kid centered eps

Mr Garrison subplot

The only Creek related thing we get is them looking at each other for 3 seconds

Hint to what the new video game could be about

Blind Stan au

Cartman: your lucky your boyfriend is blind, otherwise he dump you for being so ugly.

Kyle: 1. We are not dating 2. Fuck off fatass 

the gay blorbos :]

soc-blind love hits different <3

Explain to me please what is the thinking of people who blame Spider for "betraying" the Sullys, but then when you point out to them that Sullys betrayed him first by abandoning him they turn around and say that "Jake and Neytiri had no obligation to care for him" and that Sullys "are not his family"?

The math isn’t mathing, buddy. How tf would you devalue characters relationships and then blame a character for not staying 10000% loyal to those who apparently don’t care about them 😐 if Sullys don’t owe Spider, then he doesn’t owe them either, it goes both ways, dumbass.

i will read chainsaw man when it concludes and we are officially in the clear to Not have gotten done like Usagi Drop at the very last second

tired of thin tweek, tired of tweek that doesn’t eat……..fandom needs more chubby tweek, give me chubby tweek dang it…………….,

god ur so right anon. ur so right and so valid

that’s how a drill works ! tfbw toolshed’s lines are so nerdy

Hello!! I love ur blog!

I wanted to request Pip and Estella (seperate) x fem! imp! s/o thats blind if thats okay?

Pip and Estella with a blind Imp s/o💖💛💛💘

Note: Yep yep sure thing ^^

Genre: You decide!

Warnings: I have no clue.

Gender: Female

💛 Pip Pirrup 🩸

Oh your blind? that's perfectly fine dear he wouldn't see you any different!

He won't deny that he feels bad that you can't see certain stuff or places he takes you too. But that's okay! He can describe them to you to make you feel better!

Ain't nobody gotta say anything rude about you being blind because they might go blind themselves one day. What goes around comes around ^^

However, if someone actually does manage to make you cry or upset. Pip will comfort you until you're no longer sad or he might even bring a gift or take you to your favorite place just name it dear! ❤️

Once you're happy again, Pip will fly off to go deal with the person who made you sad....🩸🩸

He comes back with his mouth covered in blood, I think you know exactly what he did the person <3

If you're having trouble walking around because your blind, He will gladly grab your hand and fly you to wherever you want to go. (If you want him to of course). You know you can use your wings to fly but you do sometimes have a hard time knowing where you are going and Pip worries for you💛💛💛💛

💛 Estella Havisham 🌀

Doesn't mind that you're blind either, she will hold your hand to keep you from tripping or bumping into things. She would try to hide the fact that she likes holding your hand.

Oh you bet she is going to be hella angry when she sees people making fun of you for being blind.

She can't be such imbeciles would have the audacity to make fun of her s/o while they're being pathetic excuses of a human in her eyes.

She will deal with them later after she comforts her sad s/o❤️💔💔❤️‍🩹

She knows you can take care of yourself, but she can't deny that she is worried for your safety and she doesn't want you getting hurt because you didn't notice what was in front of you and bump into it.

She'll only use her hypnotize powers on you if you're at the risk of getting hurt so she can prevent that from happening to you💛💛💛💛💛

The first image of Pip is him staring into my soul OvO

Damien accidentally ran his blind friend into a pole being too excited to help him out :(