someone said "the phrase people pleaser implies a choice to be that way, i prefer the term fawn response because it more adequately describes that the person is just desperately seeking safety by the only method they know" and i havent stopped thinking about it
Ragatha, sweetie thank you very much for being understanding of Pomni's situation, thank you very much for it...BUT dammit, it's ok to feel hurt over her leaving you!!! There's nothing wrong with feeling like this!! Pls don't say it's "water under the bridge", pls say how you truly felt!! Ragatha, it's not too late-
they’re so sweet and adorable and gentle, and it kills me how they’re constantly looked down upon/belittled/etc. i rly genuinely hope we get the chance to see them just abso-fuckin-lutely lose it in s3.
they should be allowed to punt the Metatron into the sun. as a treat :)
Welp. Gotta tell my boss tmrw. Tmrws the day. I'm. Well. This is going to be awful and I am so anxious and I'll probably cry a whole lot AND she's gonna be mad, or at least Very Disappointed, with me. Plus then still having to work with her for a bit. Plus all the nerves and stuff about starting at the NEW place. Which while I'm excited I'm also v nervous BC what if it's TOO challenging and I'm stupid and I fail and I can't do this thing that I want and love and I fuck up my career and I'll never have a good job again and everything will be bad. Forever.
I am trying to built a life I can love but it is Very Hard
everytime i actually open up sdv to play i get flashbanged with sebastian's white ass sprites because i always forget not everyone sees him as wasian💔 my current hc for him is half chinese (liable to change... but ik for sure he's half asian) but he is Not bilingual he can't rly speak or write the other language he can only understand it when listening but even then he's not very fluent LOL this is just turning into a sebastian hc post might as well go full out. to me sebastian Does have relationship experience but has been thru shitty ones in the past which is part of the reason why he's so pessimistic & brooding </3 and he'd hook up with ppl in zuzu city for a night for a while but it just made him feel shittier so he's stopped since ☝️ also people make him out to be way cooler than he actually is like yea sure he's kinda cool but he's also a Massive Loser especially when he tells you how he hates "seasonal fads" like pumpkin spice and that one line about the potluck soup where he's like "Why ruin the potluck? Hmm... I guess some people feel liberated when the rigid structures of society break down a little. Maybe I'm weird.” WHO ASKED😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 his ass also can NOT cook he can make spaghetti but it's mid. he probably has low ass stamina and yeah he's tall and lanky (rn i see him as around 5'9-5'10) but you could snap him in half over your knee. when he's in an actually healthy relationship he gets really flustered over certain romantic gestures cuz he's not used to feeling valued or being considered someone's #1. he picks up on little things and does acts of service but i also think he can be really callous and insensitive at times because while he can be pretty perceptive he is also Very Emotionally Stunted. he unlearns lots of unhealthy behaviors & mindsets with the help of his partner & family & friends ^__^
I said this on Twitter but I feel like in the next few years we're gonna see fantasy/romantasy book comps with bg3 and the only thing baldurs gate 3 about them is that they're fantasy with a found family but it does fundamentally misunderstand what works in the bg3 group dynamic in that several people here are 2 seconds from becoming the worst versions of themselves if the person leading them isn't telling them No. Don't do it. It'll just be another fantasy with ur extremely generic found family that u could put together for any book lol