In case any system out there needs to hear this:
We’re a system. We’ve been a system for over 30 years.
When we first began interacting with each other, before we had words for it, it was a bit murky. We were very young, and didn’t really understand not to talk about it. We were shamed and scared into silence. Things got really bad after that, for a long time.
Then we found a community, and words for what we were experiencing! And things started getting better! It took time, effort, and a lot of trial and error. It was sometimes stressful, sometimes scary. There are still some things we don’t understand, even after 10+ years of having words for those things and a community to talk to about it. But it did get better. And it’s no longer scary.
Being a system now is so much better. There’s so many more resources than there were even just five, ten years ago. There’s bots, and apps. It is becoming less stigmatized, slowly. And at this point, just within ourselves, we’re so much more comfortable and sure with ourselves. It’s just a natural thing, like blinking. We don’t even think about it a lot. We just are.
We love being a system. We love one another, fiercely.
And we wish the same for all other systems, and plural folk.
Keep existing. Keep communicating. Keep forming community, and asking questions. Stay curious. Forgive yourself (and/or other sysmates) for breakdowns, failures, and mistakes. Celebrate your successes and happy moments. Keep existing.
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🖤✨HEADSHOT STREAM CHANGES✨🖤
Hi, yeah, so here's my official announcement about the changes to the monthly headshot streams! TL;DR, the raffle part of the streams isn't changing, but now:
INSTEAD of Tier 2 Twitch subs, you can buy a monthly headshot by subscribing to my Ko-fi membership at either $5 for lineart/color previous headshot or $10 for a color headshot--TWITCH SUBS WILL NO LONGER BE ACCEPTED AS PAYMENT FOR HEADSHOTS (though of course I appreciate you if you sub anyway!)
INSTEAD of unlimited (sort of) free Twitch Channel Points headshots during the streams, I will be limiting these to 10 PER STREAM, and you'll only be able to buy one every 15 minutes or so
ONLY the Ko-fi raffle headshots and the Channel Points headshots will be drawn on stream, everything else will be drawn off stream and posted to Ko-fi by the end of the month!
You can find a link to my Ko-fi by either clicking the banner image above OR clicking here! Otherwise, the next stream will be Jan 16th (with the raffle on the 15th)~
I'm including the same information but in a less TL;DR mode below the cut, if you want more details! 👇👇👇
Yeah, so after talking to my chat about switching things up next year, and after dealing with like...a lot of problems with Twitch subs (primarily not getting notifications from renewals and issues with renewal dates not matching up well with the streams themselves), I've decided to move to a different system!
First up, there will be NO change to the Ko-fi raffle--it'll still open up the day before a monthly stream, it'll still be 7 slots, and it'll still be $6 dollars. Easy peasy!
The big changes are that TWITCH SUBS WILL NO LONGER BE ACCEPTED FOR HEADSHOTS--I just keep emphasizing this so people can cancel before it renews!!--and CHANNEL POINTS HEADSHOTS WILL BE NOW BE LIMITED TO 10 PER STREAM and they'll only be available every 15 minutes to try to make space for anyone who shows up late to the stream! (Though do note that I haven't tested this out, so it mmmight change a little if it doesn't work the way I expect, pbbthth Twitch)
Aaaand instead of Twitch subs, you can now join my Ko-fi membership! As of right now, you can sign up for one of two tiers on my Ko-fi:
For $5 you can purchase either a lineart headshot or have a previous lineart headshot colored once a month! This is the same as the Channel Points headshots but they aren't limited to 10 per stream, you can just buy one once a month if that's your jam!
For $10 you can purchase a color headshot once a month! This is the same as getting a slot in the Ko-fi raffle or as subscribing previously.
NEITHER of these will be drawn on stream, but I will post your headshots to Ko-fi as normal (including the lineart ones) by the end of the month!
These changes should help streamline requests (and keep my terrible adult-ass body from breaking down too badly, pff)--and, frankly, I was not getting everyone's Twitch sub headshots drawn on stream anyway, so nothing is really changing there! :P As for the new tier for lineart, I included it so that there's something available that's still less money than a full color headshot and you don't have to compete for the limited and time-sensitive slots on stream!
(Which, speaking of the Channel Points headshots--IF YOU ARE A KO-FI MEMBER, I won't explicitly ban anybody from buying channel point headshots, but it would be really great if members could try to only buy them if no non-members are vying for them--I'd like to make sure they're available for new folks and those who can't afford to spend real dollars! Thank you for being understanding~ 😘)
I'm super new to Ko-fi's membership system (used to have a Patreon but that's loooong gone), so if there are any problems, we'll try to sort them out as quickly as possible, just please be patient with me while we get this started! And please holler if you have any questions, I'm happy to answer them!
Looking forward to workin' with y'all in 2024~ 🖤🖤🖤
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