Deepika Padukone at Cannes

its easy to go "haha he had a weird fetish" and have that be the take-away of wilbur soots whole weird biting thing but i'm serious here if you ever decide to do anything with a partner that involves aspects of kink or BDSM, the safeword is not a suggestion.

Saying the safe word isnt a "slow down" or "do this a bit different", its a full stop. The only good response to the safeword is to end the whole "scene" you're playing out and go into aftercare.

Everything that happens after the safe word is rape. No ifs and buts. the safeword is someone saying "i am no longer comfortable with what we're doing, its not arousing anymore, its painful/scary and i want it to stop". If it needs to be called at all it should make you and your partner discuss what happened and how to avoid it in the future. The fact wilbur bit down so hard that the safeword was routinely needed and eventually ignored entirely makes me so fucking mad.

It doesn't matter how deep into the headspace of the scene you are you have to keep in the back of your mind that if someone says the safeword the whole scene ends. And if you can't do that then don't have that kind of sex because you will hurt someone

to me wilbur soot isnt just an abusive dickhead, he's a rapist too.

i cracked the code.

Pippa Fitz-Amobi is made of guilt and obsession and gray morality and loyalty and checklists and a deep deep distrust of the police

NOW with the context rick actually agreeing to uproot the entire group to go a HUNDRED miles to a place that he knows is most likely non existent just for michonne’s peace of mind is insane (that man was down bad and will do anything for her)

no but seriously. walking fifteen people including his infant daughter a hundred miles to washington - through a literal zombie apocalypse with no food no water no shelter no transportation - because she asked him to is insane. trusting a stranger and agreeing to go to alexandria against his own instincts because she asked him to is insane. going to war with the governer by refusing to hand her over to him when he still barely even knew her is insane. going to war again with negan - outgunned and outnumbered - because she asked him to is insane. that most of those things happened before they were even together romantically is insane. the fact that one of his defining character traits is that he never ever gives up, only to see him back down from a fight not once but twice because he's so terrified of losing her is insane. when I think about how he literally puts her life and her needs not only before his own, but before everything else i quite literally feel INSANE.

can i consider this bullying?

The only thing I’ve ever wanted is to have total power over a single life.

RTGame absolutely fascinates me

this man tortures video game characters for fun but if you lay a hand on this one specific virtual sheep he’ll kill you. kids used to call him a vampire. he watched paint dry with 10k people. he’s friends with a chess grandmaster. his audience calls him dad. he knows so many people he’s like one degree of separation from any given person on youtube. he has major little brother energy. he’s the mom friend but only in very specific circumstances. they used to call him the drift king back in college

I hope he never fucking changes

Maybe Leon’s design makes me mad because I’m just jealous of him. Maybe he’s gotta be put on the gender envy list

i think hoffman and strahm could do the shotgun collar vague homoeroticism but amanda and lynn couldn’t do the glass coffin thing because lynn would just get in it

the only thing i hate more than ppl who lie is ppl who lie in a way that forces you to go along with it like ohhhmy fucking god do whatever the fuck you want if it's only yourself you're embarrassing but why would you bring ME into this. lord

I DONT THINK THIS IS A GOOD IDEA but i also REALLY want it to happen so. i will keep reading as usual

Idk if yall are still active but I just eagerly quit this show around early season two. I was kinda hate watching the whole way, but I started googling spoilers when I saw how fucked they were being to Lincoln and Raven (and more, but they’re my faves). Do you have any show recs that are similar with the shows “building a new civilization after tragedy” (minus the colonization and racism etc)

hey!

i actually binged the entire show recently and i can confidently say it was not as groundbreaking or cool as the showrunner believed. the first 2 seasons were incredible but it just devolved into a mess and the ending was so dark and horrifying. also the fandom was completely unhinged and did not need to act the way they did 😭

onto your question: yes!!!! battlestar galactica is what inspired me to watch the 100 in the first place. it very much shares the themes of mass tragedy, civilizational warfare, living in space, seeking a new home, and humanity fighting for survival without losing its soul. start with the 2003 miniseries (a three hour pilot) tho or it might be confusing. it also has diversity without the weird racist tones of the 100's diversity, although the cast is a lot whiter. the 100 has also obviously borrowed a lot of concepts and terms from it but i don't want to spoil you. all in all, it is one of the best shows i have ever watched and it delivers until its very last second.

lost in space is also quite cool. and i have heard good things about the expanse! another show that shares some themes (without the space element) is the society - very fascinating

ZORO LORE FINALLY ⁉️

It's 2 am so disregard this but I'm so insane for Gregory Peck...

i understand that youre all being silly about it and I'm not criticizing that but. can you please talk about Sheila E. BEYOND shipping? cuz everytime I see any content of her it's like. ooc every time cuz she's either a shy silent girl or she's strong overtly rude and violent. and there's never any sort of character analysis beyond "omg... but she's pining??!!! omgg she is feeling looove..?!?" and it makes me mad cuz she's a gen great character