Many of you in this fandom overstep boundaries. When I talk about anti-blackness and misogynoir in the fandom in general and HoTD specifically, it is not your place as a white/non-Black person to tell me that “akshually, I don’t think it was anti-blackness. I think the writers were just lazy.” 

That is an egregious overstep, and it annoys me very much. Black people in fandom can have conversations about the misogynoir and we can even disagree, but where the fuck do you, as a white/non-Black person, get off? You not only insert yourselves, but you question the experiences of Black people in fandom as if you have any authority or personal understanding. 

I cannot give credence to the opinions of individuals who cannot even recognise the presence of anti-blackness in their shipping communities. There is nothing you can say that I am interested in hearing. Our conversations are not for you to intrude on, they are intra-communal and I am getting sick and tired of you lot inserting yourselves where you don’t belong.

hii, can you do lucas users, please?

if this is about dozen, no ❤️

one of my fav artists just dropped the worst ep ever i’m breaking up w him 🙁

how “conversationalists” look when a conversation is taking place

tell scotty to text me back

yawningggg!!

The reason why misogynistic thirsty ass men piss me TF off so much is bc they choose to be thirsty misogynists. That's not "he's a man he can't help it" that's him making the choice to not consider anyone else's feelings and just give in to impulse. When I say I hate men for how they act I don't think there's some immutable factor that makes them shitty. It's the opposite. I know they can be better and they largely refuse to. It's like with any annoying person or shitty awful person. Stingy people. Greedy people. Pushy people. Nobody's biologically greedy or hardwired to be selfish or just plain stupid. That's a choice. Constantly. Whenever I say I hate men it's "you could be doing better but you don't want to" and that's what pisses me off about the cishet ones especially (but not just them ofc)

TS people pissed me off so bad with that rebuttal to NYT what do you mean male musicians don’t get the same things written about them??!! Harry has been traumatized for over a decade… check yourself GIRL

no you dont know how joan of arc felt youre twenty years old convincing yourself youre still experiencing 'girlhood' with bpd, no hobbies and an addiction to doomscrolling on tiktok

also neymar is a bitch. u cant convice me hes a good person

The way my family asks for money constantly as if though I’m Jeff fucking Bezos is crazy. I don’t mind helping WHEN I CAN, but it’s like the point I literally don’t hear from my sisters unless they ask for money. I also live in a state with like 4 times their cost of living and they can’t seem to comprehend I’m getting by just like them.

"uughhh theyre learning japanese bc of anime" "ughhh theyre learning korean bc of kpop" okay and how many languages do you speak. how many alphabets can you read. do you only listen to music in your native language? do you only watch shows in your native language? thats so cringe. this idiot doesnt know about the beauty of cultural exchange. grow up

“let people have fun” no i don’t think i will not about this

If I read a fanfic that’s too bad I’ll just block op

i don’t mean to sound like cunt but i am somewhat irked that my fellowship asked me to present at their open house with like. 4 days notice. only after asking 3 other people who all said no like 1) you are asking me as a last resort 2) you are being disrespectful of the fact that you know i work another job? like realistically, your open house is in less than a week, you want me to research + design a presentation in that time for a sector of the org that i know nothing about be so fucking fr

i don’t know, you tell me? clearly you can read so ik you saw and read the warning at the top yet you still decided to read it and that’s on you 🤷🏾‍♀️. there’s no age or anything to indicate your age on your blog which leads me to believe you’re a minor or not even old enough to read my stuff. and on top of that, if you didn’t like it why even make a comment about it?

DEJAH ass crack