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juliaswickcrs · 7 months
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ALINA KINSLEY + MARJORIE KIRKE
you're alive, so alive "Your grandmother was the most beautiful, vibrant, woman I'd ever known. I was a fool not to fall in love with her. I was a fool to choose this over what was offered to me. ...you remind me so much of her. my Marjorie." -CORIAKIN, the voyage of the dawn treader
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wanderingmind867 · 2 months
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I like how comics of the 60s and 70s look. it's kind of sad they don't look like that anymore. Because sure the modern art is more polished or whatever, but the old art has a charm. A unique aethestic it often feels we'll never recapture. Maybe I'm just biased because I've only read comics from the 60s and 70s, but I still wish they'd go back to how things were. Sigh...
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stars-and-cows · 4 months
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nostalgebraist · 1 year
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hey so staff announced recently that the legacy editor is getting deprecated this year (https://www.tumblr.com/staff/713772856384929792/hello-tumblr-if-you-joined-us-before-november) and i know you said in the post about frank making asks from the ether that she uses the legacy editor. i'm just wondering if the switchover will cause any downtime for frank when it does eventually happen or if you're working to get her to use the new editor?
I don't know when legacy post creation through the API will go away. It won't necessarily happen at the same time that we lose the legacy post editor in the UI.
But yeah, given that announcement I figure its days are numbered.
Thanks for reminding me about this. It will cause downtime when it happens, unless I've already added NPF creation code by that time. I've been avoiding that because it'll be a complicated chore, and right now it wouldn't add any value. But I should get around to it sometime.
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susiephone · 3 months
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i'm using transparent post-it notes for the first time and....omg am i an annotations girlie now??
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simbico · 1 year
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So, I decided, what the heck, I’ll put my own version of the Goth family in my save, replace the game’s first version of them.
And this is what neighborhood stories did to them. I’m just a bit upset about it.
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slayer-of333lies · 2 years
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#the better light
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Daemon Targaryen & Rhaenyra Targaryen (House of the Dragon episode 7)
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jazzytrait · 1 year
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I've seen a lot more anon bullying posts lately. I seriously encourage everyone to turn off anon asks. I know they can be fun, but the odds of you getting some stupid negative crap in your inbox that's just going to make you doubt yourself or feel bad goes from pretty likely to not at all.
People who send this stuff are far too cowardly to do so with their name attached to it.
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blessedbycoyotes · 1 year
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not taking my meds-
cons: not functioning, breaking down crying, panic attacks, general moodkiller
pros: some of the best poetry I've ever written istg
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peony-pearl · 1 year
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My apartment is officially the tidiest it's been since I moved in and I'm very thrilled ;;
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edwinas · 1 year
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queen charlotte: a bridgerton story >>>>>>> bridgerton series
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exilley · 1 year
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this page is funny to me like in the middle of these professional high-class expertly trained masters of their craft here are two middle schoolers who get into street fights from time to time. these fights are gonna be so evenly matched i rpomise
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the "hearth and home" rewrite is almost 2k words longer than the original oh my god
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randomalistic · 4 months
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Selfshippers who ship with weird/unappealing characters. I love you. Like hell yeah you go get with Mr Crocker. Go get with lord faarquad
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powdermelonkeg · 3 months
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Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety
If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you
If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
People are allowed to be wrong about you
If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it
The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something
You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it
Most things are better after you sleep on them
Most things are better after you have a meal
Most things are better after you shower
Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"
If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction
If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction
"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier
If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two
You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction
When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery
People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves
If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it
If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable
If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it
If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it
Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step
Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary
If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike
Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP
No one cares what you look like
If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"
People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company
You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you
If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly
You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will
Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable
Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it
Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier
And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
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sixthrock · 2 months
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reminder
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