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dizzybevvie · 4 months

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when someone isnt skinny why is rapid weight loss seen as progress

#like i wasnt ever fat but id consider myself midsize like i got some rolls n large legs n stuff and it doesnt bother me now #but when i had an eating disorder and i lost weight like real quick why did i get so many compliments #13 year old ex ballerina girl is losing weight really really quick. welp anyway no redflags raised you look great #like every adult in my life was happy for me and it was the worst year of my LIFE i barely even remember it cus i was so hungry and tired #PLUS mine was only a year AND it was not as severe as some eatig disorders can be!! my heart fuckin goes out to fat ppl w eating disorders #TO CLARIFY i am OKAY i am recovered i hold no resentment against the people i am talking about its just sad #beverly says stuff #NOT A PRO-ANA POST FUCK PRO-ANAS FRFR!!!!!! EAT THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF FOOD ITS GOOD FOR YOU #tw eating disorder #tw disordered eating #tw ed ment #stay safe guys <33333333333333333

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makeitlookdecent · 5 months

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dont cry

#puyo puyo #puyo red amitie #puyo strange klug #i did a doodle!!!!#its aya and red ami from “20th alts as there own ppl; curtesy klug's accidental screw up” ....au?#affectionately “other colors” in my head <3 #anyway strange is the support and link to them. they're also the oldest so...big older 'i raised you' sibling vibes #anyway enough of that; look at the hand!!! i drew that!!!! wow!!#look at strange's sweater!!!#dont look at #dont look at red's tho..hunched shoulders got me fucked up geez..#also i dont know what i did but when you flip it only red still looks good? strange is still kinda fat head even tho i squished and expande #a bunch #and whenever i use refs it like #it looks...meaty? like im not even tracing it it just looks fuller #and i try and sand it then it looks way to skinny #idk its late and i've been up with no break since this morning #oooh shit its 1am i gotta sleep #excuse my ramblin o7

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selkiecoded · 2 years

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What isekai are you reading if you don’t mind me asking?

okay... but youre not allowed to make fun of me... its called "50 tea recipes from the duchess." korean woman gets fired, gets isekai'd into the body of a duchess who is timid to the point of patheticness and everybody fuckin hates her. is like uggghh well i dont care if im hated as long as i have my special interest: TEA. and with her autistic girl swag (label pending) she makes both the society and her cold intimidating husband love her. 70% of it is her infodumping about tea to the delight of everyone around her.

#ask me no questions and ill tell you no lies #started reading it on tapas bc i was bored and it was free. embarrassingly got invested.#more uhh romance isekai? rather than like an action based one. its cute enough. not really groundbreaking but i like the FL.#we did manage to achieve a conversation between the protag and her body swapped soul so that was fun.#generally i dont support ppl who go on abt art that they only engage w for mindless fun or whatever bc theyre usually talking abt fuckin.#idk marvel movies or the latest army propaganda films or whatever. and generally the media they talk abt verges to harmful.#but i am an avid supporter of reading dumb shit you know is silly. all art has value including stupid stuff.#other dumb stuff ive read: at least two ~sexier~ manga/manhwa. former had surprisingly decent world building.#latter had an INCREDIBLY TOXIC cast of characters. it was absolutely fascinating.#those are the more embarrassing ones and the ones i WONT be dropping titles for.#others include furry shoujo isekai; aromantic shoujo; mousou telepathy (ive mentioned that before)#gag comedy where a dude gets ~magicked~ into a girls body but the joke is hes so lazy that he doesnt give a shit (mood)#stupid bl manga with a hot fat character who is very much the main object of desire #a lot of it is manga/manhwa bc its easier to get into something kinda dumb if its bolstered by having nice visuals rather than like a book #or whatever where you have to slog through it with your imagination alone. even when reading 'dumb' art i try to engage it properly bc i #very sincerely believe that every story has some form of meaning if youre just willing to engage with it #(<- plot of orv btw for an ACTUALLY good story)#like i said the sexi manga has surprisingly good worldbuilding. the toxic story the sexu manhwa was telling was earnestly fascinating.#idk! sorry i know you were just looking for the name but while i do consider it just kinda silly its broader impact has a deep effect on me #this is why i love orv❤️ please read orv. while i already had these fond feelings prior to reading orv it really cemented it for me.#oh and i read romance novels sometimes. i like stuff thats cute and silly! idk. youve been on my blog you can see my icon this isnt news.

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800-dick-pics · 11 months

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when i see thin and/or untrained tightlacers im like 😖😖😖😖😖😖 bro a corset is 1. not susposed to hurt and if it does it doesnt fit size wise or shape wise and 2. YOU SHOULD NOT BE TIGHTLACING FOR AN 8HR FAIRE!

not everyone needs to have a crazy reduction esp if your body isnt able or used to it.

#me #personal #vent #i know many people do not personally care abt corsets and are weird abt them #but like.....the only ppl i know who can tightlace are fat folks who are able to get a 4-8 inch waist reduction and trained peoples #tightlacing is not something you need to do for a faire or cosplay or whatever #esp if you are thin like theres not much reduction u can get so dont try to keep sizing down #im fat and that gives me the ability to have that crazy dramatic reduction and thats not possible for everyone #i wish ppl knew more abt lingerie and undergarments !!!#bc any good corset maker is going to tell you EXACTLY how much your body specifically can reduce #some ppl are stiff thin and dense and dont reduce much at all and then theres me where my corseted waist is 10 inches smaller than normal #a corset is a lot of things but it shouldn't hurt you or make u feel bad for not looking curvy or whatever #theyre highly structured garments which can be used for fashion n fun but also back and breast support

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charliespringverse · 4 months

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anyways i'm enjoying the pjo series but i do think that the god of war & his children should be built less like dehydrated marvel muscle shows and more like contestants in a strongman competition . be nice to see some fat people on my screen once in a while idk

#not gnna tag this w anything directly related to the series bc i do not have the emotional energy to debate this #but idk man it'd be nice if smth with such otherwise great & diverse casting didn't sem like fat ppl are never allowed to exist #i got so excited when i saw a camp halfblood resident in a wheelchair !! it made me feel so happy !!#but then the recognition that ppl r only allowed to be diverse when theyre hot & slim is a bit of a hut punch idk #it's taken me a rlly fuckin long time to accept my body n recognise that fatness isn't the enemy #n i think that realisation might've come a fuck of a lot quicker if id seen more fat ppl in media who weren't there for comic relief or pity #like i'll be so real . watching world's strongest man w liv did more for my body image issues than Literaöly Anything Else #bc recognising that body fat and size and heft is actually a Good And Useful Quality did wonders #i think ares should look more like tom stoltman anf less like chris hemsworth ok thanks cool bye #jay screams into the void

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br1ghtestlight · 11 months

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one good thing abt growing up autistic is that bodyshaming and beauty standards just did not work on me. ppl talking negatively abt acne, not wearing makeup, body hair, being fat etc just went in one ear out the other

#there is nothing abt a person that could make them unattractive to me idgaf #body hair acne pimples wrinkles fat skin color etc #i understand why ppl feel insecure about this stuff obvs but like i dont care!!!! everyone is beautiful bcuz they are people #they have a unique body that is SO fucking cool #i love how unique everybody is and how they look its only a good thing if people look different #idk maybe its the artist in me #txt

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edalynn · 2 years

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#i like desperately want to rant somewhere other than just to slog and fox #and just do it in a tag post ig bc I don’t want to be annoying and beat a dead horse #but everything abt the huntlow arguments from fans rubs me the wrong way #fandom seems to think Willow is this happy go lucky loving unconditionally without question sweetheart #when in reality she’s actually kind of a bitch #like to anyone outside of her immediate inner circle and sure she wasn’t confident at the start of the series but she was still kinda #self absorbed ie was a jerk to king in the carnival ep had convinced Luz to disobey Eda multiple times (yet admonishes Gus when he does it?)#like I’m not saying she’s EVIL or BAD she just doesn’t have the highest empathy AND ALSO she’s a fucking badass too #so not some shy quiet girl like huntlow shippers pretend #also have seen ppl say she turned 15 and I’ve seen no canonical evidence to back that up unless I missed something but the age gap bothers m #also seen shippers say huntlow interracial rep is better and more needed than a main character interracial wlw ship #also abt it being good bc Willow is curvy and that exists in no other shows which 1. willows lack of confidence never came from her looks #but came from her abilities as a witch & 2. practically every modern cartoon has fat or curvy girls in love now this isn’t new #and finally it’s irks me that this is how everyone views it but in reality the only times she’s interacted with hunter were to use him for #her own gain. 1. starting a flyer derby team 2. saving Gus #she literally didnt care abt him being there at all until she was like oh bump let’s use him to find Gus like didn’t pay attention to him #at ALL. if anything IF hunter has a ‘confirmed crush’ I want it to be oh no sweetie ur experiencing friendship and admiration not love #and for everyone to get straightbaited lmao #not putting in tag bc I’m not THAT MEAN #and also no one try to “’convince me’ of anything bc u wont #taako talks

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fridaynight--saturdaymorning · 5 months

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You know what? Haven’t had the best day today. I ate some things that I know make me feel like shit and now I feel like shit. I went to volunteering and nobody talked to me the whole time. I haven’t achieved like I’ve wanted to today generally and I just feel bad. I’m trying to not hold it against myself. I really am trying my best. This post is actually me justifying today to myself and trying to put into actual words what I’m going to do tomorrow to make myself feel better. I’m just going to write off the rest of tonight. Today is beyond saving for me. Sure, it wasn’t a terrible day but I don’t actually like trying to cheer myself up or make things better a lot of the time. At this point I’m more than happy to just say today is a shit day but I’m going to make tomorrow better. Tomorrow I’m going to lie in. I’m going to have a shower and take as long as I want in it. I’m going to eat a good breakfast. I’m going to put on my really big warm hoodie and I’m going to try and do some psychology that’s due in on Friday, because if I do a couple of pages then I’ve done it and I don’t have to worry about it. I’m going to go into town and buy myself some toothpaste tabs and a couple nifty snacks (I’m going to buy some bread rolls bc I can get them packaging free and then feel really good about it :D) and then look around and if I see anything that looks nice I’ll take a picture and add it to my Christmas folder (oh my god I just realised the bread stall might be open in the market that would be REALLY GOOD. I need to treat myself to some fancy packaging free bread) so I can keep track of some nice things :))) I’m going to make tomorrow better goddamnit !!!!!!!!! I don’t want to let myself down when I’ve been doing so well lately

#Btw can we talk about the whole volunteering thing. They give me a really good job to do and I like it and I enjoy it but seriously like its #One of those situations idk if other ppl get this like I do but you can just feel it thick in the air and it’s not just because they’re not #Talking to me. Like I can tell they’re friends and I don’t know them but when I try to say anything there’s just…#Nothing lands because of the autism and it doesn’t help that the way I look creates a lot of assumptions that you can physically feel from #The way people act. Because I’m fat and masc presenting and monotone there’s very much a sense of ew. Like I’m this big scary dyke. But als #Like I’m incompetent because I haven’t been there long and some of them know more than me and nothing feels worse than being big and stupid #Then it feels like not only do people not like you but everyone is looking.#Plus Im like not sure if there classism involved because all the other volunteers that day go to the same fucking private school. I just #Cannot I should stop overanalysing their behaviour it’s doing nothing for me

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ruairy · 6 months

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#fuck working i wanna play fashion dreamer 🙄🙄🙄🙄#my muse is soooooooo cute i love them #(it's rua (pink hair edition) as always)#i do have some gripes with the game #the male fashion for starters #i dont like how u can only make femme twinks for male muses #the beards look ridiculous on them #u can't make fat muses the body types are just....sliding scale from skinny and short to skinny and tall lol #there is no story which is annoyign as there isn't a whole lot to do except style the same npcs over and over lol #(or other players if ur online)#i wish u could have a shop like style savvy u_u #i haven't unlocked much of anything yet but i. do wish i could make more goth coords.....not just goth lolita (but goth lolita is valid)#i just really wanted to make some of my ocs but theyre impossible lmao #but the range of fashion is otherwise sooooo good and im glad unlocking clothes doesn't solely require in game currency lmao #i imagine when the games been out longer there'd be so much more going on with the online community too as more ppl advance in the game 👀#i do however wish there qere more mini games u could win fashion items from isntead of just #two bingo machines for points lmao #the vibes of the game are otherwise immaculate tho 👍#i dont follow abyone online yet so idk if ppl can see ur eve log???? so its like ..atm i dont see the point of taking photos lmao 😭#also yesterday while i was playing like 5 diff npcs wanted to clone my outfit it was soooo funny

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tropicalscream · 6 months

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its good that people have enjoyed smaller tits and that not everyone with tits feels the need to be DDD minimum to feel worthy if attention

but this mentality needs to be more with dicks. The whole obsession with big dicks is rooted in so much bad shit from misogyny to racism and more. Its fine to have a preference but not when it excludes all others and you treat them as lesser for not having it

As a very fat trans woman i deal with this two-fold and im sure many others do as well. Our weight/size making us shoved into the DomTop corner but then mocked & belittled for having a dick thats smaller then average. Like what do expect weight gain, depression and hrt to do?

Cis dudes deal.with this too. and this mentality of what a dick is "supposed" to look like hurts our trans brothers as well

its this mentality of big = top = dom = proper

small = bttm = sub = embarrassing/gross

its fucked up and so many ppl perpetuate it. how many times do u see/hear ppl post about big dicks and etc etc but the only context for smaller ones is humiliation?

we all gotta get less fucked up about dicks

#sorry been on my mind for a while and unfortunately like many things in my life these rants come from lived experiences

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corvidshipping · 2 years

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not tw*tter artists already skinnyfying g3 dr*culaura. can i have one character that has my body type without ppl looking at them and immediately going “eh not good enough” and making them skinny as fuck

#its been like 2 weeks!#paperheart.txt #seriously it does not. make me feel good about myself.#like you can claim its your art style all you want but if you can only draw thin ppl with 0 body fat anywhere... you should question why.#im not gonna say like its harder for me to find characters like me than fat ppl. for sure.#but like. its pretty hard for me to find characters with such an exact replication of my body type. im kinda stout.#and i have very thick thighs and legs. and a very soft body in general. like i have a slight hourglass but im pretty soft #most characters that are thick like me have a very exaggerated hourglass and pretty hard edges. theyre not like. slightly chubby like i am.#and i finally see one who was my favorite character for ages that i related to the most which is fucking !!!!!!!! good lord!!!!!!!!#and ppl see her body type and are like 'ok well im gonna do what i want anyway'#like. i know this isnt targeting ME specifically. but dont you think thats gonna make ppl with that body type #feel like ppl dont want to see ppl who look like them. because thats how it makes me feel.#ask 2 tag

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vrc7 · 2 years

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damn. rtd dr who has wayyy more fatphobia than i remembered :/

#most of it didnt register when i was a kid other than the slitheen #but making the only fat characters in yr show all villains or characters that are looked down on isnt good man #not like moffat wasnt much better but i havent seen most of the 11th drs stuff in 5 years or more #anyway rtd dr who has so many more problems than ppl give it credit for #along w the rampant racism of course (not to downplay that cause My God)#man's gotta step up his game big time in the future #jposts #dw

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wonjns · 8 months

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How about some super hot, wet, steamy sex with SVT Mingyu at the sauna's or something 😩 He's just so big

hot & bothered — k.my drabble

♡ kim mingyu x male reader // nsfw

a/n. . . OK been getting lots... LOTS of reqs abt mingyu & this one acc sounded hot so i can no longer deny the ppl what they want !!

kim mingyu was seemingly everywhere,, and the fact that he’s your cocky ex is what made it insufferable for you.

it was unbearable — every bar, club, party, or social gathering you went to, he was there… down to even having the same gym membership as you.

you’d been trying to get back in shape over the summer with the new semester starting soon, and you had done a good job of avoiding the 6 foot adonis for weeks now — that is until you decided to take a celebratory trip to your gym’s sauna.

your first mistake was stepping inside without checking through the fogged glass beforehand, and your second mistake was not leaving as soon as your eyes landed on the huge mass of a man sitting directly across from the entrance, long arms stretched out among the bench backs and tan skin practically illuminating the room.

mingyu eyed you with a silent smirk as you stood there gawking at him, nearly naked with nothing but a towel wrapped around his waist.

he was manspread to his heart’s content, drops of sweat rolling down his broad exposed chest, just begging to be licked up.

he had clearly been working hard, and must’ve just finished a demanding day in the weight room since his muscles were visibly much more bulked than you remembered seeing him a month prior. his bulging biceps made you shift uncomfortably, feeling yourself already growing hard at the sight.

mingyu’s fangy grin only grew when he watched you nervously swallow, eyes drinking in even more of his large form. the sweat on his chiseled abs reflected off the dim light and ignited you with memories of your tongue running up and down them in the past. you could still feel his perked nipples on that buff chest of his beneath your palms.

the sauna smelt like musk — his musk. the kind that turned you on during the days when he would come back into the house exhausted after mowing the lawn, letting you suck him off as a form of gratitude.

speaking of, one look at the humongous mountain of a dick print beneath his towel had you stifling a whimper, the bulge serving as a daunting reminder of how fat his cock really is.

every ounce of your instincts pleaded for you to leave, but you could only draw closer to him while he eyed your half-naked body as well, as if you were under a spell. back when you were dating, mingyu always knew how to smooth talk you into his sheets. he simply understood what you responded to and how to get you hot and bothered.

the time gap of when you last saw him was evident in your inability to resist him, since only a few sly remarks and the singular action of running his large hand through his damp hair was all it took for you to lock the sauna door and pounce on him.

you grinded atop of his lap like a needy animal, moaning as he smashed your lips together and wasted no time in tasting you. your desperate hands roamed the vass expanse of his moist, smooth skin and muscular back, groaning into his mouth as you rolled your hips over his towel-covered erection.

you knew you couldn’t take much more when his wet kisses lowered to your neck, mingyu hungrily sucking marks into your skin. oh how you missed that thick tongue laving all over your collarbones while his huge hands gripped you by the waist.

you threw your head back, tangling your fingers in his wet curls. you hated his man, yet he had you in a pool of euphoria without even moving from his spot on the bench.

without ceasing your grinding for a second, you pushed him back before smoothing your palms down his sweaty, melanated chest. the haze took over your mind while you leaned down to latch your lips onto his taut nipples. he threw his head back when you started sucking harshly, the deep moans he released causing your cock to twitch as it leaked precum.

soon you were shamelessly begging him to take the towel off, desperate for just one last good fuck. and he wasn’t even thinking about denying you of it.

you were both stripped down in seconds, both towels long forgotten on the steamy floor as your sweaty bodies collided. he devoured your mouth one more while lifting you up easily, before sinking you down on that monster cock you had never gotten use to. you began bouncing on his lap, weakly gripping his strong rounded shoulders when he pulled you tighter - feeling your leaky cock start to rub against his sculpted abs.

the heat of the room had your body more slick and mind more dizzy than ever. once he took the perfect opportunity to then suck on your nipples (which he remembered to always have been sensitive), you were climaxing in seconds - whining as you shot ropes of white all over his buff chest. seconds later he emptied his load into you.

you were panting, legs worn and trembling like you had just ran a marathon; but granted, how couldn’t you feel that way after having steamy public sex with the tall, dark hunk that was kim mingyu.

before you left, you told him that would never happen again — you both knew you were lying.

#kpop x male reader #mingyu x male reader #seventeen x male reader #seventeen smut #kpop smut #male reader smut #svt hard hours #svt hard thoughts #mingyu smut #mingyu x reader #seventeen x reader #kim mingyu

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doobledabbadoo · 8 months

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Hii! You fucking ate with the TDI redesigns and it wanted to know if you'd make a guide as to how you mimicked the TDI style?

hihi !! tysm !! glad a lot of ppl like em !!

as for the style guide, i am far from an expert at replicating art styles, but having a neo-UPA inspired art style really made this easier for me, even if i did struggle on getting used to some design choices.

DISCLAIMER: I do not condone tracing over other people’s artwork to claim as your own final product. I only trace the shapes from the total drama characters to break down and analyze the art style for educational purposes.

IN GENERAL

total drama’s art style is heavily stylized and takes inspiration from clone high and many UPA-inspired cartoons in the late 90’s to early 2000’s. it uses very thick and bold outlines to define its characters and their individual shape language. a lot of designs use a variety of sharp angles, straight lines, and curved arcs to achieve a balanced character design that works in the total drama universe.

because the shape language is very geometric and simple, it’s surprisingly easy to recreate the total drama art style & reimagine some of your favorite characters in the universe!

BODY TYPES: THE “TYPICAL” WOMAN

a lot of the women in the show follow this base, even more than the “typical” male body type. compared to the men, the women of total drama have cat-like eyes, stylized lips, skinny necks, an hour-glass figure, longer and thicker legs, and pointy fingers. head shapes & features may vary depending on character and/or ethnicity. not all women in the show look like this, though! there’s a decent handful of women with very unique body types, such as beth, macarthur, & emma from the 2023 reboot! it also helps to reference characters from different seasons to get a better idea of the shape language in the show’s universe!

BODY TYPES: THE “TYPICAL” MAN

the “typical” body type for men isn’t as well defined as it is for the “typical” woman, so there aren’t as many examples of what defines the “typical” male body type. However, based on the handful of characters we collected, we can determine that the “typical” male body type in total drama is top-heavy. compared to the women, many of the men have broad chests and shoulders, thicker and longer arms, thicker necks, thinner waists and hips, and shorter, thinner legs. they have flatter, more boxy fingers comoared to the pointy fingers the women have. head shapes and features may vary depending on character and/or ethnicity.

BODY TYPES: THE PLUS SIZED WOMAN

plus-sized women follow some of the same rules & principles as the “typical” woman does, from more cat-like eyes to sharper fingers however, in contrast to the more common body type, these woman have much thicker body proportions and use rounder, smoother lines to emphasize either fat or muscle. head shapes and other features may vary depending on the character and/or ethnicity.

BODY TYPES: THE PLUS SIZED MAN

there’s a pretty good variety when it comes to drawing plus-sized men. while some of them, like ripper, follow some similar principles to the “typical” man, others offer a new, unique design base to work with. their features are generally rounder and wider to emphasize their weight. head shapes & other features may vary depending on character and/or ethnicity.

BODY TYPES: THE LANKY MAN

unlike the “typical” man, the lankier men don’t usually have the same broad shoulders and chest. their limbs are much thinner, & they sometimes don’t have any pronounced calves. it’s more common for the lankier men to have their feet facing in the same direction as opposed to the other, though the latter isn’t an uncommon design desicion either. head shapes and other festures vary depending on the character and/or ethnicity.

BODY TYPES: THE BEEFY MAN

Of all the body types presented to the male characters, this one is the closest and most similar to the “typical” male body type. the difference is that the broadness of the shoulders and chest are exaggerated more, and the shape of the arms can vary between being wider to having more lumps. head shapes and other features may vary depending in character and/or ethnicity.

HAIR STYLES

a hairstyle can tell people a lot about a character. theres a lot of different ways to draw hair on characters, though in general, the appeal to total drama’s art style would be the simplicity and angularity in its shape language and character designs, so you don’t have to give your character thousands of spiky hair strands to make them appealing.

im not good at explaining how i replicate art styles so i really hope these help!!! also im sorry this ask took forever to compile lol i just wanted an excuse to study the shows art style more. heres another helpful video to help understand the process of character design !!

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i also recommend checking out harry gold’s channel. he does a lot of art style replication videos & this one explains art style replication exceptionally well!

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tysm for ur ask & tysm for ur patience!!

#dooble moment #idk ask dooble #my art #total drama #long post #reference #hhhhhhgh i really hope this helps #i struggled to communcate this for a while & college is a nightmare when it comes to finding freetime #anyways #more total drama stuff WHEEEEEEEE!!!#art tips #art reference

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cripple-council · 5 months

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@mundymae gave some great tips on this post about showering while physically disabled, here are some that i can think of rn! (some might be on the other list but i’m too lazy to double check lmao)

1. grab bars!!! great for ppl with balance issues and ppl who easily faint

2. low water temp, hot showers (especially with the door closed) can make u feel faint and also relaxes ur body, making it easier to dislocate/sublux shit

3. shower chair/shower table/changing table, shower chairs are great for ppl with chronic pain, ppl who can’t stand for a long time, ppl who faint easily etc. shower tables / changing tables are rarely mentioned, but are great for ppl who are severely mobility impaired who can’t use regular shower chairs/stools. there are also shower tables that function as bathtubs, which sadly is a luxury many times when u are severely disabled.

4. hand held shower heads, they are easier to use especially while sitting down, so u can make sure u clean yourself as much as possible. personal hygiene is difficult with the other ones that u can’t hold in ur hand, bc u can’t easily clean ur genitals and shit like that.

5. bring something cold to drink, water or those liquid iv’s or sport drinks, those can be very useful especially if u have hot water.

6. anti slip mats, these are great in showers AND bathtubs. what they’re for is pretty obvious based on its name, but when u are physically disabled (and these are great for ppl who aren’t as well) it is EASY to slip when loosing ur balance, when ur light headed or feel faint.

7. if it is possible for you i recommend those things/barriers on the floor that keep water from going everywhere, bc again, it is very easy to slip when getting out of the shower.

8. keep your phone close if you live alone or are alone when showering, and if possible, do not lock the bathroom door. if you have an emergency it is super important to be able to get help quickly and easily. if you live alone, it can be good to give a friend or family member your house/apartment key so they can help you. this has saved me many times after falling in general and not being able to get up by myself.

9. keep your mobility aids and disability aids close so you can use them after showering, if you use braces or compression socks it can be good to get to them quickly.

10. something i like to do is getting clean underwear and clothes out before showering so i can get dressed easily without having to dig out a bunch of clothes after showering when i’m exhausted.

11. sponges, sponges, sponges!!! especially on sticks. they are amazing when u can’t reach everywhere yourself.

12. if you are exhausted or in pain or whatever but really need to shower, only clean the most crucial areas. arm pits, skin folds, genitals, ass, where ever shit gets nasty. do not waste your energy on areas that aren’t absolutely necessary.

13. a tip for fellow fat disabled ppl, i mentioned it above but make sure to clean ur skin folds AND dry them properly after. if needed, powder or use creams. skin folds can easily get nasty with fungal infections and it hurts, it smells, and it’s not pleasant. areas to look out for: arm pits, under breasts, under stomach, groin and between toes.

14. keep everything u use to clean urself close, shampoo, conditioner, soap and whatever else u use. i have everything on a shelf right in front of me, i do not need to bend over or stretch to reach anything.

15. if your bathroom has a window it can be nice to open it to get some fresh air in there, otherwise i find that keeping the bathroom door open works fine too.

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