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I think something i don't often see in discussions about Futa's character is how, if you really take a second, he's kind of a people pleaser
He isn't so in a way like what Mikoto got going on, he does want to be around people of the same interests as him, and you wouldn't think he'd care about anything but authenticity if you stayed with the way he behaves on milgram. It is only when you think about him -in- those social circles he manages to get into that you can see him tweaking lol
I think the closest to see this that we have in milgram itself is that one interaction with Kotoko in which she attempts to debate how prisons respect human rights. Any other time he expressed his opinion/stance on things he was aggressive and maybe condescending to the rest because they disagreed with him, but the second someone agreed? Whole demeanor changed. Suddenly he didn't have much to say anymore and he just parroted Kotoko's words back at her. Why. If he has such a strong personality and mindset, why was someone validating his point enough to shut down his otherwise very firm attitude?
Futa doesn't go as far as to manufacture his every word for it to cause a positive reaction on others from the get go, but he does seek validation all the same. He braces himself for rejection by being loud and obnoxious and harsh until he sees a positive reaction and then is when he does a complete 180 to keep the other person in that place of validation. He is simultaneously completely bad at it though, but I never said he was good at people pleasing. Which connects back to what i've said before about his inability to fit in. Even when he thinks he's doing it right and he sees himself getting validation by people he cares about (in the case of his crime, by mimicking his friendgroup's method of "bringing justice" by calling out someone online, that same friendgroup following along and reinforcing the idea that he was doing it right), he ultimately fails anyway and loses it all over again.
In the end, he's just extremely socially awkward and anxious. It isn't in his nature to reach anyone else's expectations even if he genuinely wants to, so he'll either do what he can within his parameters (mold himself for his friendgroup of people he deems similar to him) or he'll avoid trying altogether because he knows he'll fail (what we see in milgram!)
It also shows how his yearn for a support system (t2 qna + mu's birthday timeline convo) isn't particularly new from his current circumstances, or why the only person he could think of when asked who he would want to see right now was his mom (who left so long ago he barely remembers her). He has just never truly had people that genuinely cared for him no matter what he tried to do to make himself likeable.
#and having this in mind i think i understand why he seems to be “giving in” to amane's beliefs#it isnt solely because of his current vulnerability#it isnt even just to find solace in religion#it is because amane offered him help. in a way shes validating him#and if believing in bullshit like salvation and god will make at least the elementary schooler talk to him sometimes#against being left alone with his thoughts and the voices in the walls#with the track record he has of slightly molding himself and mimicking others#yeahh#and honestly that only means itll backfire even worse! on Him!#in his own words#it is what it isSorry#but no yeah hes fucked. i dont think his religious arc is gonna make shit complicated for anyone else but him#but itll be AWFUL on him#milgram#fuuta kajiyama#fuuta milgram#character analysis#sorta kinda#as always
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Out of curiosity - do you have a set update schedule or a list of the ones your working on? I’m only asking because I love the mans best friend verse and keep waiting for an update but you seem to be updating a new story very frequently. So I’m just wondering when You plan on working on another installemt and what the plot isSorry if this is coming off rude I just really and curious because mans best friend verse is ma fav. I don’t want it to seem like I’m trying to tell you what to do. Thanks!
i don’t have a set update schedule currently. i’m back at university right now so time is tight and i don’t even really want to post a list of the fics I’m working on, old and new, because there will always be people who harass me to update things - as has been happening currently while i’ve been posting my ADOW olicity au, which is a fic i’ve been working on daily to help deal with stress and bad mental health. i will tell you that there is a man’s best friend update being worked on but i cant tell you which one. i don’t want people messaging me demanding i update it :(. i really appreciate the polite tone of your ask so thank you for that xx
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Getting value from select tag using flask
I'm new to Flask and I'm having trouble getting the value from my select tag. I have tried request.form['comp_select'] which returns a Bad Request. However, when I try using request.form.get('comp_select'), my return page returns a blank list "[]".
My html:
<form class="form-inline" action="{{ url_for('test') }}"> <div class="form-group"> <div class="input-group"> <span class="input-group-addon">Please select</span> <select name="comp_select" class="selectpicker form-control"> {% for o in data %} <option value="{{ o.name }}">{{ o.name }}</option> {% endfor %} </select> </div> <button type="submit" class="btn btn-default">Go</button> </div></form>
My app.py:
@app.route("/test" , methods=['GET', 'POST'])def test(): select = request.form.get('comp_select') return(str(select)) # just to see what select is
Sorry in advance if my formatting is off for the post (also new to Stack Overflow).
https://codehunter.cc/a/flask/getting-value-from-select-tag-using-flask
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Hc for kuroo getting help from oikawa and iwaizumi confessing to his crush who is friends with the two. Thank you so much! :)
idk what happened here, it’s 5am, sorry if it’s a mess, message me if you you want me to change anything
-creates a chat group with them. the first message is sent by oikawa after two hours waiting for something because kuroo has no freaking clue of what to say
-”so..” iwaizumi hasn’t even seen the group, but after oikawa insists he gets him to say something too
-finally kuroo dares to talk “i like y/n, i know you’re both friends of theirs, i hope this isn’t weird”
k:it probably is
k:the thing is
k:i have no fucking clue of how to ask them out and i was wondering if you could..you know
-kuroo can feel the smirk in oikawa’s face “so tetsu-chan is asking for advise” he teases
-k:shut up and just answer
-then is iwaizumi who is typing
-and he keeps typing
kuroo is getting impatient
-i: i think you should just be direct
-o:iwa-chan, you literally spent a whole minuto writing that piece of shit
i:i’m going to kill you while you sleep
o:good to know
k:guys
o:right right, i think so too!
k:but what if they feel unconfortable
o:they’re probably going to feel awkward
k: why thanks
i:they like you too
k:what the fuck iwaizumi
i:they do
k:do they?
o:do they????
i: you already knew, you were the one who told me you idiot
o: no way
i: i’m going to kill you
o:love you too, iwa-chan
k:guys
o: right right
i: so just, yeah, go for it
k:fuck
k:okay thanks guys
*kuroo left the chat*
o:…
o: what a nice person iwa-chan
i:it’s going to be a fucking disaster
o: i know
this sucksss idek what this issorry
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plotting reference --- ! ( @marxposa )
survivingpetals okay but she's gonna feel sO bad for... being Suspicious abt whether or not jaewook's a cop
marxposaTHATS SO CUTE but tbh jaewook doesn't care at all, he thought nothing of it he probably gets it all the time LOL
survivingpetalsshe's just going to feel guilty and pout and... " i m sorry what can i dO" n buys him a coffee or a bagel or sOmething? then the next day he gets to work and there's a lil terrarium on his desk with a thank u card and her phone number
marxposaTHATS SO CUTE OMG
hes gonna be so weak for it LOL
DAMN I THOUGHT I HAD REPLIED TO THE PARA ALREADY but i'm about halfway through it my bad omg
survivingpetalsthe letter will be written with like... a glittery gel pen n have hearts and smiley faces on it ? and just a ps... u can text me whenever!!! i have no life!!!
survivingpetalsand omg you're fine!!! no worries!!!
marxposaTHATS SO CUTE WTFalso jaewook texts like an old man
proper punctuation and types whole paragraphs at a time LOL
survivingpetalsomg that will just... make sunny Smitten and just love it
even more smitten bc she already is lbr
survivingpetalsok so the Height gap is huge but... how big is their age gap ?
marxposaJAEWOOK IS TOO OKshes just too sweet and charming and adorable
survivingpetalstheir age gap is 8 years omg
marxposaOMGit issorry i didnt answer, your msg didn't come through til just now LOL
but YEESS
AGE GAP AND HEIGHT GAP
survivingpetalssunny wouldn't care though she'd just disregard their age difference and just... be so hype around him and whenever they started dating she'd just hold his hand everywhere n stop by the police station and just introduce herself to everyone "hi, im sunny, jaewook's girlfriend" with... LITERAL HEART EYES
survivingpetalsand sunny getting in trouble like.. " how was... I SUPPOSED to know he was going to try n rob me? he just wanted me to show him where the alley dumpster was”
marxposa OH MY GOD WHY IS SHE LIKE THIS
marxposahes gonna show her off so muchand be so protective
survivingpetalshim talking to someone she's never met and ? she just comes up and wraps her arms around him and puts her head against her chest n "hello hi i'm sunny, jaewook's girlfriend ! how are you?"
survivingpetalsshe doesn't get... Jealous per say ? she just... gets insecure that someone will want someone more Experienced than her ? so she butts in a lot
survivingpetalsand sunny @ someone trying to rob her store: excuse Me but my boyfriend is a cop so please put the knife down ? please ? he's not... as nice as i am so you might wanna do that before the cops get here bc i do have a panic button n i hit it"
marxposaHAHA THATS SO CUTE WTCFSHES SO CUTE
dude we have so much potential for angst w these two as well
sunny getting robbed
jaewook getting hurt on the job
marxposaomfg
survivingpetalssunny not finding out bc she's not an emergency contact and doesn't know until she's watching the news n it mentions smth about a cop getting shot or stabbed? and she calls his sergeant in tEars? and gets so Worried
marxposaoh my gODhe wouldn't call her eitherbc he wouldn't want her to worry
survivingpetalsit could be 100% superficial or just something small but sunny would show up at the hospital crying like " I thought in was gonna loose u!!! Why are you being reckless" meanwhile shes climbing to lay with him n have her arms wrapped around him n just be sniffly because she hasn't stopped crying since she found outoh my God sunny would be so scared
marxposajaewook would just melt oh my godand he'd hold her tightly and be like 'trust me, i've been reckless before, and this wasn't me being reckless. i'm a cop, sweetheart, this kind of thing happens' and he'd rub her back and kiss the top of her head and apologize and sldfnsodfnsf
survivingpetalsshe ! loves ! him !
marxposawhy is this so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
survivingpetalsgOd that would cause a lil sob and she'd hold onto him a little tighter because!!! he was being safe and still got hurt!!! n " can't u... wear those... suits the Dog trainers wear so they don't feel the bites ? like all the time? bc then you'll be safe" n then hide her face in her chest because!!! she doesn't wanna loose him
marxposaBB OMGand hes just melting bc shes just too fucKIN CUTE'those don't stop bullets, my love' and he's smiling bc wtf this girl is too precious and pure
marxposaalsowhat is their ship namei just thought 'your love could stop bullets' but its also super cheesy LMAO
survivingpetalsshe'd just be quiet for a little bit before looking up at him and leaning her chin on his chest like " can you... can you TRY and be more safe ? for me ? " but then furrow her eyebrows and " why... are you smiling ? this is scary jae... "and uhmmm
survivingpetalsi have no ideathat works it's cute too
marxposaTHEYRE SO CUTE SLDFNSOFN and jaewook just 'i'm used to this. i've been doing this for ten years. i'll be safe, i promise you. i have uto be here to protect you'slfnosdnfLETS GO WITH IT I LIKE IT
survivingpetalspouting and looking away and just... " but im not used to it... i've only been doing this a few months && i love you too much to lose you " n just talking into her chest bc she's embarrassedand just
headcanon that that's the first time sunny says i love u
okay pERFECT
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