Im going to rant and vent my feelings do not mind me
Sometimes i try my best to always stay either neutral or positive.
Despite whatever is happening
Because many times in the past all ive been told by people close and around me who have ended up leaving me or cutting me off with the excuse " i complain to much about my problems and family".
Sometimes i wonder if they ever stop to think that maybe its because i dont always have an outlet,someone to talk,to vent or rant to and express how im feeling
Or how ive been told even by my grandmother before she had passed that basically i did not deserve to cry or be frustrated even over little things that god forbid i told her my feelings were hurt or had been hurt by her or anyone.
And when i try to bottle up everything and keep it quiet and inside i end up becoming snappy,easily triggered and a bit temperamental and sometimes argue alot with my brother if he says something i dont like.
I guess ive always been expected to just give and give and be expected to meet others expectations,but most of my life ive realized ive failed to meet those expectations cause its put to much pressure.
Like for cooking,i love my mom and i adore her but because of the type of women in my family that im reminded"are so successful and independent" im expected to be like that too,because she doesn't want me to not make the same choices she did or not end up having a career and a job.
I love food but because im always being expected to like cooking and do it cause its expected of me ive come to hate the topic whenever its brought up,i cant come to like it because it just feel like a duty the way its shown to me.
Ive stopped drawing and having been having difficulty trying to revive my love for the past few years,i stopped at 17 and am now 22
For 4 years i havent drawn a full picture because i was in the mood or felt inspired,only because im being pushed to especially when others go" i miss how you used to get exicted of drawing,why dont you draw anymore?" Because alot has happened thats why.
So much has happened constantly in my life ive started to realize im loosing the love i had for fandoms,stuff,shows and other things because i havent had the chance to sit down and break down and properly sort my things and pick up the pieces.
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so. anyways. i have like six hours of work to do on my blog themes. not only for the one that disappeared but updating the rest of them and making themes for my new sideblogs. however it's monday, and i'm not gonna do that today.
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id love to know your dp opinions! youre like. the only one who gets it i think
omg anon the ego boost u just gave me with that statement.... like haha twirls my hair u think im the only one that gets it omgggg anyway Im not sure what opinions specifically the People would like to hear but ive shared alot of my opinions in my little personal tag, but just a warning i dont have like ANY opinions on stuff that doesnt involve york and zach but that MAY CHANGE... bc i am currently doing a 100% run of dp1 bc im a freak so im gonna actually do side quests instead of just running through the main story (which is what i usually do bc i wanna get to the ending bc the ending slaps so fucking hard ok sorry to all of the people that really like the dp1 npcs) (also thank u so much to the dp fanpage for being such a good resource 🙏 (but pls bring back the like conversations page sob i need to know what zach says to everyone without running around town for dayssss 😭😭😭))
But yes if anyone has any specific questions on my opinions i would 100% be willing to answer bc i have ALOT of them, some of them differ from main fanon opinion so im a biiiit scared to share <- is a coward, but i probably just wont main tag them lmao. unless its my opinons on how dp2 is so fucking bad dude i hate that game SO much and i am not afraid to say it lmao. maybe ill make a post about my dp2 remake idea bc i think my brain is huge imo
(also an opinion i havent rly shared but is one that is INTEGRAL to my enjoyment of dp1 is that i think the like 'york is a magical being actually not a DID alter <3' is stupid... i think it really undermines alot of emotions and also its just fun to have a protag with DID where its not demonized at all! plus the way YORK JUST CURES ZACHS CANCER IN DP2 IS SOOOO BADDDDD AUGHHHHHHH anyway.)
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