a LOT of kink content on tumblr is fantasy and does not reflect what kink should actually be like. it is totally ok to be turned on by these fantasies and it's good to incorporate them into your sex life in safe ways. however a lot of the hot hardcore kink scenarios that make it seem like everything was spontaneous are not necessarily lying to you, but they are leaving out the "before" part. kink requires a LOT of discussion and communication. you should not forsake this part of kink because you wanna get to sex immediately because the before and after of kink are just as important, if not more, than the during.

feeling a bit insecure so ykw. shout out to all the disabled kinky ppl out there!!

♡ disabled subs who need pillows or braces for joint support during sex <3

♡ disabled doms who rely more on verbal commands/general words than physical punishment bc of muscle weakness <3

♡ disabled kinksters who have to put a hold on aspects of kink bc their body is in too much of a flare up to cause additional damage <3

♡ disabled doms who rely on toys to avoid a flare up <3

♡ disabled ppl who need their disability prioritized during aftercare so they don’t end up in an energy deficit for days <3

♡ disabled ppl who prioritize their comfort and use mobility aides during/after sex how they need to in order to feel GOOD <33!!!!!

I love u all and im smooching u right on the forehead, your disability makes u no less sexy and worthy of mind blowing sex ♡ ♡ ♡

i heard you guys like boys in pain. well not to brag or anything but. my pain's chronic 😏

gotta keep my hands strong for a sweet prince <3

Shout out to all my fellow disabled freaks

May you find a partner who is patient and caring and more than willing to accommodate all your kinky needs🙏

Never forget that you are just as deserving of pleasure as anyone else, even if- especially if- your disability makes you need frequent breaks, you have a hard time/are unable to finish, you can't do positions most people can, or literally anything else. You are so hot and sexy and cool and i need you to remember that.

Shoutout to disabled babes who need to use accessibility aids during sex. Like sure, my wrist splints and knee brace aren't that 'sexy' looking, but I guarantee they'll help in my ability to fuck you senseless.

ID: A dark blue patch that depicts someone in a wheelchair getting head. It reads "Always help the disabled get ahead."

um . sweet gentle sex where they take care to not hurt you on days when you're already hurting. slow soft sex where they help to support your joints. light touches and massages over the places that ache. a sole focus on making you feel good when you don't feel good. no pressure no expectations just kind connection

hell yeah im noisy during sex *changes position, causing my knees and back to pop so loudly the sound reverberates across the room, making your eardrums pop and me pass out for 2 seconds*

there’s smt about autism 4 autism silly, low pressure sex that I love

like yeah we’re both feeling good and ur dick is inside me, but ALSO community is on in the background and abed said something funny, so obviously we gotta repeat it and laugh a little while I grind more on you <33

feeling safe enough to unmask during sex is truly unparalleled ♡

i love sexualising my disability. pushing a sub's legs further apart with my cane. having a good boy kneel in front of me and suck my cock while i sit in my wheelchair. being disabled is hot and i'm tired of pretending it's not!

@pipermoos was it this cane you were talking about?

kidnapping kink because i’m disabled and need to be taken care of and never needing to go places. kidnapping kink because i’m scared of asking for affection and want you to force it on me. kidnapping kink because i’m traumatized and want to be safe even though i never feel it. kidnapping kink because my anxiety never leaves me so might as well be scared of real things.

adults only

Got these cuties from an anon donor and I am in love! You know where to see more!

OF // fansly // Wishlist // help me fund my wheelchair

normalise making sex accessible to disabled people

normalise changing positions often to make it easier on joints, taking breaks as needed without it "ruining" the moment, and trying a few different things before finding something that works well for you

normalise using toys without it being "cheating", making the room a good sensory environment, and discussing what might be a problem so you can find solutions together

normalise using hand or thigh straps/harnesses for better control, propping yourself up on pillows/wedges because it's more supportive, and mobility aids being sexy and part of the fun

normalise disabled sex

talked about my wheelchair last night but my walker needs some love too

standing up and getting fucked from behind while I hold my walker for support, when I'm tired or in pain or my legs just give out you put the seat down and help me sit and then go right back to fucking me