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sprawca · 8 months

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very quick warm-up boy

#stopped using tablet for a month (1)#cannot use it anymore im sorry #altair ibn la'ahad #my brother came to my room #saw my drawing #laughed and left #is it the ac or is it my drawing :((#asassins creed #my art

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superbellsubways · 2 years

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Hi guys

#sorry. sorry #awful idea i came up with last night #started as a jokebut i dont know anymore #clippy #microsoft #gijinka #object head #digital art #doodle #im going to hell #shitpost #sort of #1k #2k #3k #4k #'he would not hate comic sans' U cannot use that font on a professional letter!!!!#virtual assistants

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3-aem · 3 days

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MY BRAINS NOT WORKING AND THE CUTE BOY I WORK WITH KEEPS CORRECTING MY GRAMMAR THIS IS SO AHAIWIAKSDHDGRRRRHRNE

#dhakaksdjs fuckdwkufeisfjsjajsueei #im using a translator and it keeps outputting 您 instead of 你 and he keeps calling it out like bro ur making it awkward #AND IM LIKE SORRY I CANT ACTUALLY WRITE IN THIS LANGUAGE IM REALLY DU M. BB #also he offered to take over the last part bc i was like hi its almost 9pm here and i literally cannot think anymore #like i am certain its a very easy last part my brain is just finished #i feel so bad bc i wanted to push this proj over the line #this company is so intense i am so baby i am so tired #hugging my cat and rubbing my gross face all over his gross body #me in vc trying to figure out how to say: it was broken earlier idk how it was fixed u saw it was broke tho right #but all that came out was: in the past it was….problematic… *20 yr silence*#before he awkwardly went: um its okay i dont think this is necessary also u have lint issues #and i was just like ya….i know 😭#its ambiguous to some of my teammates if i just dont understand them or if im fking dumb #its probably both im ngl #the blank stare i have on my face is first from trying to comprehend what the actual words they are saying mean #and then to comprehend what technical concept they are trying to convey #using like 50% of the information i managed to parse out #also im used to literally spending 30-40% of the working day talking smack #now i try to crack and joke and everyone is like three this isnt the time #three we are all gonna be hear past 9pm working this isnt the time

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obihoe · 6 months

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madara rlly seems like a bit of a personal curse on ohnoki i think sgsgsgsds like he's so. well not scared maybe but intimidated? by him? or maybe he IS scared, like he still remembers meeting him even as an old man. madara didnt even do anything back then, he just showed off a bit of his power and dropped a few mean-sounding lines. but it seems as if ohnoki was traumatized by this for life sfsgdgds like he's literally shown as the embodiment of an unconquerable wall from his perspective. like in connection w what his sensei taught him and now he's like 80 or 90 and he has to fight him again, this time for real. and madara BEATS his ass AND calls him an ugly old fuck who cant fight for shit and is cringe. LOL its like fate itself was like well youre not getting rid of this fucker. he'll die but he'll come back to life just to haunt u specifically

#ohnoki #madara #posts #poor ohnoki man im so sorry #adgsgdgsfds #i rlly like this scene tho where he thinks of the thing with the wall that his sensei taught him #and its put in connection w mdr and mdr seems so all-powerful #and scary #like his sensei was like 'smtimes there are obstacles/walls in ur way and u have to overcome them #u should never give up and stay strong. and conquer that wall' but he CANT #bc mdr is so strong ... without even using his full power #hehe #i rlly like that image ESPECIALLY in connection w the way mdr. i mean he's not happy abt this confrontation #and the way that it goes. he's unhappy w everything at this point #like ... something abt maybe u can read into this too how he's uncomfortable being so strong #or like his power. its a burden on him #having to use it is burdensome #being part of a society where u constantly have to measure ur power w others is burdensome #he wishes it would not be part of his life anymore. now that the village was founded. but it still is he can never escape it #he cannot ever escape constant conflict and having to rely on his strength all the time instead of diplomacy #... i mean. it is most likely the case that the point of this (mdr's) mission here WAS actually diplomacy #but mdr feels like there's no point in talking #he has given up already on talking #(not fully i guess. since he just intimidates and doesnt attack #but he still feels like this is the only way and it will stay that was always)#*that way

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littlemonarch · 25 days

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█▓▒░ BUSTED ░▒▓█

#dan egan #dan x jonah #danjonah #jonah ryan #jonah x dan #jonahdan #veep #jodan #(im using your tag mcclintcock!)#i actually cannot believe this is finally done #except it’s not really done #maybe I’ll go back to it eventually but I can’t look at this anymore for now #gotta do something else #and wrote a little ficlet to go along with it sorry #I need to go lie down and rest my eyes for a bit

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daily-linkclick · 7 months

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im gonna miss xixi every day until forever, lowkey want the og timeline to be restored so that she can live

oughgh... sometimes i delude myself into thinking she can still be alive through qiao ling NOT in the sense that her powers transferred to ql (i actually hate that idea) but in the sense that her soul transferred to ql but not in the intrusive way it's like now ql has a little tianxi ai who she can talk to . for fun

#link click #think of it like ql is piloting a mech and tianxi is on her overlay at all times #mech au.... but specifically with ql and tianxi #TIANXI DID NOT DESERVE ALL THAT!!! SHE LITERALLY SUFFERED FOR ALL H ER LIFE!! GIRL DID NOT DESERVE ANY OF THAT!!!!#i like how the narrative tried to make us feel bad for tianchen and like i do #but my god. my god why use your SISTER in your MURDERS. under the idea of HELPING HER.#SHES JUST MORE TRAUMATISED #ALSO HE DIDNT EVEN CRY FOR HER??????? IT JUST FULLY FELT LIKE SHE WAS USED FOR TIANCHENS CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT?!?!?!#bring back tianxi i cannot take this anymore SHE DESERVES TO LIVE !!!!!!#i have sooo many thoughts on s2 . but if i speak i will never stop speaking LMFAO #both good and bad things #but i overall still like the series so. very excited for the manhwa <3 #sorry op im just rambling in tags lol

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boimgfrog · 3 months

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buying my boyfriend conditioner and curl cream for his hair can only do so much when he insists on flattening his curls underneath a baseball hat every single day

#jay says a thing #wish i was kidding the only product he used on his hair b4 meeting me was fucking. mane & tail shampoo.#which he bought bcos it had a horse on it and he likes horses #walking him through the curly hair care section of walmart and gently explaining how to use leave-in conditioner like im talking 2 a child #he has really pretty hair when he actually takes care of it <3 he just doesnt know what to do for it #and im sorry i cannot continue 2 let him use 3-in-1 products anymore i cant do it #i think once his hair actually looks good and isnt frizzy he'll be less inclined 2 hide it beneath a hat. thats my theory.#boytoy tag

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quillkiller · 6 months

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omg im gonna be alone forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#stupidest post in the world im sorry i just had to get it out of my system agshdhsjsjfjdj #sick and tired of being in my divorced era fr #i used to date sooooooo much before my ex like i was a bit of a slut. and now i have NO energy #cannot find it within myself to ? try to date? are you KIDDING me #but i miss intimacy and sex and being held and kissing #STUPID POST!#i also have TRAUMA!!!!!!! because of my abusive ex #MOST UNCOMORTABLE THING IN THE WORLD KNOWING THAT RELATIONSHIP GENUINELY CHANGED ME AND LIKE. not for the better #it changed me for the WORSE #which is just SO FUCKING UNFAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????#anyway thats all #im divorced and single and i used to be fun and a little slutty and exciting and now in just. not anymore #now im just. traumatized and older and scared of relationships #scared of like. someone hurting me again HAHA #oh well #scared that im inherently bad and people want to hurt me on purpose #will delete later probably sorry this is stupid and embarrassing

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taminoarticles · 1 year

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— Tamino for Behind The Blinds, Issue 13 / Fall/Winter 2022 (x)

Tamino: The In-Between State

Antwerp, July 2022

Interview by MARTIN ONUFROWICZ Photography by ZEB DAEMEN Fashion by JONATHAN HUGUET

For Tamino, the title of his new album, Sahar, reflects his mindset while working on the record. “The literal meaning of the word is “just before dawn” and I think that perfectly captures the feeling of being in this in-between realm that I felt at the time,” explains the Belgian-Egyptian singer. Having catapulted him to fame in Belgium just after turning 20, Tamino’s debut album Amir also earned him fans from all over the globe, leading to non-stop touring for years. With instant popularity — and responsibility — at a young age, Tamino oscillates between adolescence and adulthood; this very in-between state being at the core of his latest record.

With Sahar, the musician continues to express the melancholy and vulnerability that became a signature of his artistic language. The key tool in creating the record was the Arabic lute known as the oud — an instrument that takes center stage in a ballad titled A Drop of Blood. “With this song, I wanted to accompany myself with the oud as the main instrument, just like my grandfather and father did in the past,” says Tamino. “It was very important for me to have at least one song like this on the album to honor the traditions of Egyptian and Arabic music.”

MARTIN ONUFROWICZ: Why did you decide to name your new album Sahar? What is the meaning that this title holds to you? TAMINO: The literal meaning of the word Sahar is ‘just before dawn’ and I think that perfectly captures the feeling of being in this in-between realm that I felt at the time of creating the album, and still feel a bit right now.

MO: Where is this feeling of being in an in-between state coming from? TAM: It has a lot to do with what my life has looked like in the last couple of years. I went from moving to Amsterdam to study, where I felt so out of place, to moving back to Belgium and my music career taking off, and starting to tour almost immediately for years. It felt a bit like tunnel vision — my life started to just revolve around one thing. I’m still very young, and feel like a child on so many levels, but I'm working very much like an adult.

MO: The album was written during the solitary times of the pandemic. How has that period affected you? TAM: I was always planning on having a break because my team saw that I was feeling a bit burned out. So when it came a bit earlier than expected, I was quite happy about it. That said, I always imagined that when I will have my rest, I will be able to integrate into the world again as a regular person who's not traveling all the time, but then that wasn't the case either because everyone was at home, and life as we knew it was on hold. I think that period has definitely contributed to that feeling of in-betweenness as well, and was also a very transformative and important time for me personally.

MO: You're starting touring again later this year. Having this perspective now, how are you going to try to avoid the burnout you had a couple of years ago? TAM: That was the one thing I kept saying to myself during the break, “I’m going to learn from this and take this zen feeling that I found into the busy life that awaits me again." Of course, I’m not sure how well I will do, but it definitely already affected how I approach work. For example, I’m now in New York for a couple of weeks and not just packing all the promotion stuff into one week because I thought, "I don't really have that much to do in July, so let me spend some time here and see what it’s like." I wanted to be here long enough to be able to ground myself, get to know some new people, have fun and be inspired.

MO: That sounds like a really good idea! What are your favorite places in the city so far? TAM: I’m staying in Williamsburg, which I really like. I also really enjoy the Lower East Side. I went to Central Park yesterday, which is always amazing. But I have yet to discover a bar or a restaurant that I really love — I’ll know when it will happen because I’m a creature of habit, so when I find it, I will want to return there every day. [Laughs.]

MO: Which of the songs on the album was the easiest to write and which one was the most challenging? TAM: The one that I wrote really fast was The Longing, the first song on the album. I first came up with the guitar-picking sound that I recorded on my phone and the next day while being in bed, I listened back to the recording and started humming the melody. Then, all of the verses came in one go! I was stunned because that rarely happens, so that was a very cool moment. A Drop of Blood was probably the song that was the biggest challenge for me because it was the one that I knew I wanted to write — all the other ones were improvised while I was trying out sounds with the guitar. With this song, I knew that I wanted to accompany myself with the oud as the main instrument, just like my grandfather and father did in the past. It was very important for me to have at least one song like this on the album [to honor] the traditions of Egyptian and [more broadly] Arabic music.

MO: Looking back, do you remember having a clear moment when you realized that music was something that you wanted to pursue as a career? TAM: Music was always something I did, but I never really thought about making a career out of it — I remember that while I was growing up, I never really worried about how l am going to make money later and I'm very thankful for that to my mom. We didn’t have a lot growing up — she was a single mom with three kids — but she never put pressure on us to earn a lot or anything like that. I do remember clearly writing my first song when I was fourteen and the feeling of ecstasy that I got from it — for me, it was one of the best feelings in the world and something I've been chasing ever since!

MO: What's a music album that changed your life? TAM: There’s been so many, but one that comes to mind immediately is one by Radiohead that I got when I was also around fourteen. I don’t think it was even a specific album, but rather The Best of Radiohead — I just remember being so inspired by their music when I first heard it. Now, my favorite record of theirs is In Rainbows.

MO: That's so cool! It must be a totally dream-come-true situation then for you to now be able to work with Colin Greenwood [one of Radiohead's band members] — I saw that you collaborated with him for Sahar. TAM: Yeah, it's amazing! It sometimes still feels so surreal when I think about it, but now, Colin has really become a friend to me — we have played a lot of concerts together and he did seven songs with me on the new record. He's a lovely person and it’s a dream to work with a musician of his caliber.

MO: How did you guys first meet? TAM: We had mutual friends in Antwerp — they took him to one of my shows and that’s how it started.

MO: Let’s end with a throwback question: who was the first musician you saw playing live and what impact did that make on you? TAM: It was Lenny Kravitz at Sportpaleis in Antwerp. Also, his song I’ll Be Waiting was the first song I deliberately learned by heart — I performed it at a school concert. I love Lenny, he's such a good performer!

#tamino #tamino amir #behind the blinds #article #interview #english #2022 #with photoshoot #original text #Huge thanks to taminodaily on twt and an anonymous source for sharing these photos!! :D #i can be at peace now #edit: HUGEE THANK YOU to zita @maneskinglows on twt for sending in these updated photos!!! theyre a bit clearer than the prev ones :))#also i was going to edit out the glare for all the photos but im sorry i cannot bear it anymore i had to edit out their thumb #and if i have to do any more cutting and pasting and warping and shifting and colour matching i'm going to lose my Mind #as it is i used the smudge tool to edit out the glare just dont look too closely thank you 🫶#maybe one day i'll come back to this and be more professional about it but umm until then

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soldier-poet-king · 9 months

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Literally beating back my brain with a stick. Why are you LIKE THIS. We resolved - or at least came to an uneasy tentative truce with - the absolute dogshit self esteem issues eons ago. Why are were BACK here fighting the having zero concept of personhood or self worth problems. Even /if/ my brain is right and I'm garbage bad non-person whos a burden and just manipulating ppl into caring abt me. Like even IF that's true. I can't self sacrifice and do Good when I'm obsessively navel gazing. Even if the fundamental belief at the core of my being is that I'm worthless, I gotta stop ACTIVELY thinking abt it BC I need to be DOING things and dragging myself thru hot coals for others, not just obsessing about how bad I am that I can't even do that. If I can't even do that what am I good for? What's the purpose of me at all?

AHHHHHHHHH

#franposting #this is moody whiny complaining sorry friends #i will be ok #i just need. to not think #hollow out myself until theres nothing left but duty and obligation to the good #until all the selfishness and solipsism and preoccupation with my own worthlessness is gone #until i stop wanting basic human things like comfort and goodness. thats not for me to want. its for me to provide outwards #i am forgetting to do good #and sure maybe positive self belief would be better. but im honestly unsure im capable of that. or even neutral #i just need to transformthe self disgust into action #stop moping start doing #its hard when im beyond exhausted every waking minute #but i have to try. have to learn to function with headaches and bone deep tiredness #i cannot live with my selfish comfort anymore #<i literally know being bored at work isnt helping #idle mind and no feeling of accomplishment #but what else am i to do. i have done. so much busywork #i have stretched out every task. I'm just . so bored #i need to be productive and useful to be good

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untitled-gem · 3 months

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recently got back into animal jam and literally all ive been doing is selling shit and playing return of the phantoms to get more stuff to sell. also i have a collection of gloves, pirate swords, worn blankets, and an almost complete collection of bows and arrows. if anyone who follows me happens to also be a jammer add me on SassyAndMe (<— acc i created in like 2012 btw)

#i used to be an animal jam blogger btw. if u even care #i also did pretty bad aj videos #i did a hey soul sister music video 😭 all of its deleted now tho even the blog. sad #for some reason tho someone DID recognize me in game at some point like omg okay #also when i got into minecraft in 2014 and started doing videos abt that under the name “SassyGaming Girl” someone commented on one of them #saying they missed the aj videos 😭#i almost wanna make another aj video but a. my youtube audience is NOT jammers #and b. i cannot record on the family computer in the living room where everyone hangs out. sorry #anyway it doesnt matter im not famous on that game even though i thought i was #also i have a username thats not allowed anymore bc of the capitalization. i think. they might have changed it lol

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bevydev · 4 months

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post i didnt save save me

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save me post i didnt save...

(cannot find post i saw this morning and didnt save to drafts, any help would be much appreciated 😭)

#in all seriousness i did see this comic (more like piece of art with how much style was put into the comic) about a silhouette figure #helping a crow that said it had lost its flock by placing the crow on their shoulder and (i think) saying that theyd be happy to guide it #until it found its flock again; then theres this artwork at the bottom of the comic with the silhouette holding a bloody sword #they were tall wore a cowboy hat and was completely covered in shadow with only white eyes and white sword with blood on it having any colo #i think they said other things at the end of the comic but i honesty cannot for the life of me remember what it couldve been #all i remember is the figure standing with the sword; the hilt in their hands the tip in the ground and the crow sitting on its shoulder #it should be from someone i follow since i dont follow tags like art comic or artwork so it wasnt a recommended post #and sorry to out myself as someone who uses the 'include likes' feature but since its nowhere it on my dashboard anymore #very very likely it mustve been a liked post instead of a reblogged one so theres no searching for it on other blogs either #so sorry to out myself as someone who uses that but bc a lot of time people will just like a piece of art to save it #even if its really cool instead of reblogging them and i would be none the wiser about it (to be fair im keeping my likes open from now on)#okay..im done; im gonna go make some spaghetti or something 😔

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stuck-in-the-ghost-zone · 1 year

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i love these ship name polls so mucj because you can TELL just by looking in the notes who claims to be in the fandom and hasnt actually watched the show. some of these are so obvious guys. pointing at the d.px.d/c fans like. you guys have not actually watched danny phantom and it shows

#IM SORRY. THIS IS MY FAVORITE THING EBER AND HAS BEEN FOR SO LONG. I CAN BE A LITTLE PRETENTIOUS ABOUT IT.#like. GUYS theyre literally called skulktech. if u are in the dp fandom and have not seen ultimate enemy dont even fukcjng TALK to me #thats the most important episode ever #AND I SAW SOMEONE CONFUSED OVER PHANTOM ROCKER.#thats #like #theres literally a rockstar ghost its SO easy to figure that one out. just from context clues #even the more ''obscure'' names. if u do not know pitch pearl. come on. i know that was mkre of a 2014 thing but COME ONNNNNNN #its just so deeply engrained into me that i cannot imagine not knowing them #the names of the CLASSIC ships. i know amethyst ocean fucking sucks as a name. but its the one thats like actually canon #guys i really wanna talk abt danny phantom can you tell.#i admit i was wrong about superfun but like FOR GOOD REASON. YOU HAVE SUPER DANNY AND FUN DANNY. WHY IS IT NOT CALLED SUPERFUN #<< if u are wondering btw. the actual name for them is heroic amusement. what the fuck.#the alt name is the great divide which is better bc it sounds cooler but COME ONNNN super fun was right there.#CAN I JUST SAY. I FUCKING HATE THAT AMETHYST OCEAN IS THE OFFICIAL NAME FOR DANNY AND SAM BECAUSE THE ALT NAME IS FAKEOUT MAKEOUT #AND THATS SOOOO MUCH BETTER. COME ONNNNN #THATS A JOKE THEY USE IN THE SHOW. COME ON.#im sorry im a dpxdc hater. i dont want to be. but its ALL i ever see in the tag anymore and im tireeddddd #im sure its good. im sure its really good. i can see it. i get it. but so many of u have not watched the show and thats just soooooooooo.#augh. let me be a little pretentious about dp. please #do not claim to know my boy if all u have ever seen of him is the fandom perception!!!!@#because a lot of the time!!! fanon danny is worse!!!!!! the fandom made him so. flat. like hes just an angst puppet now.#either that or Generic Superhero Boy.#like youve taken away all his personality....... i miss my boy #do u even know he loves space. do u even know he wrote an essay on the purpleback gorilla. do u even know he backwashes soda.#sorry...... i love him #BADGER CEREAL. LIKE. I HATE THAT AS A SHIP EBEN IF IT IS PLATONIC BUT LIKE. THE NAME. GUYS. ITS. LITERALLY IN THE FIRST EPISODE HES IN.#GUYS. I KNOW YOU ALL KNOW WHO VLAD IS. HOW HAVE YOU NOT SEEN BITTER REUNIONS.

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nat-20s · 1 year

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I don't want to sound dismissive because you're right and stories about adults are good, but that post about not relating to coming of age stories is so funny you just "came of age" like 6 years ago.

i definitely get where ur comin from anon but I didn't relate to coming age stories when i was """"coming of age""" either. I haven't even had a first love and i didn't start to understand my gender more until i was 23 skdfjkdflk which is why it's hilarious but also a little frustrating that ages like. 15-19 are supposed to be prime Discovering Yourself and Becoming Who You Are ages. most people are in a constant state of self discovery and becoming and i just find most coming of age stories uhhhh...kind of horseshit lol. I'm dunking on anyone that did find them relatable or did see themselves in them or value them but they r just. Not for me and never really have been even when I was the target age you know?

#replies #anon #'coming of age' we are ALWAYS coming of age you know? coming to know yourself in your 30s is still coming of age!!!#im not actually arguing with you personally anon this was a fun message and i get that like. yeah i cannot claim to be an Elder tm lol #but i think some people are misinterpreting that psot and are being like ugh how dare you maybe just stop reading YA??#and that NOT my fucking point. my fucking point is that like 75% of the shows and books that get recommended to me #(which jumps to like 90% if it's queer media :/) are about teens!!!#i don't want teenage stories and im sick of self discovery and first loves and fun adventures and cool space operas being #mostly starring teenagers as if only teenagers experience that stuff!!!#why are adults allowed to find new loves and passions and have a love triangle with a bad boy and their best friend if they so want #why are 40 somethings allowed to figure out their gender and sexuality!!!#THAT's what im complaining about im complaining that finding good Adult fiction that has some similar narrative beats to the imo best parts #common aspects of ya fiction is hard #where's the stories for those of us that didn't have first loves at 15 and haven't had first loves at 25 and are still figuring out things #tldr most high school/ya stories have some really cool elements that i don't think need to be exclusive to teenagers #extra tldr: stop telling me about fictional teens having sex i can not and will not fucking care anymore #SORRY FOR THE TAG RANT ANON YOU DIDN'T DESERVE THAT FEEL FREE TO IGNORE THIS LOL

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gontagokuhara · 6 months

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its very obvious when im in my era of only looking at my activity/my blog while posting vs when i actually look at my tl i realize

#actually doing smth with my theme pages (not my theme itself sorry i ride for annie noodle themes 4ever)#(also i cannot be bothered to take the time and make the design less. eye-strainy)#but YEAHHHHH i remember what im into and kinda how to use tumblr again #and also my info isnt 3+ years old in places anymore 🙏 so im fine with people actually looking at/following me again

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tiredyke · 2 years

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rant, lesbophobia, misogyny mention

if you’re a man or non-lesbian shut up about lesbianism. honestly. i am so sick of you speaking over us all the time trying to define lesbianism and decide who gets included in lesbianism. seriously point blank shut your mouth. i am incredibly over seeing posts about lesbianism, the history of lesbians, and what it means to be a lesbian with thousands of notes only to find that they are entirely filled with non-lesbians debating and discoursing about us and our label. and almost every single one of these posts blatantly dehumanizes lesbians.

every time a lesbian speaks up on these posts you all will gather like cockroaches and tell them to shut up and call them “r/df/m” or “t/rf” just for saying, “hey this is wrong/harmful” or “i don’t think you guys should be having these discussions without us, without listening to us”. and it’s so obvious when you throw those words around without care for the weight they carry that you think lesbians are inherently heartless or evil and that we can’t be trusted to define ourselves since we’re just man hating dykes, and that you think transmisogyny is just a bargaining chip or a gotcha point you can use against us (which is transmisogynistic in itself).

this may come as a shock to you and hurt your feelings but conversations about lesbianism don’t concern you! like i am so so so SO tired of no one in this goddamn community listening to us and everyone uplifting/prioritizing non-lesbians in all discussions about us. i really couldn’t give a shit about what you have to say. maybe if things were different you could join the convo but lesbians are constantly getting pushed aside, talked over and drowned out in general, especially when it comes to lesbianism. it is so entitled and self-righteous to think non lesbians have any authority in lesbian discussions, and i can see your lesbophobia in the ways you talk about us like we’re not here. it’s exhausting. shut the hell up

(but i assume you stopped reading at “non-lesbian”).

#im sorry if this is worded horribly but i am just so filled with rage at how much and how frequently we get talked over #countless posts about lesbianism on here and the discussion is always centered around non-lesbians and men #most posts about lesbians come from non-lesbians. all of the discourse around the definition of lesbian comes from non-lesbians.#we literally cannot have our own discussions or community without y’all interjecting yourselves and talking over us #all of the discourse around men and lesbianism comes from transmisogynists and lesbophobes #and yes this absolutely includes trans men. in fact a lot of the most violently lesbophobic and misogynistic takes on here have been by #trans men #you are not exempt from this.#like i cannot express how angry it makes me to see someone spreading lesbophobic misinfo have a bisexual or mlm or aroace flag in their pfp #so fucking tone deaf and y’all are too busy cosplaying as Official Spokespeople of Lesbianism to see your transparent lesbophobia #idec anymore if i sound angry and irrational. i am having to fight tooth and nail to be heard in discussions about my sexuality that i don’t #even have any energy left to argue calmly. if you think lesbians are mean angry dykes and find yourself wondering #‘where all the nice ones went’ you drained our supply of niceness. you emptied our backup reserves with your bullshit. you don’t get to #complain that we’re too mean because it is 100% the result of your own actions. im out of fucks to give

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