i love taking care. i love being motherly. i love seeing kids happy with me. but i also may need to take some time. to slip out of cg space some days. to take a long shower and breathe. it's okay. it's fine. we're humans. you're human. cgs, take your time when needed. we're not here to become the second bad parental figure and being mentally exhausted is not the right way to care. we should be fully stable and healthy before trying to take care of someone, so care for yourself. you're not being selfish. you're actually caring for your little & yourself. being 100% sure you'll handle everything with the bestest state of mind is the way. take your time, care for yourself, say out loud that you need a break before healing.

best wishes,

nana. ♡

caregiver wanda maximoff

friendly reminder that asks are open if you wanna request a specific textpost or if you just wanna tell me about you day 💜

i made matching pfps for me and my caregiver!! <3

𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐒𝐥𝐢𝐩 ✫彡

SFW INTERACTIONS ONLY.

-> Start by age dreaming

-> Babytalk/babble to yourself as you’re doing things

-> Have a babysitter, caregiver or friend chat with you, and have them treat you as if you were small

-> Watch a children’s show or movie

-> Color with crayons or markers

-> Play pretend with stuffies or toys

-> Wear oversized clothes to feel tinier

-> Listen to a story (you can have a caregiver read one, or find one on YouTube)

-> Create and decorate a journal just for your little space

-> Set aside a slot of time just for regressing, and not focusing on big kid responsibilities

☁︎︎

to people who regress to escape daily life,

or as a response to trauma,

or to heal your inner child,

or to cope with mental or physical illness,

or to make up for a lost childhood,

or to feel safe,

or just for fun…

your regression is valid. 🫶

༘˚⋆ day 8 of agere moodboards: ideal playroom ! ૮꒰˶´ ˘ `˶꒱ა ₊˚ෆ 🧸ྀི

꒰ ˚｡⋆୨୧ my ideal playroom would be full of calico critters, sanrio stuff, baby toys, and have comfy blankets everywhere !!!! 🧁 ₊˚⊹ ꒱

♡~ Sleepy Stimboard ~♡

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ This one was difficult but i think it came out cute!

Pastel Moodboard !

✧ plushies & party!

hi, little one! are we going to have a tea party? oh, that's awesome! your favorite plushies are right here with mama to have a lot of fun. you're my lovely host, aren't you? ♡

caregiver carol danvers moodboard | for my darling friend, @kinsys-blanketfort

I'd like to talk about something that's been on my mind a lot recently, and it's something that I've been meaning to bring up.

Littles! Stop taking advantage of CGs!

I'm tired of being taken advantage of by littles who only want someone to coo at them and say nice things and someone who they can dump their trauma on randomly (this is not in relation to my last post. I don't mind if people come to me for advice or for a place to vent, but I need them to ask first!). I want someone who wants a 3 dimensional relationship! Where we are friends first and then we move on to being in a agere relationship. But I get so many littles who claim to be looking for a caregiver, but they only ever want to talk while they are little, and aren't interested in taking it slow and building that very special relationship between carer and little.

I'm not some person who has infinite energy, I'm not some person who is a fanfic where I'm always ready to listen to your worries and anxieties, I'm not this flat, 1 dimensional person who can fit your fantasies of a cg.

I'm a human too, who wants a relationship with the littles I meet /p. Please, littles, please stop taking advantage of online cgs. We aren't your fictional story book that you can leave and come back when you feel like it. We have feelings too, and it's not fair that you play on our natural caring nature.

sense the easy agere recipes on the poll won! here it is. i hope you like them!

be careful when making these little one, and always clean up your mess!

Reminder to all littles ones that you are..

-> Worthy ♡︎

-> Loved ♡︎

-> Capable ♡︎

-> Cared about ♡︎

-> Important ♡︎

-> Valued ♡︎

-> Matter ♡︎

-> Smart ♡︎

-> Beautiful ♡︎

-> Enough ♡︎

Be kind to yourself. You deserve your love.

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teether pngs! all by the brand itzy ritzy 🍓