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i rbd it a while ago but that one post that's like "I'm not ignoring you I just have ADHD so you have to reach out first" or something has been bothering me. like I rbd it bc it's something that I struggle with but.. I've also been on the receiving end of it and I need everyone to understand. the feeling of not being wanted doesn't go away just bc you know. the exhaustion of having to put in all the effort in a relationship doesn't just. disappear. if you struggle with reaching out bc of ADHD, you can't be surprised when the person putting in all the effort in the relationship gets tired and leaves. set a reminder. make a note. do something. let the people in your life know that they are wanted there. don't just expect everyone else to do all the heavy lifting.
#i hate this new culture of 'i have adhd so it means i can not reach out to my friends and then be shocked when they are upset by it'#STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#you are not a victim in that scenario#hot take but if you actually cared about your friends you would put in some level of effort to maintain the friendship
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‘reader has a name’ no they don’t!!!! that is not a reader!!!! using second person pronouns will not change that!!!!
#˚୨୧⋆#‘it’s weird to write y/n or someone with no name’#… then don’t?#sorry the whole point of x reader is so the READER can imagine themselves in that spot#INCLUDING THEIR NAME!!!!!!!!#god this angers me so badly you don’t even know#same with those people who put oc fics under the x reader tag#STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#x reader#fanfic#discussion#i’m so hungry omf
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hey quick question... why am i (someone who never engages w true crime) being recommended content on youtube about christina grimmie’s murder? and also wtf? i guess 7 years is a long time for the internet but if you knew about christina grimmie before that happened, no it’s not. that news was fucking chilling and it’s never going to be normal and it feels so weird to make it like some retrospective true crime folklore. that feels really unnecessary to her legacy to just present her as a “murdered youtuber.” stop!!!!!!!
#the video's from two days ago & if you've been recommended the video too... listen. idk the creator of that video#so im not gonna critique them too harshly. and i KNOW the youtube game is about engagement and getting clicks#they didnt even put christina's name in the title. they refer to her simply as a murdered youtuber#stop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#am i being recommended this because i sometimes watch youtube drama/commentary? (i dont watch it as much as the algorithm wants me to)#(but yeah i do occasionally click on youtube retrospectives and keep up w a little scandal here and there... not so much)#(ive definitely tried to consume less of it over the years and i only have a few specific channels i really follow)#PLEASE dont reduce christina grimmie to 'murdered youtuber' i find that so offensive and distasteful#she was a really big legend on the platform in her lifetime and she did so much w her short life#seriously fuck that. call her her NAME and if you make videos about her in retrospect obviously you cant gloss over the tragedy#but you shouldnt make it the highlight of her story. seriously. SERIOUSLY!!!!!!#text post
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" solid valentine's, i give it an 11/10. are you free in an hour? "
#落ちる羽 :『 ᵃˢ ᵃ ʰᵉʳᵒ ; ᶤ ᶜᵃᶰ'ᵗ ˡᵒˢᵉ ᵗʰᵉ ᵗʳᵘˢᵗ ᵖᵉᵒᵖˡᵉ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᶤᶰ ᵐᵉ 』 - answered.#kasouu#SHBFBHFSAHGS#STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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lord the peasants are so loud today
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I hate the “open floor plan” that everyone is obsessed with in houses now. I want nooks and crannies and bizarre floor plans. I don’t need to be able to see what someone is doing on the other side of the house. I want places to hide and lurk and dwell in the shadows. I am the beast who awaits in the labyrinth
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verified ways to donate to gaza directly
Help a Palestinian family directly:
gazafunds.com - Donate directly to a Palestinian family in urgent need of evacuation, medical attention, rebuilding homes/businesses or more. Site run by Palestinians, all GFMs verified (full list here). Spotlights 1 stagnant GFM at a time. (*If you can't decide who/where to donate, just go to gazafunds.com & donate to the 1 GFM they show you!)
masterlist of 200+ verified Palestinian families' GFMs: Operation Olive Branch
Help provide tents: (*emergency as Rafah is being bombarded as we speak)
The Sameer Project: Currently providing tents & transport for families in Rafah who urgently need to evacuate to Deir Al Balah. Has a team on the ground in Gaza who have supplied tents to 1% of the displaced population in Rafah. Run by Palestinians. (paypal) (gfm)
@helpgazachildren: Currently helping Palestinians in a refugee camp in Rafah flee the Rafah invasion to Khan Younis. Funds go directly to Hussam, a Palestinian in Rafah who hosts a refugee camp. Funds will cover the cost of tents & transport fuel. Managed by a Palestinian @.fairuzfan. (gfm)
Food, cash & essentials:
Care for Gaza: Palestinian charity on the ground in Gaza distributing food, cash, medicine & other essentials to displaced families. Proof of their work found on their Twitter. (paypal) (gfm)
We Feed Gaza: Team of Palestinian volunteers in the heart of Gaza distributing food & water to 344+ families. More details & proof in their gfm. Vetted & promoted by LetsTalkPalestine. (gfm)
Direct Aid for Gaza: A Palestinian activist on the ground in Gaza distributing food, cash & other essential supplies to displaced families. Proof of their work found on their twitter. (paypal) (gfm)
Water (*only 2 weeks left to donate!):
Gaza Municipality's water campaign: The official Municipality of Gaza needs help rebuilding the water infrastructure in Gaza City to restore access to clean water & waste management services for the people of Gaza.
eSIMs:
guide to buy & send esims to gaza (highly needed, esim supply very low)
Crips for eSims for Gaza: If you don't know how to buy esims, don't have enough $ for an esim plan, or don't have the capacity to manage them (e.g. topping up regularly), you can donate any amt to this team of volunteers who pool funds to buy & maintain gaza esims regularly (see their financial accountability document).
Medical Aid:
Gaza Wound Care (urgent): Palestinian doctors in central Gaza treating injured/sick children & mothers in neglected displacement camps far from hospitals. Facing a severe shortage of medicines, medical equipment, and supplies. They need funds for their current campaign to battle infectious diseases in refugee camps. (paypal) (gogetfunding) (gfm)
international charities: Palestine Red Crescent Society, Palestine Children's Relief Fund, Medical Aid for Palestinians
#btw even $1 can help! small amts add up! if u cant donate pls share the links & consider organizing an event to raise funds online/irl#vetted the links alr but feel free to vet yourself. most of these I got from links vetted/shared by palestinians or even run by palestinian#in fact all in this list except Crips for Esims and PCRF and MAP are run by palestinians themselves#if you can't decide just go to gazafunds.com and donate to the 1 gfm they show you!#i also wanted to focus on the ones that are actually reaching gaza - ideally with a presence on the ground in gaza#big intl orgs' aid is still stopped at the border#donating to palestinian GFMs directly or to palestinian volunteers on the ground distributing food to fellow palestinians (eg CareForGaza)-#-is most reliable rn.#palestine#Palestine aid#is anyone is still seeing the original version of this post - check reblogs with comments to see my updated version
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tbh i think the funniest phenomena that's been happening in the last couple years is "youtuber, having gone too deep into the research hole, has been made an investigative journalist against their will"
#like im not gonna name names but i can think of at least 3 channels#where they stopped posting short form content and went#wait the patreon is paying my rent im no longer a slave to the algorithm gods#HELL YEAH TIME TO SPEND 5+ MONTHS PUTTING TOGETHER A 3+ HOUR VIDEO#and i eat that shit up every time
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I love Matilda because it's a story about a child who sees injustice around her and gets mad about it and questions why things aren't fair, and instead of the ending being that she learns how the world works and that life isn't fair, she catapults one of the adults who abused her out of a building with her mind
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I turn to Ares.
Thanks to Tyler Miles Lockett who allowed me to draw inspiration from his ARES piece for page 2! Look at his etsy page it's SICK
⚔️ If you want to read some queer retelling of arturian legends have a look at my webtoon
#greek mythology#ares#athena#greek gods#dont get me wrong it aint athena slander but it sure is ares praise#on some level at least#man justly accused of bad things deserves some mid praise more at 11#thank you romi for helping me with words though i duly noted you insisted on ares not being cautious rather than him not being careful#romi be like “i want him to care” and honestly good you should say it#also EPIC led to this and i just..... i want to draw some animatics man i just need infinite time now#my long lost love for greek myths just will never stop coming and they dont stop coming and they dont stop coming#i want some vulture design in here for ares but not sure about this one#kochei doodles
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#oh my god?????#txt#STOP FOLLOWING US!!! WE DONT POST LIKE THIS. WE POST JFK RPF#'blah hah hah and everyone clapped' don't you want to live in a world of beauty? with us?#‘why can’t i reblog this?’ Because trads started going He dodged a bullet in our notifications
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my family is fucking addicted to macgyvering and it's becoming a problem. every time something in this house breaks, instead of doing the sensible thing of replacing it or calling someone qualified to fix it, we all group around the offending object with a manic look in our eyes and everyone gets a try at fixing it while being cheered on or ridiculed by the rest.
it's a beautiful bonding activity, but the "creative" fixes have turned our house into a quasihaunted escape room like contraption where everything works, but only in the wonkiest of ways. you need a huge block of iron to turn on the stove. the oven only works if a specific clock is plugged in. the bread machine has a huge wood block just stapled to it that has become foundational to its function. sometimes when you use the toaster the doorbell rings. and that's just the kitchen.
it's all fun and games until you have guests over and you have to lay out the rules of the house like it's a fucking board game. welcome to the beautiful guest room. don't pull out the couch yourself you need a screwdriver for that, and that metal rod makes the lamp work so don't move it. it also made me a terrifying roommate in college, because it makes me think i can fix anything with enough hubris and a drill. you want to call the landlord about a leaky faucet? as if. one time my dad made me install a new power socket because we ran our of extension cords
#this post was inspired by me using a screwdriver to take the broiler off the wall because the warm water stopped working#while my dad went well there is only cables in there. who are we if we dont find our ways around some cables#damn right!!!!
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i cant stop thinking about a post by @possamble so i made this
inspired by this
based on a fanart by BugsGay on twitter
#help i cant stop unintentionally butchifying falin#im not sorry but#i just want you guys to know that it's unintentional#or is it???#wet hair makes her look more masc okay i cant help it#farcille#falin touden#marcille donato#dungeon meshi
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One of many pieces of information rarely discussed that has stuck with me in studying the Holocaust in a literacy class is that people who survived the death camps often did not survive starvation. It is very difficult for a severely malnourished body to recover from starvation. A severely malnourished body will struggle to process food at all, and many people die in the process of “refeeding.” This is called refeeding syndrome for this reason. Reintroducing food can and often is fatal without careful, medical guidance.
Starvation is one of the most common and effective forms of genocide. What makes it effective is that past a certain point, even if aid has been delivered, it is not enough to save someone from death by starvation. What also makes it effective is that withholding food is viewed as a passive consequence of political turmoil rather than an intentional act of violence among a people. You will see more people die from starvation in genocides across history because it is an effective way to kill many people without the use of state resources.
The starvation of Gaza is intentional. The United States and Israel may gesture that they are delivering or allowing aid into Gaza, but in reality they are active participants in the starvation of Gaza by destroying medical infrastructure, limiting the amount of aid “allowed” in, and blocking aid trucks from entering. Throwing food into Gaza by airdrop at this point in the genocide will not be enough without medical infrastructure to refeed a severely malnourished population. Many will die anyways. Many have already.
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last chance to evacuate
as you may know, israel has begun its ground operation in rafah. they dropped leaflets last night ordering people to evacuate, and bombing in east rafah has already begun.
The border is about to become unreachable.
Rafah is trapped.
We have literal hours until no-one, all the GoFundMe's you've scrolled past, all the people desperately begging on TikTok, will be able to escape.
Give now. Give whatever you can.
I am fundraising for the Odeh family, which is only 3k away from meeting its goal.
you will not get another chance.
GIVE HERE
#all eyes on rafah#free rafah#rafah#rafah under attack#operation olive branch#free palestine#free gaza#gaza strip#ceasefire now#stop the genocide#gaza genocide#palestine#gaza
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