Going off that one poll, I'd like to test a theory.

More reblogs = bigger sample size.

Also, I think follow up polls would be a good idea but tbh i might need input from actual disabled people for those ^^"

so fucking sick of the constant misgendering. it's exhausting. even from fellow queer people??????? who know me?????????? HELLO?????????????

Did you know that every time a trans person or a fat person wears a crop top, an angel gets gender reaffirming surgery and rebels against the heavenly hegemony? And also when a fat trans person wears a crop top, God loses another tooth?? It's true.

Got a $50 refund for pants that got lost in the mail and used it to buy a 3XL full-body rain jacket for the coming storm season since I will be commuting during 24/7 Flood Watch. Now just need boots and pants that fit

I know it's common but I sometimes feels very guilty about not being able to do certains things, and then I look at some graphics and notice that I'm in a demographic of people who most of the time dies/off themselves quite young and I'm like. Yeah. I'm surviving.

Send me asks, my brain is garbage tonight.

Dysphoria tips for trans men be like:

1. Be an asshole

2. Dress like shit

3. Don't be disbaled!!

I'm tired of these things being the reasons people give me that I don't pass -_-

transandrophobia only exists as a concept because of trans exclusive feminism ideals, It's a way to promise to others you're not a bad man. It doesn't break down how the concept of men being evil oppressors inherently will always include trans women and occasionally trans men if you're not a terf. These are ideas we need to let go of completely I think. We're just repackaging terf ideas and weaponising them against different people. You will always be a lesser woman or man if you a trans/intersex/gnc/sam sex attracted but we are infighting for approval to be the most correct and hurt ones.

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seeing a fellow nd trans person for therapy is just 🤌🏼

hey are you a terf ? you've been reblogging stuff from radfems ...

No, I'm not a terf, I support trans people 100%. Also terfs are uncomfortably cozy with the alt-right and that's uhhh... a whole other layer of awful.

But I think I may be following a secret terf? Tumblr keeps showing me these posts that are like "liked by someone you're following!" And I follow 4k people so I'm not like. Keeping track of anyone but my mutuals. And some of the posts tumblr shows me are obviously terfy which makes me go HMMMM but then some of them seem fine? So it's hard for me to tell the difference between "posts tumblr reccomends me that are normal and in line with the regular leftist and feminist things I'm into" vs like "posts tumblr reccomends me because they're liked by whatever secret terf I'm following and have suspicious undertones that aren't immediately obvious to me". I'm certainly not intentionally following any terfs or following anyone who publicly identifies as a terf* or puts terf shit on my dash but I'm apparently following someone who doesn't blog about terf shit but LIKES terf shit (and I think it might be a fandom blog so that makes it harder to identify) and then those likes show up on my dash and it's not always obvious that it's terf shit or from a radfem blog-- it's just a random posts from a url I don't know. And sometimes the posts themselves are fine on the initial read.

So pls let me know what the radfem blogs in question are so I can identify and remember them if they pop up on my dash again

*caveat that I've been on this website for 10+ years and follow 4,000+ people and it's theoretically possible that a blog I followed multiple years ago that I never see on my dash now publicly identifies as a terf, but I'm not gonna go through all 4k of my following to try and find out if any of them have become publicly shitty in a way that doesn't affect my dash in the years since I've followed them. People get unfollowed as they bring shitty views to my attention. Hence the conundrum with the undercover terf bc they don't post terf shit, they just like it.

i just exhibited SO much self-control you have no fucking idea

next year it will be A DECADE since Leelah Alcorn took her own life because the world was too hostile to her very existance. And now, it's probably MORE dangerous for her if she were alive now. Politicians are going to fucking kill us.

my unkillable drum head shirt means so much to me

life is really like. testing me the past 4-5 years and boy it's. getting to me. like what do you do when every time a small good thing that you fought tooth and nail for happens a bigger, worse, MORE time sensitive and MORE invasive and WORSE thing happens that directly voids the good thing??? what do you do?