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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 2 months

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Idk where that post is that said “anybody who tells you other trans people are the enemy is a Fed” but yeah, can we bring back that energy please?

Trans woman are not trans men’s oppressors, trans men are not trans women’s oppressors, nonbinary people are not responsible for transphobes not taking trans people seriously.

Talking about transmysogyny is not oppressive to trans men. Using the word transandrophobia is not inherently transmysogynistic. Talking about exorsexism is not erasing binary trans peoples struggles.

Like comon guys this is really basic stuff can we all agree on these things before moving on?

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 2 months

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Thank you so much for tagging me, this is amazing.

[ID: Text that says “🥳 Celebrate 🥳 Transgender Day of Visibility with @transgenderteensurvivalguide. Text is written over trans pride flag background]

Lee says:

This pinned post is a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there!

Your transition is up to you- we want to provide information on all your options so you can make an informed decision about what you want. If you find a resource useful, then use it! If you’re not interested in doing any of the things listed, then don’t!

Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Tucking

Chest area

Voice

Broad shoulders tips

Hair removal

Feminine walk

Curves

Waist training

Growing out your hair

Clothing

Makeup

Passing

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ

The types of surgery available

Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people

Pumping (Silicone injections)

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

Other:

Representation

What does it feel like to have a vagina?

What does it feel like to have breasts?

Transfeminine period dysphoria

Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms

Slipping into masculinity

Women’s restroom etiquette

Transfeminine people can breastfeed

Having sex or masturbating

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Binding FAQ

Clothing

Facial hair

Masculine makeup

Getting short hair / Masculine long hair

If you can’t start T

Lowering your voice

Packing and standing to pee

Passing as male

Not shaving legs

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Testosterone FAQ

Top surgery

Facial masculinization surgery

Vocal masculinization surgery

Body masculinization surgery

Hysterectomy and oophorectomy

Bottom surgery (genital surgery)

Other:

Periods and related things

Help! I need to see a gyno

Pumping

Masturbation and sex

Using the men’s bathroom

Hudson’s FTM Guide

Height dysphoria

Hip dysphoria

More resources:

What gender am I? A brief intro to questioning

Trans 101 for trans people

What is the transgender umbrella?

How do I choose a name?

How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?

Dysphoria info and tips page

Mental health coping page

Being trans in school

Non-binary resources

Resources to send allies/friends

A page to send to parents/guardians

Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns

Here is how to get hormones in the US

Here is how to get hormones in the UK

For Young Trans People in England

Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker

What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?

How to save money

How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing

I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?

Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria

Airports and traveling by plane

Gender neutral bathrooms

Getting insurance to cover your transition

Does transitioning help mental health?

Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization

Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder

Vaping prevalence

Summer tips

Being religious and LGBT

Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults)

Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish

Gender Variance Around the World Over Time

A map of gender-diverse cultures

American LGBT history by the National Parks Service

Crisis help: Suicide and crisis hotlines

Anyone can reblog, including allies!

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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trans boys of color I love you all so much. You’re not a freak or an aggressive monster or a mistake. I’m so sorry you have to deal with so much bullshit from people in your communities but you’re perfect and whole and you’re gonna be just fine.

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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Do not say 'SA' when you mean sexual assault. You are not nine years old. Not everyone knows that acronym. If you are not grown up enough to say the actual phrase, you are not grown up enough to talk about it at all. This is not tiktok, there is no algorithm waiting to attack you. And that stuff about 'oh survivors are TRIGGERED by the phrase s3xual @ss@ult so we have to censor it to protect them' is incredibly infantilizing. Be an adult and say what you mean.

??? When did I ever talk about this? ☠️ Y'all are so brave insulting people on anonymous, I don't care to remember ever talking about this in the first place and you're just yapping to yap lil bro.

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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I appreciate the tag!

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Favorite Color: Blue

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Looking forward to: Success and peace

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thank you so much for tagging me @cosmmicdancer :)

last song: bobby sox by green day, I think

favorite color: yellow or a yellowy orange

last movie/tv show: the OA

sweet/savoury/spicy: I need a perfect balance between sweet and savoury/spicy, because of the tism, but my wife would say its definitely sweet

last thing i googled: bahnstreik 2024 (hello fellow germans)

current obsession: moral panics and everything surrounding them

last book: currently reading stone butch blues

looking forward to: my wife getting their passport and moving in with me after almost 4 years of long distance <3

tags: @leaskisses444, @signforsign, @starsendlessly, and @amarettofemme and @sunkissedbutch, because we recently became mutuals and you seem like darlings :)

(absolutely no pressure to participate )

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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Real.

Having a few thoughts about period accurate transmasc Inosuke

A lot of my trans hcs come from just vibes and Inosuke to me is like. This man has never heard of gender roles or even gender his entire life bc he was raised in the woods and decided he was king one day. HE DOESN'T KNOW ANY DIFFERENT!!!!!!! AT ALL!!!!! He's inosuke!!!!! No shirts no binding top surgery/hrt doesn't exist at this point he's a bit like Yamato one piece tbh

A lot of the characters don't put it together that he's afab because why else would this person be Like That and run around shirtless. But because Taisho jpn had weird ideas about gender once a few of them realize they start acting Different and he's so confused LMAO

but eventually they're like "yeah he's a dude lol dw about it"

(Also. this is nonsexual. Bodies r normal and it's meant to be goofy.)

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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Hi :D

'Ello!

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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Printing this and hanging it up in the laundry room ☺

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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Real.

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 3 months

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This is too common.

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 4 months

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Plenty of parents raise kids to have a sense of power and treat them like they're not their own person to raise and be independent. And it's really disturbing.

the thing that really fucking gets me about the "but the irreversible changes!!" part of the "medically abuse transgender teens just in case" argument is you know damn fucking well nobody gives a shit about irreversible physical changes in children. you've been cutting off part of newborns penises for absolutely no reason, you pierce your 2 year old daughters ears even though she cries and it means nothing to her except pain just because you want to see her wear earrings.

its really about power and control, christian predators wanting to possess and control the bodies and minds of children. "im doing this to your body so i will like it better" "its my body until your 18 i get to humiliate and control you with it however i please because i own you"

nobody cares that not putting obviously trans youth on blockers or HRT in time is also irreversible. transgender men dont need to have top surgery scars. transgender women dont have to have adams apples. thats what really scares them, they dont give a shit about children, they just dont want to lose their targets.

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 4 months

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Another example of people in the trans community being passive on the struggles of trans men to throw a pity party for themselves and have the oppression olympics. Doing exactly what the TERFs want them to do- break the community apart and pit us against each other.

"terfs like trans men!" "trans men don't have to worry about terfs!"

Oh I'm sorry wasn't there a big thing throughout 2020-2022 where everyone was all like "little girls are mutilating their bodies!", "what happened to our lesbians!?", "scared women are pretending to be men.", and so on? Wasn't there a literal book that talked about trans men, talking about them as if they were innocent girls who were lied to and thus were destroying themselves because of it, saying how we needed to 'save them from the hypnotization!"? Weren't there numerous bloggers/youtubers who made commentary videos in reaction to Elliot Page coming out, and proceeded to rant and rave how we are losing such beautiful women and lesbians to the "transgender agena"? What about the time where it was trending to fakeclaim trans people, whom most of the targets of this were trans men? How about when people called trans men 'dykes' because "well they're not actual men, they're just confused lesbians!"?

Do I need to add more, or do you guys understand?

#transgender #trans #ftm #queer #lgbtq #lgbtqia #trans man #trans ftm #transmasc #nonbinary #transfem #trans woman #mtf #anti terf

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 4 months

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