see, and the amatonorms don't want you to realize this, but two people can do something together that one of them feels romantic feelings about and the other doesn't, and as long as they're both enjoying themselves and neither of them is pressuring the other to suppress their feelings, that's like, totally normal and okay and probably even good.

for example, we can cuddle in a way that maybe i feel is completely platonic and maybe you feel is a little romantic, and as long as you're not gonna start suggesting we "take our relationship to the next level" (whatever the fuck that means) and as long as I'm not sitting there telling you "don't catch feelings, we're only ever gonna be friends" (and of course it is fine for me to remind people that I'll probably only ever want to be their friend. the problem is in telling them that they have to feel a certain way about me too, when of course the only things that matter are how they treat me, that they feel good about how they treat me, and that they feel good about how i treat them), if we're both enjoying cuddling (even if we're enjoying it to different degrees or for different reasons) and it makes us both feel valued/cared for by the other, then cuddling is a good thing for us to do in our relationship.

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So the barbie movie happened 😭😭😭😭

Thank you to everyone who got me to 250 likes!

I know some of you are probably bots 😉😭 But as for the rest: thank you ❤️

The kids on TikTok think that just because he was a classic country singer, Johnny Cash was conservative??? My babies he covered a Nine Inch Nails song in his seventies.

Classic country singers (the majority of which came from poor roots) were always talking about how much The Man sucked because they were taking money from poor rural folk. You’re gonna tell me that’s conservative?? Get outta here.

I know that mental health care is better in Norway than a lot of other countries. But by god, can I please get the help that I need!? And like... as fast as I need it?

Gonna enjoy the hell out of Spooky Season

This year I’m gonna enjoy the hell out of Spooky Season! 🥹 Like... Fight me! (ง'̀-'́)ง 🎃 . . . Every June/July I start listening to my Halloween playlist. And life has been so stressfull the last years that I didn’t have the opportunity to enjoy October fully. This year I’m not letting anything stop me! I’m gonna start decorating somewehere in September, and won’t take it away before the end of November ಠ_ಠ . . . Sending the affirmation out there to manifest this! I will, however, enjoy some pre-Spooky Season this summer 🥹 As always XD

Beautiful

My genes are kind of fucked up, don't think I want to give the risk of this genetic disposition to another being! Also the world is kind of fucked up. And I wouldn't want any child to grow up the way I did either. And: childbirth? No thank you.

Still! This lives rent free in my brain, love it!!!

Ron how did you feel finding out that Harry lived in the cupboard under the stairs for years

ladies we need to start frantically and obsessively reading books in less than 24 hours again..remember how happy we were

This is a permanent bags under eyes kinda post

Like & share if you have permanent bags under your eyes!!!

trans women cute reblog if you agree

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