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I am aromantic. I am asexual.
I wish I felt Pride in that. I can't. Not yet, at least.
It's not because there's something wrong with lacking these forms of attraction. There is not. I absolutely love and envy those that have been able to overcome their internalized bigotry towards this. I do.
It's just that me realizing this about myself is pretty recent. And I'm mourning.
Yeah. I'm mourning aspects of life that I'm never going to experience and that I never wanted in the first place. And I'm crying over it almost every day.
Again, it's not because there's something wrong with this. Aromantic and asexual people are not broken.
I've never been in a relationship, romantic or sexual. I never wanted to, not really. But it's fucking hard to have people every day saying things like "that's a sad way to live" or "you're missing out".
I'm not mourning my lack of romantic and sexual attraction to anyone because it's something that I ever inherently missed. I'm mourning it because this fucking society has drilled into my mind that I'm broken and incomplete without romance and sex. And that's fucked up.
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putting the man in aromantic 🧍♂️
putting the the ant in aromantic 🐜
putting the roman into aromantic 🍇
putting the antic in aromantic
idk what else
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aroace people are not tragic or sad! my asexuality has nothing to do with my psychological problems!
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What annoys me is that (some of!) the LGBTQ community members also disrespect me as an aroace , there's a girl in my school who thinks she can "fix that" please please please please please please please please please please please please please please leave me alone.
I'm aroace...and I'm not gay or straight I'm aroace and I'm a valid part of this community.
Please just respect that. What's so bad about not liking someone sexually or romantically?
I hate feeling like a left over by both sides.
(And what feels so good? My friend just jumps out of nowhere and saves me from that awkward situation, by saying "hey! She's aroace dude!" It feels safe.)
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If you don't think cis asexual people, cis aromantic people or cis aroace people are valid you can unfollow me right now.
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Okay, reblog game. Rb with what made you aro and/or ace (wrong answers only)
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ate a radioactive plant
Okay, reblog game. Rb with what made you aro and/or ace (wrong answers only)
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Btw, on valentines day im holding everyone under the arospec and acespecs hands and we’re all gonna sit in the circle and infodump while drinking hot cocoa and eating chicken noodle soup
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I CAN FINALLY BE TALLER THAN THE PERSON I'M SITTING WITH
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"Friends dont look at friends that way" COWARD. I look at my friends with awe in my eyes, my chest is filled with love, im glowing because i get to be near my friends. I look at my friends and i would give them my everything. SO SKILL ISSUE, look at your friends with all the love that you have
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I'm aromantic, of course people still try to ask me out even when told they have no chance with me
I’m aromantic, of course I’ve been asked if I still love my friends or family
(Chain post not forced)
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Do the newer generation of ace folk still know about ace rings?
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I'm asexual, of course someone's told me they can "fix me"
I’m asexual, of course I’ve been called a plant
(Chain post not forced)
#asexual#ace#actually asexual#asexual community#asexual culture#asexual experience#asexual memes#asexual thoughts
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look what i saw at my public library!! makes me insanely happy, lol!!! HAPPY AROMANTIC SPECTRUM AWARENESS WEEK!!!
this one middle-aged guy saw me take a picture of this, so he paused and looked as well!! guys, it made me happy that more people are gonna walk by the shelf and pick up a book to read and become more aware of our existence, lol!!
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"not every character who doesn't show interest in romance is aro-" [shoots said character with my aro ray] thanks for letting me know bestie; don't worry, I fixed it
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