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friendrat · 5 months
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Geez... I was just doing some reading on the internet and got a punch in the gut.
This started because I saw a post in a womb twin survivor support group where someone had posted and was describing how they were born with a pin hole in their spine, which sounded very similar to my own diagnosis of Spina Bifida Occulta.
Anyway, certain health problems are more common in Vanishing Twin Survivors, and I thought I remembered that Spina Bifida was one of them, so I was looking it up to see if I was remembering correctly.
As I'm scrolling, one link said, "Spina Bifida a vanishing nightmare." So I clicked on it, and it was a quick thing about how numbers were going down, and they weren't sure why, but part was attributed to terminating affected pregnancies. The conclusion was that if they continued "preventative measures" i.e. termination, Spina Bifida could disappear. Of course! The solution to this health problem isn't to work on an *actual* cure or improve treatments... it's to just kill the people who have it. That will solve everything.
I'm just... I don't even know why I'm surprised. They wanted to kill me then. Of course, they would want to kill me if I was born today. I don't know why I would expect anything else... but it made me so... sad.
You know... I had an older cousin who had a much more severe case of Spina Bifida than I do. And when I say older, I mean he was like my parents' age. He was worse off than me, but he was always smiling. He was always joking with people. He volunteered his time to his local church, he stood by his principals, he helped out people in need without ever asking anything in return... and when he died, the funeral home was packed. There was a line around the building of people waiting to say their goodbyes, and it kept up the entire visitation. People were parked way down the road and had to walk to get there. My cousin was a light in people's lives.
But if he had been born right now, people would just weigh his life based on his disability and determine that he should be killed before his light could reach anyone. But sure... we can eliminate this disorder by killing the people who have it. It's disgusting that people think that way. There's no other word for it.
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v3nusxsky · 3 months
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hiiiiii since today is my bday I was thinking if I could request lesso x female reader with loooots of comfort where lesso found out that today is r’s bday but she kept it a secret because she hated her birthdays and lesso felt sad for r so she surprised her 💛 thank u sm
A day to remember
*Authors note~ Drabble time i got this request around my birthday and birthdays are hard for me so I decided to wait until I had healed over my 21st before posting this which is based off my story*
Trigger warnings~ Vanishing Twin Syndrome (VTS) pregnancy loss and the aftereffects on the living twin, grief, that’s all I think?
Birthdays are meant to be joyful and memorable. The one day of the year that’s yours to feel special and loved. Any birthday parties you attended you’d seen parents beaming with pride, celebrating their child. Only on your birthday, your mother cried. In your younger years you didn’t realise that fact, too distracted by the colourful paper and what was inside. But as you grew you became more aware of your mothers tears.
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On your tenth birthday you caught her crying in her room, not understanding why she wasn’t happy. You are the big ten now! Surely that’s a good thing? But that is when she told you that it wasn’t just your birthday, you have a twin. Honestly, you could’ve laughed it off if it wasn’t for the constant feeling of loneliness and the unusual attachment you have to your bear given to you at birth. From then on, birthdays became reminders, a day to grieve for you and your mother.
The bigger birthdays were always the hardest, turning twenty one alone, knowing the big celebration should be joint. Weeks of planning should’ve been spent over what cake you’d have, where you’d go, what you’d do, were spent alone wondering what you would do with the day. It shouldn’t be the way that it is and you knew that.
Leonora knew your story, but had fought hard to discover when your birthday was, she simply couldn’t let your 25th birthday slide by unnoticed. You were a quarter of a century old and that needed to be celebrated. Of course she knew you wouldn’t want a fuss, you’d wake up and cry in her arms missing your twin, then she’d manage to convince you to eat something small before you’d crawl back into bed under the mountains of blankets ready to sleep the day away. Well not this year.
On the dreaded day, the routine started as normal, she held you as you cried whispering words of love and reassurance that your twin would want you to celebrate not spend all day sad. This year she couldn’t coax you out of bed for breakfast so she brought breakfast to you, a single pink rose on the tray. On said rose, a little bit of paper tied with a piece of pink string stating, “happy 25th sis! Gods we are old now huh? Celebrate on earth for me, and I’ll celebrate in the sky, forever your twin.”
More tears flowing at the thoughtful gesture from your Leo had you agreeing to get out of bed at least, a small but vital step. After breakfast Leonora dragged you to the bathroom where she pampered her girl after making you promise not to tell a soul, after all she’s still the Dean of Evil. From there she surprised you with gifts, only small but intimate items, loved nonetheless by you which made it worth it. Around the evening the real plan would begin.
After your favourite meal and some more tears, you and Leonora walked hand in hand to the gardens. The stars shining on full display as you stood underneath there glow. “It’s beautiful Nora” you murmured, seemingly mesmerised by the brightest star in the sky. “I figured we’d stand here and wish your twin the best birthday also, I know how much you miss them and we’ll they certainly are the brightest star in the sky dove.”
Most people wouldn’t understand why you cling to the woman, sobbing in her arms at a simple walk under the stars, but you knew she did. “Shh darling, I know it’s okay. I know you miss them sweet girl. It’s okay, I’m here dove let it out” among other reassurances where murmured out in between kisses being dropped to the crown of your head. After some time, soothing classical music suddenly surrounds you causing you to pull back in confusion, “Nora?”
“My sweet little dove, I wanted to make today special for you and well I thought this would be the perfect place and time. Forgive me not being on one knee but here under the brightest star in the sky I wanted to ask you if you would be my wife” she rushed out, it was rare for Leonora to show her nerves but they were soon washed away when you jumped into her arms repeatedly saying yes. The ring slipped perfectly onto your left ring finger, and that’s when Leonora made a promise to never let you not celebrate both your birthdays, the walk under the stars becoming a tradition for you both.
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countesspetofi · 7 months
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AMERICAN HORROR STORY S12E04, "Vanishing Twin"
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mytvjunk · 7 months
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Anna savoring the pickles, ice cream and rotting carcass:
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knightofleo · 8 months
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Vanishing Twin | Afternoon X
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unwelcome-ozian · 10 months
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Do you happen to know anything about womb twin survivor syndrome/vanishing twins?
I was chosen to be abused because a cleft in my chin. They said I had the ability to take myself out of it because my brain was more divided naturally. I don't know if there's any truth to it, but when I found out I was a monozygotic twin that reabsorbed the other twin in the first trimester it made me connect to two, and made too many things make sense.
I’m familiar with vanishing twin. 
Here are some links for survivors.
A Blog For Womb Twin Survivors Around The World
My Work with Womb Twin Survivors
Twinless Twin
I hope you find support on your journey. There is no ‘reason’ for someone to be abused.
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*Vanishing twin syndrome is a type of miscarriage that can occur during multiple pregnancies (births involving twins or triplets). It occurs when an embryo detected during an ultrasound can’t be found on a future ultrasound. The embryo stops developing, and its tissue gets absorbed by the mother, or gestational parent, and the surviving embryo(s).
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disease · 7 months
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VANISHING TWIN // AFTERNOON X [AFTERNOON X, OCT 2023]
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spilladabalia · 2 months
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Vanishing Twin - Cryonic Suspension May Save Your Life - (Pensiero Magico Live Session)
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natural-warp-art · 1 year
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Read about the full content of this project here in this article on Medium : https://natural-warp.medium.com/miniverse-20-12-2022-26ecf41910bc
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hunklet · 8 months
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Marbles - Vanishing Twin
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friendrat · 4 months
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Today is womb twin survivors day, and I happened to be listening to Scrooge: A Christmas Carol. There is this added scene that isn't in the canonical Christmas Carol of Fredrick visiting his mother's graveside, and it might be the day, but the scene just struck me. How much Fredrick misses his mother, who he has never known, and how he longs for a relationship with Scrooge because he's sure there must be some of his mother in Scrooge buried deep down.
I also miss someone I've never known, and I hope that there is a part of her somewhere in myself. Tonight is the darkest night of the year, but tomorrow will be brighter, just as I know that someday we will be together again. Until then, I will be missing you. ❤️
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beatsforbrothels · 1 year
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Vanishing Twin - Big Moonlight (Ookii Gekkou)
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solencollet · 7 days
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altamontpt · 1 month
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Laetitia Sadier - Rooting For Love (2024)
Laetitia Sadier é um nome que se confunde com os Stereolab. Roots For Love é o novo álbum a solo da fundadora dessa maravilhosa banda, e ouvi-lo é tão bom e reconfortante como voltar a alguns dos clássicos menos conhecidos desse coletivo, o que é o maior elogio que lhe podemos fazer.
Laetitia Sadier é um nome que se confunde com os Stereolab. Rooting For Love é o novo álbum a solo da fundadora dessa maravilhosa banda, e ouvi-lo é tão bom e reconfortante como voltar a alguns dos clássicos menos conhecidos desse coletivo, o que é o maior elogio que lhe podemos fazer. Nunca sabemos bem o que esperar de um disco de Laetitia Sadier, embora esperemos exatamente aquilo que dele…
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oarfishbeach · 2 months
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