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inkskinned · 9 months

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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag #writeblr #it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal #fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy #im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind #and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes #2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh #im sure there are people who have this experience normally #but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists #when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful #once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large #but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes #but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes #people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism #but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY #and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in #i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change #was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL

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zivazivc · 3 months

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Hiii!! Ufff I don't know how to tell you that I love your take on Floyd. like some bad bad life decisions were taken (THAT SO!!! INTERESTING FOR HIM). Do you think he ever feels ashamed of himself when he looks at Branch's eyes, like "shit, this guy really believes in me" or "he doesn't even know everything I have done"? Like he has some really BIG "Love me Less by Max" vibes

They all really believe in his goodness which is worse

And OH he definitely feels so much shame and regret. I think a big part of why he fell as hard as he did was because he finally didn't have to be his brothers' mediator, and I guess at one point he forgot that he still needed to be the voice of reason for himself. His new band mates encouraging his reckless behavior didn't help. Honestly I personally think young Floyd was a very naive kid and very dependent on his older brothers but his strong empathy gave them all the impression that he was much more mature and independent than he really was...

So yeah... you can imagine that constantly partying, doing drugs and sleeping around wears someone down after a few years. I think Floyd also went gray like Branch (not for as long tho) and he broke up with the band wanting to go home badly, but he was also ashamed of showing his face after a number of years as a gray drug addict, so he kind of just ended up alone...

If we're sharing songs, I have to show you this one by Linkin Park because I think Floyd wrote it for Branch (and the rest of his family (and some parts also addressing himself)) while he was at that desperate and lonely period because I am also extremely emo

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lets-go-hurt-someone · 27 days

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Am I the only one who actually prefers the Araj confession from Astarion? I see so many people wax poetic about the “nice, simple plan” scene and how much better it is that I want to wax poetic a little about my favourite.

The first time I played BG3, I didn’t know anything about Astarion’s background and I thought he was a jerk. When I first ran into Araj at Moonrise, I was surprised that he wasn’t interested in biting her, but he gave his reasons and I was like, damn, okay, that sucks but I’m not gonna force him to do anything. He said no, so it’s a no. Then I moved on, and genuinely thought nothing of it.

When he hit me with the Araj confession at camp, when he explained how he felt in front of her and how easy it would have been to just grin and bear it and do as he was told, I started crying. Sometimes I struggle to even put into words the emotions it brought up — not the smallest of which was the realisation that I had had more respect for this video game character that I didn’t even like at the time than a lot of people had ever had for me, a real fucking human being.

So I love absolutely everything about that scene, from the writing to the performance to all the different ways it can play out. I know the other confession is more cute and sweet and romantic, but the Araj one held up a mirror to me and genuinely made me confront myself and change how I approach intimacy. Which is kind of an embarrassing thing to say about a video game romance scene but here I am saying it.

Because if this fucking rude ass pixel boy (affectionate) can learn to be honest about his needs and limits and have them respected, then so can I, goddamnit. And that will always be so much more profound to me than a nice, simple plan that fell apart.

#maybe I just prefer ugly crying to the cute scene idk #I’ve talked about this before but it just hits me in waves sometimes #the way this game has made me feel so seen and valid for trauma I had written off as character development is wild #it’s so much cheaper than therapy but I probably need to go back to therapy lolol #bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #baldurs gate 3 #astarion #astarion ancunin #tw: sa

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prompt-master · 3 months

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I know that Haibara is a genuinely tragic character but also its so funny how often she sees something slightly tragic and goes "it's just like me fr"

#detective conan #''this football player is considered a traitor and hwted by everyone. this is so me. im now going to be mentally stuck on this for #two episodes''#i swear she could see an ice cream parlor where no one is picking the vanilla and be able to spin a metaphor to herself from it #i say this with love #my girl needs so much therapy <3

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nihilitystar · 7 months

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i forgot about tumblr again oops

#pokemon #pokemon sv #kieran pokemon #the teal mask #fanart #my art #i love he <3 #he needs so much therapy

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passionartx · 16 days

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Some fanart of @0vergrowngraveyard‘s villain au Tails design! 💛🫶✨

I absolutely adore this lil guys design and color scheme so just had to doodle him!

[ Not sure when but @myymi and @nixoon-again’s au tails designs are next on my list! ]

#shout out to his coat and tails for helping me not have to worry about proportions as much <3 #I love this lil goober so much! <3 #Spinning him round is my brain!#I know next to nothing about him but I know he needs therapy #he looks like if he said one mean thing to me I’d never show my face again #but I also want to hug him so there’s that #miles tails prower #sth #tails the fox #sonic #sonic the hedgehog #tails #passionxart #sonic au

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wellthebardsdead · 5 months

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Halsin: My precious star. How old were you when you were taken from the light?

Astarion: ugh don’t be so poetic about it dear, I was 40 if you must know.

Halsin: *brain short circuiting knowing as an elf himself they don’t fully mature until they reach 100 in age* … *tenderly hugs him close and strokes his hair* So I’m going to introduce you to this thing called, therapy-

#halstarion #Halsin x astarion #astarion baldurs gate #halsin baldur's gate 3 #and just to clarify Halsin is freaking out because of how much trauma astarion experienced at a young age for elves #even more so because he didn’t have a safe space to process any of it for 200 years #yes astarion is well and truely a mature elf but he’s a mature elf with a lot of trauma that needs addressing with care #trauma that has greatly skewed his views and outlook on the world and the people in it #astarion needs a lot of therapy

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djmurphy · 29 days

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Plus, does he even consider being under the string as a bad thing? It makes him perfect, it keeps him from being disgusting and broken and grey. Why would he want to leave that?

Exactly! He's improving and becoming perfect like John Dory wanted them to be. He's finally something.

Plus, if he's perfect, maybe his brothers will come back! Afterall, they don't need to be perfect if HE'S being perfect for them!

#this man is going through so much #“you dont need to be perfect because i can be perfect for you”!#istg theres no amount of therapy that will make this okay #trolls band together #dreamworks trolls #trolls 3 #trolls world tour #trolls au #trolls 2 #trolls #hypno pop au #trolls branch #brozone

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archivistofnerddom · 2 months

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Something tells me that Wrecker and Echo have an entire comm/text thread that is just devoted to Wrecker venting to Echo (and Echo providing counseling). The things Wrecker vents about include, but are not limited to:

Wrecker still feeling a lot of guilt about not getting Tech back up to the sky-car safely (being the Strong One didn’t save their brother), compounded with them losing Omega shortly thereafter and being betrayed by Cid.

Hunter being Not Okay while they were searching for Omega, and Wrecker doing his best to hold it together

Hunter running into situations half-cocked and without a plan, and Wrecker is extra worried about his brother because of this.

Omega’s safe and home! And she brought a puppy. This isn’t so much a rant as it is a gleeful declaration, followed by a flurry of pics for proof.

Wrecker needing a friendly ear to talk through how he had been worried it’d be a trap/not Omega when they got her message, and now he’s feeling guilty for feeling that way.

Crosshair’s return and all of Wrecker’s complicated feelings about that.

Hunter and Crosshair being at each other’s throats and sniping at one another. Wrecker is getting tired of breaking up their very loud disagreements. (“Mom! I need help!”)

#our emotionally intelligent wrecking ball needed to vent to momma echo #he’s dealing with a lot okay?#handling a Not Okay Hunter solo was a lot #and there’s so much stuff from getting Omega and Crosshair back that he needed to talk about and unpack #this whole family needs therapy #star wars #the bad batch #tbb crosshair #tbb wrecker #tbb echo #tbb omega #tbb hunter #tbb batcher #tbb tech #the bad batch season 3 #the bad batch spoilers

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merakiui · 6 months

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as much as i love the loser virgin trio, nothing can compare to ✨ him ✨

#meraki mumbles #my favorite loser virgin of all time <3 #i will be his emotional therapy hole orz please rollo just one chance #stuck in a wall trope with him!!!!!!#or the trope of getting locked in the room and can only escape by having sex #or even the trope of being trapped so closely in a tight space like a locker or a box…….#rollo is at the top of my hierarchy of needs OTL i love him too much #i need to write that messed up rollo fic uuuwwaaaawaa >_<

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tekstelart · 9 months

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#baldurs gate 3 #bg3 #astarion #[These Violent Delights]#OC: Kiera #IM FERAL GOD #FUCK #bg3 spoilers #I finished his questline today I NEED THERAPY #please I love him so much he is so INCREDIBLY well written #this shot was pure luck I just kept pressing F12 hoping for the best #Also I cropped it to remove the text and all jkghsdljkg

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sluckythewizard · 1 month

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these are A BIT OLD but uhhh here check out these aggio doodles i did forever ago. still VERY happy w my colors :3

#this was back in uhhhh jan 2023!! hot dog!! and its still perfeclty good to eat!#i think kian and chip would get along. they could talk about feelings. kian could give chip the therapy he needs. maybe kiss? who said that #jay and rand could also get along i think. smoke buddies. cigarette fans. i bet they could play dnd together. or build a contraption togeth #also WAUHG the way i colored in kira here is SO PERFECT.. SHES SO SPARKLY N PRETTY. ALSO THAT HOOORNN i remember bleeding for that #shading is HARD lighting is HARD drawing a crazy unicorn is HARD but SOOOO WORTH IT I SITLL LOVE HOW IT LOOKES.....#waht else is there. oh yes the prime defender doodles #i love mark so much.... i miss being crazy and strange abt mark winters... i need to draw him killing more people someday #anyway i gotta go to bed soon to keep my sleep schedul on track but I DONT WAANNA!!!! recently relistened to bitb. that might release spore #im also chippin away at that am i in heaven animatic between workin on commissions. I GOT RLY FAR!! i think that i could finish it within #like. 3 or 4 more inspo waves. it wont be unfinished forevcer..... its so close... just 4 more full scenes to rly fleshh out #so basically another 2 years. YEAH BABy. in the meantime i have a backlog of things i can poast. i got plenty o drawings and doodles to sha #alrigh thats all the ramblin im gonna do for now. sleep well everyone hope shool or work goes easy on u in the coming week

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samijey · 1 year

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derpoprime · 2 years

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this was made a while ago but it still holds up as free therapy for me <3 i am unreasonably scared of posting my kyleandcartman brainrotting & i appreciate all the support on my last attempt!! have Another

hoping this makes someone do a lil tee hee today i tee heed making it a lot

#south park #comic #kyle broflovski #eric cartman #kyman #i talk so much but <3 idc have my love #who needs real therapy anyway #im broke #i have paper cutouts to fix me #like. ykwim 🙄

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itty-bitty-sunshine · 8 months

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Oooooooh do you have any more lore for your immortal au? It sounds so cool agh

I do! So much! So glad people seem to like the concept this au has been rotating in my brain for such a long time <3

This is gonna be a bit of rambling but thank you so much for helping me organize this enough to explain

So! Our little immortal, Perkeo (could be your yn, at this point this is more a nickname they choose to go by than the legal name they are using) has been around for a good while, few centuries at least

They lived a lot, laughed a lot, loved a lot

Suffered a lot

They are the can't age can't die type of immortal. Cut them to tiny pieces and you'll see them back in one piece somehow

They are a very social creature and are always happy to mingle with people, liking to make people happy because the world is rotten enough as it is

However, as the years go by, they've grown tired of seeing close people come and go — even if someone spends their entire life next to them, they will be gone one day. Perkeo is ultimately lonely

So, as technology advances, they decide to give it all a last shot

Which is how they end up working at the pizzaplex at it's very beginning, home of a few of the most advanced robots and artificial intelligence there is

What's a decade of wait for someone who has centuries?

They could, but do not want to build something to love them. That would be forced, that is not love — so, why not befriend an already built robot instead? They are basically like people at this point, besides, fazbear entertainment is not known for caring that much about their animatronics, so if the place closes down they will eventually be left to rot anyway, isn't that a win? Just gotta wait around for the plex to shut down and eventually have a new life with your friends if they want to go with you

It's not stealing company property if said property is abandoned. And also if you have enough time to transfer the property ownership to you by messing with some papers

Especially if it's the chance you've been longing for all along: to have someone able to be there with you forever as long as they wish to

Robots can last a very, very long time as long as well maintained, can't they?

(Perkeo has a whole background too which is a whole other story. Jobs they've had, people they've known, how they've affected them, there's so much)

#boxofcreampuffs #ask #so so SO happy people like my au #i could ramble on it for hours i swear #this ask made my night thank you so much <3 #i had wait to answer this after posting the doodles but I've been staring at this for hours #i made this au a year ago solely because i hate the idea of. y'now #robot makes friends with human but outlives them #so i decided hey. why not make the human immortal #what was meant to be a saving from the angst turned out to be even angstier obdiebwiwjk #love Perky with all my heart but by GOD they need therapy #immortal au #immortal au ask #its 3am i need to go to bed

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alien-from-planet-zog · 6 months

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Qiao Ling: Do you want to talk about your feelings, Lu Guang?

Lu Guang: No.

Cheng Xiaoshi: I do.

Qiao Ling: I know, Cheng Xiaoshi.

Cheng Xiaoshi: I’m sad.

Qiao Ling: I know, Cheng Xiaoshi.

In the meantime, Lu Guang has quietly slipped out of the room…

#link click #is this anything?#randomly remembered this old format and #it kind of works for them #LG PLEASE TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS #to be honest they all need to #there’s so much they still have to process…#everyone in this show needs therapy #this is actually a leak from season 3

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