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oswinian · 1 month

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and nothing comes of the songs people sing...

#the hunger games #catching fire #thgedit #filmedit #dailythg #usersophie #userars #tusergeo #usermaguire #tusermiles #userblues #rainbowgifs #usergif #**katas #cw guns #cw violence #no blood this time around tho thg is tamer than yellowjackets #anyway I was listening to how long and this idea would not leave me alone so #tagging ppl is stressful so as always no pressure

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sugar-omi · 10 months

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Could I please request hc or a drabble about Cove as a new parent with a female MC? Thank you! ❤️

its your lucky day (aka you've asked smth ive been thinking abt for days LOL) bc ive written hc's and drabbles <333 although mostly messy hc's that are in no coherent order also I think I will come back n write more coherent n specific scenarios bc I have sm thoughts on cove through parenthood.... pls tysm for this ask I hope it's satisfactory bc i wrote in order of my thoughts LOL

tags : fluff, AFAB reader, after step 3/wedding dlc, "options" for 1 or 2 babes (if you hc triplets im praying for u🙏), no gender mention of the babe/s, birth surrogacy n adoption are up for imagination but pregnancy/surrogacy is most implied altho i think you could imagine adopting a baby before they're born bc ik some ppl do that

synopsis : how cove acts when you have your first kid & a bit on how he is raising them with you <3

many many candid shots of cove holding the baby

PLEASE tell me someone recorded near the end of the birth/when they brought you the babe

he's crying. no matter what he's crying his fuckin eyes out

if you're giving birth please either have him wait outside n come in to cut the cord at the end bc he might faint

if you do have him in the room he'll be on his best behavior. will try his best not to worry too much bc he knows it could stress you out

(I'm thinking abt this video I saw where the wife said her husband fainted n fell back into this rolly office chair n just rolled to the back of the room into the dark side (it was apparently a long room lollll))

if you're in for a long labor or it's pretty short he's more calm bc either it's over before he can freak out or it's so fuckin long he's over it LOL

he's more of a solid, physical support than anything else because he's not too good with words but also he dosn't want you to feel pressured, annoyed, or smth with constant "you got this!" "its okay!" as you're pushing out a whole human, its not a simple task

[video 1]

COVE: so little... COVE: (looks at his mom/dad) are they supposed to be this small? (watery laugh)

is very scared to hold the babe, he's a big guy, with or without the muscles so he's always gentle with them even once they get bigger

definitely texts his dad during the pregnancy/surrogacy/adoption process "I hope i can be a good dad like you"

cliff getting a text from cove at 3am: "ty for raising me idk how you did it omg"

cliff is crying n flying over there immediately

!!!! if you need someone to help you adjust cliff is on the fuckin way!!! you can't even finish asking bc he's alrdy here, whatever you need guys!!!!

but if you want to be alone to bond w the babe or you hire a professional to help with the transition then he or your moms will come over and clean up, prepare food, and allows you to come home and not worry about getting things done.

dies if the kid has his hair color or eyes, like at first he just finds it crazy that he's a dad n that he has a lil spawn of his own

also lots of pictures of cliff playing w the babe/s

we all know cove can be lazy with his hair, but he doesn't want his kid going to school w crazy hair so he learns

at first it looks like a mess

n if you keep your hair short or can only do smth simple, its time to call your ma or lee for help LOL

imagine cove standing by your ma as she's showing him how to braid... so sweet

cove is tip-toeing through the house, trying to shake off his outside clothes quietly and when he walks back into the room after brushing his teeth he's greeted with the sweet sound of his baby's giggle

you are sound asleep.

you and the other babe are sound asleep.

he shushes the baby, easing himself into the bed. suddenly he thinks that spending all that money on this big bed was worth it, especially with the way his achy body sinks into it.

"cove?..."

he reaches over the babe/s. "sorry.. did I wake you?"

you hum, it's not a yes or a no, just a sleepy sound and he laughs at how out of it you are even though you're trying to fight it, stroking your face and carding his fingers through your hair.

"I love you.. thank you." he whispers. this moment is so delicate. he worries a bit that if he speaks too loud it'll be gone and he'll wake up in his teenage bedroom, staring at the bottom of his scratched up bunk bed.

"f'what?" you blink slowly.

"for everything..." he grins softly, thinking about that night

of your wedding, when you told him you wanted kids with him.

after the ORCA fundraiser dinner, when you asked him if he imagined having kids with you.

"we made it. that future we talked about..."

you smile softly, more awake now. "thanks for making it with me."

he laughs, muffins his face in the pillow and resting a hand on the baby, willing them not to wake. "how can you thank me for that?"

you grin, more sleepy than anything but still full of mischief.

"how can you thank me for getting me pregnant?" you giggle at your husband's flustered face.

"how can you thank me for being here like I promised years later?" you tease, bringing up night of the fundraiser.

cove flushes, burying his face in the babies hair instead of answering you.

he puts an arm around you, careful of the little one/s between you. "just go to bed..."

gb lady said cove is sahd material.....

omg he makes them lunch always, or he at least helps you make lunch because his cooking skills are a bit limited and they'd prbly have star shaped sandwiches and applesauce everyday

HE HAS A THING TO PUT THE BABE IN WHILE HE DOES HOUSE SHIT

your kids are definitely cuddles bc of him, he always picks em up, and if he doesn't have a carrier than he'll make a makeshift one out of a blanket.

omg imagine him and the kid/s at the dining table crying tryna figure out the homework

"its getting worse y/n!!!" "what the fuck is common core math?!" "babe call the teacher, something is missing here..."

if you're bad at math or smth too than you're all fucked n your kid/s AND COVE are facetiming his dad for a long distance tutoring lesson

he's reading them books every night

HE gets upset when it doesn't happen

"babe we gotta turn around, I only read them 5 books we're gonna be gone 6 nights."

FaceTime them every night you're away just the two of u

falls asleep w the kids in the weirdest positions

why is there a princess crown on his head and where did the face paint come from????

spoils the kid/kids. you're gonna go bankrupt please stop!!!

when your kid/s finally graduate n move out on their own, he thanks his dad for raising him and teaching him how to be the best dad.

also thanks you for just being amazing n reassuring him whenever he worried abt doing something wrong

if you have more than 1, he's a master by baby 2/3

COVE: (holding fresh baby, whispering) ....why is it so red

raising you kid/s w cove is tough at first, cove worries about doing some wrong or failing as a parent.

and he did eventually admit he was worried about raising his kid/s in a "broken" home. his parents did their best! and he loves them, but the split was hard for him and he doesn't want them to go through the same feelings.

every day is a new experience in your house to say the least

I imagine it's filled w lots of worry, love, and tears

COVE N HIS KID/S HAVE A CRY COUNT

(cove is losing somehow?! he's been out crybaby-ed)

#our life: beginnings & always #olba #cove holden #cove holden x reader #cove x mc #cove x reader #cove our life #our life cove #cove holden fluff #cove holden x mc

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beartitled · 4 days

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Can you do some more comics with Francis mosses

I can, but the problem is

That I’m pretty much out of ideas and I’m progressively getting tired of tnmn fandom

Ppl who look at my tags probably noticed that 😓

More of my thoughts under read more for curious ppl

(short answer maybe I will do more, but I desperately need a break from tnmn)

! Just a general warning: this came out kinda long + sort of venty

Originally I planned to do 1 comic drop and move on, but got stuck bc ppl liked tnmn comics and kept asking for more (and still do-)

Generally I don’t mind doing more if the ideas are there, but I want to address this: I’m tired

I know blowing up is usually a good thing and I appreciate people enjoying my stuff

But it’s exhausting to see that tnmn is the only type of content which is relevant, to the point that my own projects or stuff I enjoy are just kinda.. ignored

It’s fair – again my blog is heavily fandom based

(+Tsp were and still is kinda the focus)

But with tnmn fandom it’s a bit… different

Maybe I’m biased and it’s just my negative experience with tiktok comments

Remember this art?

cleaning up transphobic comments was.. um tough

Again, I get that you can’t be in that neat bubble completely sheltered from negativity

Humans are just assholes by nature really/j

So I was expecting the backlash, but not that much

I think maybe tsp fandom spoiled me a bit (in a good way), bc I got a feeling that everyone in tsp was positive of any lgbt+ headcanons and just generally more supportive

(don’t get me wrong, there ARE problems in tsp community too, taking narrators design controversy into account as one of the examples)

Obviously every fandom always has it’s own issues, show me at least one fandom that didn’t have some sort of meaningless controversy or some sort of problematic people in it

It happens

But it leaves a bad taste in your mouth sometimes

And for me personally it only added to not so pleasant experience

The thing I also noticed, when I interacted with other fandoms

Ppl wrote positive stuff first and foremost, not really asking for anything

Here it’s just “hey more. I want more. Do more. Do this character. Do this. Do more.”

The only reason I kept doing more, because likes, reblogs, views – these comics get a ton of attention

there is a audience to please alright

But this thing comes with a pressure tho

and it shows

so let me illustrate

This bookcase

Is my shame

Because I was so rushing, I just copied and colour corrected this bookcase from my diploma comic and pasted it here in hopes for the best

💥IT LOOKS HORRIBLE OKAY💥

Usually it’s normal to take materials used in other projects

the not so normal part is

to leave it like that because your stress reducing tea doesn’t work and you don’t really have time to redraw it

my m en ta l s t a t e i s f i n e ah ah h ah ah

Ok but jokes aside: it’s really tempting, to just abandon everything and produce content like some sort of content farm

But I don’t want to, I’m forcing myself and it makes my art worse

Yes it’s subtle, new people won’t even see this

But I’m not improving

And I don’t enjoy just anxiously popping out comics because everyone keeps asking

I can give it my all to something when I’m passionate, but just “hey I’m getting attention” is not the best motivator

Attention like that does get to my head, I know that I will probably give in again and do more, bc I will compare my posts engagement

But what’s the point of recognition, when you feel.. so numb about it…

Sorry for a mountain of text and thank you for ppl who actually took their time to read it

It’s been building up for a while and I feel like people need to know the reason why I’m not so enthusiastic about making “more”

I’m not necessarily completely abandoning this fandom

I still plan to do ask/suggestions event for STP (I’m just making sure I can dedicate my time to it, that’s why it’s taking so long) and I can add tnmn to the mix

Like STP+tnmn kind of deal

But for now – I need a break

At least for a little bit

#bear answers #vent post #nothing serious just a bunch not so positive thoughts #tnmn #that’s not my neighbor #tnmn fandom #thoughts #fandom thoughts #apologies for possible mistakes/typos

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thecelestialsyzygy · 1 year

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I feel like this needs to be said because of all the stuff happening lately. Apologies if this post is a mess.

I want to thank all of the Byler’s who post in the tag. Whether it be shit posts, memes, long analysis, random thoughts, or all of the above mixed in with posts about your life; Thank you for being here and making fandom fun! The tag has been a mess recently and I think we’re all aware of that because of all the recent deactivations. There’s always been a bit of toxicity in the Stranger Things fandom (as there is in just about all other fandoms), but I feel it's been amplified here due to the lack of content and long wait. Another reason it’s a lot more prominent in the Stranger Things fandom, to begin with, is because of its popularity. In the coming months, we should see some things regarding S5 come up for us to talk about, but if you’re not into leaks then you’re in for an even longer drought (and when it comes to said leaks, please take them with a grain of salt).

I originally came here from Twitter so I’ve seen a lot. Ppl leaving isn’t new to me, and it is a pretty common thing with fandoms in general. Sometimes it’s over something simple, like ppl losing their interest, and other times it’s because ppl don’t know how to use the block button and want to be rude, hateful, and harass others into leaving, or cause/insert themselves into drama for entertainment. It’s understandable to be bored during droughts and perhaps become irritable, but if you like creating/being in drama, please don’t put it in the main tag. Not everybody is going to agree and it is what it is. Some posts you may agree with, some posts you may not, some you may partly agree with, some you may partly disagree with. If you ever come across something that really bothers you, big or small, just use the block button or mute/filter things you don’t want to see. You can always make your own post sharing your thoughts about whatever the topic may have been. There are so many ways to control content you consume. It’s important to remember we’re all here for a good time, so let ppl have fun and learn to draw a line.

It’s OK to be opinionated, but I think some things that are important to note is the difference between head-canons and canon. Head-canons are personal interpretations about a character. It’s not ACTUALLY canon. Some head-canons can be based off of things that ARE canon, but it’s important to realize that it’s still NOT ACTUALLY canon. Canon is confirmed. It’s OK to not agree with somebody else’s head-canon, but it’s not a reason to be rude to them. You can share your own opinions with them in a respectful way or separately. However, I feel like some ppl want to make things problematic to further push their narrative or are genuinely just not educated enough. And of course there are exceptions to just about everything, like potentially problematic head-canons which I think is OK to have discussions about, but once again, that’s why we need to learn to draw a line.

I also know hate anons have been a problem lately. If you’re ever getting a lot of hate anons, please don’t be afraid to protect yourself and turn off the anon feature/not allow asks. If that doesn’t work don’t be afraid to block and report. If none of these are working, just know it’s OK if you feel like social media is becoming too much. Take a break if you need to, distance yourself if you need to, make a completely new account if you need to. You can always let the ppl who care about you know you need to go away for awhile.

Lastly, don’t feel pressure to post! That’s one way to add a lot of stress onto yourself and become tired of your interests. I promise everything is going to be fine and Byler’s/ the Stranger Things fandom will always be here if/when you come back.

#byler #byler s5 #stranger things 5 #will byers #mike wheeler #byler tumblr

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sun-pluto · 5 months

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tagged by the awesome @uneorchide thanku 😭♥️♥️♥️ you have a beautiful and elegant voice and i’ll say it again!!!

1. your username, why did you choose it/what's the meaning behind it?

2. read out your favourite lyric

3. (pt.1) read out your favourite quote/poetry fragment

(pt.2) additionally, if you write yourself, read out something you have written also (if you'd like)

4. do you know/speak any other languages? if yes, say something in it, or if not, what is a language you would like to learn?

5. what are 5 of your favourite artists, whose voices you love at the moment?

6. message for mutuals/say anything you'd like for your mutuals

sorry to anyone who speaks fluent mandarin, my school teachers have always said my pronunciation sucks so be warned 😭💀💀💀

i get stressed by these things easily, so this is seriously a no pressure tag, i’m just curious (or i want to hear your voice and let other ppl admire it too 🥺), but i’d like to tag @ceyrann @neptuniant @rhoemantically @seafevers @ellies-paradise @ukiyowi @the-cosmic-gentle-giant @the-wild-candy @kkoumiii @azure-cherie and anyone else who’d like to give this a shot!

#*pulls open the curtain to unveil my mars in the 2H*#me *cursing swearing ranting while i scramble to get my thoughts in order #m #talking #tag games #my posts #closing my eyes while hitting post like 😭

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boydepartment · 3 months

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ive noticed you tend to apologise a lot when youre tired and taking a break 😅 you shouldnt do that. youre a human, of course you'd feel tired sometimes. hope youre taking enough rest and recovering soon, no pressure to take and accept requests.

im sorry your interview went weird, but its good you pulled back the moment you found it sketchy. hopefully youd get a chance to accomplish your dream sometime soon in the future! take care jayjay

-🎄

hi it’s okay 🎄 anon :) i’m gonna use your ask to talk abt something if that’s okay, this isn’t @ you, i pinky promise.

i’m gonna be honest after valentine’s day i might just leave this account ? i don’t think ill delete anything but i just can’t be on tumblr or read any of the content i used to. i talked about it a bit a couple days ago i just want to elaborate more.

it makes me really just idk :/ i don’t like the community at all anymore and it’s been declining my mental for a bit. i love enha and all my people in the different groups i like, but i really really hate how some ppl write them and it just freaks me out REALLY bad. ESPECIALLY RIKI. like fuck some of you guys are so weird bruh…. and shameless. like you have no respect and don’t even on the “it’s not that serious.” you’re fucking weird. period. there’s no reason to make some of the shit you guys say public at all.

it’s been talked abt more recently how dubcon and dark fics are more common now and i can’t keep scrolling past it and seeing it. it freaks me out that people will write about actual people like that especially someone who lived at the receiving end of abuse like that. why would you want someone you love to be put in the situation of the abuser? like it doesn’t click to me and sometimes even scrolling past and seeing the tags and send me into a bad episode so i just can’t anymore. i don’t know how people think that’s okay to push their coping mechanism that’s darker and extremely damaging on an actual HUMAN BEING. coping mechanism or not that’s fucking weird. they may be idols but they are human beings too.

i’ve also had a few asks in my anon that are just straight up rude, demanding, or calling me weird for liking riki at all? like you are attacking the wrong girl i have nothing but respect for him. those anons are just stressing me out aswell and it’s just too much. i’m exhausted constantly being disrespected. tumblr is supposed to be a platform where i can get away and get lost in lighthearted stories and it’s not that for me anymore.

i might come back after i leave on valentine’s day but i need time to actually enjoy kpop like i used to. the fans are ruining it for me and it’s just been making me really depressed. i can’t even go on tiktok sometimes because of the fan bases. i’ve always been very open with you guys and like, i need to pull back from these fan bases and take care of myself. i barely eat, sleep, or enjoy anything anymore(that’s due to offline stuff but being on tumblr doesn’t help any of that at all). i miss having fun and the communities are ruining it.

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stinkrascal · 4 months

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I think no one likes my tav :( I love that simblrs began to share other games like bg3! And the small amount that does it sticks together! They reblog each other's bg3 posts, do art for them, put cute tags to support each other, so nice to see!! I really want to be part of that, but no one seems to actually like the bg3 stuff I post🥹 do you have any advice for me?

hi anon, i'm sorry you're feeling this way :( to be honest i don't really know what could be causing ppl to overlook your posts. idk what advice i could give you bc some of my bg3 posts do really really well, and some of them get like maybe 5 notes depending on what time and what day i post 🙈 but please dm me if you like i'd love to follow u if i don't already!! i love rbing bg3 posts on my blog i'd love to rb your posts too! i want everyone to feel included in this community you know ;-; even if you don't feel like your posts get enough attention i promise that isn't an indication of you not being wanted in this community!! it just means you haven't found your audience yet, and that's totally ok. it took me many years of posting consistently on simblr before i found ppl who were interested in my silly video game screenshots and tbh i feel major imposter syndrome for even saying that like jade stfu what do u mean ppl care about your screenshots no they dont😭 so like idk. for me when i get really worked up about feeling like nobody cares about what i post i just try to like......... make a circle of a few mutuals whose opinions i really cherish and every time they interact with my posts in any capacity, liking, commenting, reblogging, etc, i consider that post a win lol. be like "oh well my circle of elite mutuals all liked this post that means this post is pretty cool isnt it!!" lol that sounds silly but it helped a lot for me, bc i was really prone to getting myself in these cycles where i felt like if my posts didnt hit a certain note count that means i suck and nobody likes my stuff and thats a sucky way to feel you know!! and like i don't really know how i can optimze your note count for you, idek how i optimize my own, at this point ive given up on that endeavor bc it just puts too much weird pressure on myself to live up to an arbitrary and unreachable standard. but i think trying 2 reframe the way you think about this situation is just as helpful, it was really helpful for me at least. obv i think tumblr is a place where our posts SHOULD be shared ie reblogging stuff!! and i always always always encourage people to reblog posts bc thats how our community grows and flourishes, thats literally how tumblr has to function to survive so DO IT!! but also with all that being said, it will be better for u in the long run if you don't put a lot of pressure on yourself to hit a certain note count to be a valid participant in this community, instead make it about the love of sharing your creations online, and being content w the fact that your creations are still cool even if it didn't hit a certain level of engagement u desired!! and you know what, when you start loving and passionately posting about your creations, ppl pick up on that excitement. they get excited too!! and then before you know it you do have a community of support! so please dont unduly stress yourself my friend. does this make any sense. idk. YOU GOT THIS ANON I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!

#jade answers #Anonymous #sorry my brain is a fried egg rn. advice escapes me but ily u got this anon!!

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b3achysurfur · 6 months

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yo hey logang member here

just wanted to lyk i actually dont care if you dislike logan, i have characters i dislike too like thats ok i just feel like this all turned into petty drama that wasnt needed 😭 i disagree with some stuff you said (like that one comment about understanding how logans parents didnt want him) but i guess i just wanted to clarify i myself dont have any true ill intent towards you i just think this whole situation is kinda stupid and wanted to clarify that so have a nice day ig- i blocked immediately because i didnt want to see more drama but here i am lmaoo

i personally like logan because he contributes to the group, keeps a level head in tough situations(like standing up for barons other victim) and can make a decision under alot of pressure (like shooting the phantom) and i think he has alot of potential but feel free to debate

hi , idk what happened but the logang has started interacting with me again. did someone make a post or did y’all js get curious? I genuinely wanna know 😣 but you guys are welcomed here !!

um but yeah I agree. thing is I never started this account to troll or start drama/discourse. the account was so that I could separate my main and sbg content and it’d be more organized. I had been posting Logan hate before hand, and a lot of ppl found my posts funny/agreed so I just continued it here. you guys just got rlly mad for no reason. I get that some of the jokes I made were a little harsh, but at the end of the day it was never that serious. I do apologize if I stressed anyone out, but this whole thing is so silly. I’m use to bigger fandoms being more aggressive, and even the sbg TikTok fandom is pretty blunt, so I didn’t think you guys would take my jokes so personally. but you live and you learn.

also I appreciate you being so kind! I understand that many ppl just blocked me bc they didn’t want to waste their energy on smth silly / js assumed it was bait content. which is totally fair! like I’ve said in other posts, I have no ill will towards anybody I’ve interacted with, regardless of how the conversation we had went down. If I’ve said smth that’s upset you, my dms are always open to chat or js tag me in a post/comment and I’ll talk with you. Sometimes I can be a bit rude, but I promise it’s not personal at all. The only person I hate is Logan fields. Not you guys. Even if your a logang member (funny y’all took a liking to that name btw 😭).

I will continue to post Logan slander, and I can’t promise that I’ll tone my content down all the way, so if that’s not for you then you’re welcomed to block me or the Logan hate tag. I use like the same 4 Logan hate tags so it’s not gonna be a sneak attack. Also even though I post logan hate, I AM ALWAYS OPEN TO DEBATING. I’m very open-minded and will change my opinion if you make a good point that I can’t refute. I just have not run into anyone who could do that yet.

okay now for the fun stuff. You said you like Logan because he contributes to the group, but I disagree. I feel like Logan has contributed least to the group. When you say “he keeps level-headed”, I feel the opposite. Logan is very shy and timid, and he gets scared very easily. Logan is very easy to persuade and intimate, which is why he got bullied in the first place. Although he stood up to Barron, he wasn’t level headed at all. He was clouded with rage (which in part has to do with the phantoms) but shows he cannot control his emotions well. In many offical arts + earlier chapters, Logan is seen crying / hesitating constantly. Yes he has a reason to be terrified, but you cannot say he is level headed. Especially compared to everyone else. I’m not sure how I feel about him being able to make decisions under pressure. I think Logan is good at analyzing situations. Thats why he was able to come up with multiple theories about the phantom world. But I feel like in order to say he makes good decisions under pressure, he’d have to actually put these decisions into action. Logan is still very hesitant though and I don’t want to base his character off of one scene, especially because I’ve talked about why I feel like that scene was a cover up and not genuine. Most of the time Logan follows the instructions and commands of others. He actually buckles under pressure imo. like when they were fighting before getting the car, Logan would’ve never mentioned he was scared if Tyler had not spoken first. He would’ve just followed everyone else due to peer pressure. Logan always acts second. I honestly believe if he had saw Aiden on the roof he would’ve never even considered using his gun because he avoids situations that have a lot of pressure and responsibility. So no, I don’t believe Logan makes good decisions under pressure. Again that’s just my opinion and I’m down to talk about it more! but if you do want to debate pls js reblog this or put another ask in bc the comment word limit is so annoying 😭

#sbg #school bus graveyard webtoon #logan hate #i hate logan fields.#logan slander #school bus graveyard #schoolbus graveyard #sbg (webtoon)#fuck logan #logan fields #pls keep asking me questions guys I love talking 🙏

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yonglixx · 2 years

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@hoeranghaee Thank you Sa for tagging me ily💕💕

tag game Q&A

favorite time of the year: either fall or spring!!!🍁🌱

comfort food: soup and pasta 🍲

do you collect something: umm...does collecting books count ??

favorite drink: coffee ☕🖤

current favorite song: That That, PSY and Suga ♡

favorite song: very difficult to answer tbh I dont have just one favorite song like, im so stressed even thinking about it help 😅

tagging: @alionex @safetypijns @followmylane @milkpansa @hyunfelix @quokki @lesbianlovestay @leenow @soobin-chois @crimineol @freckledbbokkie @chrisbangs @leemarkies @strayberryminho @ambivartence (I may be missing some ppl but as always, no pressure, only if you want to!) ♡

#I wanted to tag some more ppl but I saw that they've already been tagged #also im sorry If I left out some ppl Im p I sure I did but you can still do it :)#thank you sa #tag game #about me #not skz

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racxnteur · 3 years

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Okay hi tumblr..,..

What’s up. I have OCD and anxiety, and here on tungl dot com, there is a nice little type of post that makes my blood pressure flip the fuck out every time, and it’s those “if you are reading this [x]” / “reblog and [y] will happen” type reblog memes

You know the ones: money cat, lucky xyz post, that sort of shit. The revival of old school yahoo viral email chains. Even immunity rabbit or whatever – same premise. Anything that says, ‘By reading or reblogging this post, you are activating some specific effect.’

Basically, most people can probably ignore them easily if they don’t like them; but others, especially those with particular psychological conditions (aka, ME) can actually suffer stress responses to posts like this. Obsessive-compulsive, schizophrenic spectrum, anxious, paranoid, magical thinking type disorders especially can see a superstitious post and have it automatically activate an anxious or compulsive reaction, because to the brain, it’s like a new rule/parameter has suddenly been introduced to your environment without warning. Now suddenly, whatever atypical structures frame your brain function have to accommodate for an alien factor. <- I don’t know if any of this really makes sense; it’s hard to articulate in a NT-accessible manner, but hopefully the general gist comes through.

Anyway. So far it’s been basically impossible for me (and therefore, I presume, others as well) to avoid posts like this, because they don’t tend to have any sort of universally recognized term to tag warn for. As a result I’m basically always playing Russian roulette with my dashboard.

A while ago, I asked tweeter followers to vote on the best thing to call these, and most agreed that ‘superstitious posts’ was fitting. So now I’m asking tomblr users to consider making my life and others’ lives easier and less stressful in One Easy Step:

Please

tag for #superstitious posts !

It would... honestly make a big difference if this were standardized and I will be eternally grateful ❤️😪

(Ok & encouraged for ppl to reblog this!!!)

#superstitious posts #Tumblr #psa #actuallyocd #signal boost #nix speaks

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hcnnibal · 2 years

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I remember some days ago you mentioned feeling burnout in the tags when asked if you're doing commissions. Hope you take care of yourself and feel better soon, burnout is no joke. I just started doing painting commissions for ppl I know irl and I just do pet portraits but it can be a lot of stress and pressure. Also wanted to say I love your work so much & the Patreon subscription is worth every penny, I always look forward to the email alert of your new posts. Thank you also for T4T Hannigram 🐁

yeah creative burnout sucks assss 🥲 like i still love drawing so much but like… why is it suddenly so hard 🧍‍♂️

#ive been trying to deal w it for months now #picked up some destructive hobbies to balance my creative ones

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shoezuki · 3 years

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genuine question: do you think ‘don’t speak on this issue if you’re not a minority affected’ is as black and white as ppl make it out to be?

like i was out as a lesbian for like 2 years before figuring out The Gender Stuff and dealt w a lot of genuine lesbophobic stuff (getting outed, losing friends, Actually Weirdchamp Jokes etc) so i feel like i should be able to identify when to say No, Please Wise Up at these kinds of situations given past experiences, even if i ID differently now. also im v stressed can i have a homie forehead kiss please ;-;

Oh yea anon i Absolutely think the 'dont speak if ur not affected' stuff is Bullshit. Like majorly cuz it aint that easy to just. Go by specific labels??? Like you experienced lesbophobia as u said and those experiences will ALWAYS be with you regardless of hoe you change n grow as a person. You Absolutely should be 'allowed' to have a voice in such matters.

Ive seen Multiple ppl who either recently realized themselves as different labels, or dtwrted questioning their identity as a lesbian, and this uncertainty of if they are 'able' to speak on these things. Even me in particular. Like i go by 'queer' for both because i Cant fit myself into more conventional labels. But i spent a Long timr in highschool questioning and battling with myself on if i was a lesbian or not. Im still not 100% sure and i dont think i ever will. Does that give me a 'pass' to speak on these things? I have no fucking clue.

Secondly, though. This take is spicier. But i think any lgbt person can discuss these issues if theyre a lesbian or not or have never been.

People take the idea of Only Lesbians or the group affected can accept the apology, which id true, and made it more into: only this group can talk on this or have opinions on this. Which i thinl is wrong. Because now theres an expectation of lesbians needing to take initiative and Give other people opinions and Tell them what theyre allowed to Think. Thats not a job we should push on lesbians/the groups affected.

People HAVE to be able to make their own opinions on this. We dont need a Pocket Lesbian to tell us what to do or think or what we can of cant say. Its not theyre job to 'educate us' at every interval like this. Its why we see so many 'remember you cant accept apologies if youre not the minority affected' or 'lesbians what do you think?' Type threads. It puts pressure on lesbians, makes em do the leg work they dont need to and honestly? Is another way of speakin over them. Like 'i cant think on this myself i need lesbians to tell me what to do here, so I fill up tags and tls with this instead of actually retweeting threads and words made By lesbians' yknow???

This got long. Its kinda complex. But ppl really want to box others in and give the affected groups a Job to Educate People under the guise of 'upholding their voices' tbh

I ALMOST FORGOT THE KISS. CMERE.

MWAH

#twitter beef #lesbophobia #anon

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bulletnotestudies · 3 years

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Hello! You’ve been like one of my fave studyblrs for a while now and i just get so motivated to work and study. And i love studyblr in general but i feel sad how i haven’t made any friends yet and I keep comparing myself to other blogs that get more likes and stuff and I know it shouldn’t be about the numbers or the friends but it feels a big lonely ig? Do you have any tips on how to overcome this?

oh that’s so kind of you, thank you aaaaaa you just made my morning :,)

ah yeah, i know it can feel quite lonely at first, but it always changes when you least expect it, you do end up finding your people! it’s really easy to feel small and insignificant, especially if you get intimidated a bit by numbers like notes and how many asks you get in comparison to other blogs, but i promise that behind every ‘big’ studyblr, there’s just a slightly confused, often stressed, and sometimes lonely person, not unlike yourself :) seriously, once you truly grasp the fact that we’re all Just Students, making their way through the chaos of academia, it’s a lot easier to reach out.

which brings me to my main piece of advice - get involved: - send people asks! (a super easy, no pressure way to do this is to send in a prompt when sb’s doing an ask game, throw in a ‘hope your day’s going well!’ for a bit of a more personal note and voilà) - leave feedback in the tags (i always read what people say in the tags when they reblog my posts<3) - participate in challenges and celebrations - send them a dm about a shared interest if you notice you both like xyz!

honestly, i usually just slide into ppl’s dms i think, but if any of my friends on here would like to comment on how we became friends, please do bc i cannot remember sfghjklq (i do remember @jeonchemstudy and i meeting bc i left my posts in her tag and then we started sending each other ask game asks and talking in the tags and now here we are)

i might’ve forgotten sth bc this is the 2nd time i’m writing this (i, your local Fool, accidentally deleted it the first time lol), but the most important thing to keep in mind is that, like i’m sure you’ve noticed, this is a really wholesome community and i have not once seen a studyblr that wasn’t open to meeting new people, so i really just want to say: go for it. if you see sb you think you wouldn’t mind having a conversation with, start one! it can be about anything, as long as you’re nice and respectful, no one will mind :) of course, it doesn’t always end in friendship, we are all different after all and sometimes a one-time conversation is all you have, but that’s okay! it’s never because you’re too awkward or whatever else your small insecurities may tell you, you guys just aren’t on the same particular wavelength x

oh, p.s.: you could also join a studyblr-run discord, @hyperchemblr owns a really nicely organized server where you can meet loads of people, and i have a smaller server where we get together to play among us (among other stuff).

#it really is about recognition - if you use people's tags on your posts/send them asks/otherwise pop up in their notifs;#it's the same as irl - if you recognise someone you're far more likely to be able to hold a conversation and potentially become friends #oh also yasemin (@study-van) and i became friends after i slid into her dms for advice on photo quality iirc #but yeah @ friends do reply to this with how we met (1. i can't really remember specifically and 2. it'd be cool to see your side of the st-#-ory :)#sabrinas mail #anon #advice #studyblr

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kae-karo · 3 years

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fic writer interview!

i saw @prince-liest do this and thus i will take ur 'tagging anyone who wants to do this' seriously lmaoooo (also hi btw hope ur well!!! 💜💜)

How many works do you have on AO3?

ahaha,,,,,159 lmao

What's your total AO3 word count?

fdsjkkjlsfdklj as of today, 2,089,769

How many fandoms have you written for and what are they?

only three fsdjkldslfkj the phandom (dan&phil), bnha, and genshin!

What are your top 5 fics by kudos?

chosen (x) - zhongchi (genshin)

to love (and be loved in return) (x) - kaeluc (genshin)

little bird (x) - dabihawks (bnha)

feet don't touch the ground (x) - xiaoven (genshin)

i knew you were fire (x) - dabihawks (bnha)

honestly none of that surprises me except that little bird is still up there, although i think i owe that to sif (@the-final-sif) for sharing it around the time it got posted since it was partly inspired by her raptor stress grip post!!

the rest are all chaptered fics, which is mostly what i expected to be in the top 5 lmao

Do you respond to comments, why or why not?

yes!!! always!!!! no matter what u comment, i will respond!!! and if i don't, it's probably cause ao3 didn't notify me properly or i didn't see it in my inbox or something

as for why, it's mostly to do with like...i know how hard it can be for some people to comment, even just a bunch of heart emojis or a 'i loved this!' or something short and simple? and it means a lot to me that ppl are going out of their way to say something nice, no matter how small, and it's really really important to me to acknowledge that

What’s the fic you’ve written with the angstiest ending?

hmm,,,,,this is a hard one, cause for a very long time, my policy was that my fic would always have a happy ending? and for a long time, that was true!! but the dabihawks interaction (during the raid) broke me, and from an emotional standpoint, i think freeing icarus (x) is probably the one that has the angstiest ending of the two or so that i wrote in that time?

Do you write crossovers? If so what is the craziest one you’ve written?

u know i really haven't written any crossovers? it's normally not my thing cause my brain typically focuses on a single thing and doesn't really have the capacity to think about more than that, so i end up writing just au-style or fusion-style (shoutout to that one bnha but it was scooby doo fic i wrote - x)

i don't think i'd be opposed to writing a crossover but i'd have to be SUPER inspired by the idea and both fandoms lmao

Have you ever received hate on a fic?

aha yes, i have. the only straight up hate i've received was on a kaeluc fic (surprisingly not because it was kaeluc, but bc i was 'mistreating' kaeya in the fic) - to be entirely fair, the commenter pointed out something that i hadn't realized myself, and it led to a second piece of the story that helped me tie up some loose ends, but...let's just say they weren't very kind about their feelings lmao

other than that, i had someone very upset because i didn't tag which character was bottoming in a fic (valid if that bugs u!) and they read through most of it before getting to the smut (and said that they enjoyed everything up to that point) then said they were 'disgusted' by it. i have opinions on that and a few other comments they made, but i will keep them to myself lmao

and beyond that, just a few ppl on my xiaoven fic saying that they were unhappy about the background kaeluc (which is tagged lmao) - really no hate whatsoever til genshin, honestly, which is...very hmmmm :) lmao

Do you write smut? If so what kind?

yep!!! mostly vanilla or vanilla-adjacent lmao i'm not super into heavy kink, although i know if epi reads this she's gonna call me out for being a monsterfucker bc of my dragon!zhongli smut :) lmaoooo but really i tend to write pretty vanilla smut! i also prefer to avoid any noncon/dubcon or hate sex or anything particularly angsty, just not my jam to write!

Have you ever had a fic stolen?

hmm i don't think so? although i don't heavily monitor ao3 (or wattpad/ffn), so i can't really say that for sure lmao

Have you ever had a fic translated?

yes!!! i've had a few fics translated to russian (little bird is one of them!) which is very sweet and i hope that anyone who prefers to read in russian has been enjoying those fics!!

Have you ever co-written a fic before?

alksdfjklsdf only once, and it's deadass how me and rose got together. we decided to co-write a podcast au fic for the phandom (x) and ended up flirting via google docs asldkfjkldsfj

What’s your all time favourite ship?

what a horrible question, making me choose between my children like this!!!! sdlfkjdskf tbh i'm not sure i have a real answer bc it changes as i go? and 'favorite' is so vague,,,,,favorite to read? to write about? to think about? asdklfjkjsdfk i really don't know if i have an answer, but i'll maybe say kaeluc for now lmao

What’s a WIP that you want to finish but don’t think you ever will?

well first and foremost, with only 2 exceptions, i never post a fic unless it's done. i tend to follow wherever my passion leads my brain, so i'm notorious for jumping around between stories and taking breaks from long fic and returning later on to finish them, and i know that i would not do well under the pressure of posting something unfinished and trying to finish it in a timely manner

that said, many wips sit in my google doc folder, but one is Well Known as the one that has followed me through both the phandom and bnha (rose keeps asking who i'm gonna switch the chars to in genshin, but i think it suits bakudeku too well to do that) - only the lonely survive. it sits at like 36k in my wip folder, and i adore the story dearly and i want very much to finish it, but it never makes it quite to the forefront of my motivation, and so it rarely if ever gets worked on...i hate the idea of 'never' finishing it, but it's unfortunately quite likely that i won't 😭😭😭

What are your writing strengths?

emotion!!! and immersion!!! it's my goal in a fic to make it as immersive as possible and saturated with emotion to help convey that feeling of being in the place of the pov character, and i think i do it pretty well. also just bc i feel a little obligated to say it - another strength is actually sitting down and putting words down. i know that's a struggle for a lot of writers and i often get,,,,lovingly bullied? i guess? lmao for being able to bash out a few k in a day most days

What are your writing weaknesses?

this isn't so much a weakness i guess but i am basically incapable of treating crack fic as crack. if i have a cracky idea, it will, without a doubt, end up turning into a Perfectly Serious fic somehow (notable 'crack treated so seriously that it's no longer crack' fics include: todoroki doing the freeze-the-ocean thing from frozen 2, 'shmigaraki', todo and denki get together bc of vine references, the league sells feet pics, shiggy and natsu own a nightclub/bakery, scooby doo but make it bnha, and dabi getting his ears pierced at claire's)

but in all seriousness, i think my main weakness is that i often get comfortable? and i'm not one to typically push myself forcefully out of my comfort zone when it comes to stories that i come up with on my own, which often means that ideas inspired by discussions with others are what prompt me to branch out and try new things?

What are your thoughts on writing dialogue in other languages in a fic?

i think, like anything, it has its place? there are certainly stories where it makes sense to do that and even adds depth to a story, although i personally am not exceptionally comfortable enough with other languages (except maybe asl) to do that in fic myself without the assistance of someone very comfortable with that language lmao

What was the first fandom you wrote for?

the phandom! not really my jam to write rpf anymore but it definitely got me started and i'm really grateful for my time writing there, as everyone was super supportive and kind, and it was really a perfect place for a beginner to get comfortable and practice

What’s your favourite fic you’ve written?

again, forcing me to choose between my children...i really don't know that i can pick one fic bc they all exist in such wildly different spaces? i poured my worldbuilding soul into the king of disaster series (mainly dabihawks - x), exile (dan and phil - x) was my first massively long fic, our hearts are heavy burdens we shouldn't have to bear alone (chayea - x) is probably my favorite character/character dynamic study, i'm exceptionally proud of the smut in chosen (zhongchi - x), the list goes on and on and on lmao like. i could probably list half my fics as favorites in some regard dsflkjdfsjkl

anyway, tyty bellamy for putting this on my dash so i could do it as well!!

tagging: literally anyone who wants to do this, i have so many writer friends slkdjfjklsdf but please please tag me if u do it so i can read urs!!! 💜💜💜

#writing

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lascapigliata · 2 years

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i have ppl who hire me (often friends) who know that clients can be frustrating and then apologize for being That Kind Of Client and by and large that’s never the case bc the basic considerateness leading to that nearly-always-unnecessary apology, understanding that i am a human and you are a human and this is a transaction between two humans, inherently stops you from being that client. anyway here’s a very long story of That Client that’s not even over yet

i spent days. DAYS. feverishly #ideating on ambiguous and confusing mixed messages to come up with … image…treatments… but also kind of book covers bc we have to do 3 “ebooks” [AKA LANDSCAPE ORIENTATION PDF] by feb 8? but also kind of just textures bc we need to establish those first? but also kind of just “jumping off points” bc That Client always wants Just Jumping Off Points? for this company. halfway through we found out that we weren’t allowed to use their ONLY secondary color and had to suddenly come up with a color palette. and even when we finally were like ok fine we’ll make these into covers so we can at least get started with the piece of this project that we’re actually supposed to be working on, half the client’s team are the PRODUCT DESIGNERS who want things PRODUCT DESIGNY and whatever and the other half of the team is the woman who actually hired us (who by the way looks like my dad’s dead mother, the death of whom i haven’t even processed yet much less having this woman who my brain has decided is her doppelganger being frustrating) who wants to use duotoned photos and thinks that the abstract options we were working with are bad.

the clients’ design team mood board, which APPARENTLY come to find out later the woman had nothing to do with and hadn’t seen:

my work wednesday afternoon through thursday night, then friday morning’s rather aggressive selection (unfortunately the friday AM status which had... significantly more is lost to time):

(PS like, guess which of those are the two i sorta had to include of my boss’ bc i can’t hate every single thing he does. the last two! the rando texture slapped over their faces and on its side! the full color rando lines! the horrible color palette! i guess that’s subjective but... ew! what the fuck!!!)

i had a fuckng breakdown in part due to this stress and pressure last week and he had the CHUTZPAH to tell me that “well don’t worry bc we have the weekend to work” like how about fuck you,,,

and meanwhile. my boss has been working all by his lonesome to make like little ID tags for collateral types which have nothing to do with what i’m doing - not color, not concept, not anything - and he shows these ON COVERS!! RANDOM COVERS!! that i can’t even tell if HE thinks are actually like “Designed Covers” or not bc they look terrible and shitty but maybe he likes? or maybe they’re just placeholders? but either way like - we have to show ALL covers with the ID tag or NONE of them, we can’t be like well here are our designs and only half of them are complete. i managed to talk him down from including the photos on the covers but like he kept a texture on two of them and no matter HOW many times i tell him that you can’t show half-baked design they will think it’s just design he WILL not listen to me. but also like... so you want to do a lozengey title frame. is that meant to go on ANYTHING i did or are you just like sneaking in an extra few covers here??? (reference below and again check out his... let’s say 90s color palette)

like she didn’t even understand After We Told Her that the dark blue background here was a PLACEHOLDER like literally she thought that we wanted to just do a dark blue cover with no imagery whatsoever. grow a brain!!! so NOW bc they SAW these on his covers-that-aren’t-covers-but-they-thought-were-covers i have to use that like just-mesh-wave that he loves that in this context just looks like Every Other Company Ever. which i told him! and he said do it anyway!

and to be clear like i do not CARE that a lot of mine got rejected. i do not CARE that my boss and i have very different styles. i do not CARE that he was working on an ID system and we have to smush them together. that’s the nature of the beast sometimes, it’s honestly fine. i did good work (once i got some distance and stopped crying). i do not like being FORCED to make BAD work. i do not like when my boss is passive aggressive - just tell me to add your covers! i do not like when clients contradict themselves and i can’t figure out who’s in charge. i don’t like when they ask for completely unreasonable deadlines and then basically won’t even let us work on that project until we do a million other things first.

so whatever finally we race to put together an entire design system for multiple kinds of collateral AND an ebook design all within basically a few hours and then present it today, which is always stressful and shitty when i’m not happy w the work i’m presenting - i FOUGHT for one of my original designs to be included bc the woman kinda liked it of all the geometric options and he was even resistant to that (which like - spoiler, that that was one of the only ones they liked (: almost like i am a younger designer with a better sense of how to design for tech (: ) (our systems presentation below:)

just to find out that actually they DO want the secondary red color included and they DON’T want abstract mesh waves (DUH), and i also have to sit there while their product designer shows their diagram design which, sorry to be rude but, looks like every single dribbble product design diagram i’ve ever seen bc product designers literally know how to do one (1) thing.* and their lead designer wasn’t even there! so NOW he’s sending email comments now like “did we explore this option?” NO! bc we had 3 HOURS and the feedback we got was that they didn’t like that option! why don’t you talk to EACH OTHER?

oh because you need all this work done by the first week of february... right. that’s why.

as a kicker, we found out that the text for the ebook we were working on isn’t actually finalized so we need to completely pivot and reflow the whole thing with new text:)

*sorry this is mean. if any of my followers are product designers your job is very tough I GUESS since you get paid vastly more than me but everything yall make looks the same and also it’s ruining design and that’s that

#work blogging #under a cut bc it's very long and ranty and also so i can delete it lol

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atsumwah · 3 years

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hii pretty bby !!

thank u so much for always giving me the time and space i need !!! i truly appreciate it, especially since i told u that i lost some friends bc of it,,, i just tend to get overwhelmed a lot and then i disappear for a few days to i guess evaluate 🥺 anyways that aside, i’m truly grateful to have u in my life pretty bby 🥺😘💕

yes ur my pretty bby now, tsumu better suck it up 🥰🥰

pls take enough rest bb and make sure to stay hydrated ! i rlly liked s5 of bnha and i’m curious to know what ur thoughts are, so pls do let me know !! and i feel ya on the sleeping part,,, sometimes our body just work that way i guess, doesn’t matter how many hours u sleep, u still feel hella tired.

i think my doctor said once it is because you then have too little iron and vitamin d in your body (or something like that) or it’s bc ur feeling stressed. either way, try to plan like maybe an hour or just 30 min in ur day purely to de-stress and relax. it works for some ppl (not me tho) and i hope it can work for u as well <333

i’ll gladly be the ji-yeong to ur sae-byeok 🥺🥺 (and take a bullet for u)

and literally SAME ! when i know that ur happy, healthy and overall just feeling great, that brings me so much serotonin !! thank u for being in my life and ilyt bb and loml 💗💗

senn u gotta stop or my heart is gonna burst🥺🥺

hey hey of course <3 the last thing id want is to pressure u or anything and i completely get it love && im grateful for u too! i love having u in my life seriously do u want me to hv a heart attack tsumu got nothing pls ur the loml😘

omg i love it! i think i got 5 episodes left?? and im at the my villain academia arc and my heart just aches for all of them pls😭😭 im a big baby so i cried a lot but how could i not when i know more abt them 😭😭

ooo that makes sense tho! i can't say I'm stressed bcs i literally do nothing at home 😂 but maybe on some level im just stressed of what ppl keep perceiving me as these days and it bothers me sm,,,, I'll try to do that ! if it doesn't work well there's always the #haikyuu fluff tag to cheer me up 😌

guys u heard it ive found my other half 🥺🥺🥺and not if i take the bullet for u first

hehe as i said ur literally my serotonin boost,,,so basically,,, sennotonin????

pls sometimes i think im funny

anyways i hope to hear from u soon bby!! i adore u sm💕💕💕

#💬—asks #—senn💘

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