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#she cant complain unless she literally needs the hospital cause big girls don't cry when they get hurt. they suck it up and get over it
mejomonster
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2 years
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i should join an ax throwing club. there’s an lgbt one in my area. im not healthy enough to be running nonstop for hours yet again. but boy can i throw hard o3o
#rant
#1 i got to throw axes 2 weeks ago and man i was so good at it
#2 entirely unrelated
#yall know how im nonbinary. which mostly for me means im bigender
#and i feel like a guy 90% of the time but i identify with feelin like a girl at times so im nonbinary
#also i just. do not care about gender for myself. except that its stupid theres ways society views u based on how u look as a stranger
#real stupid if i tell someone im a guy or girl how they tend to treat me different. so like. aside from that no i dont care about gender muc
#anyway it is. so funny to me in hindsight how my parents raised me in so many traditionally masculine ways (but of course
#whats usual for raising a boy depends on the culture and family lol. because while its typically how u raise a boy
#my family was raising ALL the girls this way so it was the expectations put on us FOR being girls)
#and like. some of it was toxic masculine bullshit like no crying
#no emotions. do stuff on your own. be strong. be independent. never ask for help. be successful or we punish u. u dont deserve emotional
#support etc. :/
#but then other stuff was like? just expectations kinda generally put on boy kids.
#like oh mejos covered in dirt cause kids play outside and get messy. she played fighting outside cause all kids do. she can go fix the
#fence or heater or washing machine cause 'all kids' can repair stuff. she can go fix the wiring or tv or cable. she can go put oil in the ca
#car. she's got to play sports EVERY YEAR cause a lil girl HAS to play sports. shes GOT to be tough cause lil girls DONT cry
#she cant complain unless she literally needs the hospital cause big girls don't cry when they get hurt. they suck it up and get over it
#alone. also kind of niche stuff tho
#like how boys get conditioned more often to solve problems than learn social skills (legos versus dolls). how boys tend to expect
#to solve a problem when communicating. so i hear stuff and wanna go fix things. i like feeling needed. whereas usually girls
#get conditioned to empathize as first response and that as 2nd. and vice versa.
#in fact i only learned emotional empathy communication as a teen with friends cause ooh boy my mom communicates like a typical closed off gu
#so does my dad. (tho he does try some empathy communication skills cause its how he'd try to talk to me - since he felt i should be emotiona
#lly supported. but still needed to learn to fix things on my own. which was annoying. aqlways fixing everything myself -.-)
#anyway just. its funny to me in retrospect how EXCEPT for the beauty/clothing standards when i hit age 10 (and sudden expectation
#to smile and pleasantly give ppl things before they ask). i was otherwise entirely socialized like my dad probs was
#and moms probs was. and for some reason my mom mustve gotten raised like a little boy usually does. or decided it was better for her kids
#to raise them like that? like. as a result i think my sister and me and my nieces ALL got fairly masculine social skills
#and hobbies and internal expectations. its just for us thats also what a 'girl' is supposed to be. so genders stupid
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