Sofía has had a pretty interesting start this year. From schools being closed to massive flooding and a Cyclone to her first trial for the Senior’s Volleyball team and made it. Today, she goes on her first camp trip with the school. We’ll see her back in a week! #schoollife #diocesanschoolforgirls #diogirls #aucklandnz #volleygirl #volleyball #schoolcamp (at Diocesan School for Girls) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpGghTIy5j3ZQi37Y95S8M8RAdEAe11JukKCJ80/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Me and my ✨ fruity friends ✨ at school camps lol (from heartstopper book 3)

I feel strongly that jikookers must be really young or adults who are really lacking in the common sense and observational department because there's no way there's no way 😭

Imagine fighting tooth and nails and even going as far as visiting cc's anonymously of ppl who don't think the same as you to try to convince them ( more like convince yourself ) that two dudes in the kpop industry who have content after content of very common and usual fanservice, I mean almost kisses with cameras on every angel and on their faces, lots of narratives that come straight out of a company, they even be expecting eagerly their annual compilation of fanservice, the memories ( any rational adult with any idea of how the world works knows that that isn't the way a closeted gay couple would be treated when there's millions of investment in a group), also the body language (jikookers really can't read the most basic body language or they are pretending), the honest clear attraction between two other members etc, are in a relationship

They also be acting like reality is dependant on what ppl's opinion a private relationship is.....it doesn't matter what any of us think, who you try to convince or how much you try to convince yourself, reality won't change, facts won't change, our opinions don't have any influence in these people's feelings and lives, I need ppl to stop thinking with their desires and wishes and really start using their brains.....and I'm not saying this for the need to win any ship war, but bc i see how these delusions serve to harm real queer people and make their lives harder ( kpop and in this case their company has everything to do with this)

Hi @def-sowl!

Yes, absolutely! Going to rant a bit on your ask here.

What I have learned from the Jkkrs visiting my blog and from what I encounter when I look through tags... Jkkrs have a very strong focus on the 'romantic' parts of life. They allow for very little aside that. Everything Jk and Jimin do has a double meaning or they do it with the other in mind. You could so clearly see that when Jk released Seven... his clothes, his pictures, his jewelry, his lives... everything was connected to Jimin. That is not how real lives work. Jkkrs rarely think about reasons for Jk and Jimin's behavior outside the realm of romance. Jimin was unsure about his appearance so he sent Jk a selfie to show why... Jkkrs make it a naked selfie. JImin went to NY... Jkk date. Jimin doesn't talk about Jk on his lives... Jimin isn't ready/holds the ropes/whatever it was. The way they see Jk and Jimin is entirely built around the idea of them together. You can even see huge discrepansies in that, because at the moment they dont know whether to stick with the "Jkk is bold" or the "Jkk is laying low".

When thinking about the members, there's so much to take into account. They do not live normal lives for instance. I had this Jkk go on about Tae not knowing Jk's hotelroom number and how that meant they couldn't possibly be boyfriends. They do not take into account that those guys go from hotelroom to hotelroom at times, with only time to sleep at some days. It's nothing like schoolcamp or going on holiday. We as fans, cannot compare their situation to ours in the practical way. They have jobs that none of us experience, they have more money than us, they always have to be aware of 'image', they are 'being lived' at times... it's just.. we cannot relate. That doesn't mean we cannot incorporate those things when we think about how their lives might be though, and I feel Jkkrs absolutely lack in that regard.

That anon came back and showed me many tiktoks and tweets about how I am wrong and how Jkk is real (though stating they do not mean to try and convince me, they just like pointing out that I am wrong). But those vids, where all either fanservice or plain friendship. And you are right, they do not understand the subtlety of reading bodylanguage at all.

and I'm not saying this for the need to win any ship war, but bc i see how these delusions serve to harm real queer people and make their lives harder ( kpop and in this case their company has everything to do with this)

That is a very strong point you made, and yes I agree.

Camp day 1 (March 17 2022)

Today a few classmates and I went to a school camp. After encountering with a problem with someones form for the camp we finally arrived at the location of the camp, an hour late. Before we had to go into our rooms, we had to get instructions from our camp leader. I was in a room with a few friends as well as mutuals.

The first activity we did was low ropes. We had a reasonably small course to go around, and we had 2 people on either side of you in case you fell down and hurt yourself. I went on the course first before I became a catcher for my friends. When we finished the course we had to line up in age order, excluding the year.

We then went back to lunch before heading off to our next activity. The flying fox. Personally this was my favourite bit of the camp and I went on it over 6 times because it was so fun. Some of the kids that were afraid of heights didn't participate but encouraged the kids that went down, and helped those like me who couldn't get back up, back up.

The next activity we did was canoeing which I didn't participate in for personal reasons. While the group was canoeing, I spent my time taking photos and writing this in my journal.

We then went back to the main area for afternoon tea before doing our next activity, which was team bonding. We failed most activities but because I'm partially active I was a great team leader and helped us out a lot.

When we finished the activity we went back to the main area for a chill out period before dinner. Some people were playing with the billy goats and the deer the owners had named Bambi, but me and my friends lay in a ditch avoiding society as much as we could.

We then had dinner and when we finished, a few mutuals and friends helped out with dishes. Before we went to bed I asked to play a game of Uno with one of the group leaders, but as more people joined it got louder so I couldn't handle the noise, so I played Taco, Cat, Goat, Cheese, Pizza with a few of my teachers, which was a lot quieter.

One of my teachers was afraid of going into the goats so when one of the kids got in trouble for giving Bambi his desert all the 'cool kids' left the paddock, so me, my friends and the teacher went in. While my teacher took photos of the goats and deer we played around with Bambi, who would occasionally go for people 'crowned jewels.'

We then left as it was getting late. When we got back we realised we didn't know where the 'cool kids' were so the teachers spent half an hour looking for them. But luckily they were found. But it did cause some drama's.

Signing off.

Autumn Moon.

Date of Journal Entry: Thursday 17 March 9:14pm

Date of Tumblr Entry: Tuesday 5 April 11:02 pm

🔄 school camp (at Sovereign Hill)

Year 8 camp

On year 8 camp, one of the guys in my camp group didnt know how to cut his crumbed chicken-

i made the mistake of offering to cut it for him

he stared at me and said wtaf

it scars me to this day

https://www.beyondtheclassroom.com.au/

5 days of surfing and bushwalking around the Mornington Peninsula with a bunch of legendary year 8 school kids! How lucky are we to have places like this. Ps @equinor please don’t ruin Australia just to benefit your fat wallet! @vanlifediaries @patagoniaaus @vanlife.magazine @costasworld @robjgreenfield @patagonia @nature_org @natgeo @natgeowild @slfestivalaus @wilderness_aus @ellabellaalice . . #naturetherapy #nature #coast #motherearth #coastline #schoolcamp #outdoors #outdoor #outdoored #outdooreducation (at Shoreham, Victoria) https://www.instagram.com/p/BulZq5XgudX/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=5ji7ugoq92k4

3 whole days without her...#What?! #MyMuse #SoulMates @karaokesquad #SchoolCamp https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq5uK9hnGPo/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1m6reuvgaexs4

𝙼𝚊𝚢 6, 2019, 𝙼𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚊𝚢 𝙰𝚕𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚜 𝚊𝚐𝚘... (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃ 𝙼𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝚘𝚕𝚍 𝚍𝚊𝚢𝚜... #throwback #highschool #aceschool #highschoollife #schoollife #schoolphotography #schoolmemories #schooltrip #schoolcamp #travelingpinoy #travellife #travelphotography #travelvietnam #danang #sontra #memories #vintagestyle #vintagedress #vintage #vintageaesthetic #photography #vintagephotography (at Da Nang, Vietnam) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWf-iQZJLSI/?utm_medium=tumblr

I wish I could be like that today, but alas housework need to be done, take the kids to a birthing party and then work. Plus pack bags for school camp. The life of a mother of four. #housework #needabombtoclearthehouse #schoolcamp #packbags #followthebutterflies

Off to camp! #excited #camp #schoolcamp https://www.instagram.com/p/CIOlrQ0JTYbS5SQ_xKGwKIySaT5YhfLG1DT8s00/?igshid=13l0lyqhb9zke

Bumi Perkemahan Sukamantri . . Mau kemping tanpa ribet nyiapin alat alatnya, hubungi kita aj, kita siapkan segala kebutuhan kemping anda ==================== @cakarlangitindonesia @campingsentul #buper #sukamantri #campsukamantri #campinsta #campinggram #funcamp #familycamp #schoolcamp #scoutcamp #tempatkemping #lokasikemping #camping #wahanacamping #lokasicamping #campingfun #campingceria https://www.instagram.com/p/CAumekeApRx/?igshid=18fdf8r1fg7p5

Egg Carton hack #art #painting #eggcarton #kidsart #camp #donleecenter #colors #tshirtart #schoolcamp (at Don Lee Camp & Retreat Center) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3cVuFdgdRd/?igshid=9ddfh5qi8y2c

Went to buy @lovelilpumpkin some new gear for her upcoming 3D2N school adventure camp today {swipe 👈🏻 to see her packing list}. Those hiking pants have UPF 40+ UV protection & can be unzipped at the legs to convert to shorts. Handy! 👍🏻 Also got her a black camo buff which she would never probably use again, but is required for the camp.. it’s ok though, as I can use it when I go fishing 😎 As well as a cute mini lamp and roll-on SPF 50+ sunblock since I can’t really count on her to apply sunblock cream properly herself haha 🤭🤫😜 Gonna spend some time practising with her how to set up / pack her own sleeping bag and getting her camp bag organised ☀️ So exited for her!! 👧🏻💕🌸 #sakuraharuka #p4pumpkin #motherhood #sgkids #schoolcamp #adventuretime #outdoorfun https://www.instagram.com/p/B2HJUbNnI_K/?igshid=7x4k7qg1k2qs