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dearweirdme · 16 hours

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I don't care about mjh but hybe really pissed me off with using BTS as a shield and to sway public opinion and now because of that they are getting hate and cult accusations. And morestupid are people/armys hailing hybe because they issued a statement to protect BTS. Like how stupid can someone be? You don't through someone under the bus if you care for them. I don't know when this fandom will stop kissing company's and bang pd's ass.

They never should have mentioned BTS in their stupid fight. Same way mjh shouldn't have mentioned nj and other groups. But I don't care about her and other groups. Nothing comes before boys. No bang, no company. But these armys smh.

Hi anon!

I think this is being handled appallingly by all parties. It should’ve stayed behind doors no matter who is actually at fault here. You’ve got fans of idols rooting for ceo’s and companies here.. which is actually insane if you think of it.

I suspect they tried to manage the whole situation in a way that totally blew up in their faces. That probably goes for both sides. When you try to sway public opinion (which is what they all were doing by going public) you should account for public opinion being a fickle thing.

#fandom shenanigans #music industry #idiots all of them #feels like they are all new at this #man i’m pissed #gonna indulge in some tkk vids probably #😂

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dearweirdme · 17 hours

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bh knew the repercussions of inserting bts into their mediaplay. they didn’t care enough to not to. they went ahead with their risky plan fully well knowing that it’d be their own artists thrown under the bus. which is exactly what happened. now there’s a hate campaign out of control. they’re literally fixing their own mess and army is praising them for it. but we’re supposed to believe they support their artists and care for their well-being.

Hi anon!

Yeah, things seem to be a right mess! I absolutely hate how all of this is going down and I think it was a huge mistake to take this public. Personally I’m kinda glad members aren’t actually here right now.

#fandom shenanigans #music industry

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dearweirdme · 19 hours

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Hi! I’m kinda worried about what’s happening between Hybe and Adore. Is this gonna affect JK and Tae and BTS Members, then koreab mostly likely favored to Min , then so much rumors coming like Hybe is under some cult😞

Hi anon!

I’ve been very busy the last couple of days and wasn’t able to completely stay up to date on the whole drama. So I’ve not seen the most recent rumors yet.

Overall though, I think it’s probably a good thing that members are away at the moment. This is probably going to have blown over by the time they return.

This isn’t the first time a label is involved in drama. They will mostly overcome this. I did see some people say that Min Hee-Jin has the support of SK’ns because they identify with her more than they do with Hybe. It’s actually a good conversation to have I think, unfairness in workspaces is a real problem. It’s just not fair to have BTS (or any group) involved, since they aren’t the ones who are in charge. I hope people are able to identify the difference beter Hybe management and BTS as a group. They are two different things.

What will happen in the most drastic scenario is that Bang Pd will take the fall (he won’t, they’ll make sure) and he will be replaced by someone else and Hybe will make a statement about taking a different route from now on. I think it’s more likely that Min Hee-Jin will draw the short end of the stick though.

I think BTS will be fine. They are not to blame for any of this, they might take a bit if a hit because of retaliating fandoms, but in the long run I don’t think much will come of it.

#what did I miss?#music industry

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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Where are the receipts where mjh said that bang pd copied BTS on her ideas? Is there any evidence or only media statement?

Hi anon!

Apparently there’s a transcript of her online conversation with a sjaman in which she states Bang Pd got this far by copying her. I’m not actually sure if there’s more than that and her claim is that the conversation is edited to portray a certain idea.

#music industry

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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Correct me if wrong did Tae went live on the next days after the Dream premiere night? Is it normal that you don’t wash after you got home coz he seems just got home before he went live or maybe he stayed with JK or maybe I’m just delusional.

Hi anon!

Well, if he passed out he probably wouldn’t have showered before going to bed. I suspect it’s just a case of bad bed-hair (though super cute!!) If anything I think Jk might’ve gone to Tae’s place for a bit before going home, but it’s also very possible they just actually didn’t accompany each other at their places.

#taekook #dream premiere

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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https://twitter.com/nightstar1201/status/1783381281700765992?t=V5KVf_MYIfTq0uOjJH_knw&s=19

One of your anons said not to insert the guys with what's going on, but clearly this lady is nuts. Now I don't even trust that her working with Taehyung was in good faith. I know everyone had different beliefs, but as someone who grew up in a culture that believes in witchcraft this is concerning 😟

Hi anon!

As an atheist, to me inserting any kind of religious belief into business decisions is unwise. So yeah, to me this is a big 😬.

I dislike how she’s being portrayed as an insane woman because of this though. To me it is hypocritical and definitely slandering to use her beliefs against her. As if she’s not also been very successful for a very long time. I don’t like what she’s doing with naming other bands, but I also feel there’s unfairness going on.

#music industry

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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For what it’s worth, I originally thought there was no BH security at Dream Premiere, but as we got more footage, it became clearer they were there — you can see familiar faces when they walk in the mall area.

Hi anon!

That would point to some company awareness indeed.

#taekook #dream premiere

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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#guess who just got blocked #not a straw after all #just someone who thinks all shippers are the same and there’s no difference between atraws and tkkrs #also someone very condescending #did i evee mention i hate being called honey #please at least read through my blog before you claim I believe certain things #sigh

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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This keeps getting interesting by the day. Best drama to come from Hybe.

Do you think 2025 and beyond for BTS is not promised?

Also how easy is to paint women hysterical

Hi @wheniwrite28 !

Omg, I’m getting more annoyed by the day. It’s like watching a car crash happening. The mus throwing is insane! I ao wish they could’ve dealt with this behind closed doors.

My take in this: I don’t trust or like either side. I think both are manipulative. I dislike how they paint her as a hysterical woman (the misogyny is strong 😑) and I dislike how she drags in several groups.

#music industry #what a mess

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/748745325601243136/httpswwwtumblrcomdearweirdme7486647146728652

Or, or, hear me out. Tae and Jk are just friends who hang out with each other and return to their separate homes at the end of the day.

It’s funny to me that you literally just accused your fellow shippers of bending reality to fit their narratives, so what is this you are doing? You are literally bending the hell outta the reality that Tae and Jk hang out as friends and return to their homes as friends do, and trying to make it fit with the narrative of them being a couple by saying they have to keep themselves safe. That makes no sense because if they wanted to keep themselves safe as you claim, then Tae definitely wouldn’t be telling you how Jk sings a song for him.

There is a pattern here that you taekookers are refusing to acknowledge or making up excuses for. Jk and Tae never being together on days a couple are expected to be together and literally confirming it, so there is no speculation here. Them hanging out for a few hours and separating to go to their houses as friends would. If y’all don’t bend tae and Jk and make them into some actors, liars and pretenders, your ship makes no sense does it? It’s kinda sad honestly

Hi!

Not sure why you’re looking at a Tkk blog if it upsets you this much. It troubles me that you can’t understand the differences between the things we speak of.

Bye!

#this is a straw #i know because of the couples day thing #i’ll block you next time

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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Why do you think someone dragged Tae's chair? Like whatvkind of behavior is that?

Hi anon!

I know that’s something that goes around in fandom, but personally I don’t think it was staff that pulled him back. I think it’s probably himself shoving his chair back and we’re just not able to see his legs move properly. I see no reason for staff to do that, neither do I see any indication that someone was standing/walking behind him.

Not everything that looks a bit weird is actually something wrong.

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#taekook

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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Hi Rain!!

I would like to add my two cents in the ongoing discussion.

Fans often miss the mark by viewing Taekook through a conventional dating lens. Societal norms cloud our judgment, leading to misinterpretations.

In my opinion, the Dream premiere's purpose was to portray them as extremely close, not romantically involved. Their separation afterwards might be a strategic move by the company, possibly orchestrated by Taekook themselves, to display their strong bond as a duo outside the group dynamic. This approach allows them to be close in the present and future without fueling romantic speculations.

There's a contradiction: fans simultaneously believe they're not ready to publicly disclose their relationship yet, while also expecting them to act like couples in public. This is simply unrealistic.

I genuinely believe Big Hit anticipated this. Artist contracts often address such situations, especially for popular groups like theirs. While I can't confirm details about permission or veto power, it's likely stipulated that Taekook should at least inform the company before appearing together publicly in a way that could be misconstrued as romantic.

It's understandable why people might speculate about Jungkook's emotional state on the live stream after the Dream premiere. This situation is unprecedented for them. Previously, their outings were only known through personal stories or leaks from a few people. This was the first highly public event where they appeared together in a decade. Knowing their every micro-expression would be dissected, it's natural for him to feel nervous about the public's reaction. The public's perception of Taekook's relationship is often skewed towards a romantic interpretation, regardless of their actual intentions. Their appearances, interactions, and even expressions can fuel these speculations, as evidenced by the recent fan and media reactions to their Dream premiere appearance.

The decision to sleep separately and appear on separate live streams could be a strategic move by the company or taekook themselves. This might serve several purposes gauging public reaction, managing fan expectations. It's important to consider that excessive speculation, even from well-meaning fans (*cough* us *cough*), can have negative consequences. While other fan groups might engage in similar behavior, with same popular pairings, the potential for harm is likely less severe for them. However, for Taekook, managing fan expectations is crucial to avoid negativity and potential "outing" before they're ready. Ultimately, these strategic moves could benefit everyone involved – the artists, the fans, and the general public.

The speculation about loneliness also stems from a single viewpoint – that they maybe casually dating. However, what if they're simply cautious? Imagine having a fantastic night, but instead of enjoying it freely, you have to wait and see the public's reaction for fear of questioning their relationship or to create the perception you are not dating while you may very well be. This could be quite heartbreaking.

While Jungkook might not be overly sharing, as Rain pointed out many times, he also finds it difficult to completely mask his emotions.

Forgive the text wall! Just wanted to share my thoughts. 🫣

Hi @purplemoonlibra !

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I very much agree with not looking at Tae and Jk as a conventional couple. They are not. They’re famous and they’re a secret. Both of those alone would mean there’s planning involved when it comes to a relationship, the two combined only makes it more necessary.

The though of them doing certain things to normalize seeing them together has come across my mind at some point, I’m just not really sure if that’s deemed necessary at this point. I haven’t got a great grasp at what the opinion of SK’s in general is about them. Do they already see them as friends? Do they suspect something? Would they be surprised to see Tae and Jk spend this much time together? So, is there a need?

I do think it’s something they have done before. To me the way they were shown in ITS was very much about this. Establishing closeness with strict boundaries. I do think at that time there was a need to do it.

If Tae and Jk would have a plan to be more open after enlistment, then maybe you are right and this was already a start into that. I absolutely think their aim these days is to show that they’re super close. I don’t know if they actually plan stuff to make that come across though.

To me it does look as though at least Tae’s live had a purpose other than him actually telling us he heard Jk did a live and that he himself was drunk and passed out 😂.

The last part of your ask I definitely agree with. I do think they are cautious and I do think it’s probably very heartbreaking at times.

#taekook #dream premiere

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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I personally think TK set their own protocols on "visiting" their homes. If they were just seen in public, that means many eyes are on them even after the event. Case in point, the "new" photo of them walking around with Wooga. People stalk them.

They are aware that stalkers are everywhere. So being out in public puts them more at risk of being tailed/followed. I don't think they go to each other's places after being seen in public but would go to their own places to minimize risk. This also happened after their public appearance at Hyoshin's show.

They definitely have ways on getting into eo's places without getting seen but that would be at risk of exposure if they do that just right after being seen publicly.

Maybe JK felt lonely afterwards because it really wasn't the most ideal situation specially after a night out like that, something that must have been huge for them. Plus them doing livestreams, as if to show that "hey, we went our separate ways". JK must have had a fun night but it had to end in a less than ideal way: having to separate ways for their safety against stalkers. I can imagine how that must have sucked tbh, taking a big step going out in public together and enjoying the night with Tae and Wooga, but having to cut your time together short, along with the happiness you felt.

Hi anon!

To some that might seem an extreme way of thinking, but I do think it’s rooted into something very real. Aside from the Tkk of it all, we know they have stalkers. Both Tae and Jk have had people come seriously close last year, and those must’ve been very scary incidents to them. So yes, when they’re out somewhere publicly I think they are very much aware that some stalkers and saseangs will take that information and await them at their buildings for when they arrive back home. In the case of Tkk the treat to their privacy that might be is even more of a risk.

I think Jk gets overwhelmed at times. I think he’s pretty sensitive. So a lot of that night might have contributed to why he was feeling off during his live.

#taekook #dream premiere

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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i can’t believe i saw a jkker reasoning behind the nov 28 vlive be that jk is “very sexual” and “would have sex with anyone” and that jm “knows what he’s like” 🗿🗿🗿🗿

Hi anon!

Omg 😫, every time I think I’ve seen the worst take possible they go and proof that it can in fact get worse.

Though there probably are some exceptions (they just hide themselves very well) most Jkk accounts I see talking about Jk and Jm do not understand Jk at all! They have an inkling of what Jm is like (and he definitely is the main character for them) but they all get Jk wrong. It hurts both my brain and my heart.

They need to bend and break him to fit their narratives. They need to make up stuff and come with false proofs (that they might not even recognize are false because they don’t bother checking facts). Only this week I saw a post come by about Jm and Jk sharing clothes and having similar styles. I think the intent was to proof that Jm and Jk share clothes outside work, but they then went to proof this by showing pics of them in Run and other company content 😂.

But yeah thanks for reminding me of their idiotic reasoning 😂.

#straws

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/748671843677929472/i-think-maybe-tkk-is-not-together-anymore-bc

They are still cutting a lot of their content though? I thought that much was obvious by the Bangtan Bomb from taejoon’s enlistment. I actually don’t think there’s much difference with how much TK content we’ve been getting in solo era vs when we were getting OT7 content. Maybe it just feels like “more” because we aren’t seeing all seven of them together?

Hi anon!

Oh they are, but it’s less than it used to be. I think the change happened somewhere around 2019/2020 so I’d agree with your thoughts on it not being much different from recent years. The standing out of Tae and Jk from last year is due to it being solo time and them spending more time together than the others.

#taekook

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dearweirdme · 4 days

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isn't bogum a part of some homophobic christian church?

Hi anon!

Well, being in any kind of church doesn’t mean you can’t be queer.

Though there have been speculations that he left the church in question, he has been a part of a church that was deemed cult-like and had some very controversial practices.

#other stuff

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dearweirdme · 5 days

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bro im genuinely sorry for bringing this up again 😭 but tae would never ask for "permission" to hang out with wooga bc that would be in his personal time. but a premiere is a public appearance, they were there as public figures on top of being seojoon's friends.

im starting to feel im the only one who believes that tkk are not rebelling against bighit? i actually think that bighit and tkk over the years have reached a better point now especially after signing their contracts for the third time

Hi anon-bro!

You might be right, I have trouble deciding wether I think they would need permission to go to premieres. But just to stay on the safe side.. maybe let’s say the do and BH knew they would be there. It wouldn’t really make a difference in my feelings about them at Dream in general. It’s mostly about the way they were there and less about the status of them being there.

I don’t feel they’re rebelling against BH in general, maybe some smaller moments like the joint insta live they did, but then that wouldn’t be about rebelling to set them free from their closet, but more about them wanting to be able to do things without having permission in general.

#taekook #dream premiere

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