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Selfshippers!!! Your f/os would never make you feel bad for sleeping too much, too little, or at odd times. They'll help you work on it if you want help, but they'd never force you. They've got your back.
Also, between you and me, they think your sleeping face is soooo cute!! Don't tell them I told you though.
#selfship#self ship#proselfship#pro selfship#pro self ship#selfship community#selfship comfort#selfship positivity#proselfship community
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having obscure f/os is lonely but it means when you find other people who have f/os from the same source it means you can all link hands and do this
#fast moving gif#flashing gif#self ship#self shipping#selfship#selfship community#self ship community#self shipper#selfshipper#proselfship community#proselfshipping#proselfshipper#pro selfship#proselfship#proship selfship#repost because i forgot the tags
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Shoutout to proship selfshippers of any and every age. Your f/os absolutely love and adore you, and there’s no such thing as “too old” to be with them. 🩵🩵🩵
#selfship positivity#proship#proship safe#proship please interact#proselfship#proselfship community#I saw another EXTREMELY fucked up attack on proselfship people included in an imagine so I felt the need to counter it
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since there's a lot accounts that either don't have a dni, or will say something vague like, "just be nice", and i don't want to risk reblogging any selfship posts from antis/people who will be rude or violent towards me and other proshippers for interacting:
if you are not proship and make selfship posts, but are fine with proshippers interacting with you, please in some way interact with this post! like it, comment, reblog, whatever—feel free to even specify that you're not proship, just fine with us interacting if you want to make sure your followers don't get confused
but also, if you are proship and you make selfship posts, feel free to interact as well! i just want to expand the amount of people who i'm reblogging from because i feel like i'm only reblogging from the same handful of folks, and well, i want this be a blog that showcases the welcoming and kind side of the selfship community as a whole—proship or not 💛
also, for those who don't know what the proship stance is, or those who have been misinformed, here is the definition of proship and an explanation of what being proship means:
proship means you pro/for shipping, the same way someone who is pro abortion is pro/for abortion, "pro" is not short problematic like some will try to say it
this is a belief that people should not be shamed or harrassed for the ship dynamics they like or engage in with fictional characters, even if those dynamics are ones you find disgusting, squicky, or triggering. blocking, blacklisting, and or just ignoring tags and users is encouraged
it does not mean that you like every ship dynamics, or even the people who ship those dynamics, it just means you acknowledge the fact that while fiction affects reality, it does not do so on a 1 to 1 ratio
like how watching a horror movie may upset you or may make you excited, it is not going to make you a murder, or even make you want to murder people. and in the very rare case that someone does decide to commit a murder after being inspired by a horror movie, the blame still lies fully on them because they still made the choice the murder, the movie may have caused inspiration but it did not force them to act on those inspirations. giving any blame to the movie in this case is saying that people are not responsible for their actions, that emotions and feelings are understandable excuses, removes accountability from and give justification to abusers, and allows other kinds of abusers to use similar means of defense such as "well, she was wearing a short skirt and i couldn't help myself!"
and for an example specifically about not liking ships, i do not like ships featuring any child aged characters, including child x child/teen/adult, loli, shota, etcetera, but i do not harrass, shame, and or accuse these people of being pedophiles or anything. i block people who ship these ships and block any related tags to avoid seeing this kind of dynamic but that's it. i acknowledge that people who like seeing murder in media most often have no desire to see murder in real life and that this same logic applies to other crimes depicted in fiction, such as incest, domestic abuse, and yes, even pedophilia
being proship also doesn't mean shutting down discussions around media, it just means not censoring that media so that those discussions can take place. to give an example, i find racist and homophobic stories, movies, etcetera disgusting but i do not want them censored, because if we censor them we remove our means to analyze, debate, and discuss these stories/etcetera and the people who make them
take the phenomenon around the popularity of Fifty Shades of Gray where suddenly there was a lot of new easily accessible information on how those scenes were wrong, but here's how to do kink properly and safely. if we had censored Fifty Shades of Gray out of fear people would have began sexually abusing each other, we never would have gotten all the wonderful education and discussions that we did
also, proship refers solely to the belief, not the dynamics of certain ships often associated with proshipper. either you are proship, a proshipper, or you beliving in proshipping, but you cannot ship a "proship" nor is there such thing a "proship ship" since proship is a belief, not a dynamic
*note, if you wish just to reblog the definition and explanation of proship that i gave, you can find it here: [○•♡click here♡•○]
#sticky note speaks#sticky note stuff#self shipping#self ship#selfship#proship selfship#proselfshipping#proselfship#proship please interact#proship friendly#proship safe#antis dni#antis do not interact#selfship community#self shipper#selfshipper#f/o community#proselfship community#selfship is valid#pro selfship
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This is my favourite ship dynamic personally. They're just... perfect together!! Look at how cute they are! Oh, and the way they both look at each other? Stoopp, I can't help but giggle!
If you have a ship like this, pleeeasse infodump about it in my reblogs!! 🙏 What other dynamics do they have? I must know!!!
♡ Antis dni, this is a proship safe space ♡
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I couldn't "fix" him but goddamn it I could make him happier and feel like life is worth living
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Proshippers belong in the self-ship community.
Full-stop.
The "pro" in "proship" stands for "for x" For something. Like pro-vaccine, pro-health. In this case, "for shipping". And that's literally what self-shipping is all about. Except it's you shipping yourselves together with your favourite little fellas and monsters and aliens and dragons and whatever.
"But X ships themselves with Y." Okay. If you don't like that, that's fine. The block button is right there. That's what X likes. Until there's a documented case where X is going after real people that are similar to their fictional-other, I don't care.
We are ALL shipping ourselves with our favourite FICTIONAL CHARACTERS.
This discourse shouldn't matter.
#proselfship#self ship#self ship community#self ship positivity#proship#proshipper safe#proship positivity#proship please interact
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This is for those self-shippers who hide their F/Os.
The self-shippers who can't tell anyone about their F/Os.
The self-shippers who cannot buy merch of their F/Os and are only content to watch from afar.
The self-shippers who keep their relationship with their F/O a secret for various reasons.
The self-shippers who want to talk about their f/o constantly but can't, they have no one to talk to, the people around them wouldn't understand.
The silent self-shippers but with a beautiful lore with their F/Os in their minds and hearts.
You are valid and I am always thinking of you.
"Borrowed" from someone who has the pro-shippers in their DNI.
#proselfship#proship selfship#self shipping#selfship proship#proship self ship#selfproship#proship safe#proshipper safe#proship please interact#selfship community#selfship positivity#stolen from an anti
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imagine your f/o muttering your name as they sleep
stolen from an anti
#proship#proship selfship#proselfship#comship#proshipper#comshipper#self shipping#f/o#selfship community#f/o imagine#f/o imagines#imagine your f/o#imagine your fictional other#pro fiction#profiction
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reblog with a pic of your f/o and I'll assign them a monster energy flavour
>closed for now! or send a pic through asks :)
#proship#profic#profiction#proship pls interact#proship interact#self ship#proselfship#self ship community#selfship reblog game#reblog game#:3#antis fuck off#antis shut the fuck up challenge#anti anti#antis dni#antis are stupid#antis are weird#antis are not welcome
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selfshipper selfcare protip: pretend you're cooking something to share w ur f/o!! i find it encourages me to actually cook and eat
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reminder you should be kissing your f/o with as much tongue as physically possible every waking moment of your day
#self ship#self shipping#self shipper#selfship#selfshipper#proselfship#proselfship community#proselfshipper#proselfshipping#proship selfship#pro self ship#pro selfship#selfproship
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Hi! My name's Amata (Amy for short), I use he/she (or almost any) pronouns, and I can be your proship cardgame nerd writer mutual! :3
I've been selfshipping forever, but only discovered and joined the community in February 2022! My main and only serious romantic F/O is Seto Kaiba, obviously. Detailed F/O list on my carrd; I am comfortable sharing all of them, even my husband. ❤️
I follow back from @whats-amata-you
About Me
I'm 30. Get off my lawn! /j
I am transmasc nonbinary, asexual, and demiromantic.
I'm autistic and mentally ill (primarily C-PTSD and DID).
I'm figuring the DID thing out but other system members include fictrojects and post-fictrojects of some of my f/os; Seto in particular is both an f/o and a member of my system. It's complicated.
About This Blog
It's mostly me ranting like a lunatic about my fictional cardgame fanatic bazillionaire/headmate husband. If extensive rants in the tags and regular spazzy loveposting isn't your thing, this may not be the blog for you. XD
When I'm not screaming my adoration for Kaiba from the metaphorical rooftops, I'm yammering with my mutuals or shitposting about Yu-Gi-Oh!. This isn't a fanblog, but it sure looks like one sometimes.
This blog is safe for work; anything mildly spicy will be tagged as #tw suggestive. Those posts are extremely rare, though.
I love ask games, but am stupid slow with answering them. Sorry about that.
DNI/BYF
I consider DNIs to be performative at best; at worst, they straight-up advertise to the exact assholes you don't want to have interacting with you that they can easily get under your skin. Therefore, I do not list a specific DNI. I know who I interact with, and the block button and I are BFFs.
I do make an honest effort to check and respect the DNIs of others. If, however, I have interacted with you and you are concerned that I may fall somewhere on your DNI criteria, please feel free to either DM me to clarify (if you have questions) or simply block me. I will not be offended or bother you to ask why, I promise. ❤️
This blog is proship/comship/profic/etc. The real term is “anti-harassment” honestly but like whatever.
This blog is a discourse-free zone.
This blog is extremely and indiscriminately hostile to any form of harassment or bullying. This includes anon hate/askbox harassment and spam, DM harassment, following people to other apps, doxxing, SWATing, rumor-mongering, callout posts except in very specific kinds of cases, broadcasting blocklists, passive-aggressive vagueblogging, etc, etc. I'm fucking tired. I will never participate in this stuff, and I will block anyone who engages in it too often, even if we've been mutuals for years.
I have triggers, but I do not make them public knowledge because I prefer not to tell assholes exactly how to trigger me. My triggers are need-to-know only. I will notify mutuals via DM or anon ask if I need something tagged for filtering purposes.
Those who are only passingly familiar with Yu-Gi-Oh! could be forgiven for thinking Seto is underage. He is not. You can find more information in this post, but honestly if it only matters if we’re talking about my irl headmate husband. The fictional character is fiction so it wouldn’t really even matter if he was.
Links For Mobile
#q&a - tag for answering selfship queries
#cocoa wedding 🍫💍 - tag for Seto’s and my wedding ❤️
#🐉💙 cocoashipping 💙🐉 - Seto’s tag 💙
#exodia obliterate the 4th wall! - Chapters of my self-shipping fic. Also up on AO3!
#my commissions - tag for art i’ve commissioned
#signal boost - tag for signal-boosting my mutuals’ commissions and stuff
#other’s imagines - imagines from other selfshippers <3
#amy’s imagines - i don’t post these often but when i do this is my tag
#ask game - ask games, usually selfshippy or writer stuff
#selfship positivity - because everyone needs a smile sometimes <3
#KaibaCrap - my tag for random Yu-Gi-Oh! stuff that’s not related to my stanning for Seto lol
#amy writes - tag related to my writing shenanigans. 4th Wall gets this tag, but so do a bunch of random writing-related posts.
#intro post#about me#dni/byf#byf/dni#pinned#proship safe#proselfship please interact#antis dni#profic#proship#proselfship#proselfship community#proselfship self#proship please interact
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BLOG UPDATE (GOOD NEWS)
i was recently asked if i would make a selfship ask game by a lovely anon despite being imagines blog, and it made me realize that i should probably expand on the things i create and reblog so there's an increase in a greater variety of proship safe selfship content for people to enjoy
so while this will remain an imagines focused blog, i am happy to announce that i will be expanding into making and reblogging other types selfship posts such as ask games, general positivity, journaling/other arts and crafts ideas, and whatever else i can come up with! feel free to give suggestions in the reblogs, comments, or even the ask box be it anon or not!
it will take some time, however, be it a few days or weeks before i start making my own non-imagines selfship posts since i want to look into how exactly to do/format these things first, but the general tags i will use for anything that isn't an imagines will be "#non imagine", and i will of course have specific tags for different things listed in my pinned post. also, feel free to give advice, give suggestions, make requests, and whatever!
thank you again to the lovely anon for inspiring me to branch out, and thank you to everyone who has liked and or reblogged my own original or reblogged imagines so far and to everyone who has followed and sent messages or requests to my ask box! i love seeing this community being active!!
lots of love to all my fellow proselfshippers and the wonderful folks who aren't proselfshippers themselves but welcome and or are just fine with us interacting!! here's some digital cookies for you all (/^_^)/🍪🍪🍪
#blog update#sticky note speaks#proship selfship#proselfshipping#proselfship#proship friendly#proship please interact#proship safe#selfship proship#self ship#self shipping#selfship community#proselfship community#antis do not interact#antis dni#sticky note stuff
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we should make parody accounts where our f/os gush about US and selfship with OUR self inserts.
sorry, I think about the reverse au where they selfship with you way too often
♡ antis dni, this is a proship safe space ♡
#♡-nightsky stars#proselfship#proship selfship#self ship community#self ship#selfshipper#f/o community
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If your f/o is:
ignored by the fandom
hated by most of the fandom
treated like nothing more than comic relief
only given attention when being shipped with another character
They love you so much for truly seeing them as an independent person <3. If you've ever felt like your writing or art wouldn't do them justice, please know that they would absolutely adore you for loving them so much you want to make fan-works for them!
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