idk if there are other people who care about this on here, but I'm LITTERALY sex repulsed asexual and I honestly don't give a shit of Alastor from Hazbin Hotel (canonically sex repulsed asexual for those who don't know/care) is getting sexualized. The amount of antis I see treating real life asexuals like babies over this is ridiculous, if I don't want to see it, I won't look, if I do want to see, I will look. It's not that damn compilcated.

Honestly I just wish that people would actually care about real asexual issues and not fictional characters lmao

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Alles hat ein Ende nur die Wurst hat zwei. (All has an end only the sausage has two.)

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Comedian and playwright from Curve Lake First Nation Drew Hayden Taylor is intimately familiar with the concept of pretendians. He’s been writing about them for years and his documentary The Pretendians explores everything from fake Indigenous art to pretendians’ tendency to be found in the arts and academia. While many things weren’t surprising during his research and filming, Taylor said one thing stood out. “The vast majority of people who have been outed, and I’m using air quotes, are usually smart, intelligent, talented people that could have made a very successful career for themselves without claiming to be Indigenous,” he said in an interview with Global News. “So I’m trying to figure out, why? Why did they latch onto (a claim of Indigeneity) when they didn’t need it?“ He’s come up with three reasons: belonging, financial benefits and family lore. “First, everybody likes to belong, right? … They like to belong to a group of people that have similar concerns. And let’s face it, being Indigenous in this day and age has a certain amount of exoticism and appeal to them,” he said. “The second is obviously certain financial benefits, from getting cheap gas or cheap cigarettes up to the higher levels of writing books, making films, getting important positions in academia, society, organizations, companies, etc. “And the third, in many ways, is the most common: family lore. You have a grandfather who says, ‘Oh yes, I believe my great grandfather had some native blood,’ and they tend to believe that and it becomes part of the family identity without anyone bothering to check it out.”

Between antis and proshippers, I would choose proshippers. Antis are so controlling and paranoid; being in their community is horrible. They want you to think exactly like them, liking and disliking only what they allow. It also doesn’t help that they’ve got varying levels of what’s “acceptable” in their community, making it even harder to navigate. One anti might be okay with you, while another one hates you. When they harass people, they expect you to support their bullying and participate. However, when you disagree with antis or refuse to join their harassment campaigns, they get angry and turn on you believing you’re an “awful” person because they refuse to realize they’re the ones in the wrong. Antis think anyone who isn’t 100% like them has “bad intentions” and wants to harm them, so they turn on another without hesitation. If you interact with someone they despise, they automatically assume you know and attack you without explanation. Antis are paranoid of everybody, including each other. Because of this, there’s constant drama in their community because someone is constantly thrown under the bus. Their need to restrict people and control what they enjoy has created a toxic community that thrives off controlling and bullying others. Antis are the worst thing to happen to fandoms and the overall internet.

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So I started following this blog where the blogger posted aesthetic pictures and the like. It was all cool and great, until they rebloged a post that mocked people who research their mental illnesses without going to a therapist(like myself). It also said something like "u are mentally ill because u spend your time watching animes lol!". Which I found offensive. Do they know know hyperfixations exist?? Anyway I decided to check the notes. Full of radfems and a free blocklist for me! Yay. But to be safe, I decided to check her blog too (the blog I followed which rebloged the post). I think u can guess the rest, her blog was full of transphobia(honestly not surprised),radfems,anti kink posts and she had rebloged some "u evil porn addicts!!!!" posts. I didn't read all of that, only the 3 top posts and checked some of the other posts' tags. I really didn't want to block her by mistake because we were from the same country(it's hard to find other people here), But I had to. I didn't want this kind of things on my dash.

Why I wrote all that? I never saw a radfem before. I always saw posts that said antis and radfems are similar but I didn't investigate. My bad, I should have. So antis, congratulations!!!

Most of you are radfems without the transphobia! Please grow out of it. For your own shake.

Everyone says "Sphinx of black quartz, judge my vow" is the best pangram but "A wizard’s job is to vex chumps quickly in fog" is RIGHT THERE

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Your story bring me the greatest joy, every new update fills me with anticipation of what comes next. The way you write pain and angst is never hurtful, it’s this slow agonizing burn that claws at your heart. Well written. Such a joy to read, can’t wait for what’s to come next 💚💚💚

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Its a "severe hernia"