#otter vents
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let’s make online aftercare more important in the nsft community!
-don’t start a scene, and then stop talking. i don’t care if you’ve gotten off already, especially as a dom, leaving a sub that vulnerable is not okay. a lot of us are very open people, but it feels mildly dehumanizing (in a not hot way) to be used to get pictures or just the general intimate experience and then never spoken to again.
-tell them what you enjoyed, tell them how good they did, make them know how fun it was for BOTH of you.
-end the scene with them as a PERSON that was just very intimate with you, not an object that you’re done with. understand that some subs come down hard from scenes, some need emotional care, some may need reassurance. this is NORMAL.
if yall don’t start treating subs right im gonna quit being a switch so that i can treat us right
(not directed, just observed through my time as a sub online, some of yall really just like to wound puppy hearts)
*edit* AFTERCARE IS A TWO WAY STREET!!!
in no way was this saying subs can slack on giving doms aftercare. your doms are people. they give a LOT!! (i am a switch, been on both sides of this).
make sure doms drink water too. make sure they feel fulfilled with the scene too. make sure that you are keeping them as a person in your brain, because i promise it is obvious when subs are just using doms as a glorified toy.
practice enthusiastic sex yall, it fucks
#ftm nsft#ftm sub#ftm puppy#ftm ns/fw#nsft ftm#ftm bottom#t4t nsft#ftm t4t#trans nsft#otter vents#kink conversations series
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I was feeling pretty meh last week, emotionally, so I drew this to get some of those feelings out. I'm okay now! But I do need to work on resolving the thing(s) that caused the emotional dip to happen in the first place.
#Tem#otter#Temiree#mustelid#anthro#anthropomorphic#furry#vent art#digital art#my art#personal art#tunic#Redwall#sad#meh#tree#laying down#unhappy#leaf#falling#in a tree#climb#climbed#colored sketch#sketch
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kaoru has issues
#kaoru hitachiin#ohshc#ouran high school host club#vent art SORTA. just thoughts i have. feel free to try and read but its sorta unintelligible.#this teenager has permanently damaged my psyche#my art#my signature is there btw. it’s below his leg it looks like an RJ it’s just. kinda buried lol#oh also i am the otter#it’s me im talking to kaoru ur sooooo jealous aren’t you
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One day I'll get more into it later but man I've been having some thoughs recently (kinda melancholic thoughts under the read more lol)
Being a therian is such an experience. Scrolling through the therian tag and finding all these things I relate to intimately well coming from people who share a lot of the same life experiences that took them to this point. And there's something nice about that sort of sense of shared community even if I don't really interact with the community.
But man there's something so depressingly isolating about it as well. The weird fear of telling people and they think I'm a freak so I have to keep it from friends, the weird fear of being outside near humans (which isn't helped by the whole being queer and neurodivergent thing), and the fact that it's kinda cool that the weird discomfort with my body finally has a word
but now I get the knowledge of "Oh hey this 'species dysphoria' thing literally is impossible to deal with"
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can i just say---FUCK "POPCORN TEXTURED" WALLS. AND CEILINGS.
Not only is it ugly as all hell and ridiculously expensive and a pain in the ass to remove (which is why we're stuck with it) but one of the cats just tripped my disabled ass which caused me to fall against a wall and slide down and now my arm is torn up and bleeding from being the point of contact
WAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
dumbest fucking problem to ever have jfc
#otter rambles#venting#fuck popcorn walls#fuck popcorn ceilings#fuck whoever made this popcorn texture shit popular#my cat knows better but he's also not responsible for fucking POPCORN TEXTURE so i'll forgive him#sorry about me lol
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~ Savior Complex ~
Your pain is my pain.
Your problem is my problem.
You hurt yourself, I must do the same.
The air hurts. It's like a thunderstorm.
Can I flee? There's no escape.
There must be a way to stop it.
I can't take it.
I must change it.
Your loss is my loss.
Your sadness is my sadness.
Your anger is my anger.
Break me. Hurt me.
Do whatever you like.
Do you feel better now?
I'll feel better too.
I can't save the world, but I must try.
I'm suffocating under this sky.
I can't stand the hate.
I must stop it.
I must be the hero.
Let me help you.
#savior complex#poem#poetry#vent poetry#did#osdd#dissociative disorder#did system#osdd system#did osdd#fictive alter#- Otter#- 🌊
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[cw panic attack mentions]
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after trying endless things to distract myself from an hours-long panic attack last night, guess what IMMEDIATELY, WITHIN MINUTES, pulled me out? ;)
#i am. so tired. KJNASKFJN if you saw me awake on here at ungodly hours that's why ;;;#now that i'm posting this i see a couple of things that need fixing KJNAFKJN but. lineart's basically done! yippee!!!#drawing's been Difficult lately so honestly i'm just happy to be making progress on this~#also happy to have finally made the decision to give this man chest hair. i've been scared to step out of my comfort zone but like...#he's scruffy. he's Litcherally an otter. DUH he isn't just gonna have arm and leg hair??? and then it turned out to be super easy so LOL.#📌 [ my posts. ]#⚙️ [ 046 wips. ]#vent -#🐸 [ look ahead. ]#🍄 [ lying on the blade of an emotion. ]#🦦 [ can't escape it. ]#🧃 [ who is in control. ]
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#my art#art#oc#traditional art#comic#vent#paper art#fursona#vent art#sketch#otter furry#robot#otter axolotl#ptsd vent#united fighting alliance#ufa
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aro culture is seeing a ship that you don't really have a reason to hate because there's nothing wrong with it but internally screaming because either one of them is aro-coded/you headcanon them as aro or they have a really nice platonic relationship that you love seeing and shipping them takes away from that/goes against that
#the otter splashes#the otter ventposts#minorly#sorry for so many vent posts lately#aroposting#aro#aromantic
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need some good nonsexual pup time
just being held and taken care of, pet and coo’d over, just a sweet puppy that you can’t help but be gentle and soft with..
#also like a back rub#maybe a snack#a smooch or two would be pleasant#🥲#ftm puppy#ftm ns/fw#ftm nsft#ftm t4t#nsft ftm#t4t nsft#ftm sub#ftm bottom#trans nsft#otter talks#otter vents
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If I weren’t so limited by my own handicaps, I would be neigh unstoppable. The world wouldn’t be able to handle such raw power.
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Watching positive reaction videos has really loosened us up a bit, when it comes to characters or fandoms or versions of a series that we dislike.
Like, assuming that it’s not being celebrated for bigoted reasons... racism, queermisia, etc... or financially supporting someone who is a bigot? Seeing the sheer joy and love in someone’s eyes when they see their favorite or get really into a story is priceless. In the best of ways.
We don’t care if we hate the character, or pairing/ship, or the series. You love it, random person geeking out on YouTube. It brings you happiness, or some measure of peace or comfort. And that is a precious thing. So even if it’s something we dislike? Or actively can’t stand? We will 100% defend your right to love it, and we will try not to shittalk it around you.
We just want you to be happy, and feel some small bit of relief from real life. And if that means supporting you in your love for some blorbo we hate, or smiling and nodding at what anime boys you wanna see kiss, or ignoring how badly an adaptation did with the source material... okay.
We just ask the same favor in return.
#fandom#shipcourse kinda#also if you come in here and try to be like WHAT ABOUT HARR Y P OTTER#we will sneak into your house and put coyote piss down all your heating vents#if you're NOT FINANCIALLY SUPPORTING JKR then do what you gotta do#that's all we'll say#anyways this is brought to you because of how much hate we see in fandom#we know that for us it makes it really hard for us to share things we love because we worry about judgment#but seriously if you love something then love it as long as you're not causing harm with it
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i brought my little toon link plush with me to help me feel better and remind me of home , and he kept me good company last night :)
i cant let my mom pick him up or mess with him though when she arrives later today. the last time she did last summer , she jokingly made him st@b himself with his sword in front of me. she thought it was really funny and laughed , but i thought she’d know better than to do something like that in front of me , as she knows im sewercidal
i wish i could've brought at least one more plush , but i didnt have enough room in my carry-on :(
#kind of a vent#my mom isnt nice with my plushies#she'll just pick them up without permission and do things like hit them against the bed for fun. she'll hit them against it kind of hard#im always worried she'll ruin one or make it tear open. she's hit my link plush and otter plush against the bed and it scares me#she often won't listen to me say stop or not to do that and i have to take them back from her
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I miss Ishi but i feel so much happier not having to worry about a fictional enemy constantly trying to take him away from me and genuinely contributing in worsening my paranoia. I feel so much braver going outside and talking to others. Because i know that the enemy wont be there to hurt me or my friends. Its really unfortunate that i cant yet separate my f/o from his source and all the terrible people from it. And with each good memory with him, come the bad ones as well, caused by fictional or real meanies. Im good now. Im doing good. But I miss Ishi
#i am keeping an eye on miss otter though😹 IM KIDDING... unless ..?#funny how the latest ishigeru art i made was a vent. they got stuck in the weird.core world LOLOLOL
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"Are you paying attention? You're not even looking at me."
I will bite you and it will require multiple doctors to heal
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Goodbye, the silence is crystal clear
Well, this is the beginning
"Don't look away," I tell myself
Nice to meet you for the last first time
#otter processing#vent art#yaa those are translated queen bee lyrics#blood#body horror#otter rambles#sorry about me
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