Plus sized women are never fantasized about in media (unless they’re a size 4-16. And even that is pushing it, according to the mainstream). We’re the sidekicks, in secret, the background, the jokes. We are never the lead, we never get the hot guy or hot girl, we are killed off in a show, even shows that are supposed to represent us and be the most for us - they always exclude us. There’s no posters of us on any characters walls. Hollywood builds itself around seeing worth in only thin people.
Media, and even other people do it. If you aren’t thin, you aren’t desirable, you aren’t human, you aren’t even clean, according to the standards of media/the world. Doesn’t matter if you are healthy or have a health condition. If you’re a fat person, you’re already on the outs.
My senior show is also so stupid lol like I am never again in my life gonna put my artwork in a gallery setting that's just not something I enjoy at ALL or aspire to do but I have to do this whole big terribly stressful thing in order to graduate and it's SO DUMB
Hey uh, I don't know who else needs to hear this, but any and all fats that you are working with should be added to a pot or pan BEFORE you turn the heat on, especially if you're inexperienced with cooking.
Sincerely, someone who's father started a fire in the kitchen, today.
Anything you can share from "Don't leave me" and "No one should?"
Lol tempted to toss in "care to join us" just because I seem to do that everytime one of these asks comes around 😅
WIP ask meme
Thanks for the ask, @the-raven-of-highever !
"Don't Leave Me" takes place in the Sarnova Legacy Chronicles and features the main protagonist, Deviah Sarnova, and her one-true pairing (and eventual wife) Lana Beniko. If I ever write it, I think you'll like it. Its shameless smut, with some fluff elements. It establishes that Lana is the "top" in the relationship when they go "kinky". The title refers to something Deviah says to Lana - she's lost so many people from her life at that point, she just looks up at her and tells her she can do anything she wants to her. Just… "Please don't leave me". Lana kisses her and reassures her "Never".
"No One Should" takes place in the Halcyon Legacy and deals with one of the more controversial plot elements concerning any companion. That being, Raina Temple's mission to kill her own father. The story is told from the perspective of the former "Cipher Three", and also adresses what Cipher Nine - in this case, Gahraath Vaiken - will do in reaction to this situation, given that he's falling in love with Raina.
And you can ask about "Care To Join Us?" again if you really want to. ;)
I hate every single person going out and not wearing a mask. Legally I should be able to beat them with a bat and spray sanitizer at them like it's mace. Like, why are you in the store with no mask?? WE IN A DOUBLE PANDEMIC. It's just.. dirty, stupid, selfish and pathetic.
the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again
learning that self deprecation isnt cool and just makes the people around you uncomfortable unironically improved my mental health a lot. like if you just stop saying negative shit about yourself you will genuinely like yourself more and other people wont be repulsed by your attitude and you will have more friends. it's true.
Crocodile finds a strange stray cat an 11-year old Nico Robin
(AU where they met 13 years earlier. Robin's been on the run from the World Government for 3 years. Crocodile's 27 and has not set up base in Alabasta yet)
It seems like I have become possessed. By some sort of demon.