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orangespoonandbluehorse · 8 months

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Rules for blog:

Any form of hate speech (anti-lgbtq+ ableism, racism) will not be tolerated. This is your only warning on this type of behavior.

Please try to keep your interactions pg-13. The mod running this account may be an adult, but they don't want minors to interact with nsfw. (With this suggestive things are allowed, but outright nsfw is not)

Don’t steal any art from this blog, or anywhere actually.

Don’t bash the designs or art on this blog. If you want to critic the art the mod has a main blog you can go to.

This is a multishipping blog, the mod is very loosey goosey when it comes to this stuff. So they don’t mind any shipping as long as you communicate it clearly.

Please try to communicate with the mod carefully, they are a bit slow so please be patient ^^

Don’t metagame (use info your character shouldn’t have) or god mod (control my character) It kinda makes it not fun.

Do not traumadump in the inbox. The mod is not qualified to handle any issues you may confide in them. They are just some dude who likes WOY. Asking for comfort or a hug or saying you had a bad day is fine. But please don’t dump emotional baggage on them because they are not prepared to handle it. Thank you.

General suggestions:

Don’t be afraid of asking the mod themself something.

The mod recommends using brackets [ ] over parentheses ( ) when out of character

The mod prefers clear indication when characters are talking via blog vs face to face

have fun! The main reason the mod made the blog is for fun! Ask silly questions, rp silly moments with us! Just have fun!

#wander over yonder #Woy rp #rules.#ooc

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ohyoru · 5 months

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Hey im not good with words or english, but its ok to feel burnt out or tired. Youre not obligated to provide anything to us. You are an author who writes for free. Maybe to have fun maybe to express yourself. You have your own life and thats a good thing. I havent been playing genshin in a while because theres so much work i need to do there like building characters. I havent watched link click s2 because i cant bring myself to sit down for that long. Im sure everyone has something like this happening to them and i just remind myself that it doesnt matter that much. Post unfinished things, make your character builds crap, dont finish a book youve started it doesntmatter. Its about having fun. Its about forgetting your problems(at least for me) or its about spending time with your online friends. Taking a break is necessary. Spending time for yourself is necessary. Taking care of yourself is necessary. I hope i could get my message across. I cant even take my own advice seriously as im too scared to post this without anon but i hope i was able to make you feel better somehow. I also want to say i really love your works even if i dont know who the person you’re writing about is. Ive been following your works for a while and i dont regret it one bit. I would be pretty sad if you were to stop writing for certain people but if it makes you feel happy then i dont mind and im sure others wouldn’t mind it as well. Youre free to do whatever you want ( as long as youre not intruding on other peoples freedom obviously) thank you for reading my wordvomit written in an attempt to comfort you.

dearie anon,

to have you in my inbox is already a blessing enough for me. thank you so much for taking the time of your day to cheer me up, you have no idea how much this means to me (brb crying i dont deserve you sob)

first of all, your message got across. i'm not sure about your english being not good part, but really, your message resonates with me on a level deeper than language can ever explain, truly.

i appreciate your kind reminder that i shouldn't feel obliged to write for anyone. i honestly feel like it's eating me out because i put myself in the equation as well. i had been a writer before, back when tokyo revengers (anime) was still in its first season since i'm more of a manga reader. if you were in that era, you might came across my work. alas, things happened. what used to be good memories (including writing) turned into very hurtful ones and i stopped doing what i love because they're causing me so much pain. nonetheless, i still slowly died inside. it took me a while to be at peace with my past and understand that writing is what makes me the person i am. so i'm determined to start again and keep it up. but when life gets in the way and hold me back from writing (again), it depresses me. (including not playing genshin). honestly, i'm feeling lonely. what and who i used to know and love seemed to only exist in the past. people moved on, topics became irrelevant, relationship broke. which i don't blame, but it still makes me cry once in a while.

sorry for the traumadump uh- i feel like i should explain myself a little. i hope that didn't scare you too much. but anyway, you're right! i should do whatever i want. maybe i need to reframe my perspective. i love that you mention about reading book thingy because i have the same issue and yes, i'm a reader through and through. but it's been so long since i read.. the irony. maybe all i need to do is start. and love myself a bit more to stop torturing myself with unnecessary thoughts..

you know what anon? i love the past me. i dont remember exactly what i love about her, but she used to be so at peace. i'm trying to find my way back to her, and i think you're helping me set my way there, so thank you. i dont know about your problems, but if you're willing to share, i'm more than happy to listen. don't forget to take care of yourself too okay? i hope your days ahead are the loveliest yet!

also, thank you for appreciating my works! when i started writing again, i told myself and whoever that's willing to take the time of their day to consume my content that i don't need anyone's attention or approval (shadowban be damned. if it happens, it happens). i did it solely for myself. but god knows how much your kind words and others' fill up the spaces in my heart.

i'm not going to ask anything from my works. your support is something i could never repay, but i'll always appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

(btw yes, you did send this on anon hehe i got a hunch on who you might be but if you prefer to keep it a secret, then rest assured, your secret is safe with me!)

#no seriously anon #are you an angel????#also link click 2 is a pain to watch #please take your time to watch it #thank you once again anon for sending me this ilysm mwah mwah mwah!!#yoru's mailbox

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bondsmagii · 1 year

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Hey dude I'm the anon that sent you that gigantic rant borderline breakdown of an ask and I think I really overshared and would really appreciate if you could just delete the ask from the internet and from your brain

I'm really sorry for traumadumping on you and yeah it's really weird and I'm really sorry

this is quite a thing for me to have to say but I have to confirm which one you are lol. my inbox can often be a receptacle of empassioned rants and lamentations; I think I know know which one you're referring to (I think it's the one that began with you expressing your thanks for my sympathy in another, similar ask I'd posted?) but I thought I'd try to confirm. either way just let me know and consider it gone.

for the record (and assuming that this is the one), I do hope things improve for you. please don't ever think it's too late to start your life over again from scratch. my 20s were a fucking write-off. sometimes you have to cut your losses, grieve the time you feel was wasted or stolen, forgive yourself and realise you were only doing whatever you could with the shit you were given, and try again. you're still very young and you're not at fault for the circumstances of your health or your birth. no matter what you've done, what mistakes you've made, or how questionably you might have acted, you are capable of growing past them all and becoming the person you wish to be. never think you're beyond help or improvement or potential, and never think these mistakes and circumstances make you undeserving. you're not.

#anon #asks

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kissatoru · 8 months

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⊱ ─── ✧ 𝙗𝙡𝙤𝙜 𝙧𝙪𝙡𝙚𝙨 ✧ ─── ⊰

𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯

✦ MINORS BEWARE! — my work is not intended for, nor am i comfortable with it being read by people under 18. i obviously can’t control who reads my writing, but i do ask that if you’re a minor, please do not interact with me or my posts. if i catch you, you’re getting BLOCKED!

✦ INBOX ETIQUETTE — i do not take requests, but i’m always open to suggestions, thirsts or even just a chat, especially if you want to talk about shared faves or attack on titan! all i ask is that you don’t vent without warning or traumadump. any rude or entitled asks will be deleted and spam, harassment or anything that goes against my boundaries will result in an instant block.

✦ OOH, A SECRET ADMIRER?! — anons are welcome yayy! feel free to drop by and claim an emoji, name or whatever you wanna idk. current anons: 🧸

✦ SPAM LIKING IS A PUNISHABLE OFFENSE! — don’t do it please! i’m glad you enjoy my posts, but i personally find it overwhelming so please don’t spam-like (5+ posts in a row) unless we’re mutuals.

✦ NEGATIVITY BEGONE! — i feel like this should go without saying but just be nice. nasty asks will be deleted and their nasty senders promptly blocked! hate, discourse and drama have no place here.

✦ THANK YOU! — every like, reblog and comment is always SO so appreciated!!!<3

𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨

✦ THE TUMBLR AND AO3 EXCLUSIVE! — tumblr and ao3 are the only places i post my writing. please do not copy, modify, translate or repost my work onto any other platforms, and especially don’t feed my shit into AI, i will pour fucking CEMENT into your ears<3

✦ NO UNDERAGE CHARACTERS — i’ll only ever write for characters who are already legal adults or have a canon timeskip. that’s just what i prefer, so please keep it in mind when sending in thirsts/suggestions!

╰┈➤ 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳

✦ DOMINANT — i might write sub!reader if i feel like it, but probably not often. it depends entirely on my mood and the character. in general though, i’d like thirsts and suggestions to be dom!reader only please.

✦ GENDER-NEUTRAL — since i’m non-binary myself, i will always use they/them pronouns for the reader in my writing, regardless of anatomy.

✦ NON-SPECIFIC — unless it’s the focus of a scenario ( e.g. tall!reader for a size difference kink ), i prefer to keep the physical appearance of my reader ambiguous.

✦ TOP/BOTTOM — i have a slight preference for top!readers but i enjoy and do write bottom!reader as well.

✦ AMAB/AFAB — i’m comfortable writing for both female and male anatomy, but it isn’t always relevant, and if possible/i want to, it’ll be ambiguous/open to interpretation. sometimes the reader is written with a particular anatomy in mind, but if this is the case, it will be mentioned in the cws.

╰┈➤ 𝘧𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘰𝘮𝘴 & 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴

note: subject to change + faves in bold<3

✦ SNK — eren jaeger, armin arlert, mikasa ackerman, jean kirschtein, connie springer, reiner braun, pieck finger, floch forster, levi ackerman, hange zoë

✦ JJK — satoru gojo, kento nanami, shoko ieiri, toji fushiguro

✦ KNY — mitsuri kanroji, tengen uzui, kyojuro rengoku, giyuu tomioka, aizetsu

✦ HQ — shoyo hinata, tobio kageyama, kei tsukishima, toru oikawa, kotaro bokuto, kenma kozume

✦ MISC — keigo takami, aki hayakawa

╰┈➤ 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵

note: anything not listed, you are welcome to enquire about!

☑ WHAT I DO WRITE — praise kink, degradation kink, edging, overstimulation, ruined orgasms, bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, dacryphilia, corruption kink/virgin!character, size kink, dumbification, pet play, hybrids, anal play, rimming, pegging, feminisation, mild sadism and masochism

☐ WHAT I MAY WRITE — breeding ( as long as it’s not reader being ‘bred’ ), mommy/daddy kink ( with reader being called mommy/daddy ), threesome/polyamory

☒ WHAT I DON’T WRITE — dark content ( yandere, pedophilia, incest/stepcest, cnc, noncon, dubcon etc. ) as well as dark themes in general ( suicide, self-harm, abuse etc. ), pregnancy, lactation/breastfeeding kink, a/b/o, oviposition, scat and kinks involving most bodily fluids ( spit, vomit, blood, piss etc. ), foot fetish, age play, big age gaps, infidelity

#( ★ ) navi.

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sunshinecherry · 11 months

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… SUN'S BLOG RULES !?

… minors do not interact with this blog! i am aware that you consume nsfw content however, out of respect for me and as a safety measure, please do not interact with my content. whether that is liking, reblogging or commenting on posts. !?

… i am not your personal therapist! please do not traumadump to me in dms or in my inbox. unless we are moots or friends and i give you explicit consent for you to do so, please refrain from coming to me with your problems and / or trauma. thank you. !?

… i will never write about minors! whether that be an idol who is under the age of 18, a requested age gap or high school aus. it's weird. don't request smut about minors. !?

… i will block creeps! don't be a creep in my dms or inbox. i will report and block you. don't be fucking weird. !?

… read the request guidelines! please respect the fact that i have boundaries on what i am okay with and willing to write. if you request something that i do not feel comfortable writing, even if it is not on the list, then i have the right to say no or even ignore your request. please respect my word. find my request guidelines here. !?

#¿¡ sunshinecherry !?#rules #blog rules

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dissociativedoe · 3 years

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hey btw on your post about traumadumping to people with stigmatized disorders you've got a tag that says "imagine if people did this with literally any other minority" and i just want to say, if you're white, that's in really poor taste since people DO do that with lots of other minorities. the problems i've faced as a person with bpd don't even compare to the problems i've faced as a poc, and people do generally believe poc are more violet or dangerous or abusive just because we're poc. i don't want to make it seem like i'm derailing your post, it's an important one and as someone with bpd i agreed wholeheartedly, but i just wanted to let you know about that specific sentiment expressed in that tag. don't use your struggles to minimize others' struggles!

i apologize, it certainly wasnt my intention to minimize other peoples struggles. i dont think youre derailing at all, thank you for bringing this up to me. i was mostly just. trying to find ways to word things and make myself make sense to people, but i apologize if i overstepped any lines.

edit: okay im fully awake now and id like to add a little note that when i said "imagine if people did this with literally any other minority," by "this" i didnt mean just holding a bias against them (im fully aware people hold this mindset with many other minorities), but i was specifically referring to people online going into that minoritys inbox and traumadumping all of their biases and trying to get that person to validate their mindset, which is something that ive noticed often happens specifically with people with stigmatized disorders (im not really active enough in other communities to notice whether or not other groups are subject to this specific behavior). though looking at it now, i definitely could have worded that much better and ill go back and edit that in a bit. again thank you so much for bringing this up to me, i appreciate that you didnt have to but chose to anyways /gen. ill definitely work on making myself clearer next time!

#sorry itss very early and im trying to figure out how to respond to this #asks #edit: im at work rn so ive had some time to actually think about this #i saw this ask first thing when i woke up and wanted to go ahead and answer it #ill go back and edit tags on my break!

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