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Salt Lake City Guest
Bedroom: large farmhouse guest room idea with light wood floors, gray walls, and no fireplace
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Inspiration for a large craftsman detached two-car garage workshop remodel
#traditional design#japanese bridge#mother in law room#arts & crafts architecture#traditional architecture#architectural elements
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Every time we open our home to loved ones I remember that I’m very autistic and all my little routines and habits and environments get disrupted and I get more and more agitated and have to consistently remind myself louder and louder that I love them and that my suffering is temporary.
#ramblies#toilet seats being left up is a massive one for me#and a metric of how much I love and trust my friends is if I allow them to use the upstairs bathroom where I shower#because if I think you’re gonna leave a toilet seat up to spew toilet air onto my towel and toothbrush I’ll be like no#wait for the downstairs bathroom#I know that it’s unreasonable to give someone a list of house rules by room but generally o doubt it would matter because my mother in law#will still leave the toilet seat up
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Gushing about my better childhood Dr
I want to take a minute to gush about how excited I am to shift to my better childhood dr, but specifically about how excited I am to make my communion and my confirmation in that dr, because I grew up with a mother who acted like those two days that were supposed to be about her daughter were actually about her, like my hair, dress, and makeup. Everything was all what she wanted it to be, but she made it out like it was all what I wanted when it obviously wasn't, which made me feel bad about it when I said I didn't want those things, and on those days we kind of just went where she wanted me to go, you know? We visited relatives, family, friends, and neighbours that I didn't feel comfortable around or even knew, and we'd be there purely because she wanted to show me off, which is a big part of why I'm so excited for my better childhood dr, because on those days it will actually be about me. This time I will actually wear what I want, we will visit who I want, do what I want, and it's going to be so great because I really deserve for those days to just be about me.
#I remember my sister argued with my mother a lot during the weeks leading up to my confirmation because#we were getting my dress designed (since that's what everyone else was doing) and my mother hated every choice I made about my dress#and when we first saw the finished version of the dress#the second the designer left the room my mother started complaining about how she doesn't like it while my sister shushed her#and I kept saying that I liked it#NONE of that crap will be happening in my dr#I will have a good mother who let's me make my own choices and be happy#Shifting#Reality Shifting#Desired Reality#Shifting Realities#Shifting Community#Shiftblr#Reality Shifter#Law of assumption
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It's fucking 4 am. It's FUCKING 4am. It's fuuuuuckingggg 4 am. It's FUCKing 4 am.
It's 4 am fucking.
#😈😈😈#listen... am I upset that I won't be able to sleep for like another hour now because that's how my brain works after Os?#and that we have plans tomorrow with my mother-in-law#and that my only excuse as to why I am as alert as the living dead is that her son was railing me into 2025 and its only Apri!!!#yes. the answer is yes.#and while I could scold him for waiting until fucking 4am to saunter into our room and threaten me with a good time....#who am I to argue with the Os of it all!? who I ask!?#the fucking 5th one that had me seeing stars and tasting clementines... lasted so long it might have been 6... who fucking knows!?#I'm currently delerious#i also told y'all i still had my degenerate membership card#i've just been on the hush hush#anyway...#it's fucking 4am#it's 4am fucking#personal#not dylan#hubs#doing this shit right at the wrong time
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Why is it that I'm keen to be devoured by you
When there's the option of a love affair that's pure and true?
I always choose the dungeon over the sea view
It's wrong, but I want you tonight
#Spotify#ironically i associate this song with my mother in laws living room bc she was obsessed with this song while we lived together ejjshsjqkwkj#nram#im evicting shit from my#i blscked out mid tag#i guess blacked in mid tag?#dj things#basil things
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Finally back home after a wonderful, but long week in Ireland. I am worn out and happy to be back home to the cats and my bed.
#personal#finally sleeping in a bed long enough for me will also be a big plus#as will not sharing the room with my soon to be mother in law…she snores like you wouldn’t believe
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This Christmas my only real family are my two mongrels, my yorkie, my cat and an almost empty bottle of wine stolen from my brother's wedding gifts hidden behind my bed.
#i cried for several hours last night to the extent that my head still ached for half a day afterward#there were a few mini-crying sessions during the day also#yesterday i laid out to my mother what i think#more openly than i have in many years#it started with her asking why i was upset and i replied something that she shouldnt bother#and should return to spending the holidays with the people she loves the most#aka Jarosław Kaczyński his crew and those protesting in defense of /free media/#it would have been nice if i hadn't burst into tears immediately but you can't have it all#(all while my brother and sister-in-law tried to clean the room next door and pretended not to hear)#overall i'm shocked at how strongly the realization hit me#that nothing will ever change when it comes to my parents#and it will only get worse#they will become more hateful#more narrow-minded#more hating imagined enemies of poland constantly finding new ones#as apparently i still had some hope!#given that i cried for about two hours after i stopped yelling at my mother#(also on the verge of tears)#but i had hoped that when tvp will be turned off#a detox from that trash would bring some truth to them at least in some matters#instead they simply switched to tv republika :))) my mom promised to cut down on watching politics said on holidays#said we simply won't discuss it and watch sth else#and she and my father will be more careful not to subject me to watching rightist propaganda#and today no change they've been glued to the same channel for half the day :))))#it hurts so damn much because they are good people#just with zero critical thinking skills so susceptible to manipulation#i was numb for years#and suddenly such a reaction is a surprise for me#i didn't know i had hope that something would ever change so it's an interesting revelation in terms of introspection#// negative // no point in this rant i'm just processing!
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Someone lend me some of their social battery to willingly go trick or treating tonight. I’ve spent all mine doing an in-law outing. WHY ARE THERE PEOPLE? I can’t people.
#where’s that dark room I was asking for??#for the record - my (step)mother-in-law is great#but I’m still a hermit at heart
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shaun temple the funniest motherfucker in this house rn actually
#tsu liveblogs#liveblogging dw#dw spoilers#walks in to the room on fire with his wife his daughter the meep and the doctor and his mother in law all int he kitchen.#“something smells nice”
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just me and noobie sitting at the birthday charcuterie table alone with our wine and milky mountain tea in pin drop silence while my fiance takes a phone call in one room and my mother in law takes a phone call in the other.
#does this count as liminal?#i can hear the robot my mother in law is navigating through to get ahold of someone#ita not even MY birthday charcuterie lol#the candles half burned down and i cant even work while i wait bc my ipads in the room w the phonecall
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♣ negative in the tags
#everyone in my house is in q foul mood rn and it's just not okay rn#my mother in law is apparently having a tizzy because it's going to be light for a long time as summer comes around#and my son goes to bed around 8pm#she and my father in law barely leave their chairs where that watch tv all day and night and she's just like 'but what if we want to do#things outside????' like please you barely leave the living room let alone the house#not to mention my father in law gave my 1 year old a tablet after both me and my husband said multiple times that we didn't want one#♣ out of rain (ooc)#♣ baby loves to dance in the dark (negative)#idk I'm just feeling some type of way and needed to get it off my chest
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why does my house have a (full!) bathroom on the floor with no bedroom and a (large!!) bedroom on the floor with no bathroom. aaaaaaaarg
#these being the 2nd and basement floors#so also obnoxiously difficult to renovate!#(2nd being the top/roof/attic)#iteration 2324 of my immense griping about the general incomprehensibility of non-romantic companionship: built environment flavor#this goddamn house has the goddamn space and the goddamn rooms for another goddamn adult who I am not GODDAMN FUCKING#but just didn't care to put those goddamn rooms near one another why on earth#what suburban use for a FULL BATH IN THE BASEMENT is there#(that is half the ire; if it were just a toilet it at least wouldn't be taunting me like this)#it's a fully submerged basement this isn't some half-finished walkout mother in law suite#let us all once again sing the cheery tune#'why on earth have we decided to tie fucking somebody to all this other unrelated shiiiiiit'#'at least when it was a logical part of the business arrangement there was a reaaaasooooon'#I like that fine! I like romantic relationships fine!#I do not like pursuing them for the sake of actually fully unrelated life goals that feels incredibly disgusting and I won't do it!#(not like morally on a grand scale... ish. like if someone WANTS a romantic partner who is also all the other kinds of partner god bless#I'm fully agnostic on that matter so the idea of dating because I want a roommate is just urg. creeps me the hell out#not as bad as the last iteration of this problem of course which would've been dating because I want a kid. but still bad!)#and I want a roommate damnit :(#but I sure would like to be able to provide them with a reasonably separate personal space too but ALAS
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Hawk, ask game
hi myth!! thank u so much for asking😊
fair warning some of this will be presented sans context bc i am Sleepy & spoonless.
Full Name: Hawk Johnson (*middle name undetermined)
Gender & Sexuality: cis guy, unconcerned about sexuality given the givens (currently has bigger worries)
Pronouns: he/him
Ethnicity: Korean (adopted by white parents; not culturally immersed)
Birthdate: April 19
Guilty Pleasure: watching the stupidest kdramas he can find & passing it off as "an important part of language acquisition"
Phobia: probably thasolophobia (however it's spelled) which is fear of the deep ocean & what might be in it
What They Would Be Famous For: in-world, it's entirely possible that Hawk would be kind of Known within the Draconic community & supporters bc of his relationship with Attemoon. it's rare enough for humans & Draconic humans to be together, let alone have kids, that they would get a decent amount of publicity regardless of how quiet they decided to keep it. (he is insistent that they keep Luna's face out of it though.)
What They Would Get Arrested For: honestly?? he probably wouldn't get arrested. i can't think of a situation he could get into that could lead to that.
OC I Ship Them With: Attemoon!! they are amazing together & he loves her sooo much😊
OC Most Likely To Murder Them: no one!!
Favorite Movie/Book Genre: a toss-up between action/adventure & romance
Least Favorite Cliche: definitely the possessive love interest
Talents/Powers: Hawk is pretty much a normal dude, but I'd say his big heart is pretty important in the narrative
Why Someone Might Love Them: Hawk has a very beautiful & distinctive smile. there are a lot of reasons someone might love him, but that's one thing that Attemoon loves about him in particular; his real smile is like a sunbeam breaking through the clouds.
Why Someone Might Hate Them: in-world, some people are going to hate him because of his relationship with Attemoon & everything that comes with that. out of world, there is no reason for anyone to hate him & I'd be very upset if anybody did.
How They Change: Hawk is kind of a passive person. not all the time, but especially at the beginning he definitely lets life lead him where it may. this is partly a cultivated part of his persona & partly the result of some emotional issues. over time, Hawk gets better at being assertive & speaking up for himself, instead of deflecting.
Why You Love Them: gosh. I love Hawk for a lot of reasons, but the one that sticks out to me is that writing him allows me to heal some things that he struggles with that also hurt me. like, Hawk & I are both Korean &, for one reason or another, culturally disconnected & feel inadequate because of that (holy oversharing Batman). in that sense, we can walk together & heal those wounds together.
#ev speaks#answering letters#myth my beloved....#cannot stop thinking about the scene where Magsie goes to get Hawk from his dorm bc Attemoon kind of really needs to talk with him!!#& also she's worries bc he is not responding to her messages & calls!!#Magsie finds him & his room is a grade A depression cave. like 'aled last when frances finds him at uni & he fuckin sonics away' type cave#& he tells her that the financial aid office told him his parents stopped paying for his tuition & he just told them he was working it out#spoiler: he was not. his parents cut him off financially bc they r upset with him for being friends with Attemoon#(they are dating but Hawk's shitty parents don't need to know that)#& Magsie is just. aghast. she takes him back to the house & tells Attemoon can she please hold this conversation tomorrow & is like.#'Hawk ur parents are shit & i can be your new mom' & he's like 'more like mother-in-law (gettit bc im dating ur daughter)'#& this is around the middle of the book so the storm ain't over yet. but things go vaguely uphill from there.#is it really found family if u found it through romance?? Hawk asks the important questions
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Im having the all-or-nothing spring cleaning project space revamping urges
i want to empty out the bedrooms and reorganize everything but im at work and also reorganizing would probably mean getting rid of things that i do not want to get rid of
#Mother in law gave us a chair#Nice chair expensive chair#I have held onto that chair by the skin of my teeth we have no room for it#Cant sit in it cause its holding stuff#But fuck me i will not give up this goddamn chair#Doesn’t really go in the apartment and it wont fit in the storage unit anymore
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