No one:

Me: Makes my character really feminine and then sets the pronouns to he/him

tryna be better at responding to these asks lol

Got a lot of compliments through here and I just wanted to say that yes I look at all of them and yes I almost cry every time you guys are so nice to me ❤️ I’ve always had self-confidence issues w/ my art and these rlly cheer me up so thank you guys so so so so so much.

(also I’m fine and am resting for those wondering <3 love you all wish y’all the best)

I think the best posts I make are the ones I don't proofread. I've never noticed a single mistake in those!

Good morning from ranting anon! U should totally drink water today, just like for fun <3 but today's rant will be about coping! There shouldn't be as much stigma around unhealthy coping mechanisms as there is. It's okay to rely on something you know is bad as long as you're looking for something that works for you and isn't unhealthy. The entire point of a coping mechanism is to help you cope with something, and unfortunately the bad ones still do that very, very well. Speaking from experience here, some of the bad things I did were the only things that worked. It's super hard to find a healthy one that works for you especially if you have adhd/autism or any sort of mental illness. There's maybe 3 healthy coping mechanisms that come up when you google it and it's always "Meditate! Do yoga! Talk to someone!" And if those don't work you're sorta fucked. Obviously unhealthy coping mechanisms are just that, unhealthy, but if that's all you have right now and it actually does its job then there's no shame in using it. People do what they have to in order to stay sane and alive and sometimes the things they do aren't the best, but it works. It's okay to do something bad for you as long as you're trying to find something better. It's a lot harder being okay and maintaining that than it is to feel like shit, because that doesn't require work. If the work your doing to be okay happens to be unhealthy, that's okay! It just happens to work for you, and as long as it gets you to that stage of being okay in the end you should use it! Obviously you should try and find something else that works, but that takes time. It's okay to be unhealthy sometimes as long as you know it's bad and can try and find something else to help you.

Tldr; it's okay to be unhealthy sometimes as long as you know it's bad and actively try and work out something else that's just as effective and is healthy. <3 Virtual highfives from ranting anon all around <3 <3 this might not be worded the best, but I think I got my point across-

( I will continue to not drink water )

But yeah, that makes sense. I know I personally rely on unhealthy coping mechs a lot, but I have some better ones I do sometimes too :D

Virtual high fives virtual high fives virtual highfibes

Just a tamaranean girl in a big, big world

I put z's where s's should be bcuz I think I'm special and unique(spoiler:I'm not)

When did my love become your burden?

When did my love become your burden?

When did my love become your burden?

When did my love become your burden?

When did my love become your burden?

That moment when you are getting back into Ace Attorney, so you laugh at memes that have to do with the law of the world in those games... But your husband is in *actual* law school and so you don't understand any of the fucking memes/jokes he shares that have to do with real world law 🤣 this is great

me, aggressively shaking you: LAUGH AT ME I AM FUNNY I AM SO FUNNY

sorry if this is sappy but it’s almost 4am and i’m tired and thinking

to the les mis fandom; thank you so much? i’ve never been in a space where i feel more comfortable? i genuinely thought that by joining the fandom space i’d be shamed for some of my ideas and my writing, because my mind made up this whole idea of “novel fandom very literate very strict. will shame you if you do mistake” but??? ya’ll just so autism and or so sweet?  i love you guys so much?

i’ve been in terrible fandom spaces. some of the worst. but les mis fandom? comforting and warm. i feel at home. i turned 18 this year and i’ve been struggling to keep myself in a state of happy/contentment with life, but i think i’ve found it temporarily by joining this space. and i thank you guys. especially my mutuals.

tumblr in general has just made me happy. i haven’t been here the longest, but i feel so comfortable here. ty guys !! 

Eeey 😘

A question for fellow writers.

What is the most bizarre thing you googled for writing research?

The top place of my list is "how to most effectively hang a person".

guess what i watched on new years (a redraw kind of)

There’s that post that’s like ‘everyone should get into a tiny niche fandom at least once’ fully agree, that was really fun -- but I would like to add that everyone should get into a fandom where their opinions run counter to major fanon because it really teaches you about sticking to your guns and trusting your interpretation of the text without having to rely on peer validation

because WHAT are people talking about sometimes