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cogbreath · 5 months

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i think a major thing in regards to kink and racial aspects and dynamics is the fact that white people particularly are used to their every desire and comfort and pleasure being prioritised whether they are consciously aware of it or not.... like unfortunately the situation is that most of them believe that kink exists in some sort of bubble.

for example many would not think twice about the implications of wanting to have "taking bbc" be a necessary part of their personal humiliation or transformation or degradation kink. they already live under conditions where they have to put in active effort to be anti-racist. so ofc it never occurs to them that perhaps maybe we are asking them to think critically about the origins of their kinks and why the dynamic might be dubious if not outright racist.

to them its a matter of kink shaming because white pleasure and white comfort comes before respecting black people as humans. this is the way society has functioned for centuries. so of course why would they ever think that there might be more behind the fact that they enjoy raceplay fantasies? because to them its just that, a fantasy. they have never had to question why or how that came be.

Seriously, i implore you to all really really think critically about the way you think about black people sexually, how you want to treat your black partners, and if that may have implications or backgrounds to it that you don't recognize. you need to understand that there are very real reasons behind the fact that we want you to question why it sexually pleasures you to have racial power over us. its not at all the same as for example someone thinking its immoral or repulsive to enjoy kinky sex. we are literally just wanting you to recognise that our people have a history of sexual abuse tied with our history of racial abuse.

like if you have a kinky dynamic with a black partner, are you taking care to consider the implications of why they might not be okay *at all* with being referred to as your slave sexually regardless of the way you intend it? or being whipped? For reasons outside of the fact it doesn't turn us on, but rather that its something that for us, for our people, are things that were used to abuse us?

are you taking care to educate yourself about the history of sexual abuse in racism and slavery? do you actually know that cuckolding has racist roots? have you researched that? do you know how our people were and have been exploited and abused sexually throughout history not just with slavery but minstrely and so on? Did you ever take pause to think about the history that may lie behind raceplay and how maybe, just maybe; that us finding an issue with that kink is not us shaming anyone or trying to suppress anyone's sexuality?

learn to understand *why* we have every right to not feel okay with the fact people get off to the racial abuse and exploitation and dehumanizing of us, regardless of if its just "fantasy" or "roleplay". think about why your first reaction is to claim that your sexual freedom is being stifled, why you think your right to pleasure comes before our right to NOT be treated like this and to NOT view you as a safe person to be around for openly and proudly getting off to it.

#dont ask me nothint abt black ppl who are into raceplay and desire it. thats not the conversation here.#that is a seperate conversation and im tired of white ppl using it as a gotcha to silence us.

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bisexualnamjoonie · 2 years

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personnaly i think the world has moved passed the need for the us

#lets just kill them all and be done with it #im tired of men #im tired of white ppl #im tored of straight ppl #god #cant we just get rid of them pls

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bioethicists · 2 months

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it's quite offputting to me when ppl can't disentangle their hatred for capitalism from a hatred for... new technological innovation? the ways in which capitalism has shaped the development of certain technologies has been deeply negative, not to mention that imperialism ensures that new technology is usually produced via extractive relationships with both the planet + ppl in the global south.

but this weird tying of capitalist impact on innovation (+the idea of what is/is not innovation) to hatred of innovation itself (or even more disturbing valorization of "the good old days"/implications that technology is causing social degeneracy) is baffling to me. perhaps it is impossible to achieve specific technologies without unconscionable resource extraction practices, in which case they should not be pursued. but so many ppl act like there is something inherently morally suspect in pursuit of tech such as autonomous vehicles or AI or automation, independent of the material conditions that produced them/that they may produce.

tesla is evil because they exploit ppl for profit + participate in an economy built on the exploitation of the global south + use 'innovation' as a marketing tool to mask serious safety concerns. they're not evil bcuz they want to make vehicles that move on their own. there are actually a great deal of fantastic applications for vehicles which move on their own? equating technology with moral decay is not a radical position; you need a material analysis of why technological innovation has become characterized by harmful practices.

#just saw a truly tragic article abt a death related to self driving car #entire comments section SWAMPED with the implication that any attempts to create self driving cars is INHERENTLY EVIL #like. actually fully automated public transportation would be dead fucking useful #public transit is not currently fully automated + is extremely limited in many cities #im so tired of ppl who need the technology to also be BAD to call out the practices which produced it #things do not need to be black/white for u to understand that exploiting others is morally wrong...

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numberonepartyboy · 1 month

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congrats to toshiro for being the first male victim of fandom misogyny

#i just saw someone tell that they hate him bc he is in the way of f_rcille. goodbye im killing myself #LIKE.....HOW COULD YOU NOT SEE ANY PROBLEM WITH THATTT #ARE YOU STUPIDDD #IDGAF THAT YOU LIKE YOUR WHITE SHIP DONT FUCKING GO BE RACIST TO HIM WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU #but errmmm its okay bc he a MAN!!!! and a CREEP and a mysoginyst!!! he manic pixie dream girl'd falin!!!! <- SARCASM #can you pls not hate on my autistic asian guy. bc of white ppl #dunmeshi #fandom racism #also if you hate him AT LEAST USE HIS NAME. HIS REAL NAME!!! TOSHIRO!!! GOOODDDDDD #'he owned slaves' THATS HIS DAD. HIS FATHER. AN AUTHORITATIVE FIGURE. HE CANT SPEAK UP ITS A NUANCE BC YOU CANNOT SPEAK BACK TO YUR PARENTT #and also the fact that hes the eldest so i sympathize with him sm. as an eldest sibling #jesus christ. im so tired of this fandom i dont think i can ever fucking interact with it. i hate this.#im reusing this joke fuck you #rant #dungeon meshi #toshiro nakamoto

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sapphoscorner · 4 months

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Edit: please reblog this with some information about demisexuality, I did make a mistake here by saying "Cove doesn't understand sexual attraction" he does, so my bad on that part

SO, I usually don't get too involved in fandom discourse, but with how Baxter fans are acting about the loss in the MDDB I snapped and decided we should have a talk.

(This turned out longer than expected so more under the cut. I BEG YOU TO READ THIS AND TOP UNDERSTAND WHERE THE ANGER AND FRUSTRATION COME FROM.

This is all over place, I tried my best to make this as comprehensible as possible)

Specifically I want to talk about this fandom obsession with him and how, is getting to a point where people are legitimately re-writing the game and erasing Cove existence to have this fucking man instead.

And look, I want to say that I get the appeal, I do, but I don't because Baxter's route is genuinely the worst written one out of the three; Compared to Cove's and Derek's (and Derek treatment in the fandom is a WHOLE OTHER ISSUE) is really not. I'm not here to judge one taste, I am here to tell you that your love for him is ridiculous.

It is genuinely ridiculous how much popular he has gotten and so many of you are forgetting about Cove and how important he is to the story, and generally how he is important to a lot of marginalized people. Some of you keep forgetting that Cove is autistic and demiseuxal and that is such a rare representation to see and it is already erased in the fandom (especially his autism), but now is even more erased because people are grabbing everything that makes Cove Cove, and are applying it to Baxter.

That is also not touching the fandom treatment of Derek and how overly criticize his route his compared to Baxter's, like...DEREK'S PARENTS ARE GETTING MORE SHIT THAT BAXTER CANONICAL BIGOTED PARENTS LOL, WHAT IS THIS?? Are you guys serious?? I've seen a fanfic with Irene being transphobic, why the fuck would someone write that when Baxter's mom is right there?

And Derek shitty treatment doesn't end here because people are straight up erasing the guy and not ?? talking about on how well written he is ?? He is not erased sorry, he's forgotten, no one cares about him. And when people care is a) rare or b) so criticize to the point where is no longer a criticism but just you bitching about it.

And it doesn't end there! Baxter is so talked about that people are more interested in him making a cameo in OL:N&F than the main characters of that game, THAT'S HOW THINGS HAVE GOTTEN, We've gotten to a point where people cares more about some white man than Qiu or Tamarack, which are way more interesting than him as characters but neither of them are white skinny man so lol, who cares about them.

AND TO TOP THIS SHITSHOW IT SOMEHOW GETS WORSE FROM HERE BECAUSE PEOPLE DON'T EVEN ARE CARE ABOUT THE INTERESTING ASPECTS OF BAXTER'S CHARACTER!!

Everyone is molding him like clay to create this, confident rich white boy when he is not?? and that's...the whole point of his route?? That he shouldn't need to put up this mask and to actually be a fucking human being?? THE FACT THAT HE IS A QUEER KID WHO HAD TO CUT OFF HIS PARENTS AND HAD TO BE INDEPENDENT FROM THEM AND LEARNING TO NOT DEPENDENT ON HIS PARENTS? (monetarily wise that is)

And like, people forget the man is queer, he is queer, he's a queer person who had to hide who he is to his parents and then had to cut them out for his own sanity, and no one mentions it.

The fandom as a whole erases queer identities,when this game is literally made FOR queer people don't you love it when straight people come into our spaces and erase our identities lol, that is a problem that more people should acknowledge, alongside the fact that Baxter's stans have taken over this safe space, overtook the main love interest, and ignore the genuine interesting aspects of Baxter's character to make him their own little doll they can play with and not appreciate a guy who is trying to learn how to stop being that mask everyone in the fandom has fallen over.

And I know, I know , I will get shit for daring to go against your favorite white boy, but consider that some of us played this game because an autistic character was in it, consider that this game is queer friendly and the fandom is also erasing that queerness to make horny fan fiction**, consider that some of us fond comfort in Derek and Cove's story and now we see everyone overtaking their stories by a white boy (that you can find in every other game), consider that his talk is tiring, consider also the fact that Baxter is technically queer and no one ever talks about it, consider that this game was a safe space for marginalized people and now it no longer feels that way

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**with horny fanfiction I mean people re-writing Cove whole personality (and sexuality if we're being honest here) and making him this...horny big man when...he is not? He got stressed out by simply having to share a bed with MC, he's extremely shy around the subject of sex and he gets incredibly nervous about it.

I personally think that is due of both his queerness and autism (and yeah his personality, but autism affects ones personality so lol, sue me) since demisexuality means he genuinely doesn't understand how people can feel sexual attraction, and mixing that with autism means he probably doesn't understand the SOCIAL pressure around sex and having sex.

Granted that's speculation on my part but as someone who is (probably) autistic and asexual I can tell that, at least a majority feels this way and Cove is literally is the type to have this kind of mentality, he does not understand how Baxter can flirt with him after mere seconds of knowing each other

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edelgard-more-like-baedelgard · 6 months

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"Most femboys turn out to be transfem, it's a totally valid identity" Okay but do you see the problem with continuing the trend of so many transfems figuring out their identity through transmisoginystic fetish porn because that's the only "acceptable" way to display ourselves to wider society?

Why are you all so invested in legitimizing something that came from "trap" fetishism and is only viable for people that are white and skinny enough to properly put up an accepted performance of being a "femboy"?

#las speaks #Im getting so fucking tired of skinny white transfems just as much as I already am of cis white ppl

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autistic-katara · 7 months

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i think goyim should just shut the fuck up about jewish people forever actually

#“actually judaism isnt an ethnoreligion bcz u can convert so no the jews arent ur/x jew’s ‘people’” are you fucking high???#stg to the right we’re an evil non-white cabal who controls everything and eat babies #and to the left actually we’re all white ppl pretending to be oppressed and are probably still an evil cabal who control everything and eat #babies #im so fucking sick of it just please shut upppp #criticise israel criticise zionism #but PLEASE stop talking abt how antisemitism is just mean words online and we’re actually not an ethnic minority bcz conversions a thing #and esp then after wonder why jews r wary of u #my great grandparents did not flee poland under fear of persecution (as our ancestors did many times)#for u guys to call antisemitism mean words online and treat judaism like christianity but whiter and with a worse oppression complex #i’m so fucking tired of this just think before u speak ffs #jewish #jumblr #judaism #ryan shut the fuck up

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jrueships · 10 days

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pretty privilege in general is a terrible tool. but when the racism that it's ingrained in really has a platform to activate, it's just absurd .

#if ure a pretty white boy. oh my goodness. roll out the red frickin carpet to all the fame attention & feminization in the world #omg hes so pretty. pretty like a woman. hes just like a woman. lets treat him like an object #everything he does isnt really his fault. hes just a girl bcs hes pretty. bcs hes pretty lets make him cry #lets do a deepdive into his character & pounce or paint any opportunity possible to find a villain in his life that isnt himself #meanwhile a poc person is pretty & theyre get a compliment sure #but never like. a normal one #they can get treated like a goddess or a god yea #but like. one that imposes fear and distance. only to be admired from a distance #if ure pretty and poc then ure an artifact to steal #if ure pretty and white then ure a crisp blank page for ppl to doodle out all their fantasies and plans for u to fold right along into #bcs ure pretty just like a girl: usable.#shit is just stacks on stacks on stacks of stagnant thinking stacked onto sick ideals #idk man #maybe im just going crazy bcs i hate too much of anything. getting irritable & tired from feeling trapped #cant ever escape anything bcs the very existence of escape implies the threat of capture

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papirouge · 5 months

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"Taylor swift porn deepfakes dropped and leftists are arguing it’s ok because she’s white and rich !! It doesn’t matter if she’s white and rich, because misogyny affects all of us uwu"

and yet, when brown Muslim Palestinian women struggling in their war torn country got displaced in camps and resorted to cut their tent because they didn't have menstrual products were PLEADING for help/attention, you remained quiet

...but yes, the discourse calling out the selective mobilization of western feminists who constantly cape for rich/White/Western celebrities while not displaying an ounce of this energy to speak up for women struggling & dying en masse in the biggest conflict in the world right now is just silly "leftism"

shut up. like, forever.

#AND DONT GET ME STARTED ABOUT “WE CAN CARE ABOUT BOTH ISSUES uwu” bc EVERYTIME i check the page of the ppl rehashing this excuse #they never spoke abt Palestinian women like that #so no you dont care abt both #you DEFINITELY only care abt rich/white celebrities and ppl with a brain who noticed this pattern of yours wont be silenced or gaslighted b #by this narrative youre pushing trying to paint this white feminism criticism as a leftist/internalized misogny thing #many of you made your corny stupid takes abt it and its obvious u have no idea what ur talking abt and are way too conceited to have #the humilty to educate yourself abt it instead of brushing it as an anti feminist leftist thing #actually im tired of this lazy ass thing of many ppl to paint as “leftism” shit they dont life or agree with #like pls learn a new talking point or smth #taylor swift #white feminism #papi watch #papi truths

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doodlboy · 5 months

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Finally draws my version of angel

#im gonna paint all my pages from here on out this is so nice #anyway #im tired of ppl translating angel into “tiny white girl w blonde hair and blue eyes”#so my version of angel is hispanic w short dark [maybe dyed a color idk yet] hair w brown eyes & is genderfluid #i gotta design davey still but i dont have any ideas rn so ill think abt it #redacted audio #redactedverse #redacted asmr #redacted angel #angel redacted #redacted fanart #traditional art #elliot rambles #elliot doodles

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puppyeared · 2 years

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Brown

#Don’t you fucking dare call this an evangelion reference im tired and I want to draw brown eyes hunter #I was so tempted to call belos-hunter blue eyes white boy #what are ppl calling that anyway. Bunter?#Also I hate drawing this mans hairline with a passion it’s so hard to get it right from an angle #Also wanted to fight and gnaw ppl at work because they keep taking the costumes out of #The package and then just. Leaving it on the floor RGGGHHH I’m gonna eat your knees STOP DOING THAT #Anyway. Can’t wait to have my dash flooded with hunter angst but I mean that in a good way 👍🏽 Our blorbo #He’s the community blorbo. We’re all just passing him around like a blunt it’s the good shit man #My art #myart #the owl house #toh #the owl house spoilers #toh spoilers #the owl house season three #The owl house season 3 #toh season 3 #toh s3 #hunter toh #hunter noceda #Toh hunter #pounds my fists on the floor!!! Hunter noceda!!!!! Bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3333 #the owl house fanart #toh fanart #fanart #fan art

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abolishfandombs · 2 months

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Alright, new policy. If you're not black, you aren't allowed to talk about Wyll for free anymore. You gotta pay up.

Quadruple if you have a stupid/bad faith take about him.

#bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #wyll #wyll ravengard #half off for non black poc #standard rate for white ppl #im only half joking about this #im tired of seeing the bs

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extraordinarilyextreme · 10 months

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for my own sanity, i'm transcribing ZSX's goodbye video monologue for FDB:

去岁初夏逢君盛今朝花落梦方醒故事到此收笔但人生还长江湖路远意气江湖正道安风华正茂是少年愿将来的方小包经历风雨不忘少年初心走遍人间仍有他路可寻山高水长见日光始终不忘少年样前路存知己江湖有相逢于道各努力千里自同风方多病希望你不服众望成为下一个传奇

XSY's was much simpler (both he and CY pretty much just used their lines from the show; only ZSX spoke so much. and as c-netz pointed out, this truly is ZSX! the voice he gave FDB sounds different).

anyway, XSY's goodbye to DFS:

“一个剑客不该有弱点。” "A swordsman shouldn't have any weaknesses." “此生只有一愿，就是赢他。” "In this life, I have only one wish, which is to win him in a fight." 老笛，笛飞声。愿来世你能得偿所愿。 Lao Di, Di Feisheng. I hope, come the next life, all your wishes will come true.

and then CY's goodbye to LXY and LLH:

“去去重去去，来时是来时。” "What is meant to go, will go. What is meant to come, will come." “这人生嘛，本处处都是遗憾。” "In this life, intrinsically, regrets may be found everywhere." “十年了，没有什么放不下的，也更没有什么解不开的结。” "Ten years have passed. There's not much that cannot be set down, not to mention any knots that cannot be untied." 李相夷，李莲花。江湖一程，有幸相逢。再见了。 Li Xiangyi, Li Lianhua. You ventured into the jianghu. If we are lucky, we'll meet again. Goodbye for now.

and at the end of all their videos, the text read:

江湖别处有相逢，杯酒一盏此君行。 Elsewhere in the jianghu, we'll reunite. With this small cup of wine, I bid you farewell and send you off.

#mysterious lotus casebook #莲花楼 #cdrama ramblings #i'll translate ZSX's later im too tired rn #if anyone wants to tackle it first tho please go ahead #the theme of “waking up from a dream” is making me very sad #ALSO like the fact that DFS's vid is about the next life... as in. the current one is no longer worth anything anymore #because LXY is no longer here #but good news my fellow FeiHua enjoyers cuz CY and XSY are collab-ing on a different cdrama lol #bad news is that apparently XSY's character is SUPER SAD #i saw ppl say it's even sadder than MLCB so...#but anyway i saw pics of XSY with white hair and now im devastated by the notion #of DFS having a 一夜白头moment bc he sacrificed all his life energy or wtvr to save LLH

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marmalade-mir · 2 years

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a man will see a c!quackity and go "is anyone gonna degrade That?" and not wait for an answer. part One (essay in tags as usual)

part two here

#part one because it has happened… too many times to fit into one video #and even then it’s not comprehensive like i included Nothing from the white house argument #and while i know some (particularly the wedding scene) were for a Bit it is very interesting how those one-offs became More than one-offs #how this treatment became a Pattern and how it legitimately influenced his character’s arc and behavior and thought process #it’s like. the way that so many men in q’s life have said he is valuable to them as an object of attraction and nothing more #and how he ends up getting sick and tired over having no autonomy over his own life and how he wants to Prove to other ppl #that he’s capable and competent and worth something More #quackity #dream smp #tw abuse #tw objectification #ask to tag #this has been in my drafts forever so fuck it im posting

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murcielagatito · 8 months

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idk if its just me but looking at streaming services hispanic heritage month collections and seeing a lot of movies and shows in which a non hispanic white character is the lead like i dont want a movie to open with some blonde white girl having a nightmare (when typically the first person you encounter in film is the center of the story) i want the movie to open with a latino character like me. i dont want to be a side character in my own life why should i have to watch me be a side character when “supposedly” the celebration of my people is the center of hispanic fucking heritage month

#hispanic heritage month #like it really feels like corporations dont give a dimmadamn about us #also why is it when a hispanic character is the lead its always the white and white passing ones its old and tired and lame #ALSO UNRELATED BUT SPIDV IS ABT MILES STORY AND IT DID PISS ME OFF THAT GWEN WAS THE FIRST CHARACTER WE SAW IDC IF ITS ABOUT ALL OF THEM IT #ABOUT MILES FIRST #STOP PUTTING WHITE PPL AHEAD OF US IN EVERYTHING WE ARE SO TIRED OF IT GODDAMN #im freaking upset bc it doesnt feel at all like hispanic heritage month this year was actually about us

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unexpectedbrickattack · 1 year

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Woe, oh woe... if only balding, anxious and overweight italians existed... so i can satiate my desire to give them a big sloppy kiss

I will tell u a secret…the world is so vast, SO beautiful…that they DO exist…but u gotta go to Little Italy in nyc (source:me)

#answered #spicy hot #or various scattered pizzerias in brooklyn and the bronx #queens not so much and staten island is full of racist white ppl #manhattan has everything (little italy) so thats a given #everyone in my inbox and notes being so bad !!!!!#i am SO sorry u cannot give this man real sloppy toppy !!!!#Oh wait this said sloppy kiss fhfhjfbdkd #WHATEVER the sloppy tag stays there #I MEANT #im tired!!! i said sloppy too many times and it fucked me up!!!#I MEANT SPICY HOT TAG THE SPICY HOT TAG CAN STAY #😭😭😭

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