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#i wanted to make an “info post“ on how to cope with age regression and hypersexuality
lifeisstrangebitch · 2 years
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Age regression while being hypersexual is one of the most terrible feelings in the world. Ive been going through that for 5 years and have only recently learned how to cope and heal through it. I’ve hurt many of my (views on) relationships because of it and anytime something happens during my episode, I always feel guilty during and after and have re-traumatized myself. I can now use breathing exercises and escapism to daydreams to help soothe my “baby side” since I’m usually always panicking and on the verge of crying when I regress. Thankfully now I’m starting to have a better relationship with my age regression. It is still a battle but it’s working. It’s so taboo to talk about the not so “pink and fluffy” side of age regression, which is sad because there are others out there similar to me since most age regressors are trauma survivors too and had their childhoods snatched away by terrible monsters that are in the world.
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kiddosaurus · 10 months
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(hi im so sorry i wanted to just agree with a point you made and then wrote a full rant feel free to ignore me/delete this ask)
I definitely agree about the average age feeling like it's dropping (I also think that's just the Internet as a whole, coming from someone who literally got their first tumblr account at 11. also think it's because kids don't lie about their ages as much anymore, like I was lying until I was at least 15 and still vague about it until I turned 18) and part of me gets a little concerned by it? like yeah, I definitely showed interest in things like agere once I hit puberty age but most of my actual age regressing/dreaming I've only done since I was 16 when I had gotten past the initial wave of that
maybe it's the old age (I'm literally 18 lol) but I do worry when I see super young people in this community about the effects that regressing may have on them and their future development? or at least when I see 13-14 year olds post saying they're looking for cgs like I get so scared some weirdo is going to see it and use it as an opportunity to gain some power over them or gain their trust because the kid is too young to be able to realise what's happening
i hope it's alright for me to respond to this, just lmk if you want me to delete this reply
i feel a lot of what you're saying tbh. i still try to be understanding towards the super young folks, as i myself was super young when i first discovered the agere community, but idk. i was 12 at the time, but my situation was fairly odd compared to most folks (at that point i was already well into puberty, and there were times where i was involuntarily regressing from stress and trauma long before i knew what agere was, and finding the community helped me put a name to my experiences), so even then it's still hard to understand a lot of the youngest people in the community now, as the reasons for them getting into it are VASTLY different than any of my own. im only a couple months short of 18, and it never fails to shock me how old this stuff makes me feel :')
i DEFINITELY agree on the whole thing about worrying over possible issues with development and safety, though. i do feel like there's a (for lack of a better way to describe it) "honeymoon phase" for a lot of young teens discovering something like this that makes them happy and helps them cope, where they put a huge focus on it in a ton of aspects of their life, and that's something they just gotta get outta their system before they start to even things out. however, i definitely worry about development for kids who don't seem to learn how to balance agere with the rest of their life; any coping mechanism (including the healthy ones) can become unhealthy if it takes over your life in ways that cause repeated stress or harm, which seems to be the case for a lot of young folks discovering agere.
the whole cg safety thing is valid too. seeing so many 13-14 year olds giving out tons of personal info to strangers in hopes that they'll find a cg that they've never even talked to always makes me anxious. i don't think there's anything wrong with them wanting someone like that in their lives, and i think there are ways to kind of explore that while still staying safe, but the way people actually go about it is worrying. like... when i was young and discovering agere, at least there were plenty of adults in the community who made an effort to teach younger folks how to stay safe with stuff like this, but that doesn't seem to be as much of a thing anymore since the demographic has shifted to be so young as a whole and there are way more teens than adults. 2017-2018 was a very different time compared to 2023.
im sorry that this reply got so long, this whole thing has just been on my mind and it's nice hearing someone who at least understands part of what im saying
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elflikesfrogs · 15 days
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Elven System
I recently got diagnosed with OSDD, so here is a little info post about it. (Forgive me if I get some of the terminology wrong, I'm new to this!)
I am a 4-part age regression system. We are all memory-sharers, but hold different responsibilities/personalities. We are also all autistic, but showcase symptoms differently.
I tag some, but not all, posts with the alter's name, especially if it's specific to them and their interests.
Here is a little introduction to the alters.
posts about the system (usually jokes/memes)
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Elf
20 years old currently. They/them. Host/core.
Elf is the host alter, so they are almost always fronting or co-fronting. They are in the process of emotional healing (which is how they found out about their OSDD in the first place!!). They hold most of the body/society responsibilities (eating, going to class/work, etc). They like writing and art. Most of this blog is from their POV, so I won't usually tag them.
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Sam
14 years old. He/him.
Sam is the trauma holder and harbors a lot of anger as well. He uses humor as a coping mechanism. He is also very into music, with his favorite band being Twenty One Pilots (blurryface/trench era specifically), though he also likes folk punk, alt, and hard rock. He is transmasc. Sam fronts when the other alters are stressed or tired. He's sort of like the protector I think? He's a pretty cool guy, if perpetually tired. He's the only(ish) alter in the system to have romantic desires, and he mainly likes men/masc folks. Resting bitch face type autism, but mainly just wants to listen to music and vibe.
#sam tag
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Ellie
6-8 years old. She/her.
Ellie is the innocent one of the system. She is the most outwardly noticeable personality change; she speaks in a "baby voice" and her neutral expression is different from the other alters'. She cannot mask autism worth shit, so she is constantly stimming vocally or physically. She's usually very excited and happy, though she sometimes fronts when other alters are overstimulated and can take on that anxiety. She is always ready to infodump about anything and everything, especially our special interests. She loves typical "kid's stuff" like stuffed animals, dinosaur chicken nuggets, etc. The rest of the system is very protective of her and will not let her front unless they all feel that it is safe for her to do so.
#ellie tag
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Dog
????. It/its.
We started calling it Dog as a joke ("I got that dawg in me") and then the name kinda stuck. Dog rarely fronts and is in the background mostly. It's a "thing" alter, representative of the space in between alters, kind of when we're dissociating and don't really feel like a person/having a body. It's basically like a rabid animal, like those reaction image stick figures covered in blood, basically. It holds all the "nonhuman" emotions/feelings, sort of the instinctual stuff if that makes sense. Dog basically goes batshit over stuff that it's interested in, and is the "source" of hyperfixations. There's also like an inside joke between the alters that Dog is the source of songs getting stuck in our head, because it's just constantly playing music.
#dog tag (haha get it...)
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If you have any questions, please feel free to comment, DM, or send in an ask! As long as you're respectful, we won't be offended. I'm going to be editing this post with new info sometimes (and possibly collages to represent the alter's interests?).
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dervampireprince · 2 years
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if i don't answer any super horny anons today it's just because i can't tell if i'm in a very soft sensitive subby mood or if i may be teetering on regressing so. you can still send stuff in but if it doesn't get answered today that's why.
(don't know why saying that makes me nervous when you can read that info in my kink list but yes i guess i'll say it properly to everyone that i experience age regression as a trauma response / coping mechanism, it's all sfw, it's genuinely my mind regressing, it's why i'm not into sexual age play, it's why i'm against people encouraging sexual scenarios while regressed because i know that if someone tried anything sexual with me while i was regressed it would 100% be them taking advantage of me as i would not be in my right mind to be able to give consent or potentially even understand what is happening. for me personally when i regress i'm about between the ages of 7-10 so i don't like become a baby (what age someone regresses to is different for everyone and can be anywhere between a baby to a teenager) and can still communicate well. no this isn't a regression blog. no this isn't becoming a regression blog. but it's something i've thought about mentioning a little more clearly then just in my kink list page just to be more transparent with you all, try and reduce stigma around regression, and i don't know... i guess the idea of oh what if regular anon's around here who are nice to me would actually be grossed out by this fact about me. so hey now it's more clearly out there.
but like i said this isn't a regression blog, it won't be a regression blog, this isn't me asking for a caregiver or anything, age regression is a sfw trauma response/copying mechanism, it's not voluntary, people can't choose when or if it happens to them, age regression is not the same as age play, age play is a type of role playing or acting just like role playing medical kink stuff or cnc is role playing. age regression is literally something that some therapists will do with you. age regression isn't nsft or a kink. age play is the kink.
just wanted to mention that here because idk i've felt like saying it just to get it off my chest for a while. no one has to change how they interact with me or treat me. i regress very very rarely nowadays, and i regress to an older age than a lot of people, hence why it's hard for me to tell if i'm just feeling non-sexual subby or a little regressed)
will i lose followers or get weird or hateful messages after this post maybe idk. just hey here's a fact about me that means for today i might not answer horny asks straight away so don't panic and think tumblr has eaten your ask. also don't worry about me, dont' worry if you send me asks and think 'uh oh what if they're regressed' because if i notice oh yeah 100% i'm regressed then i just wont be using this blog or looking at sexual stuff. trust that i know how to take care of myself when in that state. (but yes its okay to ask me questions about it i guess if you’re nice and respectful) 
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littlebunnybabyy · 3 years
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DNI is at the end of this post!
soo helo! my name is Lorey, but you can also call me Bunny! I'm an age regressor, and I regress to either cope with things or just for fun, because being little makes me happy!
I go by he/him and bun/buns/bunself pronouns, they/them is fine too but yee I identify as a boy!
am very soft and sweet hehe so don't be afraid and feel free to send asks if you wanna ask/tell me something!! (anon turned off for safety reasons) and please remember to not break my DNI! important side note, please don't dm me if I have no idea who you are!- I'm not very comfy when talking to strangers-
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I wanna start using tags more often to separate the types of posts I make soo-
I'll use #reblog when I reblog something that I dunno how to tag or isn't about me
#little bunny talks will be for when I make a post while regressed, and #big bunny talks is for when I'm, well, not regressed in that moment!
#candy!🍭 is for all the posts with my stuffie, Candy!
#important will be for important stuff and #info about bunny will be all the posts containing stuff about me! (not gonna use this one anymore cause I keep forgetting eHDJJ)
#bunny's drawings is for my art!
I'll probably update this as time goes on (and I think about more tags I can use) so yee!
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TW for grown up and bad stuff below! (will be marked with /// from start to end)
×/// my DNI includes: you are/support/have a blog about k!nk, dreamcore/weirdcore/traumacore (I don't mind people supporting these but please don't interact with me if your whole blog is about that!), drama, depression, bl//d, s//cide, self h/rm, (no)map and all its variants, agere hate (or any kind of hate), (pro)ana/mia/thinspo, anything related to all those things or stuff I forgot to mention that makes me uncomfortable. if I see any of these things constantly on your blog (list will be updated when it needs to be), you'll be blocked (or soft blocked, depends on what I see on your blog), I'm sorry but I want to keep myself safe and happy while scrolling through Tumblr and would appreciate not stumbling across these topics, especially if I'm regressed :( ///×
thank you for reading! I hope you have a nice day!!
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