Heyy!! Do you generally seem to have really good takes on transmisogyny and I was wondering if I could ask you something. I’m a transfemme and I’m in a group of friends that is pretty much entirely transmascs. They are generally really sweet and kind to me but there are also times when I feel like they treat me a little differently than they do everyone else. I feel like more of a burden to them than what the rest of them seem to feel. And like they make a lot of jokes about being misogynists and hating women and I know they’re jokes but like idk sometimes it feels like it transcends a line into reality. There was also a time where they were talking about periods and I brought up that I sorta feel like I have a period now that I’m on Estrogen because of pmsing every month and they like really quickly shut that down and said that I don’t know what it’s like because I don’t get cramps like they do. I dunno..I feel like I could be overreacting but it does feel sometimes like they treat me differently because I’m a transfemme. Do you have any tips for like how to deal with this kind of thing? Idk I feel like i must be overreacting because they do have other trans women friends whom they seem to treat just fine. Sorry I know I’m just like a random person asking you all this I just don’t really have any trans women friends to talk to about this kind of thing.
transfems can very much have periods, so yeah jot that down. this group sounds.... not great? joking about being misogynistic? thats a negative.
i won't tell you "cut contact burn bridges" but I would definitely start seeking more transfem friends? try game stores fwiw. see how you feel- and maybe confront them about your feelings, diplomatically- once they're not your only friend group.
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aphmaus recent vidcon news is..interesting and yknow what, i know we are most likely getting a mystreet update, and i dont wanna be too harsh here but i fear that its gonna go right back to cocomau videos after she DOES finish mystreet finally, cause..come on
that girl is not gonna try and remake mcd for a THIRD TIME, that poor series ever getting a proper redo died as soon as the pandemic happened and her switching to brainrot content
and..my inner demons?...fuck..girl I don't know...like..did anyone even ask about MID at the last vidcon panel??? like..AT ALL???
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Like truely I'd love it if maybe her finishing mystreet could be a great way to launch her into posting GOOD content again especially if shes showing her newer audience something that isnt colorful sludge, and maybe we could see mcd maybe in a different form one day, like a poorly written novel/j, as she creates even newer roleplays, like god she could maybe bring back void paradox!...but i also have a strange feeling that shes finishing mystreet with season 7 and nothing beyond that, just to wrap it up and get it out of her hair.
But thats just my opinion really, we really could get the good ol classic roleplays again, i just hope season 7 isnt getting rushed or half-assed, as much shit as i may give jess, i still want mystreet to conflude in a good and loving way, aphmau may not be the best writer but her series are exciting and engaging, and it would be sweet genuinely to have this new generation of aphmau fans get to see what aphmau and her team can do when they actually TRY and make entertaining work.
(plus I can't bare to have to witness every character from mystreet or mcd get further flanderized like they do in the cocomau verse, like...the only person who got a better personality was kim but shit everyone else is just assholes or are a pain in the ass to watch...or...is fucking both....COUGH aaron lycan COUGH)
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I either lost page one, or didn't draw it out, but have this silly ass comic thing. I actually drew this. . . shit, like, last year in I think August? I just forgot to post it.
Anywho, a light tease at the comics/certain weird ideals/tropes these things sometimes have.
Context is William always listening to his BFF whinge about Amber or Sam
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Found a dutch oven for like, astoundingly cheap yesterday and was finally able to try baking bread in one ! This is a poppyseed rye that I darkened with some molasses and cocoa powder, mostly out of curiousity (i often use molasses but this is the first time trying cocoa as well. Smelled super nice while baking). I added those after the first rise and didn't do a whole lot of kneading when i did, and it seems to have marbled, if the bit of exposed interior (didn't grease the dutch oven, and that part of the crust stuck) is anything to go by. Definitely overbaked it a little, but super happy with how much oven spring I got.
Also, the jams from last night. Very pretty reds.
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