we are designed by god to fulfil our purpose.

my purpose as a woman is to comfort, nurture and, create a family that is lead by jesus.

my (future) husbands purpose is to provide, lead and, show our children what a godly man looks like.

different does not mean unequal. men and women have different purposes and i want my life to reflect that. god bless you all.

𝘉𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 → Proverbs 31

“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” 31:10-12

A Godly marriage and breastfeeding. It's what God made your breasts for.

First I want to clear up some misconceptions of what ANR is.

Adult nursing (ANR), Adult breastfeeding (ABR or ABF) are all umbrella terms. The simplest way to understand ANR is, any time the breasts are orally stimulated by another adult. The couple is engaged in some form of ANR. Whether or not she is lactating.

The number one reason most people are into ANR is for intimacy. They also find it as excellent way to reduce stress, anxiety and depression. Some women get into ANR as a way to reduce breast cancer risks. yes! There is research that proves this. You can find it by searching for "benefits of breastfeeding" and "benefits of stimulating the breasts".

Though in theory, a woman doesn't have to be lactating to have some of the advantage of this. But a lactating woman will have by far the greatest risk reduction and benefits.

Some get into ANR as a way to help reduce and manage weight. Most breastfeeding women do loose weight. The idea is that a lactation woman burns between 300 to 700 calories per day. Though I personally think it's more of the placebo and lifestyle change that helps them.

Some are into it as a sexual alternative like those with ED or other sexual issues. Even as a form of abstinence.

When a new mother is having trouble bringing in the milk. Some doctors and lactation consultants will suggest that the father finish orally draining the breasts after the baby is done. Same goes for relieving clogged ducts.

Those of us in ANR find that ANR also preps the breasts for a new baby. Making breastfeeding a lot easier. This is because the breasts are use to being orally stimulated. The milk comes in easier and is less painful. Though there is some caution on this as well. Because too much stimulation can cause premature labor.

There are a lot of emotional benefits as well. Such as, some use it as a way to cope with stress, depression and anxiety.

People get into ANR for a lot of other reasons and a lot of other benefits.

If you are in to the bible. ANR is even in the bible. Proverbs Songs of Solomon Isaiah

This shows ANR has been around for a vary long time and is normal.

There are those who get into ANR with some fetishes such as Lactophilia or infantilism. This is what media likes to make people think ANR is. To be clear. ANR in itself is not a fetish. It is two adults expressing affection and intimacy for each other in there own way. But people like to assume Lactophilia or infantilism is ANR. They are not! But some of those people use ANR as a part of there fetish.

You can learn more about ANR by searching: understanding adult breastfeeding relationships and for Christians Christian adult breastfeeding relationships

Hope this helps True.

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reasons why i think my husband should lead my family:

1. the bible says so (Ephesians 5:22-24, Colossians 3:19) and, the job of the husband is to do this out of love for his wife, and how Christ loves the Church

2. i want him too! its something that i completely consent and agree to.

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My dearest love. Time flies so fast but everything still feels like the same when we first met. My love for you has grown each day, regardless of time and distance. Today, I appreciate you so much for making time for our date. It’s still surreal that we are now passed 2 months of our marriage. Thank you for everything you do for us and thank you for always having faith in us and in our Lord Jesus Christ. May our Lord continue to bless this marriage as we move forward and may we continue to seek God and put him in the center of our lives and in our marriage. Thank you for making me feel a priority. Thank you for having me in your life. Thank you for the privilege you have given me as your wife. You may call me your half but I pray for you to be whole in Christ. I cannot be your half, I am whole in Christ. I’m not perfect but I am made perfect by my imperfections, I wouldn’t be the wife that I am today if it weren’t because of the imperfections. May we continue to be one in Christ as the days go. As promised in our vows, I will always choose to stay the same way God stayed in my life. I love you and I cannot wait to be in your arms again. I miss you so much.

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