Me: fandom is better when you find just 3 people who get you. people have bad taste and you don’t vibe with everyone and that’s fine and good, better to stay in your own corner and never branch out or people start to get offended when you inevitably talk about the things you dislike (which is what they love)
also me: ok but consider,,,, what if I ran discords and fandom events and actively sought out people to connect over Peter and MJ
Okay so say, I go to the account settings, I change my email to a secure account I have access to. Tumblr sends a verification email — that goes to the NEW email, right? Not the old one?
In theory I believe this should be the case but im scared to try
literally almost sent myself into a dangerous-to-self spiral thinking I had somehow lost reams of data when it was a case of “oh yeah I put them all into this nicely formatted folder”
I love when Im doing a task and if its not going 100% the way I expected it to, I start to derail from proper brain function til the panic takes over and I have 0 critical thinking skills left and on the verge of tears before asking anyone in my general vicinity for help and it turns out to be a simple fucking thing that I missed but was too panicked to focus in on myself