the leakers on twitter stated that the couch scene with mike and will is where will gets friendzoned. rip byler.
“vecna is the biggest threat hawkins has ever had… we are in serious danger. he is not going to stop. not until he’s taken everyone.”
“I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND WILL!!!”
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if you see a tumblr blog's ask button and see they have their anon feature turned on and your first thought is to send racist, homophobic, islamophobic, xenophobic, insults or some combination of the above things to them, i genuinely hope that you delete this app, find a hole in the ground, and kys 🫶
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some people on here really do not understand the concept of “conflicting access needs”. take tone indicators, for example. I am autistic. I cannot read tone. but tone indicators stress me out and confuse me and make the conversation harder to manage. I have had meltdowns over particular ways of using tone indicators. I prefer to ask people to clarify when needed. another person is not being ableist for needing tone indicators. I am not ableist for not being able to use them. we just have conflicting needs and probably shouldn’t spend a lot of time communicating with each other via text
sometimes one person’s needs have to be prioritised. someone who stims with flashing lights should not do that in the same room as someone with epilepsy. when it comes to internet usage, you can just block people who use language in a way that stresses you out. when it comes to other kinds of relationships, you have to have a conversation about it and figure out what needs to happen. it sucks but it’s not as big of a deal as people make it out to be, and someone is not inherently being ableist for being honest about their needs
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people who comment on posts (whether in a reblog, tags or reply) leading with things along the lines of "I hope this doesn't derail/I'll delete it if this is an unwanted addition/I'm really sorry if this isn't relevant/etc" I love you. you are so kind and compassionate. I love that you care and I usually love hearing your thoughts. thank you.
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im pretty sure i dont meet diagnostic criteria for autism or adhd, so i am still trying to figure out what it is then that made me increase my art output from ~1 doodle a month to ~2 drawings a week of exclusively tma, for a solid year, cause from my experience most typical brains don't do that
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Hey Kana! I've been a fan of your writings since the past year and I just wanted to say I love them and the way you reply to your asks ❤️ I just wanted to ask a question. How do you deal with the hate comments? Like doesn't it hurt when someone questions your writings? I'm kinda a baby when it comes to tumblr and I just received my first hate comment and it felt really bad. I'm really sorry if I'm bothering you. I just felt like you're someone I should consult about this.
Hello, darling! Thank you so much for sending me a message and you're not bothering me at all! I'm happy that you reached out to me! I don't think I'm the best person to seek advice from but I'll try my best to help! It gets a bit long under the cut, I'm sorry 😭
I have received a few hate comments in the past when I just started writing. Some of them were pretty traumatizing ngl and I had to take like a year break because of it 🥲 so I know how you feel and how upsetting it is. I'm so sorry that this happened to you, sweetheart 😭I'm sending you the biggest hug right now. Nobody in the world deserves a hate comment, especially when you're a writer/artist who creates stuff for free.
I just checked your blog to see the hate comment you were referring to (I hope you don't mind 😭) and I saw that some anon was mad because you wrote a smutty fic involving a character that's still a minor in canonverse.
Now, honey, I'm 10000000% on your side because a) it's your fic, your work, your blog, as long as you've put up some warnings, you can write whatever the hell you want. b) you've aged them up in your fics but even if you didn't age them up in your fics, that still doesn't make it okay for these people to be rude and attack you for it cause they're FICTIONAL. These characters are not real people with real life problems, they're literally just a bunch of drawings. That anon is spending their energy defending lines on paper and hurting a real person in the process.
Tbh I feel like this happens pretty often no matter what fandom you're in and I find it super weird that some people are actually upset about this. It's fiction! It's not real! And it's not like you support the stuff that's happening in the story! Like if you write about character A killing someone, it doesn't make you a murderer. It doesn't mean you support the act. If you write about incest, it doesn't mean you want to sleep with your dad or your brother. It's simply just for the plot, to make the story interesting. To share your ideas and be creative about it. And, the most important thing is, you're not forcing these people to read your fics, are you? They decided to read them on their own. And if you already wrote the warnings and they CHOSE to ignore them, that's their fault. It's like you see a bowl of hot peppers and you know they're spicy as hell but you choose to eat them anyway and when your tongue is on fire, you get angry "WHY IS THIS THING SO SPICY" like what????
A message for that anon: When you read stuff you don't like (stuff that someone wrote for FREE, stuff that someone spent hours or days creating it), the easiest thing you can do is just close the tab. Literally it takes zero energy to do it. Don't attack these writers with hate comments. Don't hurt their feelings. You don't know how hard they've worked on the story, their struggles in real life, or how insecure they are about their writing. One bad comment and they might stop writing forever, even when it's something that brought them comfort before. There are millions of other fics out there that you can read. Just scroll away and move on.
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