#Single Mum Home
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Realistic Home For a Single Mum
A cosy home for a single mum and her 3 children.
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3 bedrooms | 2 bathrooms
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30 x 20 lot (Evergreen Harbor)
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y'all it's my sweetheart's birthday today 🥹💗
#and she's currently sleeping next to me in my childhood bed in my childhood home in my country that i haven't been in three years#for... reasons#conveniently the same room i was in when we first texted each other a decade ago and#same room we slept in after she spent the money she earned working two jobs as a teenager and travelling for over 24h to come meet me#the same room i came out to my mum in#the same room we fell in love many lifetimes ago#the same room i studied in and cried in and fought with my mum in and hid from my parents in and now it's#sweet memories rewriting all the ugly#trying to make sense of my childhood again and fix the broken cracks and she's here for me though it all#and she's the best person in the whole world and it's a privilege for anyone to be her friend but to feel the depths of her love like i do?#it's like being under the warm sun every single day#except the sun is an insanely gorgeous hilarious selfless and intelligent woman#and she chose me 🥹#whinysteve the resilient woman you are. tumblr would not handle your life story#but they're extremely lucky to have you on here ❤️
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american colleges are so scary to me. you guys have to share rooms??? on campus??? absolutely not i would’ve started killing too
#i don’t think i’ve been to a single uni party and i’m on my like. 7th year here#and the whole parents getting emotional sending their kids off to college is so wild i lived at home the first couple of years#my mum drove me to uni twice a week while i was living at home (VERY SWEET OF HER it was like 45 min each way and my classes were like three#hours long but i didn’t drive and the public transport system here sucks unless you live fairly central)#and now i Do live somewhere i can easily bus to campus i barely go to class skdhsjd#but yeah all of those scenes of college kids hanging out on the quad and going to mixers or whatever are so foreign to me#do not get me started of fraternities and sororities. the closest we have is like. the law society#or like. college newspapers???#i AM jealous of college radio stations though i think i would be an iconic college radio host/dj
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Home…….. Such a beautiful morning here today. Probably the last of the warm weather. So I made the most of it. A 3km walk by the water, a swim and some laying in the sun. I love where I live.
Refresh and reboot. Sun, sand and salt water. Good for the soul.
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my sister is currently doing her nightly *douse myself in water for 5 mins despite it leaving PUDDLES EVERYWHERE BTW and then spend 20 mins applying imported skincare i spent all my money on* in SILENCE sans any form of music meanwhile she walked in on me having a party of one (1) at myself in the bathroom mirror to set it off of all things. it's a bit funny that we are related by blood
#she just looked at me with my hands still doing some dumb dance gesture and went 'what.... are you doing' SO UNIMPRESSED LIKE#mortifying but i had fun. was literally just jamming for a good 20 mins like acting out every song in the mirror#not even taking my make up off or anything like that no just pure vibing. and i think im in the right here#and then she spends a MINIMUM half hour EVERY NIGHT on skincare which is fine i WISH i had that dedication#but she does it IN SILENCE I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW WE'RE RELATED#my sister: even though im writing my thesis atm for my masters in chemistry im still excited for my dentistry degree i just got accepted on#me earlier today to my mum: LETS SEE IF I CAN FAIL MACROECONOMICS THREE YEARS RUNNING <3333#it's a bit funny it's a BIT funny#we are just such different people in EVERY facet of our lives even the tiny things idk IT'S A BIT FUNNY#can u see how i got the shit kicked out of me from watching fleabag. can you see it#we did however sit on the sofa together just now and i was lying on it first#but she wanted to show me a dress so she came over and i didnt want to get up so i lifted my legs as a joke#expecting her to be like 'sod off and make room' but she literally just scooted under and had my legs on her lap and her arms on my legs#and yes it's v casual v mundane but we've never really... had that? like we are NOT physically affectionate at all#we're not affectionate FULL STOP let alone physically#idk it was nice. i was hyperaware of literally every single part of me bc it's still so new but. it was nice#i used to get really hung up on our differences but now i do genuinely find it funny more often than not#('used to' i mean last year. literally a few months ago. we move)#hella goes home
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haha people who have normal relationships with their fathers where they didn’t grow up being constantly made to feel dumb/unimportant/annoying…. what’s that like babes hahaha
#autism doesn’t make you a bad parent. unmanaged/unaddressed autism combined with a general lack of consideration for everyone around you…#now THAT will fuck your kid up.#autistic people often struggle with eye contact. that’s cool no problem i can still engage in conversation like that.#buuut when you’re four and super exited to tell your dad what you did that day and he literally doesn’t acknowledge your presence??#and it’s that across your entire LIFETIME? your entire childhood and teen years and fuck it even your adult life????? THAT SHIT SUCKS#and THEN the only times you CAN get a conversation out of him it’s an argument where he WILL not stop talking over you#and scoffing at every single word you say#and raising his voice as he tells you how stupid you’re being#ummmmmmmmmm yeeaaahhhh okie dokie. a lifetime of that might ummm… lead to a few issues.#oh wait i forgot the third category of interaction: listening to him complain about something absolutely meaningless. for 20mins.#just killing the mood of any conversation.#you’re watching tv it’s fun everyone’s having fun!! yayyy yippee isn’t this nice#and then someone on tv will say ‘up and down the country’ (goofy but harmless phrase) and suddenly all you can hear is a rant#about the banality of overused idioms and phrases.#LIKE!! can you fucking lighten up for five fucking seconds. please.#idk man. my mum and i spent our whole morning travelling out to some random shop wayyyy out of our way. requires multiple buses to get there#JUST to get him a birthday present. because we thought it was fun and cute and because it’s very personal to him.#like we built our DAY around this. we spent £120 on this. FOR HIM!! because we thought he’d enjoy it!!!!#and we’re spending all day tomorrow wrapping his presents and hand making cards and planning the cake i will be baking for him#and he gets home from work and. IMMEDIATELY starts picking a fight.#like we had a lovely day. we had SUCH a good day. and a lot of it was about doing stuff FOR HIM for HIS BIRTHDAY!!!#which we were HAPPY AND EXITED TO DO!!!!!#and he fucking ruins the whole thing.#now my mum is sleeping on the sofa because she’s so angry at the way he was talking to me and i’m typing this bullshit.#and. he just. he doesn’t care. he doesn’t get it. he literally cannot comprehend why we’re upset at him.#he can’t see anything from anyone else’s perspective. he can’t comprehend the idea that maybe just maybe HE was the one being unkind.
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would love some more f/f age gap plots!
#or always more f/f in general (eyes)#indie lesbian rp#i don't know how to tag this?!#a single mother trying to get back into the work force after being a stay-at-home mum for /years/#and meets their restless young coworker#anything (!!)#indie rp
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#ok. so the guy from school i visited emailed me today like: good news! we unanimously voted to extend u an offer here#so expect the formal offer in the next week. and im like uuuugh i wanna say yes so bad#bc in the us i would have more flexibility in the program than i would in the uk#and my options in the us r either to b a big fish in a small pond at this schoolor a little fish in a big pond at the other#bc this school is underfunded and a bit isolated out in the mountains but the staff r pretty great and big egos dont seem like a big issue#but if i go to the other school its like a big well funded school. the application was like 75 dollars. fuck u and really annoying#and i mean id have to live in new jersey. so in the city with city driving and prob a more high pressure school environment#and more of a chance of dealing with big egos. but like career wise im sure it would b good. assuming i don't mentally collapse#but i mean that doesnt seem as fun as spending 5 years out in the rocky mountains#like thry have fucking moose and bears! there were deer and turkeys in town!#and my dad just sent me a video of all the spring peepers singing back home and im like 😭 bc froggies and he was like i bet u could find#frogs out in [redacted city] and im like 😭 ur right. it just seems like the better choice for my poor overtaxed brain and the project is#so cool too. i want to get the cyano species as my computer background asap. and the guy is nice and apparently super supportive#and i could probably walk to hiking trails. god. i mean i have to say yes to that. i wanna say yes so bad. send me the formal offer bro#ill fucking take it before i even hear back from the other schools lol. ugh. i hate making choices#oof i am so excited to kno where im going and plan my departure. its gonna b such a pain moving tho i pray that my mum or dad can drive#with me bc otherwise the 20hr drive by myself might kill me. thats almost as bad as my initial move out here lol. the us is so big#ugh. again choices. is this the right choice? probably one of the biggest decisions of my life. the project feels so right. cyanobacteria#my algal group of choice. and hot springs. how tf do u say to no to that? i mean. id b doing that in new jersey too but with red algae#ugh. put me out of this misery lol. also as an aside. shout out to my fucking disaster brain for not being able to focus on a single thing#my boss in a meeting: so glad to have students and staff so excited to b working on this project!! me: lady i hate that im on this project#bc im just sitting in until they can get an actual student. i just do what im told but appreciate the enthusiasm lol#ay. im so tired. i wanna see the snow and mountains. and fix my head. and get outta the desert. and listen to frogs 🐸 😌#unrelated
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The thing about crying into my falafel is that as soon as you phrase it as "crying into my falafel" it makes you laugh and therefore breaks the problem
#don't worry this is mostly hungry-feels with a dose of tired-feels#it's been an objectively lovely weekend! Easter! mum here! went camping with best friend and her fiance!#but there is the problem: went camping with friend and her fiance and they were talking about future plans - which involve moving away#and then i came back home to my empty flat#I'm excited for the wedding - i really am - it was really good to spend a bit more time getting to know him#since i think to date i had spent total 3h in his presence and i am going to be bridal party at the wedding and all#but. well. i am not very excited about being single rn#feel a bit like a bad person for being jealous. but also i am only human. and also hungry#forgot to eat lunch???? i have no idea how i usually am so hungry if it's even a bit late???#hence: the hungry sads#rowena adventures
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hrlfnsdfcndsbl I don't want to go to work today..... "enjoy your quiet week" they said on christmas eve, sike, it's been really fucking busy ever since and the store's a complete mess and we're out of everything and there's no time to restock or do dishes or even have a fucking drink of water............. I stayed back half an hour on boxing day because we were getting overrun during shift handover, came in an hour early on tuesday to cover a sick teammate, lost my fucking day off and had to work the evening shift last night because of another sick teammate (in the 3 customer-facing hours I had I think I got a combined total of <5 minutes to do anything except serve a literally endless stream of people), back in again tonight with a worse team on and then again tomorrow morning, meanwhile the rest of out staff have all gotten to have at least one day off in all of this and I'm the only dumbass stuck working it all... and then I have one day of rest on sunday and then back in again new years' day and the next...
#i'm so tired#I woke up at 7am yesterday to get to the shops for some flowers for mum and then got home at 11pm after work#have barely gotten to eat anything in all of this#I'm about to go apeshit if any customer starts acting up again today I swear... some real fuckos this past week and I'm done with it#we're not allowed to stop drinks early but we had no packup done and had to stop taking orders 20mins before close last night#and of course we had like five people getting really angry that they can't have their fucking late-night lrg mocha almond 90 degrees or w/e#we ran out of chocolate twice with tons of drinks and no time to make more so we had to stop service midway twice anyway#I coulnd't even wash a single milkshake jug without being accosted by another customer as soon as I turned to the sink#I quite literally got nothing done except serve people endlessly for 3 hours straight without a break... I won't be surprised if I lose my-#-voice after having to shout over the sound of blenders and machinery and a packed store for five days in a row#fuck this honestly#I said I wouldn't do it again this year and once again I find myself stuck doing it anyway... nobody gives a damn if they're not the ones-#-suffering to work it#rant#kate being trash
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i've just been down a spiral, but i am so afraid of love.
i can not imagine giving my all to someone and being so vulnerable with them, just for them to leave me high and dry, acting like we never meant so much to each other at one point. it's just far too scary, like i'm literally going through a miniature crisis because this girl who i told EVERYTHING to may or may not be drifting apart from me.
i was born in the wrong decade, not really because the internet is amazing, and i'm queer so... but when it comes to love, i totally was.
i'm not one for this whole hookup culture. i'm just too insecure.
#this spiral was brought to you by alex and cody#i'm so happy that they're happy and continuing on with their lives#but it has crushed me#and it's not just them okay.#please don't come at me.#it's also mostly because my mum is dating a man who thinks because it's summer he can go out for the entire day just to come home drunk#:)#life is so sucky.#but at least i get to see my cousin's (plural) and my cousin's (single) boyfriend in july#so that's fun#ig.#rant#did i memtion that he has kids.. no?#well he does.#2 OF THEM!!
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Having a complicated relationship with your mum is so confusing. It's the knowledge that she taught me the best way to make gravy, how tie my shoes and how to make my bed. But she's also the one that made disparaging comments about my body growing up and is part of the reason I don't want to be a parent myself and why I moved across the country for uni. But she's still my mum and I still find myself wishing I could seek comfort from her when things get a little too hard but the mum I'm longing for doesn't really exist. And I see her in the colour of my eyes and in the way I grit my teeth when I'm angry. She taught me how to do my hair and how to cover up bruises. She's a part of me in all the good and the bad. And there's no way to say you hate someone that doesn't also acknowledge all the good because nothings as ever as black and white as that
#personal#+Extra#i dont know i was making gravy for dinner the way my mum taught me and it got me thinking about how i havent spoken to her in over a week#since she told me that my dad is threatening to kick me out again and i started thinking about the fact im currently at empty student#accommodation for the summer instead of back home like most people anf how part of me feels guilty for that and the other knows im doing#whats best for me and theres a reason i left people keep asking why im so far up north for uni if im from down south and i dont know how to#explain it they look at you a certain way when you say you dont get along with your parents like your an entitled brat that cant see that#theyre just doing whats best for you and theres no way to explain two decades of trauma to someone in a single conversation theres no way#to get them to understand that despite what my parents do and the fact i went as far as i could for uni theyre still my parents and i love#them even when i hate them for everything and although ill being carrying the scars of childhood trauma with me long after ive left them i#cant entirely blame even when i want to they made terrible choice that have shaped me for ever but theyre still people and ill always#resent them for the people they are and the fact they could do better but didnt for us and the fact they fall back into those people like#a bad habit when i spend to long at home in a way that makes feel like theres something wrong with me specifically will always sit with me#but for now im stood in my kitchen making sheppards pie thinking of the way my mum used to make it and the tension that used to hang over#the dining table while we ate and how now my parents dont even eat in the same room and im grateful my little siblings will never know#that side of our parents but it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt every time i see a reflection of my parents in myself and wish i could cut it out
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It’s the small things in life you guys…. My mum visited me earlier today for a few hours and it was so nice to just sit next to her and write on my exam and eat lunch together, but I had to leave the house long before her. And when I got back she had left me a tiny gift she had gotten in the city during the day, with a sweet note next to it <3 and I just love her so much
And as if that was not endearing enough, she left me an apple, an orange and a banana, clearly placed in the shape of a smiley. And I cannot imagine her doing that on accident <3
#I love my mum#I love the way she shows love in the tiniest of things#she’s halfway across the country again now and I just want to give her a hug#also the gift was a tiny little frying pan. perfect for banana pancakes or one single circular fried egg#she has it at home as well and I’ve many times told her how amazing it is. also for roasting nuts etc#it’s just…… mum <3 she’s the best really#own post#ALSO because as if she wasn’t amazing enough for all of that#she also messaged me after dinner that she had now left and put the key back in the mailbox and also had left some ice cream in the freezer#that she bought with her boyfriend today. but they didn’t eat all of it obviously. so now I have a few tiny ice creams in my freezer <3#I love this city and I love the people here and I don’t regret moving here most of the time#but I’m always a bit heartbroken that I now life halfway across the country from my parents and sibling#oh what wouldn’t I do to be able to visit my parents for dinner#to see them spontaneously on a Saturday afternoon just because I wanted to#<3
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it's my first day in my new apartment and here is a list of things i'm unreasonably excited about having:
a kitchen!! i can cook with an oven! i can have multiple things cooking on the stove at the same time! i can wash the dishes standing up at a sink instead of kneeling on the floor! (i used to cook my food with a single hot plate (is that the word?? anyway) and wash dishes in two big plastic tubs on the bathroom floor)
a tiny little balcony!! (a french balcony in finnish, one that's basically just a door you can open and railing right outside to keep you from falling down) i don't even have any special reason for why this one is good, it's just somehow really nice! but i can open the door and get some of the wonderful spring air in! and the glass door lets in so much light!!
a second floor apartment!! people can't see in! i can people-watch without it being super obvious! no one can let their dog piss right outside my window! it'll be warmer in winter because there's some insulation between me and the earth!
#the floor is currently filled with stuff so there isn't space yet#but it feels so spacious!#and it feels like a full home because it has a kitchen and like. a cupboard in the bathroom#this feels like a place where i could invite someone over#partially because when coming to help me move my dad also brought me the following items:#two chairs from my parents' house#my parents' newish vacuum cleaner (mum prefers the older one)#a mattress (and a new pillow and duvet from ikea)#so if i invite someone over the place will be actually clean#and they will have a place to sit that isn't my bed or the single chair i used to own#and i can have a friend crash on my floor if needed
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So today we went to the museum that used to be the migrant/refugee camp my mothers family stayed in when they arrived in Aus. And like the sheer breadth of human emotion carried in this place was shocking. Australian govt pledges to accept 20 million people (lol) but being british at heart, and knowing "australians are unaccostomed to people who live differently to them" the immigration minister says we will take able bodied light skinned people. Especially single men.
These people, latvian engineers, yugoslavian doctors, ukrainian shop keepers, italian accountants, have lost their homes, and want to be any place that is away from the war, arrive in rural Australia. Where they are kept in uninsulated tin sheds on army barracks, with armed soldiers. Where orders are given in German!! Because that is what they were 'used to' :) where families are seperated and where they have no money and they are promised jobs but that engineer is now a sugar cane farmer, or a sheep sheerer, or a railway worker, and only if she can learn to speak english well.
The camp we went to today saw about 65000 refugees pass through, but right near the end there were more british settlers, who paid 10 pounds for the privilege to sail across to aus and have not a tin shed with 10 to a room, but insulated single family cabins, with flooring and curtains, where they would stay for 1 month tops.
Anway its most infamous for its food
Stefano, so true bestie!
#mum organised her family's name plaque to be added to the memorial wall and my great uncle george took us around#he was 7 when he arrived and contracted polio#i wondered if it was difficult for him to be there#the overwhelming Grief and trauma and fear of the unknown would have been a lot to bear#and i was so ANGRY#at the fact that we were good enough for british scraps#that others werent good enough for even that!#and that people still think of these as holiday camps when people hang themselves and riot and yes eat awful food#also there was a short little film that gave context and aside from everything that was very frustrating and terrible#to see so many faces like ours#was....nice?#the cheekbones the noses the eyes#there was a dance hall and dad played one bar of a russian folk song on the piano in there and i cried a little in the next room#i wonder if we are so audacious and loud because so many of us were reduced to a single set of clothes and half a family (if youre lucky)#trasported to a new place and while building a new life said 'you will pry what is left of my home from my cold dead hands'
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DAMN IT BECAUSE OF ALL THOSE FREAKING HOME AND AWAY ADS ON 7 PLUS I HAVE THE HOME AND AWAY THEME STUCK IN MY HEAD
GO AWAY
#my hatred of home and away is probably irrational im aware#but#*points to my mum who watched it every. single. bloody. day. for years of my life*#and we only had the one tv most of the time so. no games or anything. no noise in the lounge room from when neighbours started til home and#away ended!!!
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